pepe8164 Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 I agree that cheating per se, whatever the reason, is wrong. However, I dont want to condemn anyone since I myself also tasted cupid's cruel joke once when I got involved with another woman. We all know what we should do if ever we get caught in situations like this, but like anyone who has travelled down this road will tell you, its easier said than done. Quote Link to comment
JHP Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 True, even if i recognize what's right and wrong, as i get older, the less i feel like making judgments about people who are in these situations. Â Life is full of should-not-be's. Â But there's always a price to pay, and it catches up with you, one way or another. Quote Link to comment
diablo69 Posted March 24, 2011 Share Posted March 24, 2011    guys thanks sa inputs... yup mahirap talaga... ngayon kasi we(fubu) both have our own lives na... ako na nga lumalabas nang gugulo pag nalaman eh.. problem kasi we both need each other sabihin natin sexually... ok if sex lang kuha na lang ng psp, ok pwede yun para sa sex part...  pag yung may feelings kasi ka sex mo iba... sa wife tinabangan na ako pag dating sa sex siguro kasi bata maganda sexy si fubu... yup selfish...  pero di pa din naman ako nagkukulang sa wife pag dating dun... and i do love her kaya nga pag papipiliin kung fubu o wife syempre sa .....WIFE kasi yun yung tama... will i be happy...ngayon di siguro... but i will try my best to give it back to my wife lahat ng pagkukulang ko lahat ng sinayang ko...di pa nga siguro ngayon pero gagawin ko   Quote Link to comment
StoicVampire Posted March 24, 2011 Share Posted March 24, 2011 Sexually or not sexually, having a relationship with another person when you are already committed with somebody is cheating. Yes its emotionally tough for both of you but how about the other party? You don't want to pay the price when its already late right? Better be safe than sorry bro. You'll get through it. Goodluck! \m/ Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 Sexually or not sexually, having a relationship with another person when you are already committed with somebody is cheating. Yes its emotionally tough for both of you but how about the other party? You don't want to pay the price when its already late right? Better be safe than sorry bro. You'll get through it. Goodluck! \m/Non-sexual relationship is probably not considered cheating. Why? Let's say I'm in love with ..... and she loves me but we don't do anything about it.Sexual relationship whether a fling or ONS breaks a relationship almost automatically when your other half finds out. Quote Link to comment
BrightestStar Posted June 6, 2012 Share Posted June 6, 2012 Highly possible coz you're already close Quote Link to comment
SaintPeter5858 Posted June 7, 2012 Share Posted June 7, 2012 Maybe it's purely physical. Quote Link to comment
SaintPeter5858 Posted June 7, 2012 Share Posted June 7, 2012 Hopefully you can learn to accept it Quote Link to comment
iRapedSatan Posted June 7, 2012 Share Posted June 7, 2012 It's also like a fruit of the poisonous tree right? Learn to live a moral life instead. Quote Link to comment
sOin2you Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 It's how you'll carry it when you part ways. Nowadays, for some, when we say "I love you" to someone, we expect something back, like an "I love you too". It's more like an insurance rather than an assurance really. We check even from time to time if it has changed or has it lessened. Again, in a manner of insurance, instead of assurance. True feelings are felt and needs no assurance. But of course, it brightens and saddens us to know what the real score is. But if what you have for the other party is true, you don't have to be together to be assured. You don't have to hear to be assured. Distance doesn't even become a hindrance. It can extend as far as you want. Idealistic huh? Quote Link to comment
fire_breather Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 (edited) It's how you'll carry it when you part ways. Nowadays, for some, when we say "I love you" to someone, we expect something back, like an "I love you too". It's more like an insurance rather than an assurance really. We check even from time to time if it has changed or has it lessened. Again, in a manner of insurance, instead of assurance. True feelings are felt and needs no assurance. But of course, it brightens and saddens us to know what the real score is. But if what you have for the other party is true, you don't have to be together to be assured. You don't have to hear to be assured. Distance doesn't even become a hindrance. It can extend as far as you want. Idealistic huh? Idealistic Maybe? But more of a gluton for pain... Not even morphine can numb the agony of un-requited love or one that is simply not meant to be . We throw caution to the wind when love bites and as we succumb to it we fall head first and hard. Even when reason says nay the heart goes all the way. Most definitley ...In love, fools we all are. Peace! Edited June 11, 2012 by fire_breather 1 Quote Link to comment
