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You think pare na gayuma ako.... napa isip tuloy ako kung papano? Bsta bad trip alo dun sa asawa braders ang dungis eh tpos wala pa trabaho..... sobrang nasagasaan siguro ung ego ko..... i make 6 digits a month pero wala pa din talo pa din sa tattoo artist na jejemon at madungis..... d nmn sa pagyayabang mga braders

 

Baka mamaya malalaman mo na lang kahit 6 digits kinikita mo monthly dun sa asawa niya napupunta most of the gastos. Sunod jan baka pati groceries at rent niya ikaw na rin magbayad ha... Hehehe!

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Oo nga pare pero papano baliw na ata ako i need someone to knock me off my spell.....papano gagawin ko bro

 

Know your worth. As someone who experience the same fate. Aaminin ko, sobrang hirap umalis jan. Look for your best friends. Someone na mapagsasabihan mo ng problema mo. I know hindi ka nya hahayaan na ipagpatuloy mo pa yan. Or if wala talaga, you can find someone you can talk to. Actually you can send me PM if you wanted to. Ganun ginawa ko before, meron akong nakaibigan dito sa MTC tas alam nya lahat, nakikinig sya and giving unbiased opinion and advices. Sa ginagawa mo bro. you feel na knight in shining armor ka nya. But in reality, you are breaking yourself trying to fix her. Hindi mo matatakbuhan yan lalo na kung nainlove ka ng tuluyan. Wag mo iwasan, face reality. Face the harsh reality na walang magiging kayo. In the end, babalik sa "know your worth". You are not someone na hanggang jan lang. Na parang alipin ka ng isang babae at magpapakatanga. Hindi love yan, hindi rin sacrifice, katangahan yan. Though karamihan dumadaan sa pagkatanga, pero wag mo gawing habit.

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Ewan ko mga braders magbsuicude nlng kaya ako para matapos na

 

No, that is not an option. It seems that you have a low self-esteem, a low opinion on your self that it takes for someone like her to make you happy or complete. C'mon man, isipin mo naman mga maiiwan mo if you do that. You have a good job that pays well, and it looks like you are well off, don't go this path...

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Gusto ko na nga sabihin na it wont work pero lagi nya sinasabi she/ we will make it work pero pag nakikita ko fb nung tat artist gusto ko sumabog sa galit. Minsan nga nag away kmi, kasalanan ko pa kasi stalker dw ako sa aswa nya. Wag k dw gawin na un para wala kming problema. Pero dko matanggap kasi na ganun lng ako sa knya and still her priority is ung jejemon na tat artist, she even defended him sa away nmn....... nsabi ko nga na bkt ikaw lahat at bkt d tumulong un asawa nya ang sagot nya..... eh ganun talaga ano maasahan ko dun wala nga sya eh...... un ang dko ma explain..... wala pala eh bkt d nya ma end.... dhl ba sa emotional attachment? Or tanga din sya.... its not the sex cguro cause she gets that a lot naman, dko alam anong meron. Minsan sinasaktan pa sya. I saw sugat sa mga braso nya... i really cant understand and comprehend why is she still with that guy? Live in lng pala sila

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Sugar dad land ok un sir ah

f#&k all the jejemons

 

Mahirap nga yan Dude kasi ginagawa ka lang na damulag ng thera-labs mo.

 

Dati sa akin tinustusan ko rin, I started giving a monthly budget na Php10,000 until umabot ng Php28,000 monthly....

 

Binigyan ko pa ng pang-negosyo, na wala naman ding nangyari kasi nalugi lang....

 

Pati yung gastos sa pag-panganak ng wife ng kuya niya nag-ambag din ako, around Php10,000....

 

Pero anung ginawa niya, gumimik until 3am - 4am na may kasama na mga lalake, inoff pa yung cp niya.

 

Grabe......na-ngi-ngi-nig ako sa galit noon....

 

Wala rin ako magagawa kasi I have family......

 

Sobrang hirap noon kasi gusto mo sumigaw or mag-wala or lumabas para sundan siya, pero hindi mo magawa kasi may pa,ilya ka.

 

Pinutul ko na lang yung budget niya.

