LB Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 just stay away... cut off all communication lines... Quote Link to comment
dondell1 Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 hi! everyone this is the first time i did something like this and i hope the last time too. I love reading the replies here in the love thread, but never did i imagine myself askin about my own predicament with it i guess it really happensometimes. Let me share my own story hope you’ll take time for it. I’m 25 and currently working I met this guy he’s been my client and I was victorious closing a deal with him, but it doesn’t stop there he ask me if we could be friends so I said yes why not? so we are now I call him everydayat his office and he calls me if he have spare time(most of the time) we even talk at night just sharing stories he even told me about his girlfriend for 4yrs now and I would tell him about my ex we’ve been friends now for a year, but I feel that it’smuch longer than that. One day he told me something that any girl wouldn’tbelieve he confessed that he’s a battered boyfriend not just physically, but mostemotionally at first I don’t know if I should believe him till he told me someinstances about it and I was shock I never knew that there would be a womencapable of doing those things and saying words that a boyfriend couldn’t accept. I ask him why are you still in the relationship? I got one answer from himhe just simply told me that “I Love her” that’s it how sweet it is right?. DAMN!!! girl I guess you don’t deserve this guy I told myself. That’s when Istarted paying more attention to him he’s a good guy he thanks me for everything he even told me that I make him happy that im one of those person who makes him smile. He’s a fine guy and I guess every woman would wantto have someone like him except that he’s a little flirty , he’s caring and sweet ,he even reminds me to bring an umbrella if ill be going out hahahaha….it’s true (kakatuwa cya noh!) and I do the same too telling him to take care always and thank him for making me happy too. Then one day I cross that line a very thin line between friendship and love. Not like before if he tells me about his girl I would just listen, but now everytime he tells me about his girl I can feel the pain like you wish it was you. I don’t know how it happened I’ve just come to apoint where I no longer just want to be his friend. Im really happy when he calls if not I miss him and feel bad. Now I have so many questions to ask and I hope you could share a little of your time to answer I would really appreciate all your replies. Note: I never meet him personally we just talk over the phone , but we already trade pics. What’s next should I tell him how I feel?Can I ask him not to call me anymore?If I tell him how I feel and he tells me that the feeling is mutual? (assuming! hehehe .…)Or should I leave him and her girlfriend?Could I tell him how I feel before I leave the friendship? I just don’t want to leave having questions in mind of what if’s *this was suppose to be a new topic,but i didn't have the permission to do so and i cant wait to read your replies so i have to post it here i guess it fits here too.thanks<{POST_SNAPBACK}> First, be sure of what you are feeling..Second, tell him <point blank> whatever it is your feeling...That's one way to get the what if's out of your mind... Goodluck... Quote Link to comment
mary_antoinette Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 how to stay away? Just do it. It should be as simple as that. You can only make it difficult when you go melodramatic over the whole thing. If you want to stay away, you'd do EVERYTHING to stay away. There's no special or secret formula or method to it. JUST. DO. IT. Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 Just be discreet. You don't have to stay away from the one you really love even if your already married and have kids. Just be discreet, man! Many have done that before, so can you. Good luck!!!!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> How can you say you really love someone if you're only thinking about yourself? Many have done that before? Hindi yun love, libog lang yun. :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
not your ordinary girl09 Posted February 11, 2005 Share Posted February 11, 2005 thanks for the reply.to lovelybabe actually it's been a week now since we last talk and i hope i really can do it like what mary antoinette says just do it no formula needed i wish to i could really get over it.to dondell1 thanks ill just think about it anyways.happy valentine's to you all. Quote Link to comment
slipstream Posted February 12, 2005 Share Posted February 12, 2005 Get a one-way ticket to Nauru. Otherwise, you really just have to be real to yourself or get a brick and smash it on your head. Quote Link to comment
chelly Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 heto lang masasabi ko dyan... if you know you have done everything and given it your all pero ayaw pa rin niyang iaccept...then have some self respect....love yourself more...there's more dignity in that than stay in a situation where your love is just being thrown away. letting go makes you a better person. Quote Link to comment
