Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Iceman7]

Anyways for all the haters. Feelings are starting to form on both ends even though this all happen in a short period of time. Its just to complicated like everyone said here in this forum. I guess I am just like the ex poster mr.hopeless romantic. Gonna end this before anything happens. No more asking Theras out on dates.

 

I just treat them just like I would other women in the real world.

 

Anyways I think its time for me to retire like the others.

 

Good luck to those who fall and try to pursue

[babymaker]

Anyways for all the haters. Feelings are starting to form on both ends even though this all happen in a short period of time. Its just to complicated like everyone said here in this forum. I guess I am just like the ex poster mr.hopeless romantic. Gonna end this before anything happens. No more asking Theras out on dates.

 

I just treat them just like I would other women in the real world.

 

Anyways I think its time for me to retire like the others.

 

Good luck to those who fall and try to pursue

 

Pards, sobrang ganda ba talaga nya?

Pa PM naman ng pic.

Curious lang.

If you would rather not, okay lang din.

[will robie]

 

Hmmmm Be realistic and don't be too smug. While I'd hate to be a killjoy didn't it ever occur to you maybe the married guys checking her out were her previous clients before? They have tasted her and were just remembering how horny she was in bed? I wouldn't be too proud to parade a known prosti in public, it's extremely embarrassing.

And NO, it's not nice. Even if she was the hottest woman there, PROSTI pa din and ANYONE can have her as long as they can pay so sorry but nothing to be proud of.

Hahaha! Mukhang proud na proud yung poster sa syota niya. If I were to treat a therapist out, it's just to a nearby establishment just to show my appreciation or maybe just bring her food but she has to be a regular therapist. I wouldn't go out of my way to dress up and date her to dinner.

Edited October 5, 2019 by will robie

[Iceman7]

 

Pards, sobrang ganda ba talaga nya?

Pa PM naman ng pic.

Curious lang.

If you would rather not, okay lang din.

yeah I respect her and she has been nothing but kind to me so I can’t do that. Just the fact that she is beautiful and really nice to me made me act without thinking

 

but babymaker I have to agree with most of your post. Just keep it simple find a woman with less guys in her life.

 

even though I have only known her for a week in the back of my mind I don’t want her working at the spa any longer. But I tell myself that’s how I met her. If I decided to take care of her and if my family where to find out sh!t is gonna break lose.

 

and like what billy h said when I am going out with her the guys checking her out just might be previous clients. It’s just to much to take in especially when I am falling for her

[Admiral Kunkka]

nagmimilk tea din kami bago magkantutan haha, si lolo pogi talaga oh mapagbiro

Gawain mo talaga 👻 Anyway, may mga araw talaga na sobra ang libog at mayroon din hindi 🤓

[Kingkongphils]

Well one thing I was not parade her around we where just going out like normal people.

 

I just happen to notice what the married men where doing. But thanks for the insight I never looked at it that way where they could have been a customer of hers.

Actually isa sa "war shock" nila yan. Ma classify na dn cguro na PTSD nila yun. They have this parang they always think na may nakakailala sa kanila na GM. Kaya dn ung iba sa kanila natatakot na mag apply sa regular job due to fear na maklila sila.

 

I remember one of my co worker anlakas maka sabi bobo ung lalaki proud e thera ata yun o escort ung kasma O nakuha ko na yan sa ganitong spa o club. Exactly what people are saying here. Pro nung binigyan ko sya ng 15k worth na escort aba e kung maka lingkis in public. At sya pa mismo nagsasabi na ingit lng sila kasi panalo kasama ko... E sabi ko, kaya ka naman pinag titinginan kasi ang pangit mo tapos ang ganda nung kasama mo naawa sila sa babae pre hindi dahil sa akala nila pok pok yan kasama mo... Kaya baka nmn kaya tinitignan c thera mo e ganun ka boss..... Hehehehehhehehhe..... Joke lng boss ha... Pampa lighten lng sa mood. Ano kaya mas madali tanggapin dun...

