Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[barretm82]

Never fall in love with a thera. Be cautious sa mga ganyang situation.

 

First, alam mo kung anong ginagawa niya for a living - most of them are just being nice to you kasi client ka nila. Trabaho nila maging mabait sayo.

Second, pagisipan mong mabuti kung ano ba talaga ang nararamdaman mo - love ba talaga or just infatuation lang?

Third, if hindi talaga maiiwasan, make sure na hindi ka seloso - remember, alam mo ang nature ng trabaho nila, and your mind will play tricks on you kapag alam mong nasa trabaho sila that time. Alam mo ang ginagawa nila kasi ginawa din nila sayo yun when you first hired them as your thera.

 

In short, as much as possible, wag maiinlove sa thera.

this for me are good guidelines whenever one will decide to pursue a thera. you have to think reeeaaallllyyy hard and wag papadaig sa nararamdaman mo. be objective and weigh the consequences.

[Jackson45]

Falling inlove for a therapist is good only if it is true and the feeling is mutual. No judgement. Both moving on from the past. Closing the old chapter of your lives for good and turning new pages together for a bright future. It is not easy but nothing is impossible. Someone may disagree on this and it is okay because that is what others believe. Surely I also believe others may agree on this because they have faith and know the real meaning of "Love"..

Edited September 18, 2019 by Jackson45

[will robie]

I usually decline such invitations but if I do get invited it's usually just dinner, coffee or just chit chat but I make sure to cover her travel expenses and such. Safer this way.

I decline spa calls let alone coffee calls. However, I invited two regular therapists to dinner but to a place nearby the spa after the session.

 

The gullibility of a spa customer is proportional to his dick's necessity for the therapist. I am saying this with all due respect to the decent therapists. Decent meaning they are not hustlers or are out to pull a fast one on you.

Edited September 18, 2019 by will robie

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

When you meet a thera for the first time and she keeps yapping about her burdens in life, it's a danger sign. If she hints to you about meeting you outside of work then common sense will dictate you need to be extra cynical of her motives.

 

Red Flag na sa akin yan. So far, less than 5 Theras yung nameet ko na ganyan.

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

I usually decline such invitations but if I do get invited it's usually just dinner, coffee or just chit chat but I make sure to cover her travel expenses and such. Safer this way.

 

Buti nga sayo may invites. Hehehe. Never reached that far. Panay sa Loob lang kami ng Spa palagi. Hehe.

[King Inaño]

Yup because the only winners in this game are the boy-toys or true loves. Because they get sex for free and receive an allowance for their Thera GF

I agree with you bro. I've seen it with my own very eyes. They will make all the effort to keep their trulababels to stay.

[pearsonspectrelitt]

I actually never really thought of it this way but this really made sense. It holds true with the opposite sex. Minsan may mga babae dn na sex lng ang tingin nila and thats the only way they can express their love. Kaya may mga angelu de leon, kris aquinos, dn dyn. We cant say na malandi sila its just that sex is their only way to express their love.

Tama ka jan brada, kaya enjoy lang pag nagkaroon ng thera loves, wag masyado magiinvest at puro libog lang ang iinvest kc madali rin naman maubos yun lalo na kung ilang putok sa isang araw gagawin nyo

 

Pag inaaya ako ng thera lumabas, game lang, kantot kung sa kantot, pero pag nanghihingi na ng pera, nagbibigay din naman ako pero maliit lang, yung tipong pangfacial or pangrelax ng hair, mga ganun lang, more than that iniiwan ko na, so in a sense parang binayaran ko lang din yung mga libreng sex na nakuha ko, but of course medyo unlimited sex nakukuha ko sa ganito

 

pero pag di ko type ang thera at sa tingin ko di rin naman ako malilibugan ng todo, i simply decline, sayang lang oras namin

 

sayang lang talaga yung 2 spa chains na sabay naraid, dun ako maraming nakukuhang theras na madaling ma”fall” ang libog ko

[plug]

How would you know ba if a thera likes a gm?

Most likely si thera ang dumidiskarte or she tries to prepare and convince you to like her. Isine-set up ka may be the term.

Subukan mong huwag magbigay ng tip pero magpaalam ka ng maayos. She might even offer her number or magtanong kung kailan mo siya babalikan. Once you have her number wala ng tigil ang text messages sa iyo. It will be used to remind you to get her always and to make you feel guilty pag nakaligtaan mo siya. Matatali ka na sa kanya.

Then sa next meeting magdala ka naman ng food or beverages para naman may pakunsuelo. What will happen next is all up to you kung saan pupunta. Bahala ka na sa sarili mo kung bakit naman kasi pinasok mo ang spakol.

I used to bring at least something pag naisipan kong bumisita kay thera though hindi ko siya regular and I don't maintain one. Nangamusta sa text so sabi pasyal ako at ano gusto niyang dalhin ko para sa kanya. Ang sagot "ikaw lang sapat na". Interpret this as she just need a customer dahil NG (no guests) for a few days.

