LostCommand Posted November 17, 2005 Share Posted November 17, 2005 The practical way forward here is to check your market value relative to the other party. If you are damn marketable anyway, if I smell even a hint of impropriety I might just go. If you are a jobless smelly 60 year old, well....matters could be slightly different perhaps? Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 18, 2005 Share Posted November 18, 2005 The practical way forward here is to check your market value relative to the other party. If you are damn marketable anyway, if I smell even a hint of impropriety I might just go. If you are a jobless smelly 60 year old, well....matters could be slightly different perhaps?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> hahaha!! sigurista.....but i like the approach.... Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted November 18, 2005 Share Posted November 18, 2005 i don't think there is any valid reason or justification for cheating. kung sa tingin nya may prob yung relationship, di maso-solve yan ng pag-cheat. eh di hiwalayan na lang diba. cheating will only aggravate the pain that both of you will have to suffer. if a person thinks that she/he has been wronged for whatsoever reason, it does not give her/him the license to cheat. everything can serve as reason... as justification. depende sa point of view yan ng bawat individual. pero kung ganito yung logic, na every time na magkakaroon ng reason na magpupush sa isang tao to cheat eh kailangan sya intindihin, i don't think magiging masaya mundo natin hehehe peace out po... just sharng my thoughts on the subject. ---------- pwede siguro kami maging friends eventually, pero definitely i won't keep the relationship.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I agree that the problem cannot be solved by cheating, but i dont think na ung "hiwalayan" is also a way to resolve the problem. Give a try to resolve the issue, then kung talagang malalim na talaga ang problema at hindi na talaga kayang i save pa ung relationship, then that's the time para mag decide na kayo to separate. Quote Link to comment
astig_supah_ganda Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 comfront him/hersay wat yu want to say.. kung di mo na kayaung ginagawa nya,sabihin mo.. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 I agree that the problem cannot be solved by cheating, but i dont think na ung "hiwalayan" is also a way to resolve the problem. Give a try to resolve the issue, then kung talagang malalim na talaga ang problema at hindi na talaga kayang i save pa ung relationship, then that's the time para mag decide na kayo to separate.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I agree.... I dont think that a partner cheats because he/she finds it a solution to a relationship problem. Siguro yung problem na yun made him/her vulnerable to cheating. I dont also think that hiwalayan is always the way to go, once a partner cheats. I could be....but not always. Kaya nga naging kayo kasi mahal niyo ang isat isa. Unless the feeling is gone and the damage is irreparable.... hiwalayan will make your hearts bleed more. Talk....give it some time. Laging sa huli raw ang pagsisisi. Quote Link to comment
Guest Camerie Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 :cry: There was a bf of mine who cheated on me four times but everytime he asked for forgiveness and goes back to me, I always accept him ---- Why??? I know stupid may it seem but the answer is I love him so much to the point that I can endure and accept anything he did. It just really depends on how much you love the person... The downside of it was I it destroyed me... It's so easy to say you've forgiven the person but it's so hard to forget what he did until there came a time that I also cheated on him as a sort of a revenge. He already changed that time but I don't know why the things he did in the past still haunts me that's why I was able to cheat also. I'm not justifying what I did even though he's the reason why I did it cause I know whatever the reason is, it's still wrong. When he found out about it, he wanted to separate or he told me he'll stay but he'll have a girl again. I told him that this will never end if we keep on taking revenge and hurting each other. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 ....would you cheat if your partner has already cheated on you. Quote Link to comment
EFF-EXS Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 I don't know, perhaps. Giving second chances won't be easy. Quote Link to comment
solicitor Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 I agree that the problem cannot be solved by cheating, but i dont think na ung "hiwalayan" is also a way to resolve the problem. Give a try to resolve the issue, then kung talagang malalim na talaga ang problema at hindi na talaga kayang i save pa ung relationship, then that's the time para mag decide na kayo to separate.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Am just curious Bro, are you Joe D Mango? Quote Link to comment
