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The really good Therapists know how to make reasonably intelligent small talk, they remember things about the guest, they understand what turns the guest on, and usually there is a certain chemistry- maybe bordering on a deeper emotion, but usually its just the momentary friendship of sharing intimate acts.

 

I remember one top Thera who has moved on to operating her own escorts abroad; she mentioned that she had a guest who she had seen over several years, he had started out really handsome but time had not been kind, and as she said papanget ng papanget. Anyway, with that length of a pseudo relationship it is easy to see that long term transactional relationships mimic the real thing in many ways.

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Just had a session with a Top Thera, and what I really liked was her sexual and sensual proclivity- totally game and DTF. The take away is that of you really like the zex, it can be hard to find regular partners from RL with that specific set of skills honed over many experiences. 10,000 hours ha ha ha

 

Bro, unless fully live without condom and putok sa loob ang sex, hindi ko ma appreciate.

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Its looks like you have the ideal GM Thera relationship, I am glad for you

thanks man.

 

the only con that i can think of now is sometimes i think if i made the right choice not to pursue her. if i am too afraid to risk investing in my feelings. but nah the costs outweighs the benefits. to love a thera is really high risk.

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Its looks like you have the ideal GM Thera relationship, I am glad for you

thanks man.

 

the only con that i can think of now is sometimes i think if i made the right choice not to pursue her. if i am too afraid to risk investing in my feelings. but nah the costs outweighs the benefits. to love a thera is really high risk.

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While I am having my morning coffee hehe. I was back reading some old post on falling for a therapist and I came across this one which got me thinking. Especially for the GMs here that leave the country frequently it's not a good idea to get into a romantic relationship.

 

If I where to get close to the point where I am falling :wub: I have this saved on my phone as reminder to keep my feelings in check.

 

i did that already but i resulted with heartache. Till now im still devastated. I thought i would be happy, but it made me miserable, having to share her with other men and worse having to share her love with her bf, i gave her everything, supported her when i was still in the phils but. Evrytime i see her fb. Nakikita ko pa din na mahal na mahal nya ung bf nya na tat artist and jejemon and sinasaktan pa sya, d nmn sa pagyayabang, im a licensed architect which was beaten by a jejemon tat artist, Even before i left the country gave her 70k to fund her business, before i left she told me aantayin nya ko and GOD knows bka pagbalik ko wala na dw sila, pero when i check her fb she is still so in love with that jejemon tat artist

Life is so unfait

I pity the poor bastard and I have been lucky all this time because that could have easily been me. :(

But at least what I got out of this was money can't you love and the one that can be bought is not worth loving at all

agreed. a frequent flyer, the seloso type, a married gm, a gm with a gf, suspicious type, etc. should avoid falling to a thera.

 

one of the biggest risks that a gm should put in mind if decided to pursue a thera is you will never know what happens inside the room. for instance, my thera friend and i do things in bed that her bf does not know about. i asked if her bf knows what youre doing to a regular like me? sagot niya siyempre hindi. so do you guys still want to pursue? kailangan matibay sikmura ninyo knowing this fact.

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agreed. a frequent flyer, the seloso type, a married gm, a gm with a gf, suspicious type, etc. should avoid falling to a thera.

 

one of the biggest risks that a gm should put in mind if decided to pursue a thera is you will never know what happens inside the room. for instance, my thera friend and i do things in bed that her bf does not know about. i asked if her bf knows what youre doing to a regular like me? sagot niya siyempre hindi. so do you guys still want to pursue? kailangan matibay sikmura ninyo knowing this fact.

 

This is one of the interesting things. What or where is the line you draw on her behavior, where from one moment she is love-able and is now un-loveable. Let's not beat around the bush, what exactly are those things done in the room that are beyond the pale?

 

I mean presumably you already know that she f**ks guys. She was doing that before you met her. And she'll probably still be doing it after you get over her. So what are those things that would k*ll all of your emotions?

 

If she did doggy while being spanked or fish-hooked? If she did fellatio and slapped the guys schlong on her face? If she did it spooning and let him grab her tits telling her she's a whore? If she says "sarap mo sir" while in missionary?

 

Is accepting these things what ends the falling for the therapist?

