Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[private5star]

Di lang kaya infatuation lang yan nararandaman nyo sa thera

 

pero ginatungan nyo ng ginatungan kaya nag-alab ng nag-alab

 

at nang mapukaw na ang apoy dahil nabuhusan ng malamig na katotohanan

 

napagtanto nyo na kai-bangan lang pala lahat.

[squall lionheart]

Masaya sobra pag nainlove ka sa thera, pero malungkot din....

 

Alam naman natin na may hanganan ang lahat pero ang mahalaga nagmahal tayo at naging masaya tayo kahit paano

Enjoy na lang tayo sa biyahe ng buhay

[ghostwriter.senpai]

 

Alam naman natin na may hanganan ang lahat pero ang mahalaga nagmahal tayo at naging masaya tayo kahit paano

Enjoy na lang tayo sa biyahe ng buhay

Pag wala pera na involve, pag di kana nya pinapapunta sa work nya. Tapos ganun pa di sya kalambing sa iyo, pag nagsabi pa din sya na na miss knya. Pga nagsabi sya na love ka pa din nya. Pag ikaw lang sapat na.... Yun na yun love ka talaga nya... Swerte mo

 

Alam naman natin na may hanganan ang lahat pero ang mahalaga nagmahal tayo at naging masaya tayo kahit paano

Enjoy na lang tayo sa biyahe ng buhay

Pag wala pera na involve, pag di kana nya pinapapunta sa work nya. Tapos ganun pa di sya kalambing sa iyo, pag nagsabi pa din sya na na miss knya. Pga nagsabi sya na love ka pa din nya. Pag ikaw lang sapat na.... Yun na yun love ka talaga nya... Swerte mo

 

Pero i assume bihira yan mangyari

[Sir Galahad®]

Kamusta na mga braders eto ako ngyn sobrang depressed and down dhl tinapos ko na nga pero its been a week and a half nabi still feel down. Hirap na hirap ako, sobrang miss ko na sya pero nilalabanan ko na, gabi gabi pa din akong lasing para pag uwi ko tulog nlng, once in a while i lool at her fb just to see her pero when i do it really hurts me a lot. Dko alam pero nag lay low na din sya mag posts dhl sinaktan nya ko sa mga ganun. Hirap na hirap pa din mga braders, ill be leaving na for the mid east this May 18, should i see her 1 last time to say goodbye forever. Or just keep it this way. Iniisip ko kc lalo lang ako mahirapan if i say goodbye to her personally pero ano ba ang tama?

 

Wala na ba kayo communication since we last told you to? Are you still giving her money? Didn't we tell you to just find someone else to forget that one? I suggest you keep that door closed

[CrimsonCycloneDann]

Kamusta na mga braders eto ako ngyn sobrang depressed and down dhl tinapos ko na nga pero its been a week and a half nabi still feel down. Hirap na hirap ako, sobrang miss ko na sya pero nilalabanan ko na, gabi gabi pa din akong lasing para pag uwi ko tulog nlng, once in a while i lool at her fb just to see her pero when i do it really hurts me a lot. Dko alam pero nag lay low na din sya mag posts dhl sinaktan nya ko sa mga ganun. Hirap na hirap pa din mga braders, ill be leaving na for the mid east this May 18, should i see her 1 last time to say goodbye forever. Or just keep it this way. Iniisip ko kc lalo lang ako mahirapan if i say goodbye to her personally pero ano ba ang tama?

 

Bad idea, dude.

Nothing good will come out of it, if you meet her one last time.

You're just hitting your head with a rock.

 

Move on, dude; if it isn't a proper relationship, then there is no reason to agonize yourself.

[Sir Galahad®]

f#&k noh bkt kelangan ma pa experience ung ganito

 

1. Block her facebook.

2. Go to another SPA and pick somebody else you like.

3. Repeat #2 until you go back to the Middle East

[DocAlex]

Be weak if you want to love.......