 

Then ginamit ko yung funds na dapat for her sa MP-Hopping and SPA-Hopping.

 

After a while, na accept ko na rin na Malabo makipag-relasyon sa Thera......

 

So ngayon, just going with the flow na lang ako......

 

Bahala na si Batman........

 

Niloko niya anko...........kaya, niloloko ko na lang din siya.........heheheheheh............ :P :P :P

 

Para maka-ganti ako, kinangkang ko lahat ng tropa niya sa MP kung saan siya nga-work dati.....

 

Ayun....galit na galit si ex-thera-labs ko.........

 

Akala niya kasi siya lang yung marunong mang-ulol....... :ninja: :ninja: :ninja:

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Wag na lng muna sir galahad bka kc malagay nmn sya sa alanganin na situation. D din dw alam ni jejemon ung work nya at nangako ako na what ever happens dko sasabihin ke jejemon. Dba un pa lng alam ko na na lost cause na tlaga ako..... kc ako willing and able pero takot sya mawala ung tat artist/jejemon bf nya. Ano ba meron dun

 

Then I suggest you cut all ties with her... ang kinakatakot ko lang is baka may pinanghahawakan siya sayo. Does she know your facebook? Does she know your real name? family? friends? Do it gradually na lang. Manglamig ka, sabihin mo may iba kang pinagkakagastusan. Or may project ka na need mo tutukan. Stuff like that that would slowly cut your communication with her. It's Toxic from what I'm seeing.

Ginawa ko nga 1 time un sir jega...... galit na galit skn..... kunuha ko ung top 4 sa group nila kc that time umuwi sya ng maaga dhl feeling down ung shota nyang jejemon at pinauwi sya ng maaga

 

E di magalit siya. Idahilan mo na kasama niya naman yung bf niya right? Pero I want you to slowly move away. Sabihin mo busy ka lang parati. Or may pinagkakagastusan ka na important. Magalit ka if she demands money from you. Uto uto ka na nun eh.

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Sinabi ko nga sa kanya un dhl galit na galit sya..... sbi ko wala k nmn eh at wala ako mapuntahan dhl ksma nya bf nya.... cguro ganun slowly and gradual ang pag alis. Less texts..... pero everyday kasi sinusundo ko sya after ng shift nya.... pano un?

 

God Damn! Hatid at Sundo pa? How about saying tired ka or may meeting or may importante kang gagawin....

 

Or maybe you should get a vacation and disappear for a month...

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Jayze, parang sigarilyo yan. Kailangan cold turkey if you really want to call it quits. Wala nang usap usap pa. Makakahanap ka Lang ng excuse to get back. Right? Am I right or am I right? No really, baliktad na yata ang mundo Kung ok ka sa suggestion niya. Ok ba sa iyo kung ikaw ang kabit? Hindi mo siya FUBU, kasi emotionally involved ka. Lalabas niyan talaga na ikaw ang kabit. Mahalin mo rin sarili mo. Sana huwag mo ito masamain. Nagbigay Lang ako ng input sa tanong mo, at baka makatulong.

Remember this? Looks to me like you really don't want to get out of this thing. You keep coming up with excuses. Kung ganun din lang, panindigan mo na lang Tol. Magpauto ka na lang palagi. How does that sound? Ang sama di ba? What will you do about it? Stay a SUCKER or finally get back your senses. Yun Lang yun. It is as black and white as day and night. I don't see any grey area here.

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With all due respect jayze, since you mentioned you earn 6 figures, id like to think that you're a smart person, but what you're tolerating is not just stupid, its insane. She's clearly using you, now your only options are to break it off or continue being used and stop complaining. Why? Because you chose to accept it. We always have a choice in life, but onve you choose man up and accept the consequences.

 

Sorry to be blunt, but i feel you need to hear this.

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God Damn! Hatid at Sundo pa? How about saying tired ka or may meeting or may importante kang gagawin....

 

Or maybe you should get a vacation and disappear for a month...

