mohao Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 (edited) pwede ba iadd "how do you stay away from someone you love so much if... -you know for a fact you guys can't really have a commitment because he/she loves someone else? -the love you have for this person isn't reciprocated at all?" :cry: Edited March 5, 2006 by wetkiss Quote Link to comment
Ruey Roi Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 get out of love.. and tell her why Quote Link to comment
hottlipss Posted March 11, 2006 Share Posted March 11, 2006 move to another state...get a new life, make new friends that are not connected with him I actually did a stupid thing to forget someone my first love (my ex-fiancee) and nurse a heartache.. I got married just out of the blue...no thoughts about it...just woke up one day and said I'm marrying whoever can show me they love me the most, regardless of how I feel for them. I didn't sleep with him...basta sabi ko whoever would love me enough to marry me without sleeping with me first then siya na yun....ngeee big mistake! Talk about taking rebound relationship to a different level.. I thought I would learn to love him but after 5 years of tumultuous marriage, we finally got a divorce. Quote Link to comment
hoowat Posted March 11, 2006 Share Posted March 11, 2006 hmmm.... 1. weigh your reasons and intentions...2. cut all communications...no ifs, no buts.. i guess when you know what you really value in life...your priorities..it will be easy to cut all connections and communications....<{POST_SNAPBACK}> e2 lang din masasabi ko..uuu Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted March 11, 2006 Share Posted March 11, 2006 Nice one .... key word VALUES and PRIORITIERS hmmm.... 1. weigh your reasons and intentions...2. cut all communications...no ifs, no buts.. i guess when you know what you really value in life...your priorities..it will be easy to cut all connections and communications....<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
rattbukippu Posted March 12, 2006 Share Posted March 12, 2006 ..................pakamatay nalang ako..................talon sa balong malalim..................pabanga sa bus..................pakain sa buwaya..................basta makalayo lang sa kanya at kahit masakit sa akin kakayanin ko mahal ko eh! Quote Link to comment
kayesantos Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 just be yourself before you met him.masasanay ka naman eventually. Quote Link to comment
perriwinkle Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 so difficult to make decisions abruply...its easier to said than done...but maybe the first thing i wud do is to cut our communications...change my sim :cry: Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 ....it's toooooooo hard. i already started talking to her over the phone more than a week after the break up. but then i decided to stick to my original decision....to forget. Quote Link to comment
jumborat Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 it's hard to stay away if the love is there to stay... Quote Link to comment
Hottie_Babe Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 delete the number, even if you know it by heart. stop all forms and excuses for communications. get busy with work, cleaning the closet, taking up a new hobby. Quote Link to comment
filboy69 Posted March 15, 2006 Share Posted March 15, 2006 it is indeed hard.. it is indeed painful.. i currently have one in the office, we use to call eachother as "soulmates". yung nga lang i am married and she's not when i met her. confusing kase she likes me and i like her kaso di pde.. now, we're good friends na lang pero deep inside i still love her and i know she feels the same too by the look of her eyes... Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted March 15, 2006 Share Posted March 15, 2006 goodluck filboy...being in love with another girl doesnt stop after marriage. Quote Link to comment
mustang_ride Posted March 15, 2006 Share Posted March 15, 2006 it is a long process of learning the art of letting go and having to go through that ordeal is the shittiest pain you'll ever have. one thing is certain though, the feeling of numbness will arrive once you hurt yourself 'til the pain hurts no more. Quote Link to comment
jumborat Posted March 15, 2006 Share Posted March 15, 2006 as long as it still beats, it will still hurt. it's just a matter of ignoring the pain and continue doing what you think is best... Quote Link to comment
hotchic_primrose Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 why would you stay away from your love one? labo... but if for some reason kelangan tlga... pakamatay ka... hehei mean... for me ha... i know mababaw na idea butit is better to die than stay away from the one you love :boo: :evil: Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 give yourself a reason to hate her big time... Quote Link to comment
malisyosa_ako Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 ituon mo nlng sarili mo sa pamilya.. kawawa nmn mga bata.. un ang isipin mo.. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 k*ll her or yourself...! Quote Link to comment
cyner Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 why would you stay away from your love one? labo... but if for some reason kelangan tlga... pakamatay ka... hehei mean... for me ha... i know mababaw na idea butit is better to die than stay away from the one you love :boo: :evil: <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Pakamatay? That's creative. remember the saying girl "Death might be peaceful, but dying is sure a bitch." We'll if you really love somebody but have to stay away for a reason, then I'm sure whatever the reason is it has to be a damn good one. That's why when I do fall in love I don't give 100% of my heart. I always leave a couple of % for myself. Imagine my case, I see her and talk to her 5 days a week. She know my interest in her and she doesn't stop me. Problem is she's getting married n. After a couple of months I realized that its not that I have to stay away from her, rather be with her for the remaining time b4 getting married and try to give her the best time of her life. Now that's true love. Unconditional. ciao Quote Link to comment
Jazzy Jeff Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 Same case with Lian. It is very difficult to leave someone who turns to be more valuable than the one you currently have. And the hardest part is choosing what’s best for her even if it means causing your own sorrow. I love her so much that even if haven’t seen her for a long time, I still think of her and wishing that I could bring back the time where I should have stayed with her. I missed her so much. Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 you can't...the feeling won't change.you should look for somebody that you'll love more than that person Quote Link to comment
gr82d8 Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 Lie to yourself, tell yourself that it's his/her loss kahit na ikaw yung lugi. Yun na lang ginagawa ko ngayon, I tell myself I'll eventually find someone better or better suited for me. Problema lang the grass is always greener on the other side, kahit sino makasama mo meron things na maaalala mo na mas gusto mong ginagawa nung isa. Just my 2 cents. Quote Link to comment
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