Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

Ms may i did that already but i resulted with heartache. Till now im still devastated. I thought i would be happy, but it made me miserable, having to share her with other men and worse having to share her love with her bf, i gave her everything, supported her when i was still in the phils but. Evrytime i see her fb. Nakikita ko pa din na mahal na mahal nya ung bf nya na tat artist and jejemon and sinasaktan pa sya, d nmn sa pagyayabang, im a licensed architect which was beaten by a jejemon tat artist, Even before i left the country gave her 70k to fund her business, before i left she told me aantayin nya ko and GOD knows bka pagbalik ko wala na dw sila, pero when i check her fb she is still so in love with that jejemon tat artist

Life is so unfait

Sad story bro. Baka lagi mo binibigyan ng pera. Ginamit ka lang nya

[Sir Galahad®]

Pwedeng pwede mo kasi kami kausapin dito sa MTC. This is a forum after all

 

Tuloy mo lang yung pag move on na yan... one day magigising ka na lang na nawala everything you feel about her, even the pain.

 

Member ba siya dito? Nababasa naman niya yung mga posts dito di ba?

[Tepz 3.0]

kaya mo yan bro jayze...malay mo makita mo sa Dubai ang girl para sayo, or pag uwi mo may makasabay ka sa plane, etc...

i know you will find your true love...but definitely mahirap na balikan mo yung thera gf mo coz i think she is madly inlove with her tat jejemon bf.

[callofduty003]

Madaming girl dyan sa dubai bro jayze mga dalaga pa at magaganda, yun nga lang mahirap lang talaga manligaw gagastos ka talaga maidate mo lang sila tapos di ka pa sagutin, papahirapan ka pa maikama lang haha...di katulad sa spakol kahit matanda, may asawa, di kgwapuhan basta may pambayad maikukuwarto (cubicle) mo agad ang thera ymmv nga lang pwede mo pa magalaw.

 

Ako nakamove on na sa gf thera ko before, nung nasa abroad ako aba nakakilala ako ng girl pinay nurse hanggang nagkamabutihan kami nawala yung pagkamiss ko sa gf thera ko. Pero until now di pa rin maiiwasan mag spa eh, for enjoyment at excitement na lang for me. Aba kahit twice a month may magandang thera mag hj sa twit twit ko hehe...free hug, kiss touch, massage san ka pa :-)

[soundwave07]

 

You have to understand we are human too...we possess the same hormones that all women have. Thus, if we get a client who is good looking, well groomed, smells nice, gentlemanly and an expert in physical intimacy and able to push the right buttons, are we supposed to pretend we do not enjoy the moment? Of course we would savor the session too, we are only human after all. On the contrary, if the client is rude, unhygienic and an eyesore, we would still try to conclude the session in a professional manner because it is the demand of our job but deep inside we are counting the seconds until the session is finally done.

 

All these are part of the ESPA world and should not have an impact on the boyfriend. It's just the same in the GMs case at work. Appreciating a pretty officemate doesn't mean you are already cheating on your GF. It's human nature to appreciate beauty and at times, follow the call of our hormones as long as you do not step on your commitment vows.

 

Guy #1 in my story (The IT Director) said it best, he told me, "I don't care if other men can have your body, all I care about is I have your heart."

I have to disagree, the extent of us appreciating a pretty officemate just goes as far as possibly having a conversation with the person, on your end, its physical. its the thought of our loved one possibly having more pleasure from another guy that really hurts, call it male ego or whatever but we're just physical beings by nature, and im not arrogant enough to think that im the best lover she's ever had,

 

But, i share your idealistic views on love and your last line above made me realize that the physical aspect shouldnt matter as much, as long as i know that at the end of the day, im the man in her thoughts and in her heart.

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

Just this morning.

My girl starts to surrrender the relationship we have now.

Issue: (Gro pero hangang table lang. No show sa bar nya. Kubo kubo lang)

💔Hindi ko raw sya mapakilala sa magulang ko.

💔Hindi ko daw sya deserve. Maghanap nalang daw ako iba.

💔breadwinner sya. Pagod na pagod na daw at gusto pa magpamatay.

 

Ang sabi ko kung hindi man kita mapakilala ngayon. Darating din tayo dun. Mahal kita at ayaw ko pang bumitaw sayo.

Nag iloveyou ako. At nagiloveyou din naman sya. Bahala daw ako. Kapakanan ko lang daw iniisip nya.

