hilong_talilong Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 this happened to me once nagiing sila...i even begged well naging then ayun naman...but ayun nauntog na ako...dami naman dyan iba....after couple of months ayun lahat ng post ko dito sa MTC binabara nya....hay gurls nga naman... Quote Link to comment
teryus Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 mga repaps eto h wlang halong kayabangan h... hehe prang nsa barberya e no dis is always d scenario wenever i entered into a relationship... lage my mga umaalialigid... d q alm if il be proud or synonymous n tlga ung name q s gnito situation... xmpre nbbother dn aq pro d q n pnphalata.. kc yoko mgovercome ung selos sa tiwala q s knya.... besyds anu q insecure? haler? kya lng sometyms d m tlga maiwasan e... alm m un nnnadya na e.. i can be patient enuf but not to d extent pti date nmin e eepal p!naknampucha.. lhat my hnganan as well as my patience.... kya khit yomo mgargue d tlga maiwasan... ang d q lng maintindihan is nlalagay nla s bracket ung mga ganun tao as deir frend/besfrend/close frend since kopong kopong days... my gnun b frend? mas madalas png mgtanung s knya ng kumain knb kesa saken smantala aq ung bf??? frend b ung gsto xa halikan s lips kc daw frendship cla????? halerrrrr??? at dat point prang cnaniban aq ng kaluluwa n pakyaw!! but infairvyu to my some of my xes cla ung umiiwas.. ung iba pngttangol p nla.. un ung dq maintindihan e.. ung mga frendship n muka bantay salakay tpos pngttangol p nla?????? Quote Link to comment
creeppo Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 tol, hayaan mo yun nanliligaw sa GF. Ang importante kung gaano ka strong ang relatioship ninyo ng GF mo. Usually, ang mga ladies mapaghanap ng affections, attentions and companionship. Kung me kulang ka sa ganun department medyo punuin mo kasi baka yun ibang guy alam nila ano ang hinahanap ng lady kaya ine-exploit nila ang situation. Just be fair with your GF, kasi minsan tayo mahilig lumabas kasama barkada or gumimik na d cla kasama. Syempre cla mga ladies me feeling of insecurities yan. Kaya try to explain everything to them and let them broaden their mind. Kung hindi maka-resist c GF sa panunuyo ng iba, i think you better find somebody else no matter how it hurts. Kasi d talaga kayo para sa isa't isa. Hindi sya ang soulmate mo, tol. Quote Link to comment
babymaker Posted March 26, 2007 Share Posted March 26, 2007 What if binuntisan mo pero iniwan sayo yung anak mo dahil sa hindi ka niya talaga mahal??? #1 I don't believe in love.#2 I believe in MY biological babies. So kung iwanan nya sa akin ang babies? MY GAIN, her loss! My babies are the REAL PRIZE, not her. :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
FINGERZAP Posted June 16, 2007 Share Posted June 16, 2007 Kung magasawa na kayo, di na dapat magpaligaw ang girl. Nagsumpaan na kayo before God. Pero kung magsyota pa lang, ask your gf kung gusto nya magpaligaw dun sa nanliligaw. It will be a test for her, whatever the outcome, you will be the winner. How? Kung gusto nya magpaligaw, give her space. If she comes back to you, your relationship will now be at a different level. You gave her freedom, she came back. This proves something about the two of you. If she leaves you, she's not the right girl for you. So either way, you WIN! Quote Link to comment
FINGERZAP Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 Just remembered an ex-gf. One of the reasons why nawalan ako ng gana sa kanya is that she replies to strangers. First of all she's attractive, and most guys would be interested in getting her number. Some may have gotten it directly from her, some may have gotten it from her acquaintances. Ask ko lang, meron bang guy na manghihingi ng number ng girl pero friendship lang talaga intention nya? Yun kasi nirarason nya sa kin noon everytime, na they just wanna be friends with her lang daw. Edi friends. Pero ang hindi ko maintindihan, kapag nagpakita na ng motibo ang guy, tuloy pa rin sya sa pag-reply. It's already obvious na iba naman pala talaga intention, ba't di pa nya tuldukan? Sabi nya she turns them down naman daw and tells them to stop texting (which I'm not really sure if she does), but they just keep on texting that's why she keeps replying daw. Duh?! If she wants them to stop texting, edi wag na lang sya magreply diba? If she keeps on replying, lalo lang syang kukulitin ng mga suitors. I just don't know why she doesn't get this. Could it be that she enjoys the attention? While I'm being faithful to her and had never ask any girl for her number and had never replied to anonymous texters, she wants to maintain her suitors' attention while still being committed to me. Ego booster for her maybe? Or is it something deeper? Could it be that she's waiting for someone better to come along, looking around while still maintaining our relationship? Parang segurista ba? Parang before she gets off from my boat gusto nya nakatapak na isang paa nya sa kabilang boat. Was she not contented with me? Sana iwanan na lang muna nya ako bago tumingin-tingin ng iba. Kasi kung tumitingin-tingin sya ng iba while being committed to me, questionable ang pagibig nya. And it's really unfair on my part. Eto pa matindi, pag mga anonymous texters, yung tipong di nya talaga alam kung sino yun saka kung kanino nila nakuha number nya, REPLY PA RIN SYA?! I ask her for what? Andito naman ako, her ever faithful bf, and still parang she's looking for another guy. Wala syang malinaw na maisagot. Nakaka-wala ng self-confidence. My self-worth was at its lowest at that time. Feeling ko I'm just Mr. Right Now. Can you guys/gals comment on this? Am I over-acting or rationale/normal lang mga reactions ko? How would you have reacted if you were in my shoes? Quote Link to comment
