Manticore Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 I had a girlfriend of four years; of which, only one year was spent together. On her first year after leaving for the States to practice nursing, she mentioned a colleague who was being nice to her. They have already become friends, by virtue of the barkada of Filipinos at the nursing home where they worked. I can completely understand her need to form new friendships, especially because she had no friends or family to turn to in the States at the time. I explained that it's natural for guys over there to try their luck in courting her, knowing that I, the boyfriend, didn't have the power to prevent it. This was kind of an acid test for our relationship, because I had no means of visiting her yet. I told her that if the loneliness was too great for her to bear, that she should at least end our relationship before entertaining another guy. The result? She chose to discourage him, though it was difficult because of the peer pressure and incessant teasing she had to deal with. Give your girl the chance to earn your trust. If she fails, then at least it didn't happen when you're already married to her.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Looking back at this post reminds me that things happen because they had to, for some reason or another. Insisting on what I wanted (which was to keep her) may have been detrimental to both our lives in the end, and I find comfort in the fact that she is better off with the other guy. Had she been worse off, however, that would be an entirely different story. Quote Link to comment
batang skyline Posted December 31, 2005 Share Posted December 31, 2005 Hirap yan. dun sa last post mo naman pag sayo ginawa manunutok ka ng baril. Dahil lang sa babae na taken na, yung life mo gagawin mo adventure? Eh pano kung sa sunod ikaw na yung matumba? Single na lang hanapin wla pang barilan.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> .... my right hand dude hold all the aces the left hand naman is the trojan joker it means im always in control period. .... :evil: Quote Link to comment
ayatolah Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 as a believer of the so called diplomacy, i allowed my ex gf to have her own descision about it,later on found out that she's already cheating.our cirlce of trust has been damege to the extent that i even tried to fix it but later on realize that i need t set her free. feeling of regret about my stand?naaah! if my ex gf truly loves me,she will trust every descision i make and help me if something wrong. now wit my new gf...i still taking the risk of letting her decide about that,because i love her i trust her,do i feel jealous?yup but thats how it goes... Quote Link to comment
silentkilla Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Well it's up to the girl to decide. Pero siyempre gawa tayo ng way na di offensive o nakakabastos sa gril para mawalan na siya ng gana mag-entertain ng manliligaw. Be extra sweet or the like... Do something that will make her feel that you're the only man for her... Quote Link to comment
silentkilla Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Additional note, mas malaki population ng mga babae ngayon... Quote Link to comment
edc Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 .... my right hand dude hold all the aces the left hand naman is the trojan joker it means im always in control period. .... :evil:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Lahat tayo human. minsan sa taas minsan sa baba. parang titi yan, bumabagsak din hindi pde lagi nakatayo. kahit ano pa viagra inumin or pampatigas babagsak din. Quote Link to comment
addila Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 hay naku.... simple lang yan... kung ung GF mo ay satisfied na sayo.. hinde na lilingon sa iba pa yan pero tao lang naman tayo.. kaya may chance pa din na lumiko sa kaliwa o sa kanan ang isang nilalang :goatee: magandang test un para sa mga gurlula... malaman mo pare kung gaano ka ka importante, ka mahal ng yung gf :heart: para sa mag menyaks naman :boo: .. may mga mapupusok :grr: ... babanatan agad ung dumidiskarte sa GF nila...ung iba walang paki-elam, ung iba kakausapin ng maayos ung dumidiskarte.. pero konsensya ng dumidiskarte sa GF mo un... alam ng nkabakod na gusto pang bakuran ng mas mataas! :thumbsdownsmiley: kausapin mo GF mo at ung dumidiskarte.. sabihin mo na ikaw ang ka relasyon... pero sa mundo ngaun...asawa nga inaagaw...GF pa! Quote Link to comment
TheGeneral Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 TRUST & COMMITMENT - that spells every relationship. Quote Link to comment
B@D3T Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 mmm magandang thread to ah... kakaiba sa ibang thread, puro kayo lalaki dito pero you talk of love and relationship...w/c seldom happen to a group of guys...katuwa! :thumbsupsmiley: if the love fits wear it, if it feels good put it on...and if its not yours then just maybe we'll have to leave it along...(wala lang gusto ko lang kanta! pero mali ata lyrics mwehehehe) good luck guys! :* Quote Link to comment
B@D3T Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 Additional note, mas malaki population ng mga babae ngayon...<{POST_SNAPBACK}>kuya, mas madami kayo sa amin by half a million...baka kaya mo nasabing mas madaming babae ngayon kasi madami na rin ang vading! :boo: kaya lumalabas na mas madami ang girlzzz! :boo: :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