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thanks man.

the only con that i can think of now is sometimes i think if i made the right choice not to pursue her. if i am too afraid to risk investing in my feelings. but nah the costs outweighs the benefits. to love a thera is really high risk.

Hey Bro is the Thera you mentioned here the one with the BF? If you don’t mind me asking.

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yes

If u did decide to pursue her that would have made good content here since I have not run across any stories of a GM challenging the true love or boy toy for heart of his Thera love ❤️

 

At least your Thera friend is honest and does not hide the fact she has a BF. The Thera seem to hide the fact that they have a BF in their life with me.

 

There was this one time I was sharing food pictures with a Thera and she was showing me her pics on her phone when. She came across a pic with a guy who is obviously her BF and quickly stated he is just a friend 😆

 

And the entire incident with Ms.K could have been avoided if she told me she has a BF. I liked her and would still go see her regardless. Now she just lost a client (which works out for me because there are quite the lookers in the QC area😍) instead of still receiving money from me for her services I will be spending my money on others Thera which could have went to her.

 

I must have potential victim written on my forehead haha 😂

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If u did decide to pursue her that would have made good content here since I have not run across any stories of a GM challenging the true love or boy toy for heart of his Thera love ❤️

 

At least your Thera friend is honest and does not hide the fact she has a BF. The Thera seem to hide the fact that they have a BF in their life with me.

 

There was this one time I was sharing food pictures with a Thera and she was showing me her pics on her phone when. She came across a pic with a guy who is obviously her BF and quickly stated he is just a friend 😆

 

And the entire incident with Ms.K could have been avoided if she told me she has a BF. I liked her and would still go see her regardless. Now she just lost a client (which works out for me because there are quite the lookers in the QC area😍) instead of still receiving money from me for her services I will be spending my money on others Thera which could have went to her.

 

I must have potential victim written on my forehead haha 😂

hahaha yeah it wouldve been interesting indeed. yeah she was honest right from the start. though i really had a good chance (i think) back then. so all is good i get to f**k her every session more than the standard service. sometimes we see each other outside work just to catchup. sa room bitin usapan since may kasunod lagi na guest.

 

hahaha haay nako gasgas na yan "just a friend" line na yan. good thing you found out.

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If u did decide to pursue her that would have made good content here since I have not run across any stories of a GM challenging the true love or boy toy for heart of his Thera love ❤

 

At least your Thera friend is honest and does not hide the fact she has a BF. The Thera seem to hide the fact that they have a BF in their life with me.

 

There was this one time I was sharing food pictures with a Thera and she was showing me her pics on her phone when. She came across a pic with a guy who is obviously her BF and quickly stated he is just a friend 😆

 

And the entire incident with Ms.K could have been avoided if she told me she has a BF. I liked her and would still go see her regardless. Now she just lost a client (which works out for me because there are quite the lookers in the QC area😍) instead of still receiving money from me for her services I will be spending my money on others Thera which could have went to her.

 

I must have potential victim written on my forehead haha 😂

I think there are sadly many more dishonest theras than honest ones due to the nature of the work. Of course many of them Will not admit they are In relationships until later on, if you really visit regularly. Another issue is when are they required to be honest? After all its often an act on both sides to show affection, and its natural for some rudimentary friendship to arise from all the flooping. Thats why its complicated because neither can really say its serious until... some case to case basis indicator.

 

And thats the thing. The Thera wants to maintain your interest. Her livelihood depends on being a fantasy. Do you want to make her a real girl? Why? Why be the Blue Fairy?

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I think there are sadly many more dishonest theras than honest ones due to the nature of the work. Of course many of them Will not admit they are In relationships until later on, if you really visit regularly. Another issue is when are they required to be honest? After all its often an act on both sides to show affection, and its natural for some rudimentary friendship to arise from all the flooping. Thats why its complicated because neither can really say its serious until... some case to case basis indicator.

 

And thats the thing. The Thera wants to maintain your interest. Her livelihood depends on being a fantasy. Do you want to make her a real girl? Why? Why be the Blue Fairy?

When are they required to be honest?

 

This question right here is the summary of it all... If you understand the answer to this, you will never be bitter, you will never feel bad, and you will never be well a victim.

 

Becauss the answer to that is NEVER.... Hahahha..