 

❤I wont stop loving you by. Wag ka din sana bumitaw.❤ shes 19 and 28 ❤

Edited May 24, 2017 by 🌟HUDAS🌟

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

Shes 19 and im 28.*

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

Her work complicates our relationship. gusto nya din umalis dun kung may magandang trabaho lang. Im not that rich to get her out

[callofduty003]

Her work complicates our relationship. gusto nya din umalis dun kung may magandang trabaho lang. Im not that rich to get her out

Madami naman trabaho sa mall, sa factory, sa office pilitin mo makaalis siya sa ganyang work or else if ayaw niya wala ka magagawa, kung mahal mo tanggapin mo na lang, maybe isang araw aalis din siya sa ganyang trabaho.

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

Madami naman trabaho sa mall, sa factory, sa office pilitin mo makaalis siya sa ganyang work or else if ayaw niya wala ka magagawa, kung mahal mo tanggapin mo na lang, maybe isang araw aalis din siya sa ganyang trabaho.

Di pa sya tapos highschool. Mag 4thyr pa lang. Baka hindi pa nga sya makapasok ngayong school year. Unahin daw muna nya dalawa nyang kapatid.

[paulwalking]

Di ka mayaman, tapos madami siyang kargo...Good luck bro..

[callofduty003]

Di pa sya tapos highschool. Mag 4thyr pa lang. Baka hindi pa nga sya makapasok ngayong school year. Unahin daw muna nya dalawa nyang kapatid.

Ganun High School pa lang pla, pagod na pala siya sa buhay, wag mo na lang ipressure na umalis siya sa work hayaan mo na lang muna, mahalin mo na lang muna at encourage her na may magandang bukas pa.

 

By the way san ba yung work ng gf mo para mkapunta kaming mga GM malay mo makatulong kami hehe... jowk

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

@jayze Oo hindi talaga ako mag giveup sa kanya.

 

@paulwalking Hindi ako mayaman. May kaya lang.

 

@callofduty Oo mag 4thyr highschool pa lang. nag stop sya e.

Nagkausap na kami. Okay na. Nagkaintidihan na. ❤❤❤

[baron30]

Goodluck to all GM's falling for a thera.

 

I experienced that feeling also, i never knew if she loved me also the way i love her, coz we dated outside spa, watching movies together, going out of towns for almost a year. After 1 week departure in abroad for a work, she texted me "ayoko na tama na tigilan na natin ito, naaawa ako sayo di ako karapat dapat maging gf mo maraming mas deserving diyan na wala sa ganitong kalakaran". Tinanggap ko ng maluwag kahit masakit wala akong magawa. But until now i miss her a lot, maybe she's out in the industry and have her own family life.

 

Miss You "BR" you are still in my heart 4ever.

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

My girl wants to go back to school. She has 1 week to decide. Hirap magdesisyon kasi kung magaaral sya wala pagkukunan ng pera para kapatid nya at gastusin sa bahay.

I offer ako ng bahala sa baon. Pero ayaw nya ng ganun. I know na hindi pera habol sakin. Hindi nya alam gagawin nya

[giancarlo123abc]

Labo naman ng sitwasyon na mainlove sa thera. Pero minsan may isolated case baka nga mag workout di natin alam.

[walldave]

Sa tingin ko malaki ang sa pinansyal, pero hinde naman sya lahat lahat, kasi pag naalis mo na sa MP or sa Spa, at totoo na kayo na nagsasama, ang tanong talaga ba kayong bagay sa isa't isa- yan ang pangmatagalan na tanong, magkasundo ba talaga kayo sa pananaw at paraan sa buhay?

[callofduty003]

Labo naman ng sitwasyon na mainlove sa thera. Pero minsan may isolated case baka nga mag workout di natin alam.

Sobrang hirap talaga sabi nga nung isa dito para kang pumapasok sa butas ng karayom, kahit gusto ko ipakilala gf thera ko dati sa pamilya ko hindi ko magawa, andun yung takot para sa gf ko, iniisip ko kailangan ba magsinungaling para pagtakpan yung work ng gf ko para lang maipakilala ko siya. Vice versa ganun din siya kailangan magsinungaling para lang sa ikabubuhay ng pamilya niya, hindi alam na ganun ang work niya. Pinakilala naman niya ako as bf sa pamilya niya bungad nga sa akin ng mama niya "anak bago na naman kakabreak mo lang may bago agad" nagbiro pa "papakasal na kami ma" "yung past ko kasi hindi ko alam na may asawa pala sagot niya". Minahal ko talaga sobra gf thera ko at inalagaan ko ng husto, nirespeto ko kahit na maraming lalaki siyang nakakasama every day/night, wala siyang nadinig na nagselos ako di ko pinaramdam, pero deep inside naiinis ako at nagseselos lalo na dun sa mga kinukuwento niyang gm na mababait/malambing.

