Sin™ Posted December 17, 2005 Share Posted December 17, 2005 ..I'll chain myself to a boulder and ask the girl I love topush us over (me and the boulder) over a bridge, if she can't do it I'll say "Unchain your daddy-man girl and let me give you that lovin!".. ..so basically, what I'm saying is I might not stay away. But toanswer the question, change phone numbers and fly off to a far away place. -Sin™ Quote Link to comment
veco Posted December 17, 2005 Share Posted December 17, 2005 matinding disiplina ang kailangan dyan hehe Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 tsaka lakas ng loob...tibay ng dibdib... Quote Link to comment
Guest Camerie Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 Love can never be wrong... Sometimes we blame the situation or even the person but no matter who or what you blame, if it really wasn't meant for you ... It just wouldn't be no matter what you do... The best way to forget a person you love so much is diversion, keep yourself preoccupied... If you don't want to return or throw away things he gave then just keep it somewhere that you won't see it... But there is really a person that no matter what you do, no matter how busy you make yourself, you can't seem to remove him out of your system. That even how many years have passed or how many relationships you've entered after him, he still remains in your mind and in your heart as if he is a part of you... Quote Link to comment
aletha Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 agree to that... no matter what you do, you will always be part of that person...specialy when that person is the first one you loved sao much and gave so many things for just to make the relatonship last.. Quote Link to comment
Guest simply_miss Posted December 31, 2005 Share Posted December 31, 2005 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED It will take a lot of discipline for you not to go near the woman or man of your affection. We can say go out with your friends .. blah....blah... but it will start from deep within...discipline, mind conditioning and being able to see things beyond what is present. . The married person should understand that he/she can't be selfish. If he/she can't get out of marriage then he/she should give way and be considerate... no matter how hard you work it out... it will still go to waste..... ... YOU HAVE KIDS I don't think this could be a problem.... on the ground that he/she is a single parent and never married or divorced. That will be an unfair judgement if you stay away from someone you love because he/she has kids..... Not unless you can't accept the kids... then maybe the person in question about loving someone is the one who wants to stay away because of this reason ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER That's a given fact... love is a risk...therefore, it is painful...eventually you'll hurt the other partner... but depends on the extent and intensity or the reason why would she be hurt.... like.... you got dreadful disease and you don't want to cause her affliction or hurt her both physically and emotionally? or physical abuse.... you can't never love without getting hurt .. so for me...that's a lame excuse ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF Well.... just believe in karma.. computerized na ngyon... mabilis bumalik sa iyo... so delicadeza na lang ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH I used to have that arguement, when i met this guy who loves me so much, feeling possesive na siya..but i got to break the news.... we made some compromise. talk things out if you love that person too... or maybe better to made him/her feel that she is important to you and that he/she is the object of your affection. But, if you don't love that person...it can be annoying... so get rid of that person as soon as you can before he/she becomes your stalker Quote Link to comment
heavygatin_but_cutie Posted December 31, 2005 Share Posted December 31, 2005 hmmm.... 1. weigh your reasons and intentions...2. cut all communications...no ifs, no buts.. i guess when you know what you really value in life...your priorities..it will be easy to cut all connections and communications.... Quote Link to comment
torix Posted December 31, 2005 Share Posted December 31, 2005 yes first and foremost cut communications slowly - padalang ng padalang - alam mo masasaktan siya pero you have to do it - wag kang magpapadala sa pagsusumamo - tiisin mo - if you cannot do this - STICK Quote Link to comment
checkline_princess Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 UHMMM... PARANG ANG HIRAP NUN AH... MDALI LMG SHA SBHN PERO NKAKALOKA GAWIN... BSTA, SUPER HARD OR IMPOSSIBLE... PARANG GANUN... PRO DBA NGA, TIME HEALS... CGURO...EWAN BSTA...!!! MHIRAP KC LUMAYO ESP TO THE PERSON U LOVE SO MUCH, ALTHOUGH BOTH CHOICES MHRAP PA RIN BDW, SHARE KO LNG TO... CHEK IT OUT ANG CUTE!!! www.love2loop.com Quote Link to comment
Alexa® Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 dont communicate with him/her.. so simple.. that is kung kaya mo.. :boo: Quote Link to comment
