dolphin722 Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 One side of me says "NO!!!" but the other side of me says, "Why not?" Especially if the girl is obviously not serious with her partner or if she just wants a "fling". Quote Link to comment
spongebobby Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 what if the girl who's "taken" is begging to be freed, and is asking you to free her? Quote Link to comment
caramelkisses Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Nope, that's so not my thing. Quote Link to comment
CHINITALOVER Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 NOPE!!! I still let my prudent brain do the controlling, and not be misguided by a misleading heart... Quote Link to comment
stratoclapton Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 tempting...level the playing field first...then go ahead... (me mga relationship na di natutuloy...nagkakalabuan...kung handa kang sumalo, go ahead...) Quote Link to comment
bodybumping Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 dati sabi ko sa sarili ko never kong gagawin to.pero minsan nakalimutan kong pakinggan yung sarili ko.naiinis ako kapag sinusundo sya ng bf nya sa office namin.tapos sa sobrang guilt pinapili ko na sya although alam ko nde ako pipiliin ( pero umasa pa din).naaawa ako dun sa bf, walang kaalam alam. ngayon parang naghihintay pa din ako kung aabutin ako ng karma. Quote Link to comment
transcience Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 i was in this s@%t years back. it was never easy. and prior to that, it never came to mind that i'd find myself in a sticky situation. things backfired. rollercoaster of emotions. the works. Â again, no. Quote Link to comment
legend_ako Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 definitely... if i case i know that its a bad relationship... i will...just to save her from a dead end situation ,...like if the guy is an addict.. or wife beater.... Quote Link to comment
Boysbe Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 Depends if i like the lady or i hate the guy...  Odds are, she'll dump him for me.  The dating game is simple, not all relationships dont last forever. Quote Link to comment
rey172004 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 i think no. its taken already eh, this is a matter of respect. just wait for yout turn.......life is simple dont make it complicated. Quote Link to comment
moonflower Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 hmmm... wag na lang. Quote Link to comment
alan_salayan Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 Last book I read talked about 'Real Love' and 'Imitation Love'. Real Love is defined as caring about how your partner feels. This is considered the ideal love where you don't get angry or get disappointed in your partner, but care about them. Imitation Love is defined as loving how your partner makes you feel. There are 4 various forms: praise, power, pleasure, and safety. It's considered something that cannot hold and goes down as the 'excitement' goes away. Quote Link to comment
alan_salayan Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 Last book I read talked about 'Real Love' and 'Imitation Love'. Real Love is defined as caring about how your partner feels. This is considered the ideal love where you don't get angry or get disappointed in your partner, but care about them. Imitation Love is defined as loving how your partner makes you feel. There are 4 various forms: praise, power, pleasure, and safety. It's considered something that cannot hold and goes down as the 'excitement' goes away.Whoops... wrong key I think there are enough men and women in the world to go after. If you go after someone who is taken, then you are going after someone who doesn't care about the other person in their lives. Why would you want to get involved with someone like that? Quote Link to comment
saltek_2 Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 yes i would, i would go for someone who's already taken. I did this a coupe of times and i got what i want Quote Link to comment
FRIENDSHIP*** Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 Would you go after somebody who's taken? (Not Married for the sake of Moral Issues)..... This is not about cheating (so dont go after me ) What if you meet the right one, and that person already has a boyfriend/Girlfriend? would you go thru it? Are we doing them a favor by testing thier relationship? What are your thought?   I thought i met the right person :wub:Then---- He said, he has GF noon pa before he met me....after few months of communicating, few months of saying "i love you's!":boo: ...I believe, he is testing their relationship!....You know why I said this??? The GF came over (USA) and stayed with her..... then he dumped me on X-mas eve(2006) .whewwww!!!...damn! That hurts so bad! (GRRRR...) :grr:  It hurts but, O well, She was the first one He loved & still love...i guess? Quote Link to comment