[pearsonspectrelitt]

Gawain mo talaga Anyway, may mga araw talaga na sobra ang libog at mayroon din hindi

kaya kailangan ng milk tea pampalamig ng nagiinit na katawan haha

 

para hindi OT, dun sa mga nahulog at nasaktan kahit na binigay ang lahat sa pinakamamahal nilang theras pati na rin ang laman ng bank account/s... may limit ba yung pagsustento nyo o talagang handa kayong ibigay ang lahat lahat wag lang kayo iwanan?

 

may mga kaibigan ako na binigay talaga ang lahat sa babae, pero wala akong kilala na binigay lahat sa pokpok

[Iceman7]

Actually isa sa "war shock" nila yan. Ma classify na dn cguro na PTSD nila yun. They have this parang they always think na may nakakailala sa kanila na GM. Kaya dn ung iba sa kanila natatakot na mag apply sa regular job due to fear na maklila sila.

 

I remember one of my co worker anlakas maka sabi bobo ung lalaki proud e thera ata yun o escort ung kasma O nakuha ko na yan sa ganitong spa o club. Exactly what people are saying here. Pro nung binigyan ko sya ng 15k worth na escort aba e kung maka lingkis in public. At sya pa mismo nagsasabi na ingit lng sila kasi panalo kasama ko... E sabi ko, kaya ka naman pinag titinginan kasi ang pangit mo tapos ang ganda nung kasama mo naawa sila sa babae pre hindi dahil sa akala nila pok pok yan kasama mo... Kaya baka nmn kaya tinitignan c thera mo e ganun ka boss..... Hehehehehhehehhe..... Joke lng boss ha... Pampa lighten lng sa mood. Ano kaya mas madali tanggapin dun...

Well guys here jump to conclusions when a GM treats a Thera like a regular woman. And just FYI the only money spent was towards the restaurant.

 

i have brought attractive women that don’t work in the business out as well and yeah they are hot. So are guys going to assume she is a prostitute just because she is the best looking one there.

 

oh well it don’t matter what other people think anyways

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

Anyways for all the haters. Feelings are starting to form on both ends even though this all happen in a short period of time. Its just to complicated like everyone said here in this forum. I guess I am just like the ex poster mr.hopeless romantic. Gonna end this before anything happens. No more asking Theras out on dates.

 

I just treat them just like I would other women in the real world.

 

Anyways I think its time for me to retire like the others.

 

Good luck to those who fall and try to pursue

Just let your haters hate. Anyway, thats all they can do anyway.

[Iceman7]

Just let your haters hate. Anyway, thats all they can do anyway.

We are still waiting for part2 from u boss hehe

[barretm82]

Even though she doesnt need my money I still always take care of the bill which can get costly sometimes haha. Unlike the lucky boy-toys.

 

But it is nice eating at a restaurant having the hottest woman there. We where just at a Japanese restaurant and there where married couples sitting on both sides of use. The married guys kept glancing over to check her out and their wifes where not to happy haha.

nice. enjoy the moment. just dont be too all out in shouldering the bill in your next dates. coz im pretty sure she's dating other gms that may become her bf.

[Kingkongphils]

Well guys here jump to conclusions when a GM treats a Thera like a regular woman. And just FYI the only money spent was towards the restaurant.

 

i have brought attractive women that dont work in the business out as well and yeah they are hot. So are guys going to assume she is a prostitute just because she is the best looking one there.

 

oh well it dont matter what other people think anyways

Korek...

 

Anyways pag love mo naman c thera e it wont matter kasama sa pagkatao nya ung minahal mo. Kaya even if half the room has seen her naked pag mahal mo cya dapat wala ka paki alam sa kanila.

[will robie]

Just let your haters hate. Anyway, thats all they can do anyway.

Stating an opinion does not make one a hater.

