Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Bajong]

1 hour ago, Mitch of Golden said:

Swerte nga pero feeling ko isa lang din sya sa sasayang ng love ko Haha ! 
 

ayoko na mag expect mashado , sabi nga ng tropa ko Go with the flow nalang daw ako Lalo na guest sya at tHera lang ako . 

Nakakalungkot NMN idol ung word na "thera kalang" 

You also have the right to love someone or to be loved by someone walang "lang" pagdating sa love ♥️

[Noname01]

3 hours ago, Mitch of Golden said:

Pero alam mo un pag magkasama kayo, and mga sinasabi nya sayo ma ffeel mo naman talaga na love ka nia at totoo mga sinasabi nya na sana totoo nalang nga lahat 🤣 

Ginugulo nia isip ko sa totoo lang Haha ayoko ng ganito 🫠

 

tapos he always ask me kung kelan ako mag sstop sa work , and magbagong buhay nalang daw ako . Willing naman ako gawin un gusto kona din naman mag stop pero pano kung ginawa ko ung mga gusto nia tapos biglang one day magbago nalang lahat😣

You can ask him kahit pabiro lalo if wala naman sila anak kaya mo ba ako gawin asawa. But if may anak you know what to do go with the flow and as long as happy kayo but know your limitations kasi in the end masasaktan lang kayo both. Hindi lang ikaw kasi minahal ka din nya lalo if daily ka kinita time is gold and spending time with you means you are a very special someone.

[knightdavion]

11 hours ago, Mitch of Golden said:

Kaya nga mas gusto kopa sya makilala ng matagal ayokong mag pa dalos dalos  , para malaman ko talaga ung totoong status nila now , kasi baka lahat ng sinasabi nya sakin is para lang gumaan loob ko at maniwala ako . 
may mga Pinapakita namn sya sakin na makakapag patunay na di sila okay pero di parin un sapat para sakin kasi unang una , kapag nalaman kong okay talaga sila Kahit mahal kona Papakawalan ko sya , lalayuan ko,kasi ayoko din talaga makasira ng relasyon Sabi ko nga sa knya sabihin nya nalang ung totoo kahit masakit basta wag lang syang magsinungaling e 🤧😌
 

Yeah as i can advise you dont believe it. Just time will prove it. Been in that situation when they said they not happy with their relationship but in the truth that only for take your sympathy. After will time they will remain with the relationship and you the one will be left maybe with the reason their getting baby soon.

[Exec]

On 1/11/2023 at 9:43 PM, Mitch of Golden said:

Swerte nga pero feeling ko isa lang din sya sa sasayang ng love ko Haha ! 
 

ayoko na mag expect mashado , sabi nga ng tropa ko Go with the flow nalang daw ako Lalo na guest sya at tHera lang ako 

Maraming mga GM sa thread na eto na hindi "thera lang" ang tingin sa inyo.

Tama lang naman na maging maingat ka hangga't hindi mo seguradong completely honest siya sa iyo lalo na kalagayan nilang mag-asawa.

[Mitch of King]

22 hours ago, Noname01 said:

You can ask him kahit pabiro lalo if wala naman sila anak kaya mo ba ako gawin asawa. But if may anak you know what to do go with the flow and as long as happy kayo but know your limitations kasi in the end masasaktan lang kayo both. Hindi lang ikaw kasi minahal ka din nya lalo if daily ka kinita time is gold and spending time with you means you are a very special someone.

Wala silang anak pero kasal sila . 

Inamin nya namn sakin lahat , and feeling ko naman nagsasabi sya ng totoo at na ffeel ko naman na love nya din talaga ako . 

Pero kasi ang hirap kapag Kasal na ung usapan , kasi kahit anong Gawin mo kapag nagkahulihan wala kapadin laban. 

I feel bad for him sa mga kwento nya sa ginagawa sa knya ng wife nya , Kasi nakikita at May mga patunay naman sya, Sabi nya sakin Ako lang daw nagbibigay ng saya sa knya ngayon sa kabila ng stress nya sa buhay , tapos kapag sinasabi nyang mahal niya ako tinatanong ko sya lagi kung totoo ba Haha SANA NGA .

