kismet13 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 i agree with divorce. i came from a broken family. and during the time that my mom & dad were still together. it was like HELL in our house. divorce provides nopt only options for the couple, but for the kids as well :heart: Quote Link to comment
TheIceMan Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 I AGREE :cool: :cool: :cool: Quote Link to comment
Mang Joe Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 Some marriages won't end up having those "second chances". In reality, forcing a marriage when it has failed will just make matters worse for the couple and especially the kids. Like it or not, in this time, I think that A LOT of couples are better of getting a divorce rather than ruining each others lives and their children. Quote Link to comment
Kharnall Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 (edited) as a baptize catholic , i am against the concept of Divorce. Reality-wise , although i don't speak for GOD , ithink he will understand why two people who are not compatible with one another should NOT stay together. the catholic faith is sometimes so conservative that changing with time is somewhat a violation of some obscure doctrine. The concept of " till death do us apart " can be a two pronged blade. it can bring happiness to couple who thrives to makea relationship / love successful or a death sentence to the ones who can't . Edited May 10, 2009 by Kharnall Quote Link to comment
JustInnCase Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 hinde ako sang ayon sa divorce dito sa pilipinas. parang wala na din kwenta na nag-sumpaan ang dalawang tao sa harap ng diyos kung sa bandang huli eh maghihiwalay din sila. Quote Link to comment
hydraulx Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 kung Diyos nga..eh kung tao lang? Quote Link to comment
fastandhard Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 i think only 3 countries remain on the whole world where divorce is not permited. were one of them Quote Link to comment
raymund321 Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 NOT AGREE!!! i Still believe in second chance... i understand those couple who cant afford to stay together -- EDI MAG HIWALAY kung talagang wala ng choice,but to legalized DIVORCE.. I'TS A diff matter... mas lalo lang nitong bibigyan ng dahilan yung wife/husband to be "iresponsible" "Immatured" to uNderstand INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES. "marraige is not a bed of roses" may mga UPS and DOWNS its NORMAL kc nga " COUPLES" are TWO diff persons (diff character, attitudes and souls) that are binds together. just need to have TRUST and RESPECT to each other, and PRAY to GOD. masarap yatang gumising sa isang umaga na meron kang i ki KISS and HUG at mangangarap para sa kinabukasan.... PS.im not against separation if thats the only way,pero keep on holding kung kaya pang i survive... -------------------------------------------------------world peace!!!! kaw na din nagsabi, u believe in second chance, so dapat pag separado na, magkaroon ng second chance na lumigaya ang tao, hindi ung ganun na lang, tao lang tayo at nagkakamali, dapat lang na ituwid ang pagkakamali at lumigaya muli diba? matagal ng irresponsable ang mga tao, kahit nung wala pang divorce andaming pamilya na ang nasisira, divorce is not a curse, its a second chance in life and love, ikaw, hiwalay ka nga pero di ka naman pwde umibig at mag asawa ulit, masaya ba yun? mas lalo kang gagawa ng kalokohan pag ganun.kung talagang di na pwede magsama, maghiwalay, at maghanap uli ng makakasama habang buhay. kung walang divorce, dapat wala na ding legal separation, sa legal separation para nyo lang tinakaw ang mag asawa, hiwalay nga kayo pero hanggang ganun nalang undivorce is not immorality,mas immoral pa ang legal separation dahil pinipigilan ka ng batas na umibig ulit a mapipilitan kang gumawa ng kasalanan we're living in a cruel world, wag na natin pahirapan pa ang mga sarili natin, nagpapakatoo lang ako dito un lang Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 kaw na din nagsabi, u believe in second chance, so dapat pag separado na, magkaroon ng second chance na lumigaya ang tao, hindi ung ganun na lang, tao lang tayo at nagkakamali, dapat lang na ituwid ang pagkakamali at lumigaya muli diba? matagal ng irresponsable ang mga tao, kahit nung wala pang divorce andaming pamilya na ang nasisira, divorce is not a curse, its a second chance in life and love, ikaw, hiwalay ka nga pero di ka naman pwde umibig at mag asawa ulit, masaya ba yun? mas lalo kang gagawa ng kalokohan pag ganun.kung talagang di na pwede magsama, maghiwalay, at maghanap uli ng makakasama habang buhay. kung walang divorce, dapat wala na ding legal separation, sa legal separation para nyo lang tinakaw ang mag asawa, hiwalay nga kayo pero hanggang ganun nalang undivorce is not immorality,mas immoral pa ang legal separation dahil pinipigilan ka ng batas na umibig ulit a mapipilitan kang gumawa ng kasalanan we're living in a cruel world, wag na natin pahirapan pa ang mga sarili natin, nagpapakatoo lang ako dito un langI personally don't believe that divorce is a 2nd chance. if it was, what makes us think that the second person you'll have relationship with would be the last? ganun lang un e, its going to be a cycle of uncontentment.. kung hindi pa handa magpakasal at hindi naiintindihan yung pinapasok, edi wag muna pasukin. kung may asawa kana mahalin mo asawa mo at pamilya mo at kung magkaroon ng conflict dapat pagusapan at ayusin. you work things out. divorce can happen on special cases only like threat to life, kids o kung yung asawa mo matapos ng lahat ng attempt to save the relationship e ayaw pa din magbago o tumino dun palang siguro dapat pagisipan un pero kung ang dahilan mo lang e gusto mo lang maghappy happy, o makatikim ng ibang putahe o ung gasgas na dahilan na "ndi nako masaya" e napaka babaw naman. family life has its ups and downs ndi lagi masaya o langit dapat maging responsable ndi makasarili dahil ndi ka nabubuhay para lang sa sarili mo. Quote Link to comment
