SensualSamantha Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 (edited) First, try to accept that some things are not really meant to be. You may still continue to love her though and just cherish the wonderful moments you had with her. She will still be that special person for you. Second, detach- delete her from your phone book, Ym etc, etc in that way you will not have a way of getting in touch. It's really hard but eventually both parties involve will benefit. and last, do your best to focus to that "somebody" you have right now. Give her flowers and take her out to dinner or something. Keep that fire burning. Do something special for her. Edited December 30, 2007 by SensualSamantha Quote Link to comment
foxy17 Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH Quote Link to comment
kimB3RLy Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 just go, don't even try to look back nor reminisce all happy moments. Quote Link to comment
charming princess Posted December 31, 2007 Share Posted December 31, 2007 its very hard but its effective, stop all kinds of communication and if u have to be a bitch to the person den so be it, mhrap sa umpisa but ul get used to it Quote Link to comment
Tiara Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 go, just go. no matter how hard it's gonna be, forget that he exists. suppress yourself from making your presence felt. Quote Link to comment
dixiechiq Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 cut all ties. not even if he's at his lowest... you shouldn't be bothered with HIS problems anymore.. just think of how hard it is to stay. it's not so bad to learn to love yourself sometimes... Quote Link to comment
typeone Posted February 27, 2008 Share Posted February 27, 2008 find a better outlet, or channel you're attention and energy to somethin more important or necessary Quote Link to comment
BSmithREINVENTED Posted February 27, 2008 Share Posted February 27, 2008 seek to start a life in another country. alone.that's what i was blessed to have done. when the reality of your situation demands that you stay away from each other at this point in time,accept that fact and try to do your best to let your partner deal with his realities, and you yours.if your love is true, life will find a way for the both of you to be together at the proper time and place surely, there will be pain and unspeakable sadness.but realize that everything passes and what will be will be. if you have a dream to live a life together, don't stop dreaming. hold on to it. let it be your anchor as you live your life a day at a time.what's important is that love is keeping you hopeful.pray for it, keep the dream close to your heart.after all, there's not a night so long that it cannot find the day. Quote Link to comment
bher2 Posted February 29, 2008 Share Posted February 29, 2008 Never use cellphone again... Quote Link to comment
guyontheprowl Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 Though you love the person dearly, keeping her will have major consequences not only for you but for your family as well. Count your blessings, show your family how much you care for them and focus on your career and find a hobby para malilibang ka. Quote Link to comment
HotSHot8259 Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Acceptance ng fact na "it was never meant to be" and Learn to let go and think of what is more important. Your family or your fling? Quote Link to comment
preacher Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 No deffinite solution for this one. Based on what happened to me, hat to cut ties not just with her but with her entire clan as well. It was kinda hard to do since our families have known each other ever since I could remember. But the prospect of being dumped before proposing was a bitter pill I had to take. I had to wake myself up that it's not the life I'm supposed to lead, not with her anyway. Take a lot of time off, re-learn how to live without that person. It will trake a while but you'll come out a better person from this experience. Quote Link to comment
bababoom Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 set your mind...its hard in the beginning but eventually you will wake up one day that you are ready to move on. while on the process try to avoid things,places,songs that will remind him of you....go out and meet new friends...know other people and get connected... Quote Link to comment
ashendarei Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 the first thing i do when im in this situation is to remove the person's number from my phone. this helps me to resist the temptation of making a call or sending an sms message. Quote Link to comment
cadbury007 Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Yes. even thou it hurts ... I wont make any effort to communicate... i did it before to my ex just to greet for old times sake ...nasaktan lang ako..so its a lesson... Quote Link to comment
jojosmojo Posted March 15, 2008 Share Posted March 15, 2008 you just stay away...avoid places you used to go to etc etc... Quote Link to comment
dudulover Posted March 15, 2008 Share Posted March 15, 2008 change your phone number, keep a low profile...keep away from your regular places...or just stay home, or home with your friends who are not also their friends... Quote Link to comment
dixiechiq Posted March 16, 2008 Share Posted March 16, 2008 just stay away. its not so hard. do not stalk the demon. Quote Link to comment
slipknot Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 cut all ties, change everything, if i dont succeed. aawayin ko na lang sya para ako nalang ung layuan. Quote Link to comment
jojosmojo Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 cut all ties, change everything, if i dont succeed. aawayin ko na lang sya para ako nalang ung layuan.LOL! tama ka!!! bakit nga ako o tayo maghihirap no? sila na lang!!! Quote Link to comment
jlx Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 just stay away. don't text or call. avoid the person even if he/she is your friend. if u do always put a limit to your friendship. draw the line somewhere Quote Link to comment
tigerintherain Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Remember that your love is selfless and letting her go would be better in the long run for both of you. Quote Link to comment
Perry Ellis® Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Go to Jail - extreme but effective right? Quote Link to comment
jlx Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 unfortunately staying away is easier said than done. even years of trying to stay away of no communication or not seeing each other but all that goes down the drain at one hello or a few seconds of seeing the person. Quote Link to comment
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