ADAM Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 anong gagawin..? i normally just let it. if it happens that the other guy went home with the girl: well, she's not the girl for me. oh, yeah, she shitted on me, i can let it go the gentleman's way. i give my girl the freedom she must have. and the trust that she knows what to do with insects flying around. if she falls for another guy, poor me. no fights, no grudges. it happens. s**t happens. to the other guy: man, chances of the s**t happening again, this time to you, is higher than you can gauge. watch out. and, pare, i really love your sister's screaming aloud like a whore unf**ked for a thousand years. Quote Link to comment
torix Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 at a loss ka kung malayo ka - dehado ang labanan kasi di mo namamalayan Quote Link to comment
Rovy_R Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 Dapat di siya magpaligaw.... No excuse if magpaligaw siya.... hiwalayan sigurado... it's the same thing pag nanligaw tayong guys... now pag binasted na niya that's where I come in... kick his ass man!!! Quote Link to comment
ayatolah Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 at a loss ka kung malayo ka - dehado ang labanan kasi di mo namamalayan<{POST_SNAPBACK}> actually ganyan nag nangyari samin ng ex ko...nung 3 months ako dito sa hongkong nagbabakasyon ayun na me nakasalise...thenkabooommm... anyway...im looking forward to my new gf na...sana ok.....another risk may come up with another pain or happiness... but i know its worth Quote Link to comment
BaBy.KeTcHuP Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 Go get a gun and shoot yourself in the noggin Women will never entertain suitors if you dont give us a reason to begin with :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
KCboy Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 ill just let it be.....if pinatulan ng gf ko yung guy, she's not worth it to be my gf. how mo magiging gf if u can't trust her. Quote Link to comment
the_Player Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 nasa reaction na yun nung girl towards the suitor... i let her be...pag nararamdaman ko na may iba na...ill ask then it was not my loss...lalo na kung mahal mo yun girl at ganun lang ang igaganti sayo you may be better of with some one else... but before when i was abit younger... "potah! pare samahan mo ko may aabangan tayo!!"..hehe Quote Link to comment
Rigon Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 ipapabasted ko .. ASAP! Quote Link to comment
bosorero Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Kung ako nasa ganyang kalagayan, magkakalat ako ng tsismis tungkol sa GF ko para ma-turn off sila like BO bad breath, tulo laway. hehehe. Or sasabihan ko sya na wag maligo at mag-toothbrush para wala na lumapit sa kanya. Quote Link to comment
j0hn23 Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 sakin, depende.. depende sa gf ko if entertain nya ung guy, lagot sya sakin. for me its unacceptable. not sure yet what i might do. (no killing naman or physical violence towards my gf). sa nanliligaw naman, if alam na nya na my bf ung girl pero nangungulit parin.. di naman sa nagmamayabang, sakitan na talaga to. kahit ako pa ung magulpi basta sisiguraduhin kong basag muka nung guy o may gripo un. di ako nanunulot pag alam ko na may bf na. kaya i cant accept it pag sakin ginawa un. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 nangyari sakin to before. I confronted the guy and asked him straight kung ano ba talaga gusto niya? Di nakaimik. Quote Link to comment
mosy_24 Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Dti ngpgusapan nmin ng gf ko ang 2ngkol dyn kc she ask me wat if kung my manligaw sa knya??? Ang sbi ko ok lang nasa iyo nman un kung eentertainin mo o ndi e!!! Kumbaga sa knya ko na lang pnaubaya ang sitwasyon if ever my gnun nga kc malaki TIWALA ko sa knya e!!! Saka ayoko rn ng gulo e hanggat kya pa sa mgandang paraan gnagwa ko!!! Papasok na lang ako sa eksena kpag nireject na sya ng gf ko pero patuloy pa rin sya sa pangungulit sa gf ko!!! And i don't know what happens next after i confront him!!!!! :grr: Quote Link to comment
kuliti Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 confront him and say.. "kung gusto mo pang tumagal d2 sa mundo.. umayos ka ha!!" :evil: Quote Link to comment
paul (",0) Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 ako ahm... dipende talaga yan sa babae eh kung eenternain nya pa..pero kung matino naman ang girl at nagmamahalan kayo ng tunaysigurado naman na babaliwalain na nya yun at ibabasted na agad. ngayon kung makulit pa din yung guy ibang usapan na yun..siguro gagawin ko papaluin ko ng dos por dos sa ulo tapos sisirain ko ang mukha lalagyan ko ng maraming tanza sa noo sabaypapatakan ko ng kalamansing, lalagyan ko din ng dinikdik nasili at bubudburan ko ng asin... :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: Quote Link to comment
mosy_24 Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 ako ahm... dipende talaga yan sa babae eh kung eenternain nya pa..pero kung matino naman ang girl at nagmamahalan kayo ng tunaysigurado naman na babaliwalain na nya yun at ibabasted na agad. ngayon kung makulit pa din yung guy ibang usapan na yun..siguro gagawin ko papaluin ko ng dos por dos sa ulo tapos sisirain ko ang mukha lalagyan ko ng maraming tanza sa noo sabaypapatakan ko ng kalamansing, lalagyan ko din ng dinikdik nasili at bubudburan ko ng asin... :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Pre mukhang ok yang paraan mo ha!!! D gaano BRUTAL!!!! Ahihihihihih!!! Masubukan nga rin yang pareng paul!!! :thumbsupsmiley: :cool: Quote Link to comment
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