nightingale Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 yes i would, i would go for someone who's already taken. I did this a coupe of times and i got what i want  and i bet it felt good, didn't it? it always feels good to follow your heart.  If you want a person so badly, why should another person become a consideration, if not a hindrance? Please note that a man is not a property that can be the subject of anyone's ownership. Any man is entitled to the exercise of free will. His being in a relationship should not be an obstacle. What is important is that you present him with a clear choice: to stay with the current relationship, or begin a more fulfilling one with you. If he choses the former, you'll just have to respect that. But if he choses you, embrace his choice with no apologies. Credit your man with the capacity to make an intelligent decision.  We all seal our fate with the choices we make. Hence, the power to make a choice should be ours alone to exercise. Quote Link to comment
saltek_2 Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 and i bet it felt good, didn't it? it always feels good to follow your heart.If you want a person so badly, why should another person become a consideration, if not a hindrance? Please note that a man is not a property that can be the subject of anyone's ownership. Any man is entitled to the exercise of free will. His being in a relationship should not be an obstacle. What is important is that you present him with a clear choice: to stay with the current relationship, or begin a more fulfilling one with you. If he choses the former, you'll just have to respect that. But if he choses you, embrace his choice with no apologies. Credit your man with the capacity to make an intelligent decision.  We all seal our fate with the choices we make. Hence, the power to make a choice should be ours alone to exercise.  hello nightingale :cool: yup it felt so good! as they say it is better to love and fail than not to have loved at all, i would forever regret it if i did not go for her even if she's already taken Quote Link to comment
_Honey_ Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 (edited) if i were a couple of years younger, maybe i would. but now, i don't think i would.i just had this experience a couple of weeks back. someone was courting me and telling me how terrible his current relationship is. for some reason, i didn't buy what he said. guys and even girls have a tendency to disown their current partners when interrogated or confronted (though i wasn't really interrogating him at that time). simple lang eh.. single ako ng makilala niya ako, kung gusto nya ko, dapat magpakasingle muna sya. i'm not saying this because i'm selfish or self-centered. i'm saying this because i know i deserve a lil more.. we have choices and i don't easily take it when someone said that it's very hard to break off with another person. i am the master of my choices, wants and desires, and so at some point, everybody is. unless yung tao ang bumubuhay sa kanya.. hehe!! Edited January 7, 2007 by _Honey_ Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 free will.... i know of a few female friends who i didn't pursue because of friendship and some bastard just took advantage. now, I wish that we had some special moment than just being friends. you can be friends with anyone. which do you prefer? Quote Link to comment
Oregon Waffle Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 I won't because I don't like trouble or complications. Quote Link to comment
MRyoso Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 if i were a couple of years younger, maybe i would. but now, i don't think i would.i just had this experience a couple of weeks back. someone was courting me and telling me how terrible his current relationship is. for some reason, i didn't buy what he said. guys and even girls have a tendency to disown their current partners when interrogated or confronted (though i wasn't really interrogating him at that time). simple lang eh.. single ako ng makilala niya ako, kung gusto nya ko, dapat magpakasingle muna sya. i'm not saying this because i'm selfish or self-centered. i'm saying this because i know i deserve a lil more.. we have choices and i don't easily take it when someone said that it's very hard to break off with another person. i am the master of my choices, wants and desires, and so at some point, everybody is. unless yung tao ang bumubuhay sa kanya.. hehe!!  hahah the first paragraph hit me like a big stone yes, i did it before it feels good because of the male ego thing (dumping his bf for you) but after pondering closely, i felt guilty hindi ko naman mahal yung mga babae, i was just trying to see if they'll dump their guy for me pero ngayon, may bf yung isang medyo pinopormahan ko pero good thing is that i think she'll not dump her bf for me masaya na kaming umarte na parang mag gf at bf (heheh) takot na ako sa karma! Quote Link to comment
cyber_princesa26 Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 ayoko na. jan ako nagkakandaleche leche e. Â seriously, mahirap po cya. wag ng gumaya sakin. Quote Link to comment
mohao Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 tama nga naman yung sabi na wag magsalita ng patapos...  i'm having 2nd thoughts on this... but it's not my nature... we'll see if how things are... maybe i might...  question is "is he worth it?" Quote Link to comment
tum0y Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 nope.... it can destroy a family, hurt and leave a very deep wound.... Quote Link to comment
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