[JegaJega]

Sa tingin ko.Peperahan lng kyo. Dko nilalahat pero Kwento ng mga lolo at tito ko. D yan sasama sa inyo kasi d nla kailangan ng love may bf at asawa na cla. Kailangan nla ng pera at kumikita cla nun araw araw sa trabho. Kung bibilangin nyo mas malaki pa kinikita nla kaysa sa atin. Pag madmi na clang pera magiging masaya cla at uuwi parin sa bf at asawa nla na pamilya nla. Lalo na pag may anak cla ng bf or asawa nla. D nila iiwan ang bata. D sila magbrobroken family para sa pagmahahal at perang kaya mong ibgay na labis. Mas priority nla pera at family nla. Swerte ung bf or asawa nla na alang trabho lalo na ung lalake mismo alam trabho ni babae gnun na buhay nla lalake bahay babae trabho. mahal na sila ng gf or asawa sa tgal ng pinagsamahan nla ung iba kababata pa nla. madmi pa clang pera. Ggwin ni babae lahat para sa future nila at indi sayo. Wlang ka effort effort ung bf or ung asawa. Ung guest talo.

 

Damulag or Carabao lang yung role ng guest.....ganun ba?

[soundwave07]

Wala na sir galahad i just look at her fb once in a while para makita sya. Na mimiss ko din eh......

 

 

Sana nga sir i have to make peace with myself na

 

 

Ok sir salamat sa advice

Good on you sir! Couldnt have been easy. Keep at it and this too shall pass. Just a little over a week until your trip, konti na lang.

[soundwave07]

Salamat mga braders cguro dadating din ung araw na dko ma titignan fb nya pero right now dko pa kaya i miss her a lot. Tama nga ung sinabi skn nung isang gm na bka kelangan mawala ako for her to realize na kahit papano mahalaga din ako sa kanya, 2 yrs un bgo ako makauwi siguro by that time madami na nangyari. Bka naghiwalay na sila ni tat artist/ nagpakasal/ namatay na ung tat artist thru motorcycle accident i dnt know.

Or you might find even someone new. 2 years is a long time. Ok nga setup mo e, new beginning in a new place, make the best of it sir.

[boy_sawa]

Mahirap ang a fall sa thera kasi di mo alam kung mamahalin ka rin ba talaga ng totoo in return or sasakyan lang ang feelings mo dahil sa may nakukuha silang financial at material support from you.

[ghostwriter.senpai]

Mahirap ang a fall sa thera kasi di mo alam kung mamahalin ka rin ba talaga ng totoo in return or sasakyan lang ang feelings mo dahil sa may nakukuha silang financial at material support from you.

 

Yung thera gf ko ang hirap hulaan, sweet nya sa akin. Lagi kami nagdate and dinner. Nung bago pa nga lang kami nagdate nagcheck in pa kami, alam nyo nangyari, live kami nun since na naging kami, natakot pa nga ako minsan kasi sabi nya delayed sya.. Haaays those were the good days, then nag away kami, pero nagkabati din, but after ng make up sex namin, ayaw nya na magcheck in kami, gusto nya sa work na lang, feel ko gusto nya yun kasi may bayad. Matamlay na din sya sa akin, busy lang daw sya siguro kasi dami nya guest lagi, pero tampo pa din ako? Tama pa ba ituloy namin eto?

[baron30]

Yung thera gf ko ang hirap hulaan, sweet nya sa akin. Lagi kami nagdate and dinner. Nung bago pa nga lang kami nagdate nagcheck in pa kami, alam nyo nangyari, live kami nun since na naging kami, natakot pa nga ako minsan kasi sabi nya delayed sya.. Haaays those were the good days, then nag away kami, pero nagkabati din, but after ng make up sex namin, ayaw nya na magcheck in kami, gusto nya sa work na lang, feel ko gusto nya yun kasi may bayad. Matamlay na din sya sa akin, busy lang daw sya siguro kasi dami nya guest lagi, pero tampo pa din ako? Tama pa ba ituloy namin eto?

Libre ba pag nagcheck in kayo sa hotel? Ako kasi yung ex gf thera ko before binabayaran ko talaga pag nagcheck in kami, may isang beses hindi ko cya binayaran ok lang sa kanya sweet pa din naman tapos kinabukasan kita kami sa labas, binayaran ko siya ayaw pa nga tanggapin pero nilagay ko pa din sa bag niya, simula't simula pa usapan na namin yun. Tingin ko yung gf thera mo nagbago na hindi na siya yung tulad dati. Tuloy mo lang boss mahal mo naman e, kaso nga lang dapat alam mo kahihinatnan sa huli.