When a thera suggested agad na mag-do kayo without the usual question "ano ES mo?" then gusto lang niyang magparaos at hindi ibig sabihin gusto ka niya. May pahabol pang "huwag mo akong ibitin ha".

Minsan naman thera mag suggest to do it pero nagdahilan ka say wala ka sa kundisyon pero sasabihin niya "ako bahala" and she will start her moves na di ka naman makatanggi. Pakitaan ka pa ng evidence " o ayan ang tigas na sabi sa iyo e". Interpret this as she needed money badly.

Yung live action or more may role din si thera kasi pag naroroon na sa akto ang sasabihin lang ni thera "basta huwag mo lang ipuputok sa loob" instead na pigilan or sabihin magsoot ng CD.

Yung willing to please, GFE, PSE pati na yung pag uto sa customer are all part of the strategy ni thera to get the best from a tander or not. Yung thera na hustler or mapaglaro sa customer di magtatagal mawawalan na ng kumukuha unlike the normal or disciplined one tuloy pa rin na may guest. Yung mapaglaro na thera are there para masunod ang bisyo o luho compared those who wants to improve their life or to support their family yung nga lang thru spakol. Mismong co-thera can telll kung sino ang madaling makasundo o respected pa nila compared doon sa pasaway including kung sino may mabahong hininga.

Naguusap sila kaya alam nila ang customer na desirable at ang hindi pati na rin ang madaling utuin. May spakol nga na "pinapagpag" ni thera ang tip na kanyang natanggap lalo na kung may kalakihan. Kaya lakihan ninyo ang tip para makilala. Minsan yung number one sa Top of the Week nagtataka kung bakit yung isang thera nakatanggap ng highest single tip. Hindi naman kasi being on the top she is supposed to get the highest tip kundi siya lang ang may pinakamaraming guests.

Just recently I tried a newbie then nakilala ko siya sa another spakol who diaappeared because she got a married sponsor. Bagito yung guy so nahuli sila ng wife kaya balik uli sa spakol work. Kaya tama better be with her boy toy if she has one kaysa pumatol pa sa iba.

But come to think of these tanders and a poster admitted being one pero baka mahirap maging karibal ang tulad niya inside and outside of spakol. Critical to tanders marahil karibal nga.

Sa pag FALL siguradong di ka mawawalan ng karibal.

Edited September 19, 2019 by plug

[Duel of Fate]

I do not know that all therapists don't do French-kissing. If you are her type even if it's only the first time you get her, she will kiss you torridly. Of this, I am absolutely certain.

ayoko isipin to. id like to think na pera and onting sextrip lang habol sakin ng theras, even those who, kahit sa first time nyong magmeet, kiss before, during and after our sessions. esp ung may mga pahabol na goodbye kiss. mahirap isipin ba "above" ka sa mga gms nya, might force u to be a certain type of man she hopes you would be for her (bfe, sponsor, fubu, whatever. pag di ka na "gm lang", yari ka".)

[H1Tman]

Kapag walang bayad, siguro naman type ka. But don't fall kasi complicated.

[will robie]

ayoko isipin to. id like to think na pera and onting sextrip lang habol sakin ng theras, even those who, kahit sa first time nyong magmeet, kiss before, during and after our sessions. esp ung may mga pahabol na goodbye kiss. mahirap isipin ba "above" ka sa mga gms nya, might force u to be a certain type of man she hopes you would be for her (bfe, sponsor, fubu, whatever. pag di ka na "gm lang", yari ka".)

I didn't say anything regarding a customer being above all other customers just because a therapist kissed them even if it's only the first time the guest had her. The crux of what I am saying is you are the therapist's type if she kisses the first time you had her. If she kissed you does not mean that she wants you to be her bf.

 

There is a difference between being someone's type and wanting to be her bf. That is why there is such a thing called "fling" or what millennials term as "fubu".

Edited September 20, 2019 by will robie

[royflirty]

friends/ business/ pleasure nalang talaga dapat. got burned already

[royflirty]

friends/ business/ pleasure nalang talaga dapat. got burned already

[pearsonspectrelitt]

I didn't say anything regarding a customer being above all other customers just because a therapist kissed them even if it's only the first time the guest had her. The crux of what I am saying is you are the therapist's type if she kisses the first time you had her. If she kissed you does not mean that she wants you to be her bf.

