Iceman7

Not sure if married but they live together

The trick for you guys to find out the difference is if she really likes you. She will go out with you to dinner. Spend the night with you at your place or hotel. kissing and no use of condom. But I have experienced all that to find out there still is a real BF in the background 😂

Of course not all of the theras situation I mentioned is like that. I am just speaking from what I have seen. Just to use as an example since this thera is no longer active. Demi Lousissa would be seen with wealthy GMs. They would pick her up with their fancy cars and take her to nice restaurants. So from a distance one might think ok here is a thera with rich bfs and even dating doctors. She had a wealthy sugar daddy as well. But the reality is her baby daddy is this broke ass that just plays computer games all day that she supports. I remembered she even lied to a Dr. GM that she would go out with. She told him she needed money to help out her mom. The GM gladly gave her 10k later to find out she took her real bf to Boracay at the expense of the GM. This is just how the majority of the theras situation are like. The GMs would just believed their lies. I did once. But of course not all are like that. I been involved with top theras that know their worth and will not get into a relationship with one that does not have a certain amount of money. But those are few and are at the top

Most are ok with it since they won't have to work just sleep and watch their child. And there are good benefits to the BF as well. Some GM simps will bring food to the Thera or give the Thera extra in hope for increasing their milage. In turn the Thera will bring the food back home to the BF or give the extra money she received from the simp GM to add to her BF allowance. The BF is the true winner while the GM gives his hard earn money to the Thera and the BF not only gets an allowance but gets sex for free and as much as he wants. Also with his allowance he sometimes spends it on other woman 🤯

Most of their boyfriends are broke and receive an allowance from them. Once you guys realize this you will learn that the GM is on the losing end of the stick. Why spoil and shell out money when their real BFs receive money from them

For all the newbies even thinking about pursuing a Thera for a stable relationship all you need to do is back read there is plenty of stories of failure and hurt and loss of money. To keep things simple. GM gives money to Thera. Thera gives money to real boyfriend. This here is the reality!! Like just today one of my regulars BF tag her on a post thanking her for the new nike shoes she bought him saying that he was going to give her sex when she gets home for as a reward 😂 Not like she gets enough of it at her work place. What is really troubling if you guys can find it. Someone here bought a Thera a car. And of course who is the one driving it? The real boyfriend. Not saying it's always like this there are high value Theras that know their worth won't mess around with broke asses. I myself somewhat pursued a legendary top Thera but kudos to the guy she is with now because I don't think I could spend the kind of money to keep her. Because I also had to consider the big family as well. Not sure if he is a GM and knows about her past but so far they been together for a while now. Other high value Theras I spoke to told me this was their dream to be swept off their feet and taken cared off by a GM. Like what happened with Ms.Gem at tokyo Spa and I think Mariel. But to each his own you have been warned. If you don't have to deep pockets to play this game. Best to just be a regular customer.

Yup same here I am 2/2 2 of them where actually good hearted and honest and the other 2 where just liars haha. But I am don't think I will do it again. It was just during the time many GMs where chasing the Top Theras and I wanted to play too haha But I have a new gripe now. in order for me to increase my YMMV and good service I would get close to my regulars. By doing so they let you in their personal lives which means I can see their personal lives on social media. I know one of my regular has a boyfriend and just looking at him on her social media I am actually getting jealous of him. Just watching him do nothing but drink and smoke. Does not have a job she supports him and he does not have to pay her and gets money from her. Makes me think wow what a lucky guy. And on the other side of things its kinda of a turn on for me thinking that I am doing these things to this guys girlfriend 😂

I agree I picked up a SM sales lady and of course I just wanted sex and she couldn’t provide the PSE. Not only that she would text me everyday and wanted me to meet her family and meet mine so when I broke it off she ended up crying. It was my fault I should have told her from the beginning that was all I was looking for and no more. not sure if anyone here has tried making a sales lady a FUBU and no more then that

I have done that in the past haha some theras don't like sharing their regulars with their co-workers hehe

When I mean higher mileage lets say when you met a thera for the first time and her don'ts are no bbbj or cim kissing nip suck etc. I also look at this as a challenge or obstacle to overcome. But handsome bob is correct if you are gwapo it will happen without gifts

Thanks for the advice bro, she actually contacts me to come visit her and gets jealous when the other theras try to flirt with me. But you are right. I do go to the gym and even though I don't have a Brad Pitt body its better then being obese

I been seeing her for about a year and this is the first time she has ask me for money. I do have PTSD from the past theras when if comes to finances and I will always remember the incident with the Thera and GM who gave her money because she said her mom was sick and she ended up using that money to take her baby daddy to Boracay instead. So I am quite hesitant. But I look at it this way if she does not pay me back she will end up losing money in the long run and I already have my eye on a different thera at her location so I will see what she decides to do.

I no longer participate in the vicious cycle but in order to obtain higher mileage with my regulars I still do buy them food and take them out and give them small gifts. The only problem with that is once they get comfy with your relationship I will get that text late at night asking for financial assistance. Of course I would like to deny their request but worried that I would lost my high mileage status as well. If any other GMs has been in this situation I would like feedback on how to deal with Theras that ask for financial assistance while still keeping your high mileage without providing any.