david dickham Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow I was in the same boat just recenty.But come to think of it, we are both married and it can't be undone.ANd I know, sholud we continue on, that sooner or later, lives will be ruined and it is highly possible that we may start hating each other.Thus we both decided to end it while we still love each other.Now I still love her, but I love her from a distance. And so does she.Difficult? very...But I guess, we have to make a choice between what is right and what is easy.But at least, I have good memories to cherish and at times these memories keep me sane....I still have something to hold on to. This keeps me away from her... :hypocritesmiley: ...otherwise I will lose everything. :heart: Quote Link to comment
astig_supah_ganda Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 tlgang mahirap.. pero kung may pangarap ka.. at.. alam mo ung tama... magagawa mo ng maayos ang pag iwas... like me... hahahahaha... wer still frens... db??? Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Well if you love someone so much and society will look down upon you having a relationship with him/her for whatever reason, you stay away because you love him/her and you don't want him/her being ostracized by society, unless you are both willing to live with the consequences of your actions, in which case ... Quote Link to comment
tequila Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 mahirap pero dapat kayanin i tend to not go to the places we used to go and not to think of her na though i really do mis her pero para mas mabilis nag hanap na lang uli ako ng new girlfriend kahit medyo pangit ang dating parang fall back pero syempre d ko naman sinabi na fall back sya :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
averno Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 its hard...... when youre already accustomed to living your life with that special someone you swore to the heavens that you'd always take care and love..... you try to forget slowly, one agonizing day at a time..... thats basically all you can do. Quote Link to comment
Laclie Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 bad may it seems but "anger" helped me in forgeting "running away" from my past love its not easy to let go and to "stay away" from som1 u truly and deeply loved and cared foresp if that som1 told you that he found someone new..and no longer wanted you i accepted that painful reality.. i cried a river..its not only my heart that was woundedbut also my soul.. but as i try to keep myself sane and intactsomething happened.. he did something "awful".. that not only hurt my heart but moreso my pride..then i was provoked.. at first i maintained my distance and peacebut i had enough and the devil in me fight back.. aside from i deleted/ cut all communication/ means that i had with him..i deleted his mobile num ..changed my sim.. ym id and put him in my ignored list ..block his email address....i even changed my home address (transfered to a new plc) and my career (work) i wrote him a "hate" letter... things that he did in the back of his current gfand i gave his gf a copy of it.. and also to some of our common friends :evil: from then on... he realized that i have no intention of doing any monkey business with him im no martyr..nor a fooli have my limits.. evendo i still love him that time..i also love myselfi know when to fight and when to let go.. and my pride helped me to move on..my anger serves as my fuel to ignore the good and happy memries that we hadand lastly time healed my wounds now l..its been years.. 2+ years to be exactand weird it may seems but we are friends nowand his getting married by this year to his current bf ( not the girl that replaced me hehehehe ) unfortunately or furtunately for meuntil now i haven't found the one that i can love againbut i trust my fate.. i know.. somewhere.. somehow.. in someway i will find someone that is truly meant for me Quote Link to comment
bluegreen717 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I pick a fight...as in a really major fight. As many as it takes. Brutal? Yes. But my intentions are good. Quote Link to comment
dark-knight Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 ang hirap yata nito... Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 Stay with someone* you love moreIf you dont have one* get one*. * Anything - need not to be similar to the one you orginally love Pet, toy, partner, friend, relative etcetera Quote Link to comment
averno Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 one agonizing day at a time my friends, one agonizing day at a time Quote Link to comment
Wyld Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 Sometimes its possible. It just takes sheer effort and firm resolve. But there are just times when you love so much staying away is not an option. And you stay. And love. Its not easy but you still do. Quote Link to comment
sardines_date Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 It really hurts to do that. I think I may not be able to do that. It may give a karma someday. Quote Link to comment
chill Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Hanap ka na lang iba then kailangan umiwas ka na lang,dami naman iba dyan nag-aabang lang......... Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 i just had a very painful break up. sobrang sakit. mahal ko kasi. too painful that i couldnt contain the feelinginside me...i had to talk to someone about it. I ended up crying on a shoulder of a girl friend. napaka pathetic ko...hmmm. Point of the story...get someone to help you if you think you cannot do it alone. Quote Link to comment
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