mejobadboy Posted April 17, 2016 Share Posted April 17, 2016 I had a coworker who has a 6 year relationship with a guy. Right from the start we felt attracted with each other but I avoided her because I know she's in a relationship. Eventually, we ended up being close and I immediately told her that she should break-up with him because she's not happy anymore (which she really said) so I made her choose between us. So she attempted to break-up with him but she immediately got back because she was scared that her boyfriend would tell her parents and she's really scared of her parents and she is planning to study to the US and her boyfriend is willing to go with her. So I never talked to her again until one day she insisted to talk to me and again I told her to choose the person that will make her truly happy so the next day she attempted to break-up again but her boyfriend begged for her to stay. The day after that, the guy proposed to her but she said "No". When she told it to her parents, they got angry.The day after the proposal, she talked to me and told me that she would say "yes", I got angry at her and told her to do it but eventually I realized that I should have convinced her otherwise so I ran to the place where they'll meet only to find out that it wall all too late. She called me and said that she already said "yes". So I'm practically moving on but she's still insisting that I talk to her and telling words like "I love you and I miss you". Well, I can't even get angry at her, maybe because I feel the same way too. Quote Link to comment
rainbow_man Posted April 21, 2016 Share Posted April 21, 2016 I have a guy friend since 2010 officemate ko siya before, and we have this thing na we know we both love each other we already admitted it s isat isa but...We also treasure our friendship.. so ang exsenasince madalas kami mapag kamalang in a relationship ng mga tao we both agreed na whatever it is na nakikita ngbmga tao or yung sweettreatment namin sa isat isa we will not gonna label it... we are just close friends nothing more nothing less...we cannot see each other personally if in a relationship isa samin.. he had his girlfriends na ex na ngaun i had mine na ex na din.. we saw each other again last year sa birthday ko and damn the love is still here same to him then again we saw each other last week, he introduces me to his family sa mother side but syempre as a friend pa din, even his cousin are teasing us na ayaw nila maniwala na di nga kami so pinaintindi namin bakit ayun kinantyawan kami na #FRIENDZONE his courting a girl now and for the first time nakaramdam ako ng selos and is a pa ang chararat ni girl di sila bagay.. sabi ko nga eh never ako nakialam sa mga prev relationships niya but this one i obviously disagree.. napapaisip din tuloy siya kasi oo nga di ako nakialalam sa mga past pero apektado ako dito sa isa i told him di maganda kutob ko sa girl ..well i still dont know the uodates kasi mukhang wala nananmna sa systema friend ko and i hate it na nag seselos ako We love each other but avoided to be labeled as in a relationship, para di dumating yung araw na magkasakitan kami at tuluyang mag hiwalay.. and we both cannot let that happen.... isa pa pareho naming di alam ang gusto pa namain.. But no matter what, even if the time comes na marealize niya na we should end this craziness of ours i will continue loving him..even if his not really mine nice story of friendship, i do not know why you're pretending not to care or have feelings when you know it's there? isnt it betraying your friend when all this time youre feeling something to him? but i guess its your side only..not sure about the guy..and in our culture, dapat mauna si guy to confess his love..but the heck! if u really love the person, then u need to tell him...just my opinion.. Quote Link to comment
jesincase Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 Can a 10 fall for a 4 like me? 1 Quote Link to comment
madruff Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 nangyari na din sakin wto kaso yung and xgf ko sya nagsabi sakin at hindi ko eto makakalimutan na sinabi nya " gusto ko sanang sabihin sayo na mahal pa din kita, kaso hindi na talaga pwede" kasi may bf sya nun at papunta na syang canada. Quote Link to comment
seductivevenus Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 It's hard to love someone when you're already in love with someone else. But sometimes my heart longs for that person whom I cannot have because he's in pursuit of his dream. Quote Link to comment
Modta022 Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 I think I fell in love with my secretary like f#&k! It's not right nakakalibog kasi siya hahaha Quote Link to comment
