Falling For Somebody 15 Years Older

[cHinitababe86]

oh yea. i agree with angelbyday. most of them are patient.

lalo na when im having my baby-tantrums, mood swings.

oo.. im naturally moody tlga. haha unpredictable.

 

whats best is kahit saan ko maisip pumunta, anung gusto kong

trip, sinusuportahan niya ako. minsan nakikisama pa siya..

may certain na arcade akong nilalaro, at alam kong pang "bagets"

un. kasama ko siya naglalaro kahit hindi niya un masayado alam

laruin.

 

another thing, madalas ko siya kulitin when were at home,

na alam ko na ung mga ginagawa ko for others would be irritating

na siguro.. kasi from time-to-time ko ginagawa.

well. he's patient. and he really loves me.

and lastly, im his baby girl. hihi

Edited October 18, 2010 by cHinitababe86

[robsalvador]

We have some lucky spoiled ladies in the house!

 

On topic: If I had a choice in falling for somebody 15 years older.. I would go for Betty White..

 

But seriously.. It seems majority of the ladies agree here.. Perhaps society should reward couples with 15 year age difference..

[erato]

Ah, been there! Yes, they tend to be more passionate.

 

I cannot imagine myself with a guy my age, or even within 5 years of my age. I feel we won't connect.

[subsistence]

Well.. ang s swerte ng mga to ah haha

[Inaj]

I fell inlove with someone who is 16yrs older than me and were still on even if were country apart. Were already 4yrs. She really knows what i want, very caring and loving person. And i still love her.

[_Honey_]

Once.

[robsalvador]

Once.

... And?..

 

On topic.. I heard older guys, by experience can adopt better as lovers..

 

They will have encountered in one way or another the different preferences that these lovely creatures called women have..

 

They adapt and act accordingly to make sure their partners get what they deserve in that department..

 

(ABD knows..)

[robsalvador]

what's not to love?

 

 

they make my knees weak..............literally and figuratively

You do know..

 

On topic question: Will the older partner, be it the man or the woman, automatically have more say in the relationship in terms of control and decision-making? Or will it be the younger person because of the power of youth?

[JHP]

Way up the scale when i was younger and way down the scale more recently. Only deep appreciation and wonder, no regrets.

Edited October 28, 2010 by JHP

[cHinitababe86]

You do know..

 

On topic question: Will the older partner, be it the man or the woman, automatically have more say in the relationship in terms of control and decision-making? Or will it be the younger person because of the power of youth?

 

definitely not.

hindi naman sa lahat ng pagkakataon, si older guy/woman is the know-all person eh. besides, in a relationship there is a

team, hindi pwedeng isa lang ang nagmamarunong magdesisyon. pinag uusapan niyo pareho ang bawat desisyon.

good or bad ang outcome, in the end, they both learn a new thing. as angelbyday told in her previous post,

kahit pa may edad ka, hindi tumitigil ang learning process. the young one learns, pati narin ung partner.

talking about equality dear.

if ever may short comings at alam mong hindi kaya ng isa magdecision which is bihira naman nangyayari, i guess,

kasi lahat naman ng tao, nagdedecision making almost everyday, pwede tulungan ng partner to make things better.

[rosemarie]

i got 2 ex-boyfriend from my entire life and they are both 15 years older than me

[robsalvador]

definitely not.

hindi naman sa lahat ng pagkakataon, si older guy/woman is the know-all person eh. besides, in a relationship there is a

team, hindi pwedeng isa lang ang nagmamarunong magdesisyon. pinag uusapan niyo pareho ang bawat desisyon.

good or bad ang outcome, in the end, they both learn a new thing. as angelbyday told in her previous post,

kahit pa may edad ka, hindi tumitigil ang learning process. the young one learns, pati narin ung partner.

talking about equality dear.

if ever may short comings at alam mong hindi kaya ng isa magdecision which is bihira naman nangyayari, i guess,

kasi lahat naman ng tao, nagdedecision making almost everyday, pwede tulungan ng partner to make things better.

 

You have one lucky man yourself there cHinitababe..

 

I agree.. The advantage in age does not necessarily equate to an advantage in maturity..

 

As in my case.. I let my GF have first choice in most common decisions..

 

Not only because of chivalry.. But because on my part.. I always turn out to be the more immature person..

[_Honey_]

... And?..

 

On topic.. I heard older guys, by experience can adopt better as lovers..