cutebear Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 change focus..its hard but you have to do it or better take the risk of hanging urself..friends will be a better help. try to open up with someone u can trust and then start to analyze. replect and pray tht he will guide u to come up with a good decision... marami pa dyan kaya wag ka matakot... think this way it happened bcoz god prepare someone better for u.. Quote Link to comment
sun_dancer Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 listen tovery very loud music!!!!!! Quote Link to comment
emmrie Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 hmm... eat lots of chocolates!!!! dont listen to romantic songs!!!! dont ever think that your alone... smile though your heart is aching!!!!!!! have fun and have a beer in your stomach... hehehehe Quote Link to comment
Guest Insomnia Girl Posted August 5, 2005 Share Posted August 5, 2005 It's pretty easy to stay away from someone you love so much when he or she makes it clear that he or she doesn't give a damn about you. Quote Link to comment
fashionmannequin Posted August 5, 2005 Share Posted August 5, 2005 To begin with, that is a very hard situation to deal with. There are things that you have to do no matter how painful. If I were in that situation. I will choose to talk to the guy and say my last goodbye. After that, I might just opt to live in another country or in a place far enough I know the chance for our paths to cross again is already very slim. :heart: Quote Link to comment
bill lomita Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 Sa totoo lang tsong, hayaan mo lang siyang mag-suicide, di naman nya sigurado gagawin yun. . . huwag mong hayaan masira ang buhay pamilya mo lalu na ang buhay ng mga anak mo. . . kung masaya ka na sa asawa mo huwag ka ng maghanap pa ng iba. . . kung sa isang asawa nga aburido na, e di lalu sa dalawa. . . parang kumuha ka ng isang pang batong ipupuk-puk sa ulo mo, tama ang isa. . . Quote Link to comment
bakedzitiguy Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 by sheer willpower. masochistic attitude regarding the pain you feel, and a hopeful belief that tomorrow you'll be numb Quote Link to comment
styxx018 Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 cut all communications and all possibilities of engagement.. its hard to stay away from the one u loved so much.. if she/he did wrong to you, think bout it and let it be ur basis why you wanted to stay away from that person.. its true, you still have the love if the pain won't go and you can't forgive.. find other things that would divert your attention, keep yourself busy and do/learn new things that will help you improve as a person.. in due time you'll never notice that you did it and that person is no longer in your system and you're ok with the things that happen around you.. be numb and be strong.. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
riyex6667 Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 migrate to another country. Quote Link to comment
al_simmons Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 how do you stay away from someone you love so much....you just do...we all have lives to live so live it... Quote Link to comment
exman Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 LOVE IS LIKE A QUICKSAND....THE DEEPER YOU FALL...THE HARDER IT IS TO GET OUT.... JUST STAY AWAY!!! Quote Link to comment
mongoloid Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 love somebody else Quote Link to comment
nadare Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 love somebody else<{POST_SNAPBACK}> meet ur friends then have some fun. enjoy the world! in this way you will stay away from someone you love very much Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 try go out of town and enjoy mother nature Quote Link to comment
batitsman Posted August 25, 2005 Share Posted August 25, 2005 1. Cut all forms of communication (change your cell and landline nos., erase her phone number from your SIM, etc.) 2. Stay away from common friends and common/favorite places. 3. Change your place of residence (move to an apartment or a relative, go out of town or out of the country) 4. Keep yourself busy (engage in new sports/hobbies, get a second job, work overtime all the time, join an NGO, etc.) 5. Meet new people (register at MTC!, join EBs! set-up your YMs and Friendster accounts) Quote Link to comment
Lingerie_girL Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 uuhhhmmnnnn...it's really hard to forget someone very special to you....it is easy to think how would you forget or stay away.....but,in reality we can't think of any reason to stay away from him/her...because no matter what,it is your heart that dictates what you should do...sometimes it rules over our mind...it depends on how deep we love the person,....there are people also who can easily forget, but there are also those which takes several years to move on.....:mtc: Quote Link to comment
Diego_Malupit Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 mag - senti.... until ma-bore k n for the day...then one day ma-realize mo na get over kn lng... Quote Link to comment
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