snoopy23 Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 You know exactly what is right. set each other free. focus your attention to your family. And do what will benefit the majority. Quote Link to comment
simple2905 Posted October 21, 2005 Share Posted October 21, 2005 its really hard to make a move for that... Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted October 21, 2005 Share Posted October 21, 2005 Indeed. First you have to make a decision of loving you partner for what she/he is or walk away......Though you may end up regreting at it seemed you never tried to save it at all....Then you reconcile. If you love them for what he/she is and at the back of you thoughts this is not ideal for you... then this will tire you off .... Indeed... And at this point you turn your back to him/herthere is no coming back...   I guess in the end, you won't have to do anything. Your heart will eventually tire and your pride will eventually win. Reason, Logic will take over and you will be able to walk away without looking back.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH<{POST_SNAPBACK}>  if you are married  - then you are stupid to have been unfaithful to your wife!!! :thumbsdownsmiley: :thumbsdownsmiley: :thumbsdownsmiley: obviously it only shows that you are a loser!!! ( sorry for the word)  if you have kids - how stupid can you get??? your not just a loser , also an irresponsible person.  if you dont want to hurt her - the time that you have entered into the relationship you have already did!!! thunk about it!!!! he / she loves you so much - bagay kayo pareho kayong tanga at gago!!! of course, if the other party doesnt know that you are married then shame on you!!! pero kung alam nya clearly that you are married then it is his/ her fault and the time he/she entered that relationship, he/she knows clearly that there are consequences that he/she must face in the future!!!   SORRY PO SA REPLY KO BUT THE TRUTH HURTS!!!!    :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: :mtc: Quote Link to comment
Guest BDC0425 Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 sorry sa post ko it should be... "think about it" and not "thunk about it" "you already did" and not "you have already did" Quote Link to comment
Guest lemon Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF......YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED... YOU HAVE KIDS... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH<{POST_SNAPBACK}> in all your posts, you never mentioned telling your wife about this problem and it seems that you intend to keep it that way if you can get away with it. don't you think its way too unfair to her already? don't get me wrong, i'm not blaming you. its just that i don't think you can just pretend it never happened and return to where it was before should you ever succeed in pulling this off on the girl's end. going back to your family is as much a decision of your family (your wife particularly) as it is of yours. you have to tell your wife the truth. you have to get her involved, at the very least, in deciding whether she still wants you back or not. for all you know she might just stick it out with you thru the whole thing. and then again, she might just not---which i won't blame her for also--its one of the consequences you will have to face. but, bro, you have to make things right in the right way. you'll probably end up alone eventually but you have to give everyone the respect they deserve--and i mean everyone! Quote Link to comment
asungot Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 Trabaho lng...and then, after work inom para tulog agad.... Quote Link to comment
arrow Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 I guess in the end, you won't have to do anything. Your heart will eventually tire and your pride will eventually win. Reason, Logic will take over and you will be able to walk away without looking back.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>  even if you really really love someone?? people invented the word "love" to have an escape route to things they are not fully understand, their stupidities , irrational thinkin that is blinded by the mere presence of that someone. trying to save my girlfriend/wife life sacrificing mine.some actually happens.but wat is the logic about trying to end your natural life tryin to save someone?at the end it all boils down to "love", but what is love?illogical isnt it? just tryin to explain..,peace out. Quote Link to comment
chikideng Posted October 24, 2005 Share Posted October 24, 2005 keep urself busy..do things that will keep him/her out of your mind. :* Quote Link to comment
astig_supah_ganda Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 korek.. be busy.. gawin molhat ang mga gagawin mo..iwasan mo ung makakapag-paalalasa kanya.. talk to ur frens.. sbhin mo s knla na wag nanilang ipaalala ung nakaraan.. :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 i honestly do not know what to do.... Quote Link to comment
Manticore Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 HOW WOULD YOU STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? IF... ...YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED ... YOU HAVE KIDS ... AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER ... AND SHE/HE IS YOUR FRIEND'S BF/GF ... AND SHE/HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH<{POST_SNAPBACK}>If one's conscience (and will) is strong enough, then this wouldn't present too much of a problem. If you're not happy with your marriage, work it out first. Having an affair only complicates things. If you indulged yourself and find that you're in too deep, just remember what you stand to lose. It has now become a choice between your family and the other woman. She also deserves to have someone all to herself. You can't have your cake and eat it, too. You just end up hurting more people, that way. We have a knack for justifying our choices, even when we know that they do more harm than good. Your hands are not tied. Know in your heart what is best for all, and have the courage to do it. Quote Link to comment
Guest Camerie Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 Depends on the intensity of love you're feeling... I have experienced loving someone so much that even I keep my self busy or look for diversions, I just can't keep him out of my mind.... Quote Link to comment
Guest Camerie Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 This worked for me, if you split up with somebody you love so much and you can't seem to forget him, just think of all the negative things he did to you and don't think of the good ones because you'll just miss him more... It would be easier for you to forget the guy this way... Quote Link to comment
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