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  1. Anong masasabi mo na kamakailan lang ay ideneklara ni DU30 na ilegal ang LOTERYA at iba pang PCSO games?
  2. Almost the same guidelines apply. 1. Stay on TOPIC.2. Respect each other's opinions.3. Only Therapist's perspective matters.4. And / or Usage Policies & Forum Guidelines still apply.
  3. #HappyHalloween Please do share your experiences or any thoughts on the subject. Thank you. Related links: Do you believe in ghosts? Why do people believe in ghosts?
  4. What's your take especially on the hullabaloo he's currently involving with? Related links: Antonio Trillanes Revocation of amnesty by President Duterte
  5. The previous thread had been deleted for some reason. So this replaces it. Website: https://www.cityofdreamsmanila.com
  6. After the disappearance of her scientist father, three peculiar beings send Meg, her brother, and her friend to space in order to find him. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFAJjnJlczs Thank you in advance for your insights and relevant reviews.
  7. Let’s get back to basic, guys. Supposing you're not aware of any overture in the list yet. Or maybe if you're lucky enough, you did experience and surpassed any awkwardness, which might have resulted to undesirable savoir-faire, while you were still in the early stage of "getting-to- know" her / him. Having said that, I want you to share your experience in this thread (if there's any, that is). Thank you and have fun. It isn’t your imagination. We women don’t always tell you exactly what we want. Even though we won’t always spell out exactly what we want from you, as sometimes we don’t even realize what we want at first, that doesn’t mean you have to stay in the dark. There’s a linear, logical way to shed light on what women want when it comes to approaching, flirting, and getting a woman’s number. Today, I’m going to share with you how to essentially read a woman’s mind in these crucial areas so you can know what she wants, without her actually saying it to you. There are four things you should never expect a woman to tell you. Might she tell you? Sure, but if you expect it, you’re shorting her and yourself a potentially great connection. Don’t expect a woman to say, “Approach me now.”Even if she wants it, she’s not likely to go over and tell you. Does she want to be approached by everyone? No, only by men she feels at least comfortable around, if not attracted to. As long as you’re chill, that’s you! Even if she’s not attracted to you, and even if she has a boyfriend, she’ll still be flattered. Here’s how to approach her and make sure it lands the right way. Go with an attitude of, “I’m just going to say ‘hi.’ Whatever happens is great. If she responds negatively, then either (A) she’s not as nice as she looks, ( she’s having a bad night, or © I came off wrong because I’m still learning how to approach well.” That’s all. Those are the three options. Notice that not one of those is, “Oh, I guess I’m inherently unattractive!” None of those three options is deeply personal. The first is about her, the second is situational, and the third is about skill-level, which is always improvable. A great example of this kind of approach is when one client of mine was out with friends at a club recently and saw a group of girls dancing. He noticed one he felt especially attracted to and said to his friend, “I’m going to go talk to her.” His friend said, “Girls in groups don’t like that. You’ll be bothering her.” What? No. Not a helpful modus operandi. Happily, my client wasn’t fazed. He remembered what we worked on, and he said to his friend, “Well, I’ll go over there and find out!” Total badass. He approached her, and she was into him. She broke away from her friend group, and they had an amazing night together. She was even in town for a little while, and they ended up seeing each other several times! Don’t expect a woman to tell you HOW to approach.Instead, you can do what my awesome client did: Before you walk out of the house, remember why you’re attractive. Feel good about yourself by reflecting on times women were warm and responsive to you. Remember why women are attracted to you, the compliments they’ve given you. Dress well, and look good. The better you can look before you walk out the door, the more attractive you look and feel. Wear a crisp collared shirt that fits you well. Be clean, well-groomed, and smell good. These are very basic things that women notice a LOT, so pay close attention there. Warm up. Be generally social before talking to a woman you’re attracted to. Talk to other people like your friends, the bartender, and maybe a dude at the bar. This way, when you do approach, you’re warmed up already. See who you naturally feel drawn to. When you get to your venue, notice who you feel attracted to. Notice that your attraction is not just sexual towards physical looks alone. Your attraction to her is also to her vibe, as her personality naturally shows through her appearance in what she’s wearing and her facial expression. Be present to that. This helps you know that you are not being creepy. Position yourself closer to her in the room. By positioning yourself closer to her before approaching, you’re not making a direct beeline. Because you’re already nearby and you’ve been talking with other folks, it looks and feels more natural for both of you. As you approach, be open. Be open and curious to see how things unfold. This is a consistent point my most successful clients follow. Don’t expect anything; just be open to whatever you find as the dynamic begins. You are there to see what happens. You can think of yourself as a detective who’s gathering clues about her and how she feels. Say something relevant. If it’s a dancing venue, you could ask her to dance. If not, you could say something about the environment, asking her how she knows the host, mentioning something about what she’s drinking. Start talking like you know her, something short and laid back. If you want to be more intense, you can compliment her. As long as you steer clear of complimenting her boobs or ass directly, it will come across well. Don’t expect a woman to tell you, “I like you being here,” or, “I want you to leave.”To know this, you must read her well. Ask yourself based on her body language, “Does she want me to stay or go? For that matter, do I like her? Do I want to stay or go?” Watch her body language. Read her body language during her conversation. Her body will tell you whether she is open to you or not. Is her torso opening towards you or closed off from you? Is she relaxed or tense? Is she breathing deeply or holding her breath? The former in all these cases are signs she wants more of you, and the latter are signs she’s uncomfortable and not into it. Whatever feedback you get isn’t personal. It’s just information on how well you’ve read her, how developed you are in that particular skill at this point in time. Respond accordingly. If she’s not into talking with you after a few minutes, you can say pleasantly, “Hey, it was great talking to you. Enjoy your night!” If it wasn’t a long conversation at all, then you can tell her in a laid-back way, “Enjoy your night!” I’ve had clients who had women so surprised that they were so chill about it, that the women changed their minds when my clients got up to leave and said, “Wait, don’t go!” Don’t expect a woman to say, “Get my number now.”If you are having a great connection, incorporating flirtatious touch, and there is no mention of a boyfriend, she wants you to get her number. She won’t say, “Ask for my number now.” She wants you to get it. Here’s how: Plant a seed of seeing her again. While you’re talking, mention seeing her again. If you’re talking about a venue already, you can say, “It would be fun to take you there!” Planting a seed warms her up to the idea. Get her number. When you get her number, pull out your phone as you’re in conversation with her, and say, “Hey, let me get your number.” Then open your phone to the text screen and hand her the phone. By doing that, you’re taking care of it. If she doesn’t want to give you her number, she won’t. If you don’t offer, though, you’ll never know. When you’re aware of these things that women want but won’t tell you, everything gets easier. Instead of feeling presumptuous, you know that as long as you’re getting warm vibes and responsiveness from her, you’re actually doing exactly what she likes. It’s a win-win, and it eliminates drama of wondering whether you should do this or that, going back and forth in your mind. Knowing what to do and what to look for means you will finally be able to connect with women in a way we want to be connected with, and you will be handsomely rewarded for it. Source: www.nicknotas.com
  8. Nothing new with corruption. In fact, it is everywhere. But what's so alarming is when it happens within the organization of our law enforcers-- to the extent of killing some innocent civilians just for the ransom money among other illegal activities. I'm actually referring to the suspension of war on drugs under the jurisdiction of PNP. And just yesterday, PRRD had suspended violent war on anti-illegal drugs nationwide and decided to focus on eradicating corruption especially within the PNP organization. And because of that, so many inevitable questions brewed like does this mean EJK will come to an end also (already)? Or is this more than just a PR? Or an indication of failure on Duterte’s said campaign? Your thoughts please. Related link: Dela Rosa orders PNP: Stop War on Drugs
  9. "Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." - Maria Robinson New year, new you to start anew. It's time to look for the right wind in your sails and find out what challenges you will face and what delights you will enjoy for the rest of 2017... (Year of the Red Fire Rooster) http://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/images/Chicken/Rooster-2017.png (Horoscope 2017) http://www.askmyoracle.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/horoscope-2017.png
  10. They say that this film has received positive reviews and has grossed $290 million worldwide. Ok then,. let's hear from you guys (how you share) your actual experience about this movie. You can even state your own rating. Enjoy! (click the image to see its entire website)
  11. FleurDeLune

