nataraki Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 can it be the other way around? how do you stay away from someone who loves you so much but you dont love? when that someone is your officemate and have been your close friend for more than a year already? what if that closeness has traces of intimacy? Quote Link to comment
not your ordinary girl09 Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 First, be true to yourself...do you just pity him or theres something that stirs up inside you about him.Next, if you feel that you just feel sorry for him, time to distance yourself.Otherwise, tell him that you really like him and he should set it straight first with his girlfriend before you two start knowing each other more...Good luck, and i hope you'll know what you truly feel...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> thanks.ill think about it.hope others would find time to read my prob. Quote Link to comment
private5star Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 Just be discreet. You don't have to stay away from the one you really love even if your already married and have kids. Just be discreet, man! Many have done that before, so can you. Good luck!!!! Quote Link to comment
devil_lance Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 can it be the other way around? how do you stay away from someone who loves you so much but you dont love? when that someone is your officemate and have been your close friend for more than a year already? what if that closeness has traces of intimacy?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> nice question nataraki, but I think its out of topic, pwede cguro sa ibang thread natin ilagay to Quote Link to comment
private5star Posted February 8, 2005 Share Posted February 8, 2005 Gamitin mo na lang ang abilidad, tsong ingat ka nga lang sa mga plano para walang sabit. marami ng katulad, di na bago yan! Quote Link to comment
LB Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 just stay away... cut off all communication lines... Quote Link to comment
dondell1 Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 hi! everyone this is the first time i did something like this and i hope the last time too. I love reading the replies here in the love thread, but never did i imagine myself askin about my own predicament with it i guess it really happensometimes. Let me share my own story hope you’ll take time for it. I’m 25 and currently working I met this guy he’s been my client and I was victorious closing a deal with him, but it doesn’t stop there he ask me if we could be friends so I said yes why not? so we are now I call him everydayat his office and he calls me if he have spare time(most of the time) we even talk at night just sharing stories he even told me about his girlfriend for 4yrs now and I would tell him about my ex we’ve been friends now for a year, but I feel that it’smuch longer than that. One day he told me something that any girl wouldn’tbelieve he confessed that he’s a battered boyfriend not just physically, but mostemotionally at first I don’t know if I should believe him till he told me someinstances about it and I was shock I never knew that there would be a womencapable of doing those things and saying words that a boyfriend couldn’t accept. I ask him why are you still in the relationship? I got one answer from himhe just simply told me that “I Love her” that’s it how sweet it is right?. DAMN!!! girl I guess you don’t deserve this guy I told myself. That’s when Istarted paying more attention to him he’s a good guy he thanks me for everything he even told me that I make him happy that im one of those person who makes him smile. He’s a fine guy and I guess every woman would wantto have someone like him except that he’s a little flirty , he’s caring and sweet ,he even reminds me to bring an umbrella if ill be going out hahahaha….it’s true (kakatuwa cya noh!) and I do the same too telling him to take care always and thank him for making me happy too. Then one day I cross that line a very thin line between friendship and love. Not like before if he tells me about his girl I would just listen, but now everytime he tells me about his girl I can feel the pain like you wish it was you. I don’t know how it happened I’ve just come to apoint where I no longer just want to be his friend. Im really happy when he calls if not I miss him and feel bad. Now I have so many questions to ask and I hope you could share a little of your time to answer I would really appreciate all your replies. Note: I never meet him personally we just talk over the phone , but we already trade pics. What’s next should I tell him how I feel?Can I ask him not to call me anymore?If I tell him how I feel and he tells me that the feeling is mutual? (assuming! hehehe .…)Or should I leave him and her girlfriend?Could I tell him how I feel before I leave the friendship? I just don’t want to leave having questions in mind of what if’s *this was suppose to be a new topic,but i didn't have the permission to do so and i cant wait to read your replies so i have to post it here i guess it fits here too.thanks<{POST_SNAPBACK}> First, be sure of what you are feeling..Second, tell him <point blank> whatever it is your feeling...That's one way to get the what if's out of your mind... Goodluck... Quote Link to comment
mary_antoinette Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 how to stay away? Just do it. It should be as simple as that. You can only make it difficult when you go melodramatic over the whole thing. If you want to stay away, you'd do EVERYTHING to stay away. There's no special or secret formula or method to it. JUST. DO. IT. Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted February 9, 2005 Share Posted February 9, 2005 Just be discreet. You don't have to stay away from the one you really love even if your already married and have kids. Just be discreet, man! Many have done that before, so can you. Good luck!!!!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> How can you say you really love someone if you're only thinking about yourself? Many have done that before? Hindi yun love, libog lang yun. :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
not your ordinary girl09 Posted February 11, 2005 Share Posted February 11, 2005 thanks for the reply.to lovelybabe actually it's been a week now since we last talk and i hope i really can do it like what mary antoinette says just do it no formula needed i wish to i could really get over it.to dondell1 thanks ill just think about it anyways.happy valentine's to you all. Quote Link to comment
slipstream Posted February 12, 2005 Share Posted February 12, 2005 Get a one-way ticket to Nauru. Otherwise, you really just have to be real to yourself or get a brick and smash it on your head. Quote Link to comment
chelly Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 heto lang masasabi ko dyan... if you know you have done everything and given it your all pero ayaw pa rin niyang iaccept...then have some self respect....love yourself more...there's more dignity in that than stay in a situation where your love is just being thrown away. letting go makes you a better person. Quote Link to comment
cutebear Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 change focus..its hard but you have to do it or better take the risk of hanging urself..friends will be a better help. try to open up with someone u can trust and then start to analyze. replect and pray tht he will guide u to come up with a good decision... marami pa dyan kaya wag ka matakot... think this way it happened bcoz god prepare someone better for u.. Quote Link to comment
sun_dancer Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 listen tovery very loud music!!!!!! Quote Link to comment
emmrie Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 hmm... eat lots of chocolates!!!! dont listen to romantic songs!!!! dont ever think that your alone... smile though your heart is aching!!!!!!! have fun and have a beer in your stomach... hehehehe Quote Link to comment
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