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Falling in Love with Someone When You Cannot...


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  • 5 months later...

It's only hard at first, actually it will feel like killing your soul. Over time, you'll get used to not having her in your life and you will adapt.

 

After a while, you will feel better. You might think of her but it's just that, you'll learn that you can live with just memories. They (memories)are good to have, but you have a real life to live.

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Don't stay away.. annoy him/her. Show him/her that you're the worst person he/she have ever hooked up with. Well, I'm sure he/she'll be the one to stay away from you.

 

If you keep on showing good things, it will only make him/her fall for you more.

 

Well, that's based from my own experience. That's what we're both doing now. :rolleyes:

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i believe you just can't just leave her or him,you can't run away from it,from love is what i meant..there's always a means of communication,the celllphones,landlines and probably he'll know your address, i guess it would literally slide! i mean you'd realize later on that you would eventually have to leave, if you try to make false promises that you'd start not talking to him,cut the lines and change your sim,you would eventually go back to the habit,start talking and again and be bitter again and trying to the routine again of changing your number ladeeda, the best thing i'd advice is you let it slide, enjoy the moment, you don't need to fight it, time will come when its sunk into you,you'd jusr have to go! You can't totally deny it,love will stay there, just enjoy the moment,no right and wrong on things, do what you think its right,stop being a hypocrite,enjoy! ENJOY!

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darnit!

 

hahah what a question.

 

for my part, i tried to stay away but it isnt easy. its almost as if your heart, mind and soul pushes you towards that person and you are powerless...

 

what i realized is il just let it happen. however way it turns out. see... its good enough that i love.... one really should not ask for anything more.

 

:)

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  • 2 weeks later...

I agree with the post of most people here, even if you want to stay away from the person you love, you can't. Your love for her will pull you back again and again even if you know that it will bring you nothing but pain and suffering. No matter how you rationalize and even if you realize that there will be no happy ending for you, you will still be there waiting and ready to do anything to make her happy. A cousin of mine is in this kind of situation and it has been 10 years now and he is still in love with the girl and cannot leave her. He can live with the suffering brought by his knowledge of the fact that his love will never be reciprocated but he is not yet prepared to live a life away from this woman. How sad.

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