raymund321 Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 I personally don't believe that divorce is a 2nd chance. if it was, what makes us think that the second person you'll have relationship with would be the last? ganun lang un e, its going to be a cycle of uncontentment.. kung hindi pa handa magpakasal at hindi naiintindihan yung pinapasok, edi wag muna pasukin. kung may asawa kana mahalin mo asawa mo at pamilya mo at kung magkaroon ng conflict dapat pagusapan at ayusin. you work things out. divorce can happen on special cases only like threat to life, kids o kung yung asawa mo matapos ng lahat ng attempt to save the relationship e ayaw pa din magbago o tumino dun palang siguro dapat pagisipan un pero kung ang dahilan mo lang e gusto mo lang maghappy happy, o makatikim ng ibang putahe o ung gasgas na dahilan na "ndi nako masaya" e napaka babaw naman. family life has its ups and downs ndi lagi masaya o langit dapat maging responsable ndi makasarili dahil ndi ka nabubuhay para lang sa sarili mo. have you read my post properly? ang sabi ko pag hiwalay na, dapat hindi dun matatapos, dapat may second chance for love, oo may ups and downs at kung la na talagang pag asa, hiwalay na ang solution, hanggang dun na lang ba ha?? pag hiwalay ka na, imposible na bang ma inlove ulit? panu kung ma inlove ka? ayon sa batas natin ngayon, pag legally separated ka, di ka pwede magpakasal sa iba. hindi komo gusto ko ng divorce, selfish nako, let me remind you this, a divorce involves two persons, the husband and wife, kung ayaw ng isa, hindi matutuloy ang divorce, kelangan magkasundo ang dalawang parties. magbasa ka mabuti :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted June 25, 2009 Share Posted June 25, 2009 have you read my post properly? ang sabi ko pag hiwalay na, dapat hindi dun matatapos, dapat may second chance for love, oo may ups and downs at kung la na talagang pag asa, hiwalay na ang solution, hanggang dun na lang ba ha?? pag hiwalay ka na, imposible na bang ma inlove ulit? panu kung ma inlove ka? ayon sa batas natin ngayon, pag legally separated ka, di ka pwede magpakasal sa iba. hindi komo gusto ko ng divorce, selfish nako, let me remind you this, a divorce involves two persons, the husband and wife, kung ayaw ng isa, hindi matutuloy ang divorce, kelangan magkasundo ang dalawang parties. magbasa ka mabuti :thumbsdownsmiley: im pertaining to your reply "divorce as a second chance" im also just pertaining to peoples motive for divorce it should be valid and not just beacause of the reasons i said. if divorce gets legalized people can just change partners although it indeed needs the approval of the husband and wife attorneys can easily manipulate things and make it look like impossible to fix. its a long and painful process. dont take it personally. its just a remark. Quote Link to comment
raymund321 Posted June 25, 2009 Share Posted June 25, 2009 im pertaining to your reply "divorce as a second chance" im also just pertaining to peoples motive for divorce it should be valid and not just beacause of the reasons i said. if divorce gets legalized people can just change partners although it indeed needs the approval of the husband and wife attorneys can easily manipulate things and make it look like impossible to fix. its a long and painful process. dont take it personally. its just a remark. the legal process of a divorce and a legal separation are almost the same, parehong matagal at parehong kailangan ng attorney at pareho din pwedeng imanipulate, the difference is that pag legal separation, hanggang dun na lang, ang divorce hindi, second chance to be happy again, thats it, dapat kung di pwede mag divorce, wag na din magkaron ng legal separation, para ka lang napilayan pag legally separated ka, hiwalay ka lang ng tirahan sa asawa mo.gusto mo ba ganun na lang ang lahat ng naghihiwalay? be miserable all their life?oo importante ang mga anak pero dapat importante din ang kaligayahan ng bawat tao. comparing legal separation from divorce talagan uulitin ko pa din that a divorce is somewhat a second chance for love, ngayon kung aabusuhin to ng iba, nasa kanila na un. Quote Link to comment