[Admiral Kunkka]

kaya kailangan ng milk tea pampalamig ng nagiinit na katawan haha

para hindi OT, dun sa mga nahulog at nasaktan kahit na binigay ang lahat sa pinakamamahal nilang theras pati na rin ang laman ng bank account/s... may limit ba yung pagsustento nyo o talagang handa kayong ibigay ang lahat lahat wag lang kayo iwanan?

may mga kaibigan ako na binigay talaga ang lahat sa babae, pero wala akong kilala na binigay lahat sa pokpok

Malamig na lang na tubig? 😅

 

At least at mahirap yung ikaw din ang nawalan para sa sarili 😮

[Kingkongphils]

Stating an opinion does not make one a hater.

If there are offensive words, insults and uncalled for statements then that becomes hate.

[DIRTY HARRY]

out of topic... it seems like the word *anyways* is being used often when we knew grammatically that it's not proper....

ON TOPIC

there are theras that would really bring your defenses down.... problem follows...

Edited October 5, 2019 by DIRTY HARRY

[Kingkongphils]

I'm actually a physician-businessman who almost got married to a higher level physician-cardiologist.

 

When we mutually broke up because of some misunderstanding with her Mom, that's when I started fooling around in different bars and MP's. VIP's in some bars have been great, but I always dislike the smoke-filled environment coupled with too much drinking. So eventually, at a suggestion of a friend, I decided to visit the showrooms of MP's.

 

For the first 4 months, I never got the feeling of attachment with any Angels there. Until I got acquainted with this hot head-turner half Caucasian thera. Was it a mutual feeling of respect, or admiration for her physical beauty? Not sure. But she has always dealt with me in a very special way since day 1. It's been more than 5 months now that I visit her in the MP at least 3x a week. Like what I said above, she wants me to wait for her for roughly 5-7 years and she promises to be totally loyal to me after that as long as I promise her to wait for her. But I never promised her anything; I just smiled. For many occassions now, she didn't accept my ES payment even if I insisted that she should accept it. It has always been PSE/GFE with her.

 

I'm a 6-footer former Team B basketball cager of the Ateneo Blue Eaglets. But I have only an average look. She's a stunning 5'6" hot girl with a little hazy background due to her parents' early separation. But she's a very smart person financially. She already bought several tracks of agricultural lands in the province. And she always plans for a brighter future with her eventual family.

 

Are these things good enough for me to eventually establish a future family with her? Or should her background as a thera be considered as a stumbling block and therefore, I should only take her as a temporarily companion for pleasure? Should I honestly tell her as early now that our relationship is not gonna bring us to a serious exclusive relationship?

 

Thanks in advance guys for your great advice!

I guess youre in your 30s, ksi cardiologist na ung mapapangasawa mo e. So thats at the very least 30s na for you to be full pledged cardiologist with all the additional study and exam. By my standards thats tanders.

 

Maybe you are just feeling the pressure. Probably you are in your dry spell. Dont worry about that it happens to the best of us. If I were you, id stick with nurses and/or med reps... They are just as horny probably hornier. Pero kung malas talaga it doesnt matter kasi I am sure sa field mo bumabaha ng chicks. Kaya matter of time lng yan makakaita ka dn.

 

However, if you talagang na fall ka kay MP thera. Just make sure you fall for the right reason. Otherwise magkakasumbatan lang kayo at there is a big chance that there will never be trust. Pero if you accept, you accept whole hindi ung mga alam mo lng. Pati ung mga hindi mo alam sa kanya you should accept. Kasi guaranteed there are a lot of skeletons in her closet. I assume dahil YOU THINK she is financially wise kaya you took a liking to her, but know this sometimes they can play a role that they think youll fall for. Kaya ung sinasabi nya syo MAY or MAY not be true. She just acts na financially wise sya kasi you are a businessman. Kaya she plays that part. Pero if yun ang nagustuhan mo sa kanya better make sure na ung part na yun e totoo kasi dun mo sya nagustuhan. But you cant know that unless you spend time with her. E kamo no pay ka naman kaya thats the best thing I think. Libre totnak ka pa chowin mo lng... Anyways good luck just make sure when u decide no regrets and watch for your happiness always. Kaya just treat her as a tenporary companion. Wag nyo nlng pag usapan ung future nyo para walang complications. Just enjoy what you have and go with the flow.