sOin2you Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 Idealistic Maybe? But more of a gluton for pain... Not even morphine can numb the agony of un-requited love or one that is simply not meant to be . We throw caution to the wind when love bites and as we succumb to it we fall head first and hard. Even when reason says nay the heart goes all the way. Most definitley ...In love, fools we all are. Peace!  It is indeed a challenge undergoing that pain. As hard as it may seem, a weak heart can easily let go; but a strong and willed heart will go on taking in the pain and making it a part of one's self. Funny coz we don't wanna be called fools.. but we do allow ourselves to become one when we're under that love spell, loving it even. 1 Quote Link to comment
fire_breather Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 It is indeed a challenge undergoing that pain. As hard as it may seem, a weak heart can easily let go; but a strong and willed heart will go on taking in the pain and making it a part of one's self. Funny coz we don't wanna be called fools.. but we do allow ourselves to become one when we're under that love spell, loving it even. Indeed, when one gets aflicted by true love, no medicine, therapy, or antidote can rid you of the malaise... You simply give in hoping that it takes you to happiness and contentment if not total ruin. Whatever the outcome, Love is what living in this world is all about. There's no truer words than ... "It's better to have loved and lost than not loved at all" ... It is what makes us human.  Cheers! 1 Quote Link to comment
Guest simply_tinA Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 nilet go ko na nagtry xa kausapin ako yoko na makipag-usap papahirapan lan niya ko.. pag naggoodbye na wag na magHELLO ulet pahirap lan eh.. Quote Link to comment
sOin2you Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 Indeed, when one gets aflicted by true love, no medicine, therapy, or antidote can rid you of the malaise... You simply give in hoping that it takes you to happiness and contentment if not total ruin. Whatever the outcome, Love is what living in this world is all about. There's no truer words than ... "It's better to have loved and lost than not loved at all" ... It is what makes us human.  Cheers!   Even if I'm not drinking, I'll raise a glass to that. Cheers! 1 Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 If I love her, then her highest good, not mine will be preeminent. Therefore, since I can never be the best for her because I am already married, I will break the relationship. How do I stay away? Physically and electronically. Its a decision one must do for the greater good.. mahirap pero nararapat.. masakit pero kailangan. indeed. no more call, text, email, fb, tweeter, ym as in cut the communication and get busy doing other things.. I'm going through the same senario right now.. I've cut the communication for 1 month now.. this is with a thinking.. since I am married and I have a family.. I owe her a good life with someone who can really love her w/o reservation.. someone who will be there regardless.. its painful but thats true love... (not selfish) once day.. she will thank you for it im sure.. (setting her free) Quote Link to comment
fire_breather Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 Even if I'm not drinking, I'll raise a glass to that. Cheers!  "...We drank a toast to innocence we drank a toast to timeWe're living in our eloquence, another old lang syneThe beers were empty and our tongues grew tiredand running out of things to sayShe gave a kiss to me as I got outand I watched her drive awayJust for a moment I was back in schoolAnd felt that old familiar painAnd as I turned to make my way back homethe snow turned into rain " " " my dear... A feeling most if not all of us knew to well... Cheers! Quote Link to comment
cHinitababe86 Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 siguro based on my opinion, mahirap talaga patagalin ang mga ganitong affairs.sa una, pareho niyong habol physical terms lang which is sex.you both enjoy it (since alam niyo pareho how to satisfy each other very well)sa tagal ng panahon, mas sasarap pa. mas maghahanap ka. ung minsanan,napapadalas. ang masama non, hindi lang naman puro sex.normally you go out, talk, and make lots of kulitan. (which i think hindi maganda)kasi doon nagsstart madevelop ang mga feelings na HINDI dapat kasalio hindi dapat mangyari o matuloy. in the end, its eitheru both get hurt or one gets hurt dahil mafafall. and i must admit, mahirapsaken pumasok sa mga ganitong bagay. lalo na hindi ko mate-take na sumamadun sa tao ng purely sex lang. parang bato. so i'd rather get out of my way slowly, para hindi na lumaki ung pahamak na mangyayari.afterall, naniniwala lang naman ako na maganda na isa lang dahil madaming sakitsa panahon ngayon. pero hindi ko rin maaafford na il fall inlove eventuallysamantalang alam ko naman ano lang ung nasa agreement. which is the mind blowing sex.saws. 1 1 Quote Link to comment
BrightestStar Posted June 14, 2012 Share Posted June 14, 2012 I just try to enjoy every moment with her Quote Link to comment
SaintPeter5858 Posted June 15, 2012 Share Posted June 15, 2012 I respect those who still gamble Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted June 18, 2012 Share Posted June 18, 2012 ahh the things people do for love... Quote Link to comment
307 Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 its one of the biggest decision that will hurt Quote Link to comment
BrightestStar Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 Most of the time I just let go. Quote Link to comment
SaintPeter5858 Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 If type mo talaga, go fight till the last drop of your blood! Quote Link to comment
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