    Coldplay

    Let's talk anything about this British rock band, Coldplay. Those fanatics out there, this is your thread. For now, I'm eventually fascinated by listening to their latest single "Everglow". Just fresh from the oven, err, I mean it was released just yesterday (11/11/16). Just listen/watch and enjoy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P8jOQUsTU9o
  12. So where should you go? Let us help you figure that out... (click the image to continue) http://cdn.playbuzz.com/cdn/cc03d250-2393-4a71-90ca-3870b78bc183/5e0dd107-0ed6-414f-8bdf-1463a80a7fc4_560_420.jpg
  13. Wikipedia profile for VP Leni Robredo This thread aims to hear any sentiment, disbelief and even appreciation or recognition which ought to be heard from our members. Be it rhetoric or mere brevity. Post at your own risk. Adhere forum rules. Thank you
  14. Maiba naman tayo sa pulitika. Pag-usapan naman natin ang pang araw-araw na buhay, lalo na sa mga ordinaryong mamamayan natin. Bukambibig ang malaking problema sa trapiko. Katumbas din yan sa hirap na dinadanas ng mga namamasahe o nagko-commute nating mga kababayan. Alam naman natin kung gaano kasaklap ang trapiko lalo na sa Metro Manila. Tila bangungot na ng bawat-isang commuter. Literal na nakakamatay kung tutuusin dahil marami nang napapahamak at nauuwi pa sa pagkamatay ng iilan kahit sa simpleng bagay na di pagkakaunawaan. Ganunpaman, walang mapagpilian ang karamihan kundi mag tiyaga lalo na sa pag aabang o pag pila. MRT at LRT ang pinaka kilala, mabilis at ligtas kahit papano. Kahit pa nga ikaw ay may sariling sasakyan walang silbi minsan lalo na kung nagmamadali ka kaya nanaisin mo pang mag rail transit na lang. Pero heto ang kailangan natin pag-usapan na naaayon para sa mga kababaihan (sorry guys). Higit kasing nakikinabang ang mga kababaihan nito (kaysa sa kalalakihan, amin man o hindi) . Ewan lang kung nangyayari ito sa ibang lugar o ibang bansa na pag may nakitang babaeng (dilag na) nakatayo, magpapaubaya, tatayo at ibibigay sa kanya. Ngayon ang tanong ay ito, uso pa ba ang ganun sa panahong ito? Pwedeng pangkalahatan din ang sagot.
  15. FleurDeLune

    Pokémon Go

    The latest innovation. The latest craze. Now let's start the kick and share anything about it and of course our experience/s.
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