What R U Going To Do Kung May Nanliligaw Sa Gf Mo?

[D('.')T]

so anong gagawin nyo kung merong nanliligaw sa gf/asawa nyo?  pakishare naman ng inyong opinions and suggestions pls.

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Uhmm... Lemme see.... Lemme think...

If this is the situation then I'd probably just let things be. :cool: But it also depend, if it's my GF then I'll just live it up to her of what's she's up to do. :goatee: If it's a WIFE already then it's a different story already morning glory. :thumbsdownsmiley: Damn it! :grr: It would be a World Ward III put in history. :mtc:

[billie06381]

so anong gagawin nyo kung merong nanliligaw sa gf/asawa nyo?  pakishare naman ng inyong opinions and suggestions pls.

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il tel her to avoid that guy.. me karapatan ka naman magdemand ng ganun di ba? now if your woman choose to entertain him.. Leave her.. hehehe.. mind u bro.. mas marami population ng babae sa lalake..

[gottogo]

napakawalang respeto naman nong lalaking yon sa gf mo at sa'yo

sabihan mo na lang yong lalaki na ikaw ang bf at wag na nyang guluhin ang relasyon nyong dalawa at kung hindi ka pinakinggan...karapatan mong manakit ng kapwa!

[pogingpogi]

I'll talk to my gf na ingat siya sa guy na yun....and as much as possible siya na lumayo.....pero I trust her naman kaya alam ko alam na niya gagawin niya...pero if the guy still insist....baka bigla akong maging si ultimatae warrior .....rumble to....away gusto giyera bibigay ko :evil:

[Showstopper]

well nangyari na sakin to. kaso kabaligtaran nangyari di ko alam naging bf nya na pala yung kapitbahay nyang nanliligaw sa kanya kahit alam ng kapitbahay nya na may bf sya dahil hinahatid ko naman sya araw araw. Grabeee halos madurog ako nun, last year (April pa yun at month pa ng birthday ko!) lang yun nangyari and the bad part is nung time na tawagan ko sya kasama pa nya yung new bf nya na naririnig ko pa sa background na nagmamalaki pa! asar! awang awa sakin yung mommy nya, gustong upakan ng barkada ko yung bago nya, pati family nya boto sakin kaso what can I do? iyak na lang ako nun. pero nakarma siguro and nagtext sya sakin na sabi nya niloko lang daw sya and hindi daw maipakita nung bf nya yung kabaitan at love napinakita ko sa kanya noon, Although I still love her sabi ko Time will tell kung para ba kami sa isa't isa and konting delicadeza naman para sa part ko yun

[Guest wackeen]

nice question

 

masakit isipin pero di naman lahat ng bf/gf (or kahit marriage pa nga) ay tumatagal. maraming magaganda at mabubuting tao sa mundo pero di sila lahat nagmamahalan. you can't hang on, act defensive, or go on the offensive just because na-challenge ang relationship niyo (or ang iyong macho ego).

 

ang primary objective mo is a full understanding of the situation. ok ba talaga kayo ng gf mo, at vulnerable ba siya dahil medyo nagkukulang ka? kung humihingi ka pa ng payo sa ibang tao para dito, sigurado ka bang mahal mo talaga siya o ayaw mo lang mag mukhang tanga? ikaw mismo masasagot mo iyan, kahit di mo pa kausapin gf mo o ang admirer niya.

 

pag may buo ka nang info, then you decide. trust her and dont worry about him just focus on your girl or mag cool-off kayo or break-up and then move on. ang abangan mo lang eh kung tarantado yung guy at baka mang-harrass -- kung epal siya saka mo na upakan.

[centrino]

if your woman choose to entertain him.. Leave her..

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This is the BEST ANSWER for me... I just did this last night and boy was it liberating... About the guy (manliligaw) I gonna give him one hell of a nightmare :evil:

 

But i just realized now na yung mga babaeng nag eentertain pa while may BF / Husband sila is not even worth a minute of our time. Such a lowlife poor excuse for womankind deserves the lowest treatment from anybody... may karma naman eh :goatee:

Edited October 28, 2005 by centrino

[masi]

This happened to me when I was younger. I went overseas to attend a 3-week conference and when I got back, I learned that someone was making "porma" to my GF. My reaction was simple, I asked her if she liked him and she said "No." Enough said. Had she told me, "Yes.", I would have simply walked away.

 

But all these didn't happen in a day. Much as she told me that she didn't like him, the guy was persistent. For me, it wasn't much of an issue since my GF already made the choice. I gave her space to handle her situation. However, there was a time that the guy went over the line. He followed us to the "disco" where my gf and I together with our friends frequented. My friends saw that I was quite "pissed" that evening and having learned about the presence of the guy, they talked to the security/bouncers and had the guy picked up and moved out of the "disco". I didn't get mad at my GF and thanked my friends for helping me out.

[masi]

This happened to me when I was younger. I went overseas to attend a 3-week conference and when I got back, I learned that someone was making "porma" to my GF. My reaction was simple, I asked her if she liked him and she said "No." Enough said. Had she told me, "Yes.", I would have simply walked away.

 

But all these didn't happen in a day. Much as she told me that she didn't like him, the guy was persistent. For me, it wasn't much of an issue since my GF already made the choice. I gave her space to handle her situation. However, there was a time that the guy went over the line. He followed us to the "disco" where my gf and I together with our friends frequented. My friends saw that I was quite "pissed" that evening and having learned about the presence of the guy, they talked to the security/bouncers and had the guy picked up and moved out of the "disco". I didn't get mad at my GF and thanked my friends for helping me out.

[nataraki's_gurl]

coming from a gurl's point of view, main key pa rin ang trust. personally naman k'se i wouldn't entertain suitors if i'm exclusively dating someone. as for the bf, don't jump into conclusions. don't think morbid agad. first thing first, make sure where you stand sa gf mo, kung ano ang personality nya, kung tingin mo ba capable ba xa na makipagflirt, kung gano mo xa ka-love, kung gano ka nya ka-love and kung gano kayo ka-open sa ganon situation. kung alam mo naman na mahal ka talaga ng gf mo, hindi yun ikatatayo ng khit na dulo ng buhok mo. let you gurl handle the situation for herself. u must be secured na d xa papaapekto dun. but you must know the limit. kung sobra na kung ipagpilitan ng suitor and sarili nya, kamay na bakal na! :evil:

[strong_cock]

Nothing...

 

I would like to see how she would handle this.

 

I expect for her to tell her suitors that she's has a boyfriend. Failing to do this, then something is not right.

 

Make a timetable on when do you expect she would do this, if not...think.

Edited November 15, 2005 by strong_cock

[JANITOR]

hayaan mo lang sya kung gf mo pa lang, let her test the waters, kasi kung mahal mo naman at may tiwala ka sa kanya, ano pang ikatatakot mo.......

[doux]

no problem. it's up to the girl if she will still entertain suitors. she would know the repercussion that if i get hurt, she will lose me

[asy]

talagang ganun... sometimes gusto rin nila un e!

[Joyboy]

the logical choice would be to leave it to your gf.... she should keep you informed on what she does about it... this is where trust comes into play...