Tanya08 Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 i dnt think so.. dahil lng ba may pagkukulang ang partner mo pwede k ng magloko? papano yun? dba nobodys perfect so lahat n lng pedeng magloko? ganun ba yun? iwanan mo n lng partner mo kung nde mo rin lng pla sya kayang mahalin ng buong buo kesa lokohin mo n lng. i dnt buy yung nagloloko ng walang dahilan.. what i believe sa ganyan cguro nasa nagloloko n yung problema.. he/she is definitely sick. maybe its not a good idea to discuss kung ano yung reason ng pag-chi-cheat. kse gaano man kalake problema mo sa partner mo kung gago gago tlga xa, you dont have to cheat on him/her pra maayos problema mo sa knya. theres a lot of things n pede mong gawin para ma-solve mo ang problem mo kesa dagdagan mo pa to. Quote Link to comment
simple_denise Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 Actually di naman difficult sabihin ang "I'm sorry" and "I love you" as long you mean those words....not unless may pride ka or u want to tell a lie lang. Quote Link to comment
khulet Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 saying "i love you" is not that hard to say... lalo na sa taong mahal na mahal mo talaga... and you really mean it... saying "i'm sorry" is also not that hard to say.... just say it in a nice way na lang... (tama ba? ) ~just my opinion~ Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 i dnt think so.. dahil lng ba may pagkukulang ang partner mo pwede k ng magloko? papano yun? dba nobodys perfect so lahat n lng pedeng magloko? ganun ba yun? i dnt buy yung nagloloko ng walang dahilan.. what i believe sa ganyan cguro nasa nagloloko n yung problema.. he/she is definitely sick.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> could be that the cheating person doesnt feel loved....always alone....lonely.....taken for granted....noone to talk to.....no one to share his/her problems with.....sexually deprived.....but then his/her partner doesnt care anymore (for a valid or not valid reasons, i dont know but it happens). the cheating person has a lot of emotional and social needs. in this situation, when someone offers to give him/her all the attention he/she is looking for....man, i tell you....tao lang yan and very prone to make wrong judgements. this may happen....puwede ring hindi. it all depends on the values of the person. but what im telling is...naman....dont put your partner in this similar situation where he/she could be so vulnerable to temptations. when he/she cheats....for me, you're partly to blame. that's my personal opinion.... Quote Link to comment
Tanya08 Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 could be that the cheating person doesnt feel loved....always alone....lonely.....taken for granted....noone to talk to.....no one to share his/her problems with.....sexually deprived.....but then his/her partner doesnt care anymore (for a valid or not valid reasons, i dont know but it happens). the cheating person has a lot of emotional and social needs. in this situation, when someone offers to give him/her all the attention he/she is looking for....man, i tell you....tao lang yan and very prone to make wrong judgements. this may happen....puwede ring hindi. it all depends on the values of the person. but what im telling is...naman....dont put your partner in this similar situation where he/she could be so vulnerable to temptations. when he/she cheats....for me, you're partly to blame. that's my personal opinion.... <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ic i got your point.. Quote Link to comment
GORGEOUS99 Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 ic i got your point..<{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi....most of the time kasi, people who cheat see an opporunity to do so, like for example, i got a friend who is committed to his 8yr-girlfriend, but since nakakalusot sya,he keeps on doing the same thing over and over again- wala naman syang problema sa girlfriend nya-she got evertyhing He needs..... meron talganf taong ganun Tanya08, we just have to get used to it..di lang naman lalake ang nagloloko eh, babae rin,, i know some- they got their own reasons why they Cheat peace... Quote Link to comment
Tanya08 Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 hi....most of the time kasi, people who cheat see an opporunity to do so, like for example, i got a friend who is committed to his 8yr-girlfriend, but since nakakalusot sya,he keeps on doing the same thing over and over again- wala naman syang problema sa girlfriend nya-she got evertyhing He needs..... meron talganf taong ganun Tanya08, we just have to get used to it..di lang naman lalake ang nagloloko eh, babae rin,, i know some- they got their own reasons why they Cheatpeace... <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ic thanks ms. gorgeous! :cool: i guess ur right people who cheat have their own reasons cguro bkt nila nagawa yun or has reasons that pushes them to do it.. i guess we dnt hve to judge them instead understand them n lng kung kaya mo.. hehe as for me cguro ganun n lng.. maiintindihan mo lng sya cguro when the situation comes to you to experience it.. then ikaw n lng bahala magdecide if your going to do it or not.. oh wel hope for the best! Quote Link to comment
JANITOR Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 I GUESS MAS MAHIRAP SABIHIN ANG I'm SORRY LALO NA't MAPRIDE YUNG TAONG BIBGKAS NUNG WORD NA YUN...... medyo mahirap sabihin kasi walang gustong umamin kung sino ang may mali Quote Link to comment
JANITOR Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 saying I'm sorry but I don't feel the same way as you do.... those were my words to my bf like 5 mins ago.. we broke up <{POST_SNAPBACK}>kakabreak mo lang ba bakit sa thread ng dating nung isang linggo ka pa broken hearted....nagtatanong lang po..... Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 I can easily say that I'm sorry since I'm the type who doesn't want conflicts. Pero yun I love you.. I cant just say it.. kailangan sure akong mahal ko talaga sya and he feels the same way for me (syempre ayoko mapahiya). Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 for those who are committed (with significant other, married), it's harder to say "I Love you" to another person and mean it. If you don't mean it, it's going to hurt. "I'm sorry" is easier to say without meaning it. Of course, a lot of guys say "I love you" to get what they want. Like when you say sorry for being late, for answering back to your parents, etc.... Quote Link to comment