-mariane Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 giving a chance? f*ck!!! n0 way..a chance f0r what? t0 f00l y0u again? erp!.. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted November 22, 2005 Share Posted November 22, 2005 ....would you cheat if your partner has already cheated on you. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> No, i won't. Nasira na nga ung pagkatao niya nung nag cheat siya sa iyo, pati ba naman sarili mo e sisirain mo pa rin. Instead, tulungan ko na lang siyang maka-balik sa akin ulit and I'll let her feel na although nasaktan ako sa ginawa niya, I will still love her with all my life at ng walang pag aalinlangan, drama ata he he he. Am just curious Bro, are you Joe D Mango?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> sorry for the OT, sagutin ko lang ung curiosity ni Solicitor,No i'm not Joe D' Mango, mas matching yata kung sabihin mong ako ba si Chris Tsuper "kailangan pa bang i-memorize yan" Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 No, i won't. Nasira na nga ung pagkatao niya nung nag cheat siya sa iyo, pati ba naman sarili mo e sisirain mo pa rin. Instead, tulungan ko na lang siyang maka-balik sa akin ulit and I'll let her feel na although nasaktan ako sa ginawa niya, I will still love her with all my life at ng walang pag aalinlangan, drama ata he he he.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> That’s good. Exactly what I wanna do. Takes more than guts to do it. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 If Your Partner Has Cheated On You....., are you willing to keep the relationship? Yes, I will.... if the love is still there! Quote Link to comment
best_X_girlfriend Posted November 26, 2005 Share Posted November 26, 2005 he did. several times. but he stayed. i stayed. we're working on it. mahirap but we just cant leave our relationship in despair. a very tough choice. i dont feel/have any regrets. Quote Link to comment
pornstar74 Posted November 26, 2005 Share Posted November 26, 2005 Question--- What if a partner cheated because of money? I just want to know your reactions to this... Given that this girl works in a club but not really the PAKAN**T type.. What would you guys do? Quote Link to comment
pedrolabasulo Posted November 26, 2005 Share Posted November 26, 2005 give him or her a second chance, we are only human beings and nobody is perfect Quote Link to comment
MaDaMe_PeeYaa^ Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 I did... ayun, kami padin Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 i learned my lesson... wala nang second chance... siguro pinakamahirap yung 1st time... after the first time, its becomes easy to cheat again and again and again and again .... kaya wag na lang... Quote Link to comment
dodo Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 Yes. Hindi kasi ako hypocrite. i learned my lesson... wala nang second chance... siguro pinakamahirap yung 1st time... after the first time, its becomes easy to cheat again and again and again and again .... kaya wag na lang...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Pareng jun,Tama ka. After the first time, you seem to lose your sense of guilt. Since you have cheated once, you end up saying to yourself, what harm will the next one do? Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 Yes. Hindi kasi ako hypocrite.Pareng jun,Tama ka. After the first time, you seem to lose your sense of guilt. Since you have cheated once, you end up saying to yourself, what harm will the next one do?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> pareng dodo! musta na! kita kita tayo soon! lapit na siguro ako umalis... baka early next year the 1st time is the hardest talaga.... i think its the same thing as stealing... mahirap sa umpisa pero pag naumpisan, tuloy tuloy na! pero some people naman learn their lesson and thats the end of it... pero most would do it over and over again... Quote Link to comment
dodo Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 Neither one is really that hard to say if you mean it. It becomes hard only if you don't really mean it. Quote Link to comment
dodo Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 pareng dodo! musta na! kita kita tayo soon! lapit na siguro ako umalis... baka early next year the 1st time is the hardest talaga.... i think its the same thing as stealing... mahirap sa umpisa pero pag naumpisan, tuloy tuloy na! pero some people naman learn their lesson and thats the end of it... pero most would do it over and over again... <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hoy, PM ka kung kelan ka aalis at saan ka babagsak. Kung Vegas parati ako dun. I'll be there the last weekend of March kasama mga barkada. Back to the topic, mahirap nga ang nangagaliwa. You always have to look over your shoulder and you have to be consistent with your lies. Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 A relationship is based on trust, if your SO has cheated on you, how can you trust him/her again? No trust = No relationship. Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 NEVER!!! :grr: :grr: :grr: :grr: :grr: anybody who even think of cheating eto lang asng masabi ko sa inyo :thumbsdownsmiley: :thumbsdownsmiley: :thumbsdownsmiley: :thumbsdownsmiley: LOSER!!! :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 I LOVE YOU AND IM SORRY DI NAMAN DAPAT MAHIRAP SABIHIN YUN E. WHATS DIFFICULT IS TO MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!! :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
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