sweeteenia Posted April 8, 2007 Share Posted April 8, 2007 (edited) Not if you have a prenup! :evil:A prenup does matter in some way though for the rich..but as I said.. Can you still stay in a mansion with a rich husband that's making you cryy everyday?..No amount can pay such turmoil.. But the hope here (in divorce) is ..even there is a prenup.., hindi parin pinabayaan ang babae..The law will obligate the husband (much more if rich ) to give an alimony to the wife..And besides.. the Philippine divorce will be different.. It's not just a way out to be free if you've found another prettier girl to marry.. it's more stricter ..and again ..It's more advantageous to women..and the children as well.. Edited April 8, 2007 by sweeteenia Quote Link to comment
Cutefreak Posted April 8, 2007 Share Posted April 8, 2007 A couple with out kids.... eligible pa cugro for divorce. A couple with kids....Noway kawawa yung bata.... Quote Link to comment
senyor_maginoo Posted April 9, 2007 Share Posted April 9, 2007 A couple with out kids.... eligible pa cugro for divorce. A couple with kids....Noway kawawa yung bata.... I'm not a Tagalog speaker but from what I can make out you seem to be against divorce if the couple has kids. If so, I would suggest you contemplate the situation those kids would live in where mom and dad are at war. A very unloving environment with things like nightly, or at least frequent, screaming matches, dinner tables where mom and dad exchange not one word, and mom and dad fuming at each other in the car. That sort of situation generates and enormous amount of constant tension for everyone involved and the kids really suffer. I'm all for every kid in the world living in a healthy loving home ... show me how and I will actively participate any activity with a reasonable chance of making that happen. But please don't ask me to believe that a house with mom and dad at war is the only acceptable alternative. Been there, done that ... would rather lose my left hand. Quote Link to comment
sweeteenia Posted April 9, 2007 Share Posted April 9, 2007 I'm not a Tagalog speaker but from what I can make out you seem to be against divorce if the couple has kids. If so, I would suggest you contemplate the situation those kids would live in where mom and dad are at war. A very unloving environment with things like nightly, or at least frequent, screaming matches, dinner tables where mom and dad exchange not one word, and mom and dad fuming at each other in the car. That sort of situation generates and enormous amount of constant tension for everyone involved and the kids really suffer. I'm all for every kid in the world living in a healthy loving home ... show me how and I will actively participate any activity with a reasonable chance of making that happen. But please don't ask me to believe that a house with mom and dad at war is the only acceptable alternative. Been there, done that ... would rather lose my left hand.it's more traumatic.. coz it's holding into a traumatic situation..everyday you ar dealing with it right under your nose.. it's not good psychologically..for all concerned..Mom and Dad are fighting each other even with no words..the children have magical thinking and they're not stone not to feel such tensions..the nagging silence is deaftening..the children who's in the crossfire .everyday..That's more than hell..everyday.. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted April 10, 2007 Share Posted April 10, 2007 More to fighting .... It also defies what good life (not the MP) has to offer when couples can not be husband and wife anymore ..... The essence of Marriage is mocked it's more traumatic.. coz it's holding into a traumatic situation..everyday you ar dealing with it right under your nose.. it's not good psychologically..for all concerned..Mom and Dad are fighting each other even with no words..the children have magical thinking and they're not stone not to feel such tensions..the nagging silence is deaftening..the children who's in the crossfire .everyday..That's more than hell..everyday.. Quote Link to comment
jollibeeaddict Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 come on! let's make the Philippines move into the 21st century! let us have a divorce law. let us not make it difficult for two people who, simply, cannot live with each other anymore. let us not continue living the Stone Age life as dictated to us by the idiotic, moronic and hypocritical local Roman Catholic clergy and "conservative" groups. Quote Link to comment
Raoul Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 There is in fact "divorce" in the Philippines but it is only for those who can afford it. It's called annulment. Quote Link to comment
Chi-Chi Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 i know this may sound stupid to some.. but what's the diff between divorce and annulment anyway? Quote Link to comment
dunhill_lights Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 agree with divorce. simply because love is not the only reason for one to stay sa marriage. once respect is lost, it'll be uber hard to live and be with that person. include trust as well. yeah, what about the kids? c'mon, kids aren't dumb, they can sometimes sense if there's something wrong with their parents. would you like them to see that you no longer respect their mom or dad? hell no! so better live your own lives but still be part of the kids' lives than be together and let them grow up knowing that something's not right with their family, or parents specifically. Quote Link to comment
objectofmydesire Posted July 2, 2007 Share Posted July 2, 2007 Needs alot of money and courage to say bad and foul things to your partners just for the heck of getting divorce Quote Link to comment
tagpi Posted July 2, 2007 Share Posted July 2, 2007 i know this may sound stupid to some.. but what's the diff between divorce and annulment anyway? Up front, divorce tells you your marriage sucked and it failed big time. Annulment says you never really had a marriage in the first place since someone (there has to be someone whom you can point a finger to) lied and was really incapacitated from entering into this binding contract. Hence, to annul what is null ab initio. What it really does is break up a bond. Both are just quick ways of saying "i quit and it's legal you stupid ass!". Annulment for me is just a way around the conservatism of catholics. hell, you cannot call it a divorce! go refer to someone as psychotic before you both met and BAM! you have an annulment. or you can pay someone to annul the marriage for you for a fee (back read pls). Give bad marriages a break, you cannot guarantee a perfect and fool-proof union. Children? face it, collateral damage. Be a good parent if you cannot be a good husband/wife. Do not be a hypocrite. Remember, if you live a life in denial, you will suffer. On judgment day, nobody will do the lawyering for you. Best you live your life to the fullest, take care of your obligations and be a happy person. A miserable person in an equally miserable marriage will inflict harm on a lot more people. end it when you still can. You will do the nation a favor. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
janz Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 A couple with out kids.... eligible pa cugro for divorce. A couple with kids....Noway kawawa yung bata.... hindi dapat ang mga bata ang magsuffer sa broken relationship. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 Hell Yeah .... YES TO DIVORCE Give bad marriages a break, you cannot guarantee a perfect and fool-proof union. Children? face it, collateral damage. Be a good parent if you cannot be a good husband/wife. Do not be a hypocrite. Remember, if you live a life in denial, you will suffer. On judgment day, nobody will do the lawyering for you. Best you live your life to the fullest, take care of your obligations and be a happy person. A miserable person in an equally miserable marriage will inflict harm on a lot more people. end it when you still can. You will do the nation a favor. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
jollibeeaddict Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 ewan ko ba kung bakit lumilitaw yung angle na kawawa ang mga bata ek ek kapag divorce na ang usapan. yung mga bata lang ba ang dapat pag-usapan? papaano naman yung asawa na nagdurusa? Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 Take this Parents fighting at any given chance they can ... may it be money, property, jobs, jealousy, values, decisions, others ..... Take a look on how children console each other during such times ..... .. get the pictureewan ko ba kung bakit lumilitaw yung angle na kawawa ang mga bata ek ek kapag divorce na ang usapan. yung mga bata lang ba ang dapat pag-usapan? papaano naman yung asawa na nagdurusa? Quote Link to comment
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