 

Have a great vacation at Macau and Singapore (Geilang and 4 floors of whores along Orchard Road) and get all the gals, or go to Bangkok and have a great time at Poseidon.... :D

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Oo nga eh..... alam ko nmn na ginagamit nlng ako mga braders pero ang tanong ko sa sarili bkt dko mahiwalayan. Me mga pinangako pko sa knya to start with para mka alis na sy sa biz

 

Mahirap talaga yan gawin at first, na iwanan mo si "thera-labs" mo, kasi feeling mo "Knight-in-Shining Armor" ka ni "thera-labs"mo. Pero once, nakabigay ka na ng hundreds of thousands or even millions, over several years, at walang improvement sa buhay ni "thera-labs" mo, dyan papasok yung "donor fatigue", and you will feel like a true "damulag".........You will feel that, "ikaw yung kumakayud, habang iba naman yung nakikinabang".... :unsure: :angry2: :P :D :lol:

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Tulad ngayon nka abang ako sa posts ng asawa nya cgurado masaya n nmn un.... last time nga nagalit ako eh kc dna nga sya pumasok ng hindi nagsabi skn. Inangkin pa nung gago na sya bumili ng shoes ni thera na ako ang nagbigay ng pambili, tapos mababasa ko oa sa comment nya na ngpasalamat pa sya dun ke jejemon dhl binilhan sya ng shoes..... ma

Ga braders ang sakit nun sobra sakin.kinuha na ung konting oras ko pati ung binili ko para sa kanya inangkin pa, gusto ko na barilin nung araw na un ung lalaki eh

 

Dapat maghanap ka na lang ng "thera-labs" na marunong magpahalaga sa mga sacrifices mo for your "thera-labs".

 

Otherwise, sakit lang ng kalooban yung madadama mo....

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Oo sir jega puro sakit nararamdaman ko twing titignan ko ung facebook nila, para bang sinasaksak ako pag nababasa ko mga conversation nila at posts nila, c thera kaunting posts lng ni jejemon nka comment kagad at may i love u palagi. Kht walang kwenta ung posts ni gago....... feeling ko nga alam ni gago eh kasi minsan nag fb live cla parang niloloko pa nila ako..... nagsasalita sila ng kumpare salamat sa lahat..... tapos para sa mga bigo..... kaya nga pag nakita ko yan sa labas ng hindi sya kasama mababaril ko na yan sa galit ko

 

Not worth it na barilin mo yan dude. Magsasayang ka lang ng bala.

 

Hanap ka na lang ng iba.

 

Maraming isda sa karagatan.

 

Kaya mo yan lampasan yung sakit.

 

Ako nga nalaman ko na gumimik siya na may mga kasamang mga boylets after 3 years from date of gimik.

 

Nalaman ko lang thru fb posts and pics ng mga tropa niya.

 

Kaya ngayon, kahit magalit siya, wala na rin akong paki-alam.

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Jayze, just a piece of advice, nanggaling din ako sa ganyan sitwatsyon, mahirap yan kasi mahal mo at naawa kapa sa kanya kya di mo pwedeng biglain na kalimutan sya. Try mo, mag beerhouse ka gabi-gabi i-table mo lahat ng magaganda, mag bar-hopping ka, sama mo friends mo sabi mo nman may pera ka. unti-unti mababawasan ang sakit lalo na pag may ka-table at kausap kng maganda...heheh...babae problema mo kya babae rin ang mkaka-solve dyan...wag k lng ma-inlove sa ka-table mo, kya dapat paiba-iba kinukuha mo...

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Jayze, no matter what we say it all boils down to what you decide to do. So tonight, drink up to your hearts content, find yourself and decide. By tomorrow, man up to your decision, whichever it may be. But decide now, not tomorrow, not next week, but now. This has gone long enough.

 

Now if you choose to continue this, if you "enjoy" wallowing in self pity (as some people do, beats me why), then by all means, good luck but know that the heartache will never go away. Its clear as day that she doesnt love you. But you need to accept it because thats what you chose.

 

Now if you choose to break it off then fantastic! Block her number, erase your mtc account and dont check up on her. People move on in different ways, find another girl, find a hobby, travel, whatever works for you. A few months you'll feel back to your normal self.

 

So, weigh the consequences and decide. Now. If you need someone to talk to, just pm me.

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