Edited October 5, 2019 by Kingkongphils

[pearsonspectrelitt]

out of topic... it seems like the word *anyways* is being used often when we knew grammatically that it's not proper....

ON TOPIC

there are theras that would really bring your defenses down.... problem follows...

hahaha, yeah “anyways” was used mainly by grammatically-challenged people but due to the liberalization of technology (facebook, twitter, etc) got more and more mainstream the last decade

[Cool Fool]

I'm actually a physician-businessman who almost got married to a higher level physician-cardiologist.

When we mutually broke up because of some misunderstanding with her Mom, that's when I started fooling around in different bars and MP's. VIP's in some bars have been great, but I always dislike the smoke-filled environment coupled with too much drinking. So eventually, at a suggestion of a friend, I decided to visit the showrooms of MP's.

For the first 4 months, I never got the feeling of attachment with any Angels there. Until I got acquainted with this hot head-turner half Caucasian thera. Was it a mutual feeling of respect, or admiration for her physical beauty? Not sure. But she has always dealt with me in a very special way since day 1. It's been more than 5 months now that I visit her in the MP at least 3x a week. Like what I said above, she wants me to wait for her for roughly 5-7 years and she promises to be totally loyal to me after that as long as I promise her to wait for her. But I never promised her anything; I just smiled. For many occassions now, she didn't accept my ES payment even if I insisted that she should accept it. It has always been PSE/GFE with her.

I'm a 6-footer former Team B basketball cager of the Ateneo Blue Eaglets. But I have only an average look. She's a stunning 5'6" hot girl with a little hazy background due to her parents' early separation. But she's a very smart person financially. She already bought several tracks of agricultural lands in the province. And she always plans for a brighter future with her eventual family.

Are these things good enough for me to eventually establish a future family with her? Or should her background as a thera be considered as a stumbling block and therefore, I should only take her as a temporarily companion for pleasure? Should I honestly tell her as early now that our relationship is not gonna bring us to a serious exclusive relationship?

Thanks in advance guys for your great advice!

Hi bro I have been in the same boat many times wherein several thera doesnt ask me for payment and there was an obvious mutual feelings for each other and this has happened many times and all the past ones have failed. I am now in a relationship with another and same thing as usual magulo and di mo alam san ka lulugar. It takes a lot of emotional contol to be in these situations.It is extremely drama filled not unless lumabas na sya and makasama mo sa iisang bubong kasi kahit tumigil can you really say wala na milagro? Im just pouring my heart out before I go insane and Im keeping my mental clarity.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

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Edited October 6, 2019 by BRAIN FOR HIRE

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

I'm actually a physician-businessman who almost got married to a higher level physician-cardiologist.

 

When we mutually broke up because of some misunderstanding with her Mom, that's when I started fooling around in different bars and MP's. VIP's in some bars have been great, but I always dislike the smoke-filled environment coupled with too much drinking. So eventually, at a suggestion of a friend, I decided to visit the showrooms of MP's.

 

For the first 4 months, I never got the feeling of attachment with any Angels there. Until I got acquainted with this hot head-turner half Caucasian thera. Was it a mutual feeling of respect, or admiration for her physical beauty? Not sure. But she has always dealt with me in a very special way since day 1. It's been more than 5 months now that I visit her in the MP at least 3x a week. Like what I said above, she wants me to wait for her for roughly 5-7 years and she promises to be totally loyal to me after that as long as I promise her to wait for her. But I never promised her anything; I just smiled. For many occassions now, she didn't accept my ES payment even if I insisted that she should accept it. It has always been PSE/GFE with her.

 

I'm a 6-footer former Team B basketball cager of the Ateneo Blue Eaglets. But I have only an average look. She's a stunning 5'6" hot girl with a little hazy background due to her parents' early separation. But she's a very smart person financially. She already bought several tracks of agricultural lands in the province. And she always plans for a brighter future with her eventual family.

