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I sometimes feel the phrase "I love you" has lost its true meaning or importance.

 

I don't mean to brag, but lately I have been meeting/dating ladies of all ages saying this little phrase to me within the first five dates. I have not responded the same way because I am confused about my real feelings towards them and I do not want to mislead them if the feeling I have towards them is not really love but more sexually. :blush: B)

 

I treat them well. Dinner, nice company, romantic moments, etc. etc. etc. Kiss on the first date; not just a kiss, I do a special kiss which I cannot graphically describe here. The same ladies have told me that they never been kissed like the way I kiss them before. :blush:

 

And after the first few dates, they will then tell me they love me, and I feel bad I cannot respond the same way because the phrase has a lot of meaning to me.

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I sometimes feel the phrase "I love you" has lost its true meaning or importance.

 

I don't mean to brag, but lately I have been meeting/dating ladies of all ages saying this little phrase to me within the first five dates. I have not responded the same way because I am confused about my real feelings towards them and I do not want to mislead them if the feeling I have towards them is not really love but more sexually.  :blush:  B)

 

I treat them well. Dinner, nice company, romantic moments, etc. etc. etc. Kiss on the first date; not just a kiss, I do a special kiss which I cannot graphically describe here. The same ladies have told me that they never been kissed like the way I kiss them before.  :blush: 

 

And after the first few dates, they will then tell me they love me, and I feel bad I cannot respond the same way because the phrase has a lot of meaning to me.

I forgot to say that it seems the phrase has become so easy to say; at least in my experience and perspective that is why the ladies could say it so soon. I typically get scared off when they start saying the phrase.

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I sometimes feel the phrase "I love you" has lost its true meaning or importance.

 

I don't mean to brag, but lately I have been meeting/dating ladies of all ages saying this little phrase to me within the first five dates. I have not responded the same way because I am confused about my real feelings towards them and I do not want to mislead them if the feeling I have towards them is not really love but more sexually.  :blush:  B)

 

I treat them well. Dinner, nice company, romantic moments, etc. etc. etc. Kiss on the first date; not just a kiss, I do a special kiss which I cannot graphically describe here. The same ladies have told me that they never been kissed like the way I kiss them before.  :blush: 

 

And after the first few dates, they will then tell me they love me, and I feel bad I cannot respond the same way because the phrase has a lot of meaning to me.

 

 

i say don't take the expression of affection too seriously. if you can kiss just about anyone (no matter how special YOU think that kiss is), then it should not surprise you if people can throw the amorous line haphazardly. you should not trust their line if they cannot trust your kiss. :D

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i say don't take the expression of affection too seriously.  if you can kiss just about anyone (no matter how special YOU think that kiss is), then it should not surprise you if people can throw the amorous line haphazardly.  you should not trust their line if they cannot trust your kiss.  :D

I do kiss, if I am somewhat attracted to the girl and I want to explore just a bit more. How would I know if they really meant what they say?

 

Perhaps, I should say the real reason why I get scared with the term is that a girl hurt my feelings after uttering those words. How do I know? Am I too paranoid?

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"I love you"

 

those three words scare me so much.

it's easier to say i'm sorry because you know what you're giving up and what you're hurting -- your pride.

 

but when u say "i love you" it's your heart that you're putting on the line. there's the possibility of rejection. you dont know how the other person will react when u finally say this to them. and, of course, its human nature to fear the unknown

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I do kiss, if I am somewhat attracted to the girl and I want to explore just a bit more. How would I know if they really meant what they say?

 

Perhaps, I should say the real reason why I get scared with the term is that a girl hurt my feelings after uttering those words. How do I know? Am I too paranoid?

 

 

Yah i really agreed with you Mr. DaChosen1. If someone told us the phrase "I LOVE U" we really dont know if its really sincere or just mindless words. I did felt inlove before and If I said "I LOVE U" its not just an ordinary words for me. And i can say its really hard to say the phrase if i dont mean it. I will say 'IM Sorry' if someone will say to me 'I LOVE U' and i dont feel to respond the same.

Regarding to this matter "Action speaks louder than Words" is not really applicable for me. Other girls based the feelings of the guy in his actions so when the guy kissed the girl or more than that etc... she may concluded that the guy loved him. But infact it was just "LUST" or just drove by being "HORNY". Anyway its up to ourselves to determine if its LUST or LOVE :) This is just my opinion and I know all of us have different perspectives.

 

Hmmm...actually Im still confused. Im just want to ask some tips from u guys. When did u say that u are really inloved with a girl?

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Yah i really agreed with you Mr. DaChosen1. If someone told us the phrase "I LOVE U" we really dont know if its really sincere or just mindless words.  I did felt inlove before and If I said "I LOVE U"  its not just an ordinary words for me. And i can say its really hard to say the phrase if i dont mean it. I will say 'IM Sorry' if someone will say to me 'I LOVE U' and i dont feel to respond the same.

Regarding to this matter "Action speaks louder than Words" is not really applicable for me. Other girls based the feelings of the guy in his actions so when the guy kissed the girl or more than that etc... she may concluded that the guy loved him. But infact it was just "LUST" or just drove by being "HORNY". Anyway its up to ourselves to determine if its  LUST or LOVE :) This is just my opinion and I know all of us have different perspectives.

 

Hmmm...actually Im still confused. Im just want to ask some tips from u guys. When did u say that u are really inloved with a girl?

 

"When did u say that u are really inloved with a girl?"

 

If I'm reading this correctly, when did I say the three little words and I really meant it? Well, when I feel that thing in my stomach (and it is not hunger) and I have that urge (beyond LUST hehehe) to see her, that is then! As much as I dated, when I stay with a girl, I really stick to her 110%! :thumbsupsmiley: Although, I cannot help myself looking and admiring beautiful ladies from afar :blush: ...I am just human, you know, and a warm blooded Filipino :thumbsupsmiley: :hypocritesmiley: B)

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"When did u say that u are really inloved with a girl?"

 

If I'm reading this correctly, when did I say the three little words and I really meant it? Well, when I feel that thing in my stomach (and it is not hunger) and I have that urge (beyond LUST hehehe) to see her, that is then! As much as I dated, when I stay with a girl, I really stick to her 110%!  :thumbsupsmiley: Although, I cannot help myself looking and admiring beautiful ladies from afar  :blush: ...I am just human, you know, and a warm blooded Filipino :thumbsupsmiley:  :hypocritesmiley:  B)

 

Hmm..thanks for sharing. I may concluded that in 'LOVE' there is no difference between opposite sex. Hehe I know you got my point. Yeah I know that looking and admiring beautiful/hunky people is just normal. Its just fair I guess coz women(single, commited, or married) cant help also to have second look and admired hunky guys out there hehehe. But its more of you guys coz you cant even help to find another recipies :). I know its ur natural instinct. Women just need to be broad minded about this though for others its not that easy to accept.

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