heavygatin_but_cutie Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 for me ... hardest is I AM SORRY especially if really from the heart ...yun sobrang sincere... ma-pride kasi ako eh.... Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 hi....most of the time kasi, people who cheat see an opporunity to do so, like for example, i got a friend who is committed to his 8yr-girlfriend, but since nakakalusot sya,he keeps on doing the same thing over and over again- wala naman syang problema sa girlfriend nya-she got evertyhing He needs..... meron talganf taong ganun Tanya08, we just have to get used to it..di lang naman lalake ang nagloloko eh, babae rin,, i know some- they got their own reasons why they Cheatpeace... <{POST_SNAPBACK}> agree... dont discount the fact that there really are people who cheat for no reason at all. gusto lang talaga nilang gawin. i remember having a discussion here on whether to tell your partner about it or not. some people prefer not to tell their partner so that they can get away with it....continue doing it....or do it again and again. some people are just like that. (i dont mean to pass judgement on anyone nor to be self-righteous. i have my own shortcomings....). iba iba lang talaga ang mga tao....man or woman....pareho lang capable magloko. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 ic thanks ms. gorgeous! :cool: i guess ur right people who cheat have their own reasons cguro bkt nila nagawa yun or has reasons that pushes them to do it.. i guess we dnt hve to judge them instead understand them n lng kung kaya mo.. hehe as for me cguro ganun n lng.. maiintindihan mo lng sya cguro when the situation comes to you to experience it.. then ikaw n lng bahala magdecide if your going to do it or not.. oh wel hope for the best!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I have to agree…. My hope that is that this doesn’t happen to anyone of us. :cool: :cool: Quote Link to comment
arelim Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 i don't think there is any valid reason or justification for cheating. kung sa tingin nya may prob yung relationship, di maso-solve yan ng pag-cheat. eh di hiwalayan na lang diba. cheating will only aggravate the pain that both of you will have to suffer. if a person thinks that she/he has been wronged for whatsoever reason, it does not give her/him the license to cheat. everything can serve as reason... as justification. depende sa point of view yan ng bawat individual. pero kung ganito yung logic, na every time na magkakaroon ng reason na magpupush sa isang tao to cheat eh kailangan sya intindihin, i don't think magiging masaya mundo natin hehehe peace out po... just sharng my thoughts on the subject. ---------- pwede siguro kami maging friends eventually, pero definitely i won't keep the relationship. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 i don't think there is any valid reason or justification for cheating. kung sa tingin nya may prob yung relationship, di maso-solve yan ng pag-cheat. eh di hiwalayan na lang diba. cheating will only aggravate the pain that both of you will have to suffer. if a person thinks that she/he has been wronged for whatsoever reason, it does not give her/him the license to cheat. everything can serve as reason... as justification. depende sa point of view yan ng bawat individual. pero kung ganito yung logic, na every time na magkakaroon ng reason na magpupush sa isang tao to cheat eh kailangan sya intindihin, i don't think magiging masaya mundo natin hehehe peace out po... just sharng my thoughts on the subject. ---------- pwede siguro kami maging friends eventually, pero definitely i won't keep the relationship.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> i understand where you are coming from...my advice, just dont give your partner a reason to cheat. siguro nga there's no excuse for cheating....but there might be a room for understanding. :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
strong_cock Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 Honesty, Respect and Decency. Break any one of them and it's time to move on. Oh...and if she cheated on me...goodbye. No questions ask. Quote Link to comment
lecher4u Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 Pride always get in the way when I have to say "I'm sorry" Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Honesty, Respect and Decency. Break any one of them and it's time to move on. Oh...and if she cheated on me...goodbye. No questions ask.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I don’t mean to sound mushy but I’d like to put LOVE on top of these three… That is just my opinion…. :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
bullseye2x Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Im sorry ata...kasi mabigat eto para sa akin.... pride nakataya eh Quote Link to comment
Tanya08 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 The Hardest Thing for me to say... hmm.. wala ata sa dalawa.. ay meron pala.. yung saying 'im sorry' dahil makikipag break kna.. and saying 'im sorry' dahil babastedin mo na sya... gee ang hirap nun! bigat sa dibdib sabihin Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 I'm a very expressive type of person. But of the two....from my experience....it's harder to say i'm sorry to my partner. It disturbs me a lot knowing that i've hurt a person. Ayoko siyang masaktan....that's why i couldnt bring myself to say i'm sorry. But saying "I love you" geeeezzzz....i could tell you that as often as you want (kung mahal nga kita). Quote Link to comment
pilo555 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Well, kung kaya nyong hindi lumingon o magduda everytime he/she is not with you then by all means tuloy nyo, if there is just a little bit of doubt in you then it would be best to move on. That's what I'd do... Remember, the number of years you spend with someone is nothing compared to a lifetime. Kaya wag kayong manghihinayang kung saka sakali Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Well, kung kaya nyong hindi lumingon o magduda everytime he/she is not with you then by all means tuloy nyo, if there is just a little bit of doubt in you then it would be best to move on. That's what I'd do... Remember, the number of years you spend with someone is nothing compared to a lifetime. Kaya wag kayong manghihinayang kung saka sakali <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Agree...!! :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
naked_angel Posted November 17, 2005 Share Posted November 17, 2005 no. no second chances for cheaters. if they did it once, they can do it over and over again. i won't give him the benefit of hurting me again... shame on you if you fool me once,shame on me if you fool me twice... Quote Link to comment
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