 

Are these things good enough for me to eventually establish a future family with her? Or should her background as a thera be considered as a stumbling block and therefore, I should only take her as a temporarily companion for pleasure? Should I honestly tell her as early now that our relationship is not gonna bring us to a serious exclusive relationship?

 

Thanks in advance guys for your great advice!

 

Firstly, KingKongPhils may be right, she could just be playing a role that she thinks you will be attracted to; you should make sure she does not have Borderline Personality Disorder- this is very common with women from broken families and who have experienced abandonment. BPD is a very heavy condition to take on- unconditional love is just the entry point. Women with BPD are often very magnetic and sexually liberated. Anyway, youre a doctor, so you probably have a network that can help you.

 

Second, just get to know her better. And I think this is where you may have a problem. This requires a lot of time. Not just a date or two. Not just 3x a week; what is that 4-5 hours? so in total you have spent around 30 days with her out of 150 days. But what did you do in that time?

 

People who spend a lot of time together cannot hide who and what they are- getting to know the every day person, the person at home, the person in the morning, the person before bed; knowing all these facets is important. Then there is the family circle- what is she like with them? Who are her friends- who does she listen to? Knowing more is key.

 

Third, what are you willing to accept if you get in deeper with her. Can she go out with clients? Can she travel abroad with clients? Can she service clients without a condom? Can she be tied up and used by clients? Do you know any of them? Certain things may not be advisable for you to know, but at the same time she should have limits. You should have a real talk.

 

Just get through these things first. And then see where you are.

[Cool Fool]

Firstly, KingKongPhils may be right, she could just be playing a role that she thinks you will be attracted to; you should make sure she does not have Borderline Personality Disorder- this is very common with women from broken families and who have experienced abandonment. BPD is a very heavy condition to take on- unconditional love is just the entry point. Women with BPD are often very magnetic and sexually liberated. Anyway, youre a doctor, so you probably have a network that can help you.

Second, just get to know her better. And I think this is where you may have a problem. This requires a lot of time. Not just a date or two. Not just 3x a week; what is that 4-5 hours? so in total you have spent around 30 days with her out of 150 days. But what did you do in that time?

People who spend a lot of time together cannot hide who and what they are- getting to know the every day person, the person at home, the person in the morning, the person before bed; knowing all these facets is important. Then there is the family circle- what is she like with them? Who are her friends- who does she listen to? Knowing more is key.

Third, what are you willing to accept if you get in deeper with her. Can she go out with clients? Can she travel abroad with clients? Can she service clients without a condom? Can she be tied up and used by clients? Do you know any of them? Certain things may not be advisable for you to know, but at the same time she should have limits. You should have a real talk.

Just get through these things first. And then see where you are.

Great words of wisdom obviously came from experience. Funny thing is Ive been in this boat before but it takes some sound advice and a wakeup call. Thank you.

[bunso19]

mga paps, here’s my story. I’m a physician with a wife of 6 years (she was also my GF for 9 years before we were married). We have kids already and our current relationship is great. My wife is (previously) one of the hottest nurse you can find in a hospital: pretty, tall, with white complexion, sexy, boobsie, & sweet... but after giving birth to our first child, she became a bit chubby, that’s also the time I discovered MTC and other ‘walk’ sites. I just do things a GM usually do: Pay, Massage, F*ck (with protection), Go home. No strings attached. I had my fair share of good and bad experiences.

 

Last year, one of my regular top thera transferred to another spa and I tried to follow her. Unfortunately, (or fortunately) she wasn’t available during my visit and chose another one. When she entered the room, i’ve met the most beautiful thera I have ever encountered. She’s a mestiza. The initial session was good, with so-so massage but the ES, that was the greatest f*ck in my life. Imagine that, from a thera!? I didn’t had that experience to any thera or walker before her. She is so tight like a virgin. She told me the classic line: ‘Sir, di talaga ako nag-aall the way, HJ lang talaga ako. Medyo tag-libog lang ako ngayon.’ I know that i’m not that super good looking (like her level) so I just shrugged it off. After our session, I got her number and tried to woo her. We’re having sex 2-3x a week. I always use protection when i f*ck her or any thera before her. (Always practice safe sex mga paps!) After almost a month of ‘courtship’, we are already a couple. She started to f*ck me live. Our sex is really great! I’m always looking forward on our next session. Honestly, if you know her, you’ll definitely want to make love with her too! She told me that almost all her guests offer her large sum of money just to get the highest mileage though she declines because she loves me. (that’s what she said!)