[nytcr4wl3r]

Haba ng backread dito. Nice topic.

 

Lots of sad tales, a few happy/optimistic ones, differing opinions.

 

I'll try my best to avoid falling in love with a thera.

[private5star]

Mahirap ang a fall sa thera kasi di mo alam kung mamahalin ka rin ba talaga ng totoo in return or sasakyan lang ang feelings mo dahil sa may nakukuha silang financial at material support from you.

 

Exactly!

 

This the paradox!

[Inkheart]

Love cannot exist here.

 

We only see facets of who they are and not the whole picture. They always have their best foot forward, always smiling, always listening, always making you feel like the most important man in the world. Not saying they're wrong, its just the nature of the job.

 

I guess thats why so many of us keep coming back to these places because we get to experience the best part of any relationship and only the best part exclusively.

 

But this is not love, because by definition, love should be all encompassing. How can you love someone you havent fully met? We dont see them in their low points, we dont see them when they're angry, we dont see them in "real life" situations, we dont see how they act in times of distress; thats where the mettle of love is tested. This is not the place for that, as by design, we will never experience those facets of their personalities.

 

So call it what you like, lust, longing, need for companionship, whatever suits you. But dont call it love, because you dont even know if the person you love is real.

 

So snap out of it, you're only fooling yourself with the illusion of being in love

[bill lomita]

Love cannot exist here.

 

We only see facets of who they are and not the whole picture. They always have their best foot forward, always smiling, always listening, always making you feel like the most important man in the world. Not saying they're wrong, its just the nature of the job.

 

I guess thats why so many of us keep coming back to these places because we get to experience the best part of any relationship and only the best part exclusively.

 

But this is not love, because by definition, love should be all encompassing. How can you love someone you havent fully met? We dont see them in their low points, we dont see them when they're angry, we dont see them in "real life" situations, we dont see how they act in times of distress; thats where the mettle of love is tested. This is not the place for that, as by design, we will never experience those facets of their personalities.

 

So call it what you like, lust, longing, need for companionship, whatever suits you. But dont call it love, because you dont even know if the person you love is real.

 

So snap out of it, you're only fooling yourself with the illusion of being in love

 

WOW!

 

Such a profound words of real wisdom.

 

I got your back brother, please proceed.

[boy_sawa]

Love cannot exist here.

 

We only see facets of who they are and not the whole picture. They always have their best foot forward, always smiling, always listening, always making you feel like the most important man in the world. Not saying they're wrong, its just the nature of the job.

 

I guess thats why so many of us keep coming back to these places because we get to experience the best part of any relationship and only the best part exclusively.

 

But this is not love, because by definition, love should be all encompassing. How can you love someone you havent fully met? We dont see them in their low points, we dont see them when they're angry, we dont see them in "real life" situations, we dont see how they act in times of distress; thats where the mettle of love is tested. This is not the place for that, as by design, we will never experience those facets of their personalities.

 

So call it what you like, lust, longing, need for companionship, whatever suits you. But dont call it love, because you dont even know if the person you love is real.

 

So snap out of it, you're only fooling yourself with the illusion of being in love

Ibig sabihin, genuine, real and true love can't exist between a GM and a thera, sir?

[Inkheart]

Ibig sabihin, genuine, real and true love can't exist between a GM and a thera, sir?

Only you can answer that question, what i wrote is my opinion on the matter. If the level of engagement between GM and thera surpass the confines of the spa then i believe it is possible.

Edited May 10, 2017 by Inkheart

[Inkheart]

 

WOW!

 

Such a profound words of real wisdom.

 

I got your back brother, please proceed.

Thanks, didnt mean to sound profound, just sharing my thoughts on the matter.

