david dickham Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow I was in the same boat just recenty.But come to think of it, we are both married and it can't be undone.ANd I know, sholud we continue on, that sooner or later, lives will be ruined and it is highly possible that we may start hating each other.Thus we both decided to end it while we still love each other.Now I still love her, but I love her from a distance. And so does she.Difficult? very...But I guess, we have to make a choice between what is right and what is easy.But at least, I have good memories to cherish and at times these memories keep me sane....I still have something to hold on to. This keeps me away from her... :hypocritesmiley: ...otherwise I will lose everything. :heart: Quote Link to comment
astig_supah_ganda Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 tlgang mahirap.. pero kung may pangarap ka.. at.. alam mo ung tama... magagawa mo ng maayos ang pag iwas... like me... hahahahaha... wer still frens... db??? Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Well if you love someone so much and society will look down upon you having a relationship with him/her for whatever reason, you stay away because you love him/her and you don't want him/her being ostracized by society, unless you are both willing to live with the consequences of your actions, in which case ... Quote Link to comment
tequila Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 mahirap pero dapat kayanin i tend to not go to the places we used to go and not to think of her na though i really do mis her pero para mas mabilis nag hanap na lang uli ako ng new girlfriend kahit medyo pangit ang dating parang fall back pero syempre d ko naman sinabi na fall back sya :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
averno Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 its hard...... when youre already accustomed to living your life with that special someone you swore to the heavens that you'd always take care and love..... you try to forget slowly, one agonizing day at a time..... thats basically all you can do. Quote Link to comment
Laclie Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 bad may it seems but "anger" helped me in forgeting "running away" from my past love its not easy to let go and to "stay away" from som1 u truly and deeply loved and cared foresp if that som1 told you that he found someone new..and no longer wanted you i accepted that painful reality.. i cried a river..its not only my heart that was woundedbut also my soul.. but as i try to keep myself sane and intactsomething happened.. he did something "awful".. that not only hurt my heart but moreso my pride..then i was provoked.. at first i maintained my distance and peacebut i had enough and the devil in me fight back.. aside from i deleted/ cut all communication/ means that i had with him..i deleted his mobile num ..changed my sim.. ym id and put him in my ignored list ..block his email address....i even changed my home address (transfered to a new plc) and my career (work) i wrote him a "hate" letter... things that he did in the back of his current gfand i gave his gf a copy of it.. and also to some of our common friends :evil: from then on... he realized that i have no intention of doing any monkey business with him im no martyr..nor a fooli have my limits.. evendo i still love him that time..i also love myselfi know when to fight and when to let go.. and my pride helped me to move on..my anger serves as my fuel to ignore the good and happy memries that we hadand lastly time healed my wounds now l..its been years.. 2+ years to be exactand weird it may seems but we are friends nowand his getting married by this year to his current bf ( not the girl that replaced me hehehehe ) unfortunately or furtunately for meuntil now i haven't found the one that i can love againbut i trust my fate.. i know.. somewhere.. somehow.. in someway i will find someone that is truly meant for me Quote Link to comment
bluegreen717 Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 I pick a fight...as in a really major fight. As many as it takes. Brutal? Yes. But my intentions are good. Quote Link to comment
dark-knight Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 ang hirap yata nito... Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 Stay with someone* you love moreIf you dont have one* get one*. * Anything - need not to be similar to the one you orginally love Pet, toy, partner, friend, relative etcetera Quote Link to comment
averno Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 one agonizing day at a time my friends, one agonizing day at a time Quote Link to comment
Wyld Posted January 13, 2006 Share Posted January 13, 2006 Sometimes its possible. It just takes sheer effort and firm resolve. But there are just times when you love so much staying away is not an option. And you stay. And love. Its not easy but you still do. Quote Link to comment
sardines_date Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 It really hurts to do that. I think I may not be able to do that. It may give a karma someday. Quote Link to comment
chill Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Hanap ka na lang iba then kailangan umiwas ka na lang,dami naman iba dyan nag-aabang lang......... Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 i just had a very painful break up. sobrang sakit. mahal ko kasi. too painful that i couldnt contain the feelinginside me...i had to talk to someone about it. I ended up crying on a shoulder of a girl friend. napaka pathetic ko...hmmm. Point of the story...get someone to help you if you think you cannot do it alone. Quote Link to comment
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