 

I can support her financially but she declines. She said she can make money on her own. I still insist on giving her weekly allowances and precious gifts during occasions. We also go out once in a while but i’m careful where we are going cause i’m married and my social network is not that small. Someone might see us and tell it to my wife. Don’t get me wrong, i LOVE my wife and my family. I won’t choose anyone over them or allow anyone to hurt them. But carnal desires want me to keep my thera GF on the side. Like in an intravenous (IV) fluid, my wife is the main line and my GF is the side drip! Currently, i’m still enjoying our forbidden relationship. I just go with what may happen.

 

I just want to share my story of ‘falling’ for a thera. Don’t start me with ‘karma’ or anything. I know what I am doing and the possible consequences of my action. After all, we are all GMs here! Cheers & happy hunting!

[Cool Fool]

mga paps, here’s my story. I’m a physician with a wife of 6 years (she was also my GF for 9 years before we were married). We have kids already and our current relationship is great. My wife is (previously) one of the hottest nurse you can find in a hospital: pretty, tall, with white complexion, sexy, boobsie, & sweet... but after giving birth to our first child, she became a bit chubby, that’s also the time I discovered MTC and other ‘walk’ sites. I just do things a GM usually do: Pay, Massage, F*ck (with protection), Go home. No strings attached. I had my fair share of good and bad experiences.

Last year, one of my regular top thera transferred to another spa and I tried to follow her. Unfortunately, (or fortunately) she wasn’t available during my visit and chose another one. When she entered the room, i’ve met the most beautiful thera I have ever encountered. She’s a mestiza. The initial session was good, with so-so massage but the ES, that was the greatest f*ck in my life. Imagine that, from a thera!? I didn’t had that experience to any thera or walker before her. She is so tight like a virgin. She told me the classic line: ‘Sir, di talaga ako nag-aall the way, HJ lang talaga ako. Medyo tag-libog lang ako ngayon.’ I know that i’m not that super good looking (like her level) so I just shrugged it off. After our session, I got her number and tried to woo her. We’re having sex 2-3x a week. I always use protection when i f*ck her or any thera before her. (Always practice safe sex mga paps!) After almost a month of ‘courtship’, we are already a couple. She started to f*ck me live. Our sex is really great! I’m always looking forward on our next session. Honestly, if you know her, you’ll definitely want to make love with her too! She told me that almost all her guests offer her large sum of money just to get the highest mileage though she declines because she loves me. (that’s what she said!)

I can support her financially but she declines. She said she can make money on her own. I still insist on giving her weekly allowances and precious gifts during occasions. We also go out once in a while but i’m careful where we are going cause i’m married and my social network is not that small. Someone might see us and tell it to my wife. Don’t get me wrong, i LOVE my wife and my family. I won’t choose anyone over them or allow anyone to hurt them. But carnal desires want me to keep my thera GF on the side. Like in an intravenous (IV) fluid, my wife is the main line and my GF is the side drip! Currently, i’m still enjoying our forbidden relationship. I just go with what may happen.

I just want to share my story of ‘falling’ for a thera. Don’t start me with ‘karma’ or anything. I know what I am doing and the possible consequences of my action. After all, we are all GMs here! Cheers & happy hunting!

Man same line these theras say di ako nag papa live and di magpapabayad and mahal ka Im in the same boat makes me want to just get away

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

Great words of wisdom obviously came from experience. Funny thing is Ive been in this boat before but it takes some sound advice and a wakeup call. Thank you.

That is just basic relationship advice modified for the situation. In any case, I would still say that the relationship has little to no chance, based on what the other GMs say. Those are only practical steps to take if you can stomach everything else.