 

There is a difference between being someone's type to being her bf. That is why there is such a thing called "fling" or what millennials term as "fubu".

nasa 50/50 yung chance ko na may french kissing during my first meeting (halos lahat ng visits ko first meeting, rarely do i get a thera twice), pakiramdaman kung anong klaseng girl si thera, kahit pa sabihin natin na they are there for the money, may libido pa rin mga yan, yung iba gusto bola-bolahin muna sila, yung iba, gusto ng intellectual conversations, yung iba talagang malibog lang, kung makuha mo kung anong klaseng girl si thera, makakatikim ka talaga ng matinding GFE

 

yung iba gusto umulit, kukunin number ko, or magpapaantay tapos ng shift, etc, syempre game lang basta type ko, ang importante lang talaga try tayo ng maraming ibat-ibang theras, para libog lang ang ma”fall” sa atin, yung karamihan kc focus talaga sa isang thera basta makaranas ng GFE, she’s the one na kagad

 

kung talagang titiyagain nating mga brada gms, madali lang makuha yung GFE nila, at malalaman natin, na isa lang naman pala tong laro at wag ibibigay ang buong puso at bank accout

[barretm82]

friends/ business/ pleasure nalang talaga dapat. got burned already

100% agree. highly recommended. no emotions and no attachments.

 

enter at your own risk if gusto makipag relasyon sa kanila

[Duel of Fate]

I didn't say anything regarding a customer being above all other customers just because a therapist kissed them even if it's only the first time the guest had her. The crux of what I am saying is you are the therapist's type if she kisses the first time you had her. If she kissed you does not mean that she wants you to be her bf.

 

There is a difference between being someone's type and wanting to be her bf. That is why there is such a thing called "fling" or what millennials term as "fubu".

I know. what I meant was even that thought na type ka or kinilig si thera sayo on the onset, I k*ll that thought immediately.

 

if a thera kisses me immediately, my first notion is she really gives that as part of her service.

 

the moment na you allow yourself to entertain the thought na type ka nya, that's one foot forward vs the other gms.

[King Inaño]

friends/ business/ pleasure nalang talaga dapat. got burned already

Yup! I agree with you bro. You will really get burned once you entered their mind boggling world. Glad I'm out.

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

if a thera kisses me immediately, my first notion is she really gives that as part of her service.

 

the moment na you allow yourself to entertain the thought na type ka nya, that's one foot forward vs the other gms.

 

Met a few of them already. Best to be cautious all the time especially sa mga Super GFE/PSE Theras.

[will robie]

I know. what I meant was even that thought na type ka or kinilig si thera sayo on the onset, I k*ll that thought immediately.

 

if a thera kisses me immediately, my first notion is she really gives that as part of her service.

 

the moment na you allow yourself to entertain the thought na type ka nya, that's one foot forward vs the other gms.

Your cynical opinion is duly noted. However, I have my own opinion. Thinking that a customer thinks that he is above the other customers just because the therapist kissed him is your opinion. My opinion is that you are the type of the therapist that is why she kissed you. I never said nor implied that you are above other customers just because she kissed you.

Edited September 20, 2019 by will robie

[will robie]

kung talagang titiyagain nating mga brada gms, madali lang makuha yung GFE nila, at malalaman natin, na isa lang naman pala tong laro at wag ibibigay ang buong puso at bank accout

Like I said before, there are therapists who really have GFE as part of their arsenal. I prefer these therapists but only because I want a pleasant session. For me, it's just a one-hour fantasy, nothing more.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

 

Met a few of them already. Best to be cautious all the time especially sa mga Super GFE/PSE Theras.

Yeah, super PSE in particular is a red flag. if on your first go, you get the whole shebang, she probably bangs everyone that way. We all know that the Theras that are constantly being looked for in the threads are often lively.

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

Yeah, super PSE in particular is a red flag. if on your first go, you get the whole shebang, she probably bangs everyone that way. We all know that the Theras that are constantly being looked for in the threads are often lively.

 

As long as you're protected all the time, that should be fine.

[Kingkongphils]

But come to think of these tanders and a poster admitted being one pero baka mahirap maging karibal ang tulad niya inside and outside of spakol. Critical to tanders marahil karibal nga.

Sa pag FALL siguradong di ka mawawalan ng karibal.

Actually the worst karibal is ung mga tanders. Sa amin kasi walang talo. We go in at kung mag alaga kami its not about anyhthing but the sex. Like for me for instance. I have all that I need with my girl. Ung time lang talaga kasi she has got so many things going on. Kaya ako pag nangati e cyempre ung thera ang tatwagan ko. Although I go out with them, its not really about the companionship, its about whats going to happen after the dinner or the two bottles. My friend who is my age ganun dn. Sex lang din.

 

Sabi nga nung isa dito player plng c thera coach na cya. E imagine a tanders who has all the money at his disposal and who is always horny AF and who doesnt really care what others think.... Guess where he is going to put it. Hindi sa kwentuhan yun I assure you...