tsinita Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 hindi mo naman mapipigilan ang ibang lalaking magkagusto sa gf mo o kahit pa sa asawa mo.. i think dapat nga maging proud ka pa.. pero ibang usapan na kapag ini-entertain nya yung mga manliligaw.. Quote Link to comment
jaguar_18 Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 I'd like to parallel this situation where a lady flirts a man she sees at a bar. The guy may want to get rid of the lady, but just to be kind he would just wait for her to get tired of doing her act. The question is, what the man does after. Sometimes it just pays to trust your partner, one thing that is important in a relationship. On my perspective, we don't know what her real intention is, benefit of the doubt. As long as you've talked about it and she says this, hold on to it. You'll now for yourself if she already starts playing with other guys. Still be her Mr. Right, makokonsensya siya. Reverse psychology. :hypocritesmiley: Oh well, di na nga pala kayo. Quote Link to comment
Guest lustfortravel Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 Could it be that she enjoys the attention? While I'm being faithful to her and had never ask any girl for her number and had never replied to anonymous texters, she wants to maintain her suitors' attention while still being committed to me. Ego booster for her maybe? Or is it something deeper? Could it be that she's waiting for someone better to come along, looking around while still maintaining our relationship? Parang segurista ba? Parang before she gets off from my boat gusto nya nakatapak na isang paa nya sa kabilang boat. Was she not contented with me? Sana iwanan na lang muna nya ako bago tumingin-tingin ng iba. Kasi kung tumitingin-tingin sya ng iba while being committed to me, questionable ang pagibig nya. And it's really unfair on my part. ayun, sinagot mo na lahat tanong mo po It looks like she enjoys men's attention and she likes to flirt. Obvious na di siya kuntento sa iyo pero habang wala pang dumarating better than you, I think she wouldn't want to let you go . Although you are right in saying sana iwanan ka muna niya, not all people think the same way. Naniniguro lang po siya muna . Just my two cents. :flowers: Quote Link to comment
FINGERZAP Posted June 18, 2007 Share Posted June 18, 2007 Thanks sa replies. Simple lang naman kasi gusto: complete honesty. If she needs space and wants to look around and entertain these guys, sabihin lang nya sa kin. So I know where we stand. Hindi yung pag talikod ko, she is this completely different girl, with a completely different persona. Ako kasi, WYSIWYG. I don't, and cannot, live a double life. A lot of people criticize me for leaving her. Although that's not the only reason why I left (there were other issues), I just don't get it why other people don't understand my side. Quote Link to comment
don juan casanova Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 Nasa babae na yun kung hindi sya tatanga tanga kung anung laking gulo pwede mangyari, as for the nanliligaw dud be careful there are consequences for your actions its not a threat better kilalanin mo muna yung girl if she's not involved with someone mahirap na there some people will do stupid things for there love one. Quote Link to comment
mismo Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 Palagay ko nasa babae na yun kung magpapaligaw siya o hindi. Kahit anong pigil mo or bantay mo kung gusto niyang magpaligaw, wala ka rin magagawa at di naman maganda kung pipigilan mo kasi parang lalabas na wala kang tiwala sa sarili mo. Isipin mo na lang na kung talagang mahal ka niya 100% di na siya magpapaligaw, right? kaya kung girl friend ko na at nagpapaligaw pa aba mag iisip akong mabuti -- opininion ko lang eto and you might not agree with me. Quote Link to comment
BreakAndInsert6977 Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 Thanks sa replies. Simple lang naman kasi gusto: complete honesty. If she needs space and wants to look around and entertain these guys, sabihin lang nya sa kin. So I know where we stand. Hindi yung pag talikod ko, she is this completely different girl, with a completely different persona. Ako kasi, WYSIWYG. I don't, and cannot, live a double life. A lot of people criticize me for leaving her. Although that's not the only reason why I left (there were other issues), I just don't get it why other people don't understand my side. Tama lang 'yan, 'wag nang pahirapan ang sarili. Dapat confident ka sa relationship or else mejo clingy ka na, and that's not good... at isa pa, kung talagang mahal ka ng girl, babalik din siya sa'yo. Quote Link to comment
don juan casanova Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 Yes tama kayo nasa babae na yun dun masusukat kung gaano ka nya ka mahal, If your gf is really beautiful hindi talaga maiiwasan yan in my experience goodlooking women talaga marami umaaligid aligid pansinin nyo nalang in showbussiness actors who get married bilangin nyo nalang ng ilang months hiwalay na o divorce in a relationship maraming tempts mas lalo na kung ganun ang environment mo. Quote Link to comment
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