Okay, so it begins with all the great and good feelings you get from really great sex, because men are really pretty simple. Once you get enough good sex you think, wow she is special, and you might have an emotional reaction because you are training yourself that being with her feels good. So then things develop, and you decide to be a white knight and solve her problems, align your interests with her.
A lot of the time, if you have money, this seems simple enough because what are these expenses, and some of them are mindful of expenses, so they don't overstep too much. But then you try to get serious, and the question is is she someone who can be serious? Does she have life skills or will you be the sole provider of everything- because that can be a big ask. BUT then again even legit women are like that- they expect you to provide everything- financially, emotionally, intellectually, etc., but more so with the theras because on some level- they gave up trying to be "legit" whatever that means- but there you are trying to make something from their "mortal clay"
Well, there's a lot more to it than that. But any endeavor requiring great change and a new way of doing things is prone to 100 failures and 1 success.
Okay, so it begins with all the great and good feelings you get from really great sex, because men are really pretty simple. Once you get enough good sex you think, wow she is special, and you might have an emotional reaction because you are training yourself that being with her feels good. So then things develop, and you decide to be a white knight and solve her problems, align your interests with her. A lot of the time, if you have money, this seems simple enough because what are these expenses, and some of them are mindful of expenses, so they don't overstep too much. But then you try to get serious, and the question is is she someone who can be serious? Does she have life skills or will you be the sole provider of everything- because that can be a big ask. BUT then again even legit women are like that- they expect you to provide everything- financially, emotionally, intellectually, etc., but more so with the theras because on some level- they gave up trying to be "legit" whatever that means- but there you are trying to make something from their "mortal clay" Well, there's a lot more to it than that. But any endeavor requiring great change and a new way of doing things is prone to 100 failures and 1 success.