magnus Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 yeah, in other words there are also a whole large grey area here. of course pag simplistic lang pag-iisip mo, you are just limited "damn that person inagaw ng syota". black and white lang nakikita mo (most probably ikaw nasulutan and denial ka sa pagkukulang mo - hehehe peace). but then life, especially love is not that simple... there are a whole lot of conditions existing... what if battered/abused gf ang girl, and somehow di nya maiwan ang guy? just like in the movie/novel "The Rainmaker" (starring Matt Damon). What if long distance relationship sila? (alam nyo naman siguro gaano kahirap yun - well you won't really know till you experienced it) I do believe that if your relationship is healthy and happy, you have nothing to worry about. Of course you could object to my opinion... but ikaw lang nakaka alam... deep down wala ka ba talang pagkukulang or in denial ka lang kaya iniwan ka ng partner mo? at naghahanap kalang ng masisisi hope this is taken in a constructive way. let us think about our current relationship and see if there might be something wrong and fix it before its too late. btw, i'm been at both ends of the spectrum. a gf cheated...pero long distance relationship kami. dumped her expeditiously. minsan kasi love can overwhelm us na yung ethics natin na cocompromise na....di natin masabi kung kasalanan talagang manulot ng girlfriend ng iba......maybe depende sa reasons mo.....if pure talaga ang intentions mo at mahal na mahal mo talaga ang babae and the girl is happier with you siguro hindi na din mali......pero kahit na anong mangyari may masasaktan pa din....ang choice lang naman is ikaw ba o yung BF nya....... <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
bossing^vic Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 DI LANG SYOTA PATI ASAWAEXCITEMENT AT ADVENTURE ANG LABANAN DYAN Quote Link to comment
mhengh Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 nagagawa ko to inadvertently...dati turing sakin kabit lang pero nakipag-split sya para sakin...then bigla akong nawala... ngayon, im contemplating kung gagawin ko uli...akala ko wla lang yung una naming pagkikita pero sabi sakin ng friend nya na puro ako daw ang bukambibig...and yet hindi ko naramdaman na ng-reciprocate sya nung nakakapag-usap pa kami...found out that she has a boyfriend and yet I've re-established contact with her...hmmm...what to do what to do... Quote Link to comment
magnus Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 be a "friend" to her nagagawa ko to inadvertently...dati turing sakin kabit lang pero nakipag-split sya para sakin...then bigla akong nawala... ngayon, im contemplating kung gagawin ko uli...akala ko wla lang yung una naming pagkikita pero sabi sakin ng friend nya na puro ako daw ang bukambibig...and yet hindi ko naramdaman na ng-reciprocate sya nung nakakapag-usap pa kami...found out that she has a boyfriend and yet I've re-established contact with her...hmmm...what to do what to do...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
Sin™ Posted February 11, 2006 Share Posted February 11, 2006 ang mga maling akala sa pagiging tunay na lalaki:1. magaling manulot2. maraming GF3. may kabit <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ...akala ko basta nakakaihi ako ng patayo tunay na lalaki na ako. I've seen the light! Thanks to you man! hehe.. peace!.. ..there was this one time, and it's not actually nanulot but nagpasulot. Told her makipag break na s'ya sa boyfriend n'ya para walang hassle (i was joking), tinotoo. -Sin™ Quote Link to comment
magnus Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 looks like you played her real well.... ...akala ko basta nakakaihi ako ng patayo tunay na lalaki na ako. I've seen the light! Thanks to you man! hehe.. peace!.. ..there was this one time, and it's not actually nanulot but nagpasulot. Told her makipag break na s'ya sa boyfriend n'ya para walang hassle (i was joking), tinotoo. -Sin™<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
LostCommand Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 guys, it takes two to tango. don't be so arrogant to think that a break-up is all your doing. despite common belief, women usually know exactly what they want -- and what they don't want.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> "usually" - and when not, that's when we score. Feels good too. On to topic: Oh yes, attached gals are fair game. And I am what a good buy buddy once said is an "equal opportunity player". Hey she is over 18. "All is fair in love and war" LC Quote Link to comment
Batabatuta™ Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Hey she is over 18. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>This made my morning :cool: Quote Link to comment
magnus Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 Equal oppurtunity? Kahit attached na sila me oppurtunity parin sila? On to topic: Oh yes, attached gals are fair game. And I am what a good buy buddy once said is an "equal opportunity player". Hey she is over 18. "All is fair in love and war" LC<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
ouI7vHLvw Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 daaaaaammmnn.... nanunulot... kabaklaan amfootaahh!never manulot... i have respect with their man... especially their relationship!!! that way i can gain their trust! peace y'all!!! :mtc: Quote Link to comment
magnus Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Could you guys also share the times when ikaw naman na-agawan? Here is mine: She is my gf when we were working abroad. I now remember that there was this guy who was nice to her kahit andoon pa ako. When I went home, we continued a long distance relationship. After some time she was telling me this guy is buying her lunch, accompanying her and her friend to their lakad, etc. I ended the relationship pero somehow we never let go yet. Then she went home (so did the guy). She was staying in my house (I rent) and I caught her being called by the guy. She tried to hide it (the fact that the guy is still calling her) but failed. Eventually I ended the relationship. Last I heard, the guy borrowed money from her and never paid her. Tsk tsk tsk Quote Link to comment
mohao Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 i don't think so.. thinking what if something like this would happen to me... i'm scared of karmas.. Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 I tried it once, karma came back to haunt me. Payback is such a b*tch. Quote Link to comment
echo2knight Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 Its a no-no! You should learn to respect the other party. Otherwise, it can happen to you, and in the end.... IKAW RIN ANG MASASAKTAN! Ika nga.... wag mong gawin sa iba ang ayaw mong gawin ng iba sa iyo!!!! Quote Link to comment
squall22 Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 Its a no-no! You should learn to respect the other party. Otherwise, it can happen to you, and in the end.... IKAW RIN ANG MASASAKTAN! Ika nga.... wag mong gawin sa iba ang ayaw mong gawin ng iba sa iyo!!!!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> yah respect lng sa partner nung tao and merong ksbihan wag mo gwen sa iba ang ayaw mo gwen sau Quote Link to comment
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