mona^kiki Posted July 23, 2006 Share Posted July 23, 2006 nakakarelate me dyan, honestly npagdaanan ko n yan. what can i say?as simple as this time will come,come what may,panahon nlng po mkkpagsabi what will happen nxt, if u were meant 4 each other the better if not its ok p dn but you know what be sensitive nman, just put yourself in his/her place and i-feel mu kya pra mlaman mo ano pkramdam.and the final answer just be honest to them and to yourself.ikaw ang hari ng iyong kalooban kya dpat n ikaw lng ang mkapagppasya.ok? ibigay mu nlng toh :flowers: :flowers: nyahhaha.. Quote Link to comment
happyfreefall19 Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 "how do you stay away from someone you love soo much?" i'm experiencing this scenario at this moment of my life... i'm not an expert on this but for me, best thing to do is to get rid of all the things that would remind you of him or her.. all the trinkets, the love letters the what-nots! if you have him or her at your friendster, myspace, ym or email, delete them.. change contact details (as per advise by BRIGITTE above). i'm not saying that you could do this overnight as i have been doing (and is still doing) this for the past 8 months... i still love her but the intensity has somewhat subsided... one more thing.. try to be happy Quote Link to comment
mz_kath Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 i just can't...i tried but i can't (macy gary on the background) :cry: i tried to say goodbye but i choke tried to walk away but i stumbled.... :cry: Quote Link to comment
_eRon_ Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 if only these things were so simple..timing is really everything... Quote Link to comment
silkmain21 Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 I have recently experience this kind of thing. It's really hard for me to stop cumunicating with her I just kept in mind that we are really ment for each other our paths will cross and by then we will now that what we have is the real deal and that when i know i have to take the jump for her...... Quote Link to comment
badongice Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 you don,t have to say goodbye.... just get on with your life Quote Link to comment
LickMeDownThere Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 try to think about specialywhen there are some important things to consider. Quote Link to comment
Sandy_B Posted September 18, 2006 Share Posted September 18, 2006 how i wish my bf will have the guts to tell me what he really feels instead of making a fool out of me... if anyone has any suggestion or idea on how you could stay away from the person you love so much, pls let me know Quote Link to comment
mistaj Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 how i wish my bf will have the guts to tell me what he really feels instead of making a fool out of me... if anyone has any suggestion or idea on how you could stay away from the person you love so much, pls let me know this one's quite hard but doable. the trick is diversion. maybe there's something you love doing before you met him. focus on it. if you keep yourself busy with things you like, there'll be little or no time for you to be with him. the saying that "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is NOT TRUE! give yourself a week or two without him and you'll realize that, there's more to world than just him and that you can still be a happy person without him. hope this helps. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 tinatadyakan ko yung phone ( syempre malalaglag yung receiver sa cradle! ...at the same time nakakabawas ng stress! :boo: ) bago matulog...para makatulog na ko at di na mapuyat kaka antay ng tawag... :upside: Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Right you are ..... Staying away .... ATTEND MTC EB's dont stay away , because you really cant. TIME management lang yan....... if she love you so much, she will understand ! and to add ...... WAG KA LANG PAPAHULI !!! ....hehehehehehe Quote Link to comment
agamulach_experience2000 Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 (edited) If you want to stay away, you have to love yourself more.... We love others so much that we tend to forget who we are, and that we will do anything to please the person we love, but in the process, we are losing our identity, and the next thing we know is that we already became different person that is a product of the person whom we thought we love..... If this is the case it is not love anymore, because one person is doing the tango. And this kind of relationship will never last long. My advice is love yourself more, do the things that would make you happy, do what is good, let go of the all your negative emotions, anger, pain and suffering, because in the end there will always be limited persons who will stick out with you till the end, its called your family. Edited September 19, 2006 by agamulach_experience2000 Quote Link to comment
Little Johnny Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Why stay away? You don't have to stay away while having a good time.. it's always time management.. there should time for you and your love one. Quote Link to comment
jedimaster Posted October 5, 2006 Share Posted October 5, 2006 hehehehehe,,,, 3 years na itong thread hah... ano ba ang nangyari??? nakayanan ba?,,,exactly. kumusta na kaya yung ex, natuluyan na kaya? yung wifey, sila pa ba? baka naman nag menage a trois? just kidding po. in any case, in response to your posted question, the answer is already in the question. you stay away from someone you love so much by staying away, physically. get yourself or your family away from her as far as possible para mawala yung physical contact. she will know that with you away, wala sya magagawa. di mo rin masisisi sarili mo kasi ikaw rin wala na magagawa. maski araw arawin nyo pa pageemail at pag chachat at pagtetext, walang pwede mangyari. kahit biglang mag-init pa katawan mo at balakin mo sariwain ang inyong nakaraan ni ex, e wala kang magagawa. napakalayo e. Quote Link to comment
badgurl06 Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 If you want to stay away, you have to love yourself more.... We love others so much that we tend to forget who we are, and that we will do anything to please the person we love, but in the process, we are losing our identity, and the next thing we know is that we already became different person that is a product of the person whom we thought we love..... If this is the case it is not love anymore, because one person is doing the tango. And this kind of relationship will never last long. My advice is love yourself more, do the things that would make you happy, do what is good, let go of the all your negative emotions, anger, pain and suffering, because in the end there will always be limited persons who will stick out with you till the end, its called your family. agree...love is not selfish.. Quote Link to comment
maldita_overload Posted November 7, 2006 Share Posted November 7, 2006 you hurl and lock yourself to the farthest corners of your mind and pray to God that nobody lets you out. in other words.... paka baliw ka hahahahaha! sorry bitter lang ako Quote Link to comment
Joie Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 Personally, I cant. I certainly wish I could but loving just means being there for the other person, Regardless. Quote Link to comment
sweetmind14 Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 it is easy to say but it's definitely hard to do... believe me... i've been there... :cry: Quote Link to comment
ms_makuleet Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 pucha kung alam ko lang kung pano e di sana nde na nasisira ulo ko ngaun...i've been trying, for the life of me, to stay away from him...from the one i've loved and still love for almost half of my life..pero wala..eto pa din ako. cguro mamundok na lang ako! Quote Link to comment
Leira Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 i dunno...... i definitely dunno.... for if i d i wuldn't be here right now Quote Link to comment
brownboy Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 (edited) just walk away and don't look back :sleepysmiley03: Edited May 9, 2007 by brownboy Quote Link to comment
hydro_chloride Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Mahirap gawin ito. May paraan siguro pero mahirap talagang gawin Quote Link to comment
mwah Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 just walk away and don't look back :sleepysmiley03: what if he/she follows you? just keep on walking, i guess... oh well. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 what if he/she follows you? just keep on walking, i guess... oh well. and walk fast?..... joke Quote Link to comment
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