JoshuaJacob Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 This situation is really hard to resolve. Particularly if the girl is within your eyeing distance. It would be best to find somebody else while the situation is just evolving. And let this new distraction be your avenue to look the other way. BUT the most difficult situation if the girl will also find her own ways to get your attention. SIGH!!! This would end up as a great temptation and later on ends-up w/ a relationship hard to break up later on. Quote Link to comment
sister xtina Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 You can never be happy with that person. Laging may kulang. Quote Link to comment
AraBella Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 isang tanong lang... nagtitikiman ba kayo? dahil dun magbabago ang perception ko sa story mo... Yeah 2x na nice story of friendship, i do not know why you're pretending not to care or have feelings when you know it's there? isnt it betraying your friend when all this time youre feeling something to him? but i guess its your side only..not sure about the guy..and in our culture, dapat mauna si guy to confess his love..but the heck! if u really love the person, then u need to tell him...just my opinion..We b9th adm8ted it na nga but ayaw namin ng label thats it Quote Link to comment
JaYmes Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 My mind is telling me NO... But my body is telling me Yeah!!! Quote Link to comment
dinibdib Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 masakit kapag nakikita mo siyang masaya sa piling ng iba Quote Link to comment
flamingstone Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 It's hard to love someone when you're already in love with someone else. But sometimes my heart longs for that person whom I cannot have because he's in pursuit of his dream.maybe you should wait for this guy? Quote Link to comment
WarmachineX Posted May 8, 2016 Share Posted May 8, 2016 Once thing I learned in relationships is that it's impossible unloving someone... What's possible is learning how to get used to not being with him/her. Quote Link to comment
kaulayaw Posted May 8, 2016 Share Posted May 8, 2016 Mas masakit pag alam mong di talaga magproprosper ang love nyo kahit anong mangyari ... Quote Link to comment
kaulayaw Posted May 8, 2016 Share Posted May 8, 2016 But atleast you tried, the moments which you spent together will remain forever regardless of the bad ending...which one is harder? regretting that nothing happened or regretting that you have to let go? Quote Link to comment
ElkOlOcOy Posted May 8, 2016 Share Posted May 8, 2016 pag hindi uukol... hindi bubukol... Quote Link to comment
Seta Sinestro Posted May 9, 2016 Share Posted May 9, 2016 I love my work hahaha so I must not..Besides, kelangan mag ipon pambili kotse Quote Link to comment
bakedzitiguy Posted May 10, 2016 Share Posted May 10, 2016 been there, done that. we're friends now. Quote Link to comment
flamingstone Posted May 14, 2016 Share Posted May 14, 2016 It's hard to love someone when you're already in love with someone else. But sometimes my heart longs for that person whom I cannot have because he's in pursuit of his dream. Quote Link to comment
amamicomefaitu Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 There are many ways to be happy when in love even you cannot or that someone doesn't love you back.. just enjoy being in love and let positive thoughts remains. Quote Link to comment
- The Godfather - Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 It depends kung destiny mo Mahirap kontrahin itong destiny na ito. Quote Link to comment
DorkVader Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 There are many ways to be happy when in love even you cannot or that someone doesn't love you back.. just enjoy being in love and let positive thoughts remains.Really? That's the common argument of battered women and stalkers. Be careful. I am sorry but I do not believe in being destined to "endure" this kind of setup. If it is not two way, then it is not a relationship. Quote Link to comment
Seta Sinestro Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 Really? That's the common argument of battered women and stalkers. Be careful. I am sorry but I do not believe in being destined to "endure" this kind of setup. If it is not two way, then it is not a relationship.Something like Stockholm Syndrome? Quote Link to comment
Seta Sinestro Posted May 16, 2016 Share Posted May 16, 2016 Napaisip lang sa thread title... Meron kasing "when" So ang tanong ba is, falling for someone WHEN you cannot Or Direktang falling for someone you cannot? Quote Link to comment
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