gehboy Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 for me.. stay away from the person, as in no contact what so ever find new people you can have fun with .. find an outlet Quote Link to comment
WayneTruce Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 It's may sound so easy, but the first stage that needs to be accomplished is Acceptance.. Quote Link to comment
jamesn88 Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 try to be indifferent. Quote Link to comment
boy uhog Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 accept the truth & move on... Quote Link to comment
jlx Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 (edited) yea u stay away with conviction. you just cut off all communications. however this does not really get rid of your feelings. i will admit i was attracted to someone before until i found out he was married. stayed away and so did he. the best part was that we dont have common friends. however sometimes its not as easy as that. got another friend stayed away and no communication for upto almost 2 yrs each time for a few times now. but the moment i see him all the emotions keep coming back. its not as easy to stay away when u're sort of really good friends and hes special to u and when u have common friends because hes bound to know everytime ure visiting town. and all the more difficult to stay away when u're back to communicating and whe makes u feel special to a certain degree. the only consolation is that none of us is committed to anyone now so that makes it okay. Edited March 20, 2008 by jlx Quote Link to comment
ButtChicKick Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 It's may sound so easy, but the first stage that needs to be accomplished is Acceptance.. I agree a 100%. Just accept the fact that it won't work with him/her, without a sense of bitterness or hope (that you still have a chance). Once you accepted it, you don't need to go to farflung places to hide and console yourself or change number to avoid dialing/contacting the other person. Don't let your heart ruin the rest of your body parts. You still have your mind, let it do the thinking. Just keep on thinking that someone better will come along, someone more deserving. Quote Link to comment
amazingman Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 its tough to stay away... Quote Link to comment
epfidemic Posted March 30, 2008 Share Posted March 30, 2008 i just cant ... lalo na kung mahal ko yung tao pero .. the best thing is hate yourself and start hating the other person ... mahirap lumayo pag mahal mo pa Quote Link to comment
zorneehk Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Difficult. Difficult. I'll definitely find another, someone better. Quote Link to comment
Pantasya Posted April 26, 2008 Share Posted April 26, 2008 it is hard to do that. For me, I just keep myself busy and consume my self myself of all the bad and hurtful things that happened between us so I won't make a move to talk to him or make an excuse to see him. Quote Link to comment
HotSHot8259 Posted April 26, 2008 Share Posted April 26, 2008 two words dude!.. Self Control Quote Link to comment
wOwShakes Posted April 26, 2008 Share Posted April 26, 2008 ignore everything about her/him.. its depend on how you treat each other as a friend or whatever. Quote Link to comment
wastedsunshine Posted April 29, 2008 Share Posted April 29, 2008 Stop the communication.. as in STOP it right away. Meet new people. Go on dates. ^that's what Im gonna do starting now. Quote Link to comment
yhance Posted April 29, 2008 Share Posted April 29, 2008 though its not easy to do but acceptance takes time try to focus on doing things that would enrich you as an individual Quote Link to comment
Saeki® Posted April 30, 2008 Share Posted April 30, 2008 convince myself that the other party is happy nowthat i need to ley them be Quote Link to comment
wOwShakes Posted April 30, 2008 Share Posted April 30, 2008 look for a new one.. :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
lonelychick Posted April 30, 2008 Share Posted April 30, 2008 :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: gosh... nakakaiyak yung question kasi i faced that desicion before kaya nagkasirasira ang life ko.... i dont know kung panu lumayo sa pinaka mamahal k... HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND FOR GODS SAKE huhuhhuhuhu.... i dont want our friendship to be ruined kaya lumayo ako.... super ang hirap... even i erase his no. on my phonebook natetemp parin ako itxt sya kasi kabisado ko no. nya.... pnipigilan ko lapitan sya kahit gustong gusto ko.... super hirap.... as in... and i regret it.... nawala na sya ngayon.... hayz....... :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: Quote Link to comment
cadbury007 Posted May 14, 2008 Share Posted May 14, 2008 its hard..but all you have to do is turn your back to her and step on the other side of the road..its a matter of bringing up your dignity. Quote Link to comment
an2rny Posted May 14, 2008 Share Posted May 14, 2008 mahirap 4 me kc kasama ko s trabaho... ala nga nman n mgreresign ako pra d ko sya mkita.... ang hirap kya mghanap ng trabaho... :cry: Quote Link to comment
WowPhil Posted May 19, 2008 Share Posted May 19, 2008 mahirap talaga umiwas sa taong mahal mo lalo na kung mdyo matagal na kayo Quote Link to comment
lonelychick Posted May 19, 2008 Share Posted May 19, 2008 hmmmn.... mahirap ata un di ko kaya... peo i learned from my ex.... ganito kasi gnawa nya skin.... bec. i love him so much and maybe tlagang wala.... iniwasan nya ko... 1. he didnt txt me, answer my emails or PM sito sa mtc 2. i think he pretend not to know me... ako naman.... pag may kailangan me kalimutan... 1.lahat ng pictures nya burado sa fs ko at lahat tinatapon ko sa trash can... o kaya burado sa cp ko...2.binubura ko sya sa fs ko3.pag di sya nag txt after 1 week, nbinubura ko na yung no.4.hahahaha.... tapoz lahat ng bagay na nagpapaalala sakin sa kanya tinatapon ko...5.iniiyakan ko sya... para mawala na laht.... at makamoveon na ko.... Quote Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.