 

They will have encountered in one way or another the different preferences that these lovely creatures called women have..

 

They adapt and act accordingly to make sure their partners get what they deserve in that department..

 

(ABD knows..)

It was memorable

I agree. Most of them adjust easily to their partners. They don't smother and they are not too stiff. They give you enough space and enough time for yourself. There's always an element of surprise and intellectual stimulation.

[maniaclara]

haven't tried this... it might be interesting...

[knoll1234]

age is just a number and is a state of mind!!!

[robsalvador]

It was memorable

I agree. Most of them adjust easily to their partners. They don't smother and they are not too stiff. They give you enough space and enough time for yourself. There's always an element of surprise and intellectual stimulation.

 

What do you mean they are not too "stiff"?

 

To add: Older men are very protective of their younger partners..

 

And.. viagra lang katapat nun! :lol:

[_Honey_]

What do you mean they are not too "stiff"?

 

To add: Older men are very protective of their younger partners..

 

And.. viagra lang katapat nun! :lol:

robskie, what were you thinking? omg! LOL.

hmmm.. what i meant was they're not too mahigpit or possessive or they're not hard to deal with.

viagra?? that i don't know.

[robsalvador]

robskie, what were you thinking? omg! LOL.

hmmm.. what i meant was they're not too mahigpit or possessive or they're not hard to deal with.

viagra?? that i don't know.

 

Don't know bout viagra either.. .. Not yet..

 

I guess older men are comparable to an alpha male lion..

 

Content in his pride.. Looking after them..

 

Cool and no-worries kinda fellah..

 

I like thinking of myself as a lion..

 

Ghhhhhaaaaawwwrrrrrr!!!

[_Honey_]

Don't know bout viagra either.. .. Not yet..

 

I guess older men are comparable to an alpha male lion..

 

Content in his pride.. Looking after them..

 

Cool and no-worries kinda fellah..

 

I like thinking of myself as a lion..

 

Ghhhhhaaaaawwwrrrrrr!!!

 

Parang iba ang ibig sabihin ng Ghhhhhaaawwwrrr mo..

[christy]

there's a special guy i cant FORGET. verrrrry sweet, uber funny , gosh ang witty , super smart , confident and sooooooooo malambing.grabe.maybe its the age and the experience (15 + years older than me). and he knows when to be gentle and when to be wild. honey ...you're still the BEST. :wub: :wub:

Edited November 3, 2010 by christy

[robsalvador]

Parang iba ang ibig sabihin ng Ghhhhhaaawwwrrr mo..

Ganon na nga yon sa iniisip mo.. Sa lahat ng bagay ganon ako..

 

To add: Older men simply know better..

[shamrock12345]

i am 35 my gf 21.... 14 yrs.. gap i think no problem.. as long...we both understand... : )

[jons11]

i am 35 my gf 21.... 14 yrs.. gap i think no problem.. as long...we both understand... : )

 

Kudos to you, good sir.

 

Ang sa akin lang: Age has never been a factor in the game of love. Most women who are looking for a relationship, prefer men of experience dahil tapos na sila sa mga kalokohan nila (atleast they appear to be... hehe)

[jgc813]

What do you mean they are not too "stiff"?

 

 

Hmmm... do you know that even in industry, being too stiff isn't anywhere near good?

 

Once upon a time, cars were "too stiff." (Remember the 1950 and earlier models?) They were almost like tanks, seemingly indestructible. Industry found out that in a collision, injuries and death resulted more often. The solution: creating the "crumple zone" in cars. That's why cars today have thin chassis. You press them a little too hard, you create a dimple.

 

The same is true with airplanes. In fact, when you sit yourself on the window facing the wing, you'll notice that the bigger the plane you're riding, the more flexible the wings seem to be. They even appear to flop in the air currents.

 

Being "too stiff" is not anywhere near good.

 

And we men know it. When we were younger, we boasted of having a real honest-to-goodness hard and stiff member. The result? Drilled too hard, came too quickly. As we aged, we discovered that it wasn't really THAT which mattered, especially for our partners. And, having a more flexible member meant being more suave, gentle, ticklish, kinky, tender, and adjustable (we knew when to go fast and when to go slow). Likewise, we could hold it longer until we knew she was completely satisfied.

 

And the above is true only in two aspects: on the bed, and off it.

[Seishi]

^^ nice one...

 

 

happened this to me twice already.... pero di ko ata swerte to...

 

 

pang 8 years gap lang ata ako eh...