raymund321 Posted June 26, 2009 Share Posted June 26, 2009 im pertaining to your reply "divorce as a second chance" im also just pertaining to peoples motive for divorce it should be valid and not just beacause of the reasons i said. if divorce gets legalized people can just change partners although it indeed needs the approval of the husband and wife attorneys can easily manipulate things and make it look like impossible to fix. its a long and painful process. dont take it personally. its just a remark. FYI, hindi porket may divorce na eh pwede ka ng magpapalit palit ng parter,may mga grounds din for divorce,its not a walk in the park, kung ganu ka stressful at kahirap magpa legal separation, halos ganun din pag divorce,the only difference is sa divorce pwede ka ulit magmahal at mag asawa, sa legal separation, hiwalay ka lang ng tirahan pero technically mag asawa pa din kayo. GOT MY POINT? lahat ng proseso may pros and cons, mas pumanig lang ako dun sa mas madaming benefits. im not being selfish here, ang sinasabi ko lang, bigyan ng pag asa ang mga nagkahiwalay na lumigaya ulit, kaligayahan lang ba ng isa ang divorce? i dont think so Quote Link to comment
raymund321 Posted June 26, 2009 Share Posted June 26, 2009 i must admit some legislators here in our country are MORAL HYPOCRITES :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
dragonei Posted June 26, 2009 Share Posted June 26, 2009 My take on this, I think it is about time we had a law like this in this country. Ang hirap kasi masyadong makitid utak ng mga tao dito sa pilipinas. Kesyo it will destroy families daw etc. Pero sa totoo lang ang talagang nakakasira ng pamilya and everyone in it, is ang isang maling pagsasama ng mag-asawa. It was very traumatic to see my folks quarrel day in and out. I hated both of them for it. Pero nung naghiwalay na sila, saka lang umayos ang lahat. They are more civil now and they do not have to say hurtful words to each other anymore. Based from experience, I can honestly say that anything is always better than seeing your parents fight all the time. Look at the westerners. kahit hiwalay sila di nila pinababayaan mga anak nila. They make sure na lumaki sila ng maayos. I guess our society would rather see battered women and kids, as long as the very "foundation" of society is intact. Sheesh Quote Link to comment
pencilbrain Posted October 31, 2009 Share Posted October 31, 2009 Agree...para magbigyan naman yung mga hiwalay na sa kanilang asawa to get married to someone they really love. Mas mababawasan pa ang cases ng mga battered husbands/wives kung may divorce. Mga law makers natin dito sa ating bansa pulos mga Moral Hypocrites :thumbsdownsmiley: ...kaya ayaw nila ilegalize ang divorce. But see who got most of the problems about relationship...LAWMAKERS :grr: :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
pjalv80 Posted October 31, 2009 Share Posted October 31, 2009 Kung hindi na talaga pwedeng magsama ang magpartner, why not allow divorce. If there are real grounds to be divorced, why not (i.e. adultery, both don't love each other anymore, etc.). If there are kids, just ensure that the kids will not be forgotten and the kids will be protected and their future secured (education, daily needs). Quote Link to comment
masternikki Posted November 1, 2009 Share Posted November 1, 2009 dapat meron, simbahan lang pumipigil sa mga legislators. Isama na natin pati yung reproductive health Quote Link to comment
ecnop528 Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 yes! definitely... para mag isip-isip ang mga mag-asawa nang hindi humanap ng side line. Quote Link to comment
m33hqc Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 why divorce? so you can go separate ways and leave the kids lost? so you can remarry? if that's the case, why marry? don't marry then! Quote Link to comment
klayko243 Posted January 18, 2010 Share Posted January 18, 2010 Nah its not gonna help if your gonna live in one dysfunctional home more likely you'll end up hating each other more and it's not gonna be good for the kids. Make them understand about the current situation it gets a lot complicated if the kids are not gonna cooperate Quote Link to comment
starslayer13 Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 We live in an antiquated and old-fashioned society that is strongly under the grasp of conservative thought. Being practical and common sense are ideas that are abhorred and shot down by those who insist their narrow-minded perspective. Quote Link to comment
Daddy Dee Posted May 13, 2010 Share Posted May 13, 2010 yes of course.meron kasi na nagpakasal lang kasi the girl got pregnant.tapos after some time, they would realize na mali pala na nagpakasal sila.kung legal na yung divorce, meron pa sila time to find true happiness. Quote Link to comment
silentkilla Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 there is mention of divorce in the bible and mostly if it was due to infidelity. this is my take, either this will be divorce or annulment, it is important to remember to be always mindful of the decisions to be made if you're going to push this. and make sure the decision is not a juvenile one like you're no longer satisfied in sex or just no longer interested with your partner. Quote Link to comment
ranter Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 In my opinion I agree that we adopt divorce here in the Philippines. The reason behind this is the fact that now that we have annulment here, when a couple annulled their marriage their children gets to be illegitimate since their marriage is void (which causes the marriage to be annulled) unlike in divorce even if a couple gets divorce the right of the children would always be protected. Anyway, if a couple would tend to leave each other, for any of their personal reasons they would do so be there divorce or not. Quote Link to comment
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