 

Ang style namin dyn we give them a taste of whats life to roll with us, whats life to live in a nice place, everybody they see treats them with respect, pnta sa mall and kahit ano ituro ibibigay at ung sales lady e kitang kita nya anf wow dahil maganda may isa nanamang pinay ma umahon sa hirap na arrive ni thera... and then tska kami kakabig. 80% of the time if they like what they experienced pag threaten namin iiwan sila, sila pa mag hahabol..... And you guessed it boys, 80% papayag na yan on what we want.

 

Pag nag "alaga" kami its really about the sex. Kaya pag ma in love ka sa thera loves mo at pag ang karibal mo e tanders.. I assure you mas madaming aksyon ang nakukuha ng tanders kesa syo. Kaya I suggest e wag masyado ma hurt kung may karibal na tanders. Boys will always be boys kahit anong edad na nya. Anyway kung si thera e payag sumama kay tanders and she says wala naman nangyayari na between her and the tanders she isnt worthy of your love kasi sure na na nagsisinungaling yan. Kapag ginarahe na ni tanders, yan malamang sa alamang e viagra nlng nagpapatayo dyn. Pero pag pumipiait piait lng yan e maaksyon ang tanders mo.

Edited September 20, 2019 by Kingkongphils

[Kingkongphils]

My above post its not meant for me to be an assh*le. Its just the truth. Alam dn ng mga thera yan. When I roll with a thera I give her what she wants, what she needs and in return all I ask is what I want amd what I need. Kung hindi kami magkatalo, ung binigay ko, tapon na yun no hard feelings on to the next nlng ako.

 

May ibang thera na ma prinsipyo, but usually sa mga yun mahirap ang YMMV nila. Kaya nga in my experience wala dapat hard feelings at pag umibig ka sa thera you should accept ung kakayanan mo at ung kakayanan ni thera.

 

As far as knowing kung trip ka ni thera. I dont really care kung trip ako ni thera bsta trip ko sya at nakuha ko ung gusto ko wala na tyong pag uusapan dyn although maraming thera ako na gustong gusto nila akong inaamoy. Ung pag humalik sa pisngi ko e may kasamang singhot. Pag yumakap e imbes na iiwas e ishoot sa dib dib ko ung mukha tapos singhot... Well sa experience ko ung mga thera na ginaganun ako usually maganda ang chemistry namin.

Edited September 20, 2019 by Kingkongphils

[plug]

Actually the worst karibal is ung mga tanders. Sa amin kasi walang talo. We go in at kung mag alaga kami its not about anyhthing but the sex. Like for me for instance. I have all that I need with my girl. Ung time lang talaga kasi she has got so many things going on. Kaya ako pag nangati e cyempre ung thera ang tatwagan ko. Although I go out with them, its not really about the companionship, its about whats going to happen after the dinner or the two bottles. My friend who is my age ganun dn. Sex lang din.

 

Sabi nga nung isa dito player plng c thera coach na cya. E imagine a tanders who has all the money at his disposal and who is always horny AF and who doesnt really care what others think.... Guess where he is going to put it. Hindi sa kwentuhan yun I assure you...

 

Ang style namin dyn we give them a taste of whats life to roll with us, whats life to live in a nice place, everybody they see treats them with respect, pnta sa mall and kahit ano ituro ibibigay at ung sales lady e kitang kita nya anf wow dahil maganda may isa nanamang pinay ma umahon sa hirap na arrive ni thera... and then tska kami kakabig. 80% of the time if they like what they experienced pag threaten namin iiwan sila, sila pa mag hahabol..... And you guessed it boys, 80% papayag na yan on what we want.

 

Pag nag "alaga" kami its really about the sex. Kaya pag ma in love ka sa thera loves mo at pag ang karibal mo e tanders.. I assure you mas madaming aksyon ang nakukuha ng tanders kesa syo. Kaya I suggest e wag masyado ma hurt kung may karibal na tanders. Boys will always be boys kahit anong edad na nya. Anyway kung si thera e payag sumama kay tanders and she says wala naman nangyayari na between her and the tanders she isnt worthy of your love kasi sure na na nagsisinungaling yan. Kapag ginarahe na ni tanders, yan malamang sa alamang e viagra nlng nagpapatayo dyn. Pero pag pumipiait piait lng yan e maaksyon ang tanders mo.

Parang na identify mo agad kung sino tinutukoy ko na nag admit to be a tander.

 

May nagsasabi nga tignan mo yang mga matatanda o mga may edad na yan ang dala-dalang babae ang babata, ang gaganda, ayos tumayo at mga edukada pa. Bakit nga ba?

Isang katangian ng mga ganitong tao in my opinion ay marunong kasi silang magdala o magalaga.

So spakol is just only one place you would see them pero nagkalat ang mga iyan where there is "flesh". While the young ones are creeping behind dahil kailangan tumanda muna to be like them.

It may be said in spakol the FALL to a thera maybe more applicable to the young ones while the FALL to a client is much more applicable to tanders.