 

Sadly siya na lang nakipagkalas nung time na nasa abroad ako dahil malayo daw ako kapag kailangan niya ng tao na masasandalan when she is lonely at may problema. Asan daw ako pag kailangan niya.

 

Ang labo talaga.............

[mrtorpe]

My girl wants to go back to school. She has 1 week to decide. Hirap magdesisyon kasi kung magaaral sya wala pagkukunan ng pera para kapatid nya at gastusin sa bahay.

I offer ako ng bahala sa baon. Pero ayaw nya ng ganun. I know na hindi pera habol sakin. Hindi nya alam gagawin nya

Ganito gawin mo brader dba ayaw tumanggap...maghotel o manood kayo sine then pag nag cr...lagay mo sa bag niya yung pera... then hayaan mo lang...until she noticed some money in her bag hehe. ..sabihin mo naiwan ko, sayo na lang. ..simple things makes her happy. Don't offer her money...instead offer her a better future when she's with you for the rest of her life.

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

Ganito gawin mo brader dba ayaw tumanggap...maghotel o manood kayo sine then pag nag cr...lagay mo sa bag niya yung pera... then hayaan mo lang...until she noticed some money in her bag hehe. ..sabihin mo naiwan ko, sayo na lang. ..simple things makes her happy. Don't offer her money...instead offer her a better future when she's with you for the rest of her life.

Malaan pa kung matuloy sya mag aral ulit. Bahala na daw e. Sobrang stress na baby ko try ko puntahan mayang gabi pag maaga ako nakauwi sa bahay.

 

Pakatatag ka. Wag kang susuko sa buhay. Malalampasan mo din yan. Iloveyou by. 😘😚😘

[boy_sawa]

Note to self: Hindi dapat mainlove, masasaktan ka lang.

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

Note to self: Hindi dapat mainlove, masasaktan ka lang.

I dont care. Basta masaya ako sa kanya.

 

No bf,walang anak at walang asawa naman.

Ung sa trabaho naman. Table lang sya. Umiinom lang. No kiss. No tsuktsak.

[jason hong]

Sobrang hirap talaga sabi nga nung isa dito para kang pumapasok sa butas ng karayom, kahit gusto ko ipakilala gf thera ko dati sa pamilya ko hindi ko magawa, andun yung takot para sa gf ko, iniisip ko kailangan ba magsinungaling para pagtakpan yung work ng gf ko para lang maipakilala ko siya. Vice versa ganun din siya kailangan magsinungaling para lang sa ikabubuhay ng pamilya niya, hindi alam na ganun ang work niya. Pinakilala naman niya ako as bf sa pamilya niya bungad nga sa akin ng mama niya "anak bago na naman kakabreak mo lang may bago agad" nagbiro pa "papakasal na kami ma" "yung past ko kasi hindi ko alam na may asawa pala sagot niya". Minahal ko talaga sobra gf thera ko at inalagaan ko ng husto, nirespeto ko kahit na maraming lalaki siyang nakakasama every day/night, wala siyang nadinig na nagselos ako di ko pinaramdam, pero deep inside naiinis ako at nagseselos lalo na dun sa mga kinukuwento niyang gm na mababait/malambing.

 

Sadly siya na lang nakipagkalas nung time na nasa abroad ako dahil malayo daw ako kapag kailangan niya ng tao na masasandalan when she is lonely at may problema. Asan daw ako pag kailangan niya.

 

Ang labo talaga.............

 

Malabo talaga bro....and base sa story mo parang one sided un love

[soundwave07]

Isnt this the nature of things? You cant have happiness without sadness. Would you trade all the happy moments you've had just because you feel sad now?

 

Some say dont go into these situations because it will just end in heartache, but im sure this also brought you moments of happiness. If you dont pursue it, i agree you'll avoid the pain, but then you also lost the chance of being happy.

 

In any case, all relationships may potentially end in heartache, it just takes more to make it work here. If you ask me, i think its worth it. If you find someone that makes you happy, hold on to her as hard as you can. Sorry call me naive, but thats how ive always viewed love.

[🌟HUDAS🌟]

Isnt this the nature of things? You cant have happiness without sadness. Would you trade all the happy moments you've had just because you feel sad now?

 

Some say dont go into these situations because it will just end in heartache, but im sure this also brought you moments of happiness. If you dont pursue it, i agree you'll avoid the pain, but then you also lost the chance of being happy.

 

In any case, all relationships may potentially end in heartache, it just takes more to make it work here. If you ask me, i think its worth it. If you find someone that makes you happy, hold on to her as hard as you can. Sorry call me naive, but thats how ive always viewed love.

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