[ghostwriter.senpai]

Libre ba pag nagcheck in kayo sa hotel? Ako kasi yung ex gf thera ko before binabayaran ko talaga pag nagcheck in kami, may isang beses hindi ko cya binayaran ok lang sa kanya sweet pa din naman tapos kinabukasan kita kami sa labas, binayaran ko siya ayaw pa nga tanggapin pero nilagay ko pa din sa bag niya, simula't simula pa usapan na namin yun. Tingin ko yung gf thera mo nagbago na hindi na siya yung tulad dati. Tuloy mo lang boss mahal mo naman e, kaso nga lang dapat alam mo kahihinatnan sa huli.

Nung mga dati namin na date libre talaga. Nung 1st date namin wala ako expectation of sex, kasi set talaga ako na friendly date lang kami, kakabreak ko lang sa GF ko(thera din), sya naman may gusto na GM pero nagkakalabuan na daw sila. Kumain kami di ko expect na maging sweet sya. Tapos bumulong sya na gusto nya daw magcheck in, di ko expect pero gusto nya talaga kasi bumili pa nga sya ng snacks namin.. Wow 1st time ko na makasama sya sa labas ng MP, she did not hold back, we did it like GF and BF for the first time. Most memorable night of my life.. Iba pala if you are doing it out of love.. We have dates like that weekly usually before sya umuwi for weekend. Kaso nag away kami, kasi i discovered that she is going out with other guys also, pero nagkabati din kami, i love her so much and she has a valid reason, work pa din pala yun. Pero after nun nagbabayad na ako sa dates namin, kasi i dont want her to feel na free sex habol ko.. But i feel na matabang na sya sa akin.. But i still love her so much..

[Inkheart]

Nung mga dati namin na date libre talaga. Nung 1st date namin wala ako expectation of sex, kasi set talaga ako na friendly date lang kami, kakabreak ko lang sa GF ko(thera din), sya naman may gusto na GM pero nagkakalabuan na daw sila. Kumain kami di ko expect na maging sweet sya. Tapos bumulong sya na gusto nya daw magcheck in, di ko expect pero gusto nya talaga kasi bumili pa nga sya ng snacks namin.. Wow 1st time ko na makasama sya sa labas ng MP, she did not hold back, we did it like GF and BF for the first time. Most memorable night of my life.. Iba pala if you are doing it out of love.. We have dates like that weekly usually before sya umuwi for weekend. Kaso nag away kami, kasi i discovered that she is going out with other guys also, pero nagkabati din kami, i love her so much and she has a valid reason, work pa din pala yun. Pero after nun nagbabayad na ako sa dates namin, kasi i dont want her to feel na free sex habol ko.. But i feel na matabang na sya sa akin.. But i still love her so much..

How do you know that you're also not just work?

 

Dont get me wrong, ive heard of a handful of successful relationships between GM and thera, and i earnestly hope you'll be among them, but none of them were easy and all of them had one thing in common.

 

Sacrifice, from both parties. Based on your story i dont see it.

[edma]

bumalik na siya sa industry.... pero still thinking if dalaw ako sa kanya.... wag na lang siguro.. naka move on na ako eh.. parang...

[milaikimyutru]

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Edited May 11, 2017 by jackdanielsclassic

[ghostwriter.senpai]

How do you know that you're also not just work?

 

Dont get me wrong, ive heard of a handful of successful relationships between GM and thera, and i earnestly hope you'll be among them, but none of them were easy and all of them had one thing in common.

 

Sacrifice, from both parties. Based on your story i dont see it.

Kaya nga bro, di na rin ako sure,baka kasama na ako sa mga GM na binobola nya, yun iba pa naman baliw na baliw sa kanya.. Well she assures me palagi na ako lang.. Tapos pag inaaway ko sya dahil sa selos di nya ako pinapatulan, as if she does not wanna lose me.. Napapakalma nya ako, sa txt nya na "alam mo naman sa iyo lang ako" haaays. Naguilty tuloy ako sa pag away at pagkulit sa kanya.. Iniisip ko palagi pag di sya makontak na busy lang sya o kaya baka tulog na sa pagod sa dami ng guest nya, but it is eating me everyday after work to know kung nasaan sya, naiisip ko may ka date sya, doing things that we are doing while we go out.. Haaays pag ibig nga naman..