 

Kahit na na LiVE mo na cya, she will never tell you the truth, probably ikaw lang ni live nya, or baka naman lahat ng client na nag attempt ipasok e pinayagan. I had an experience nung wala pa masyadong outbreak ng HIV, sabi ni thera ipasok ko na daw wala pang CD, buti nlng, I heard from the grapevine na ung BF nya is a hosto, or escort service ng bading... Faking hells NO... We all know what are the percentage ng male to male HIv aquisition.. Tapos ipapasa sa GF na escort or paid sex dn amg raket..

 

Pwede sabihin walang anak, walang asawa, pero pag masilip mo ung facebook, aba e happy family

 

You just have to understand na all that comes out of them, there is always a motive. I mean sabi nga nila may check up daw sila monthly, e ung kaibigan ko may ari ng spa tanungin mo, e hindi nila alam, at wala daw silang binibigay na pera para mag pa test sila.. One of my friend going to Japan na, worked as thera, nalaman lng na may HEP C asa Japan na, kasi pinatest ng mama san dun, well you guessed it, balik sa spa/mp... Ano kaya ginagawa nya ngyn d b... Baka isa na sya sa pinaguusapan dito...

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When are they required to be honest?

 

This question right here is the summary of it all... If you understand the answer to this, you will never be bitter, you will never feel bad, and you will never be well a victim.

 

Becauss the answer to that is NEVER.... Hahahha..

 

 

 

I would have to agree with this observation.

With women, the only truth I can rely on is a paternity test!

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This is one of the interesting things. What or where is the line you draw on her behavior, where from one moment she is love-able and is now un-loveable. Let's not beat around the bush, what exactly are those things done in the room that are beyond the pale?

 

I mean presumably you already know that she f**ks guys. She was doing that before you met her. And she'll probably still be doing it after you get over her. So what are those things that would k*ll all of your emotions?

 

If she did doggy while being spanked or fish-hooked? If she did fellatio and slapped the guys schlong on her face? If she did it spooning and let him grab her tits telling her she's a whore? If she says "sarap mo sir" while in missionary?

 

Is accepting these things what ends the falling for the therapist?

things like nagpapa live at nagpapaputok sa loob as an example. thera loves will say to her gm bf that she does that only to him. but the bf has no idea that she does that too to her regulars na ka close niya.

 

thera loves may guarantee a gm bf that she imposes restrictions on the es part and siya lang ang special. but gm bf have no way of knowing if thera loves will fulfill her promise.

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things like nagpapa live at nagpapaputok sa loob as an example. thera loves will say to her gm bf that she does that only to him. but the bf has no idea that she does that too to her regulars na ka close niya.

thera loves may guarantee a gm bf that she imposes restrictions on the es part and siya lang ang special. but gm bf have no way of knowing if thera loves will fulfill her promise.

Might be true sir.

Ok magbasa dito ah.

New lessons and amazing stories shared by everyone.

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Probably pwede kutsabahin ni BF GM yung ibang tropa nya to see if si Thera-Loves nya would fulfill her promise.

I did this many times, and 100% nagpapalive talaga ang mga ganitong klaseng babae, regardless if working sa ESpa or MPs. Once a pokpok is always a pokpok. Pokpok na nga sinungaling na at mang hawa pa ng STD. I have friends who contracted HIV because sa mga pokpok na mga ito.

 

Its best practise to wear CD and asked theses pokpoks to show you their Cityhall issued health card.

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I did this many times, and 100% nagpapalive talaga ang mga ganitong klaseng babae, regardless if working sa ESpa or MPs. Once a pokpok is always a pokpok. Pokpok na nga sinungaling na at mang hawa pa ng STD. I have friends who contracted HIV because sa mga pokpok na mga ito.

 

Its best practise to wear CD and asked theses pokpoks to show you their Cityhall issued health card.

bro it always takes two to tango. kasalanan rin ng friends mo at nagka std sila. because in the first place, one should keep in mind the risks involved sa pag request or sa pag payag mag live.

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How would you know guys if the thera was playing on yiu. Meaning when your inside the room or cubicle all things you have done with her like a wife material but after that like it was nothing happen. Does this mean your only good at the spa room? I would like to know from you guys who have experience it.

A spa is a place to relax and pamper yourself and not a place to find love. Regarding your question, always take things that the therapist says with a grain of salt and when she does things to you, always think that she also does it to other guests. It's simple as that.

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