 

kasi ako Mahal kona sya pero kapag nasaktan sa huli edi tanggapin ganun Naman talaga people come and go  pero kapag nasaktan ako ulit dto eto na ung huling huling guest na mamahalin ko😅

[JinKazama01]

53 minutes ago, Mitch of Golden said:

Wala silang anak pero kasal sila . 

Inamin nya namn sakin lahat , and feeling ko naman nagsasabi sya ng totoo at na ffeel ko naman na love nya din talaga ako . 

Pero kasi ang hirap kapag Kasal na ung usapan , kasi kahit anong Gawin mo kapag nagkahulihan wala kapadin laban. 

I feel bad for him sa mga kwento nya sa ginagawa sa knya ng wife nya , Kasi nakikita at May mga patunay naman sya, Sabi nya sakin Ako lang daw nagbibigay ng saya sa knya ngayon sa kabila ng stress nya sa buhay , tapos kapag sinasabi nyang mahal niya ako tinatanong ko sya lagi kung totoo ba Haha SANA NGA .

 

kasi ako Mahal kona sya pero kapag nasaktan sa huli edi tanggapin ganun Naman talaga people come and go  pero kapag nasaktan ako ulit dto eto na ung huling huling guest na mamahalin ko😅

kung maging jowa lang kita mitch promise aalagan at mamahalin kita🤭 

[Mitch of King]

1 hour ago, JinKazama01 said:

kung maging jowa lang kita mitch promise aalagan at mamahalin kita🤭 

HAHAHA 🫣

[Mang Ricky]

On 1/10/2023 at 10:11 PM, Mitch of Golden said:

Pinaka mahirap ata saming mga thera pag na  inlove din  sa guest  😂 

Kahit pigilan minsan , di maiwasan , andaming what if's and daming gumugulo sa isip Hays HAHA ewan! 

Parang feeling ko kapag Pinagpatuloy kotong nararamdaman ko ako lang talo at masasaktan  sa huli 😅

Mahirap din para sa guest ma-inlove sa thera lalo na kung sincere naman cya. True, mahirap kay thera ma-inlove sa guest kasi hindi nya alam kung maka-totohanan ang guest. Hindi lang isang guest ang nagpakita ng interes kay therea. Ganun din naman sa women na d nagtatrabaho sa spa. Hindi alam ni girl kung yon guy ay sincere sa kanya o hindi. Marahil, kung sa tingin ni thera na seryoso si guest sa pagmamahal, umiwas na lang si thera sa mga my asawa ng d masasaktan sa huli.

[Noname01]

14 hours ago, Mitch of Golden said:

Wala silang anak pero kasal sila . 

Inamin nya namn sakin lahat , and feeling ko naman nagsasabi sya ng totoo at na ffeel ko naman na love nya din talaga ako . 

Pero kasi ang hirap kapag Kasal na ung usapan , kasi kahit anong Gawin mo kapag nagkahulihan wala kapadin laban. 

I feel bad for him sa mga kwento nya sa ginagawa sa knya ng wife nya , Kasi nakikita at May mga patunay naman sya, Sabi nya sakin Ako lang daw nagbibigay ng saya sa knya ngayon sa kabila ng stress nya sa buhay , tapos kapag sinasabi nyang mahal niya ako tinatanong ko sya lagi kung totoo ba Haha SANA NGA .

 

kasi ako Mahal kona sya pero kapag nasaktan sa huli edi tanggapin ganun Naman talaga people come and go  pero kapag nasaktan ako ulit dto eto na ung huling huling guest na mamahalin ko😅

I can very much relate sa situation mo kasi personally may problem kami ng wife ko for the past 3 years. Then na fall ako sa thera not married pero may anak sila.

The funny part is nun lumalalim na kami we loved each other both of our partners nakita nagbabago na kami then thats the time na inaayos na din nila ugali nila both partner ko and partner nya. 

Nakakatawa nga na sabi namin dba pag kumakabit eh makakasira ng relasyon pero hindi pala lahat hahahaha. 

Hindi namin alam ang end game pero parang magiging lesson and for sure we will never forget each other. 

Remember ang love always may risk yan masarap and masakit at the same time.

But happy for you and hoping for the best sa inyo ni gm

[Exec]

On 1/12/2023 at 11:49 PM, Mitch of Golden said:

Wala silang anak pero kasal sila . 

Inamin nya namn sakin lahat , and feeling ko naman nagsasabi sya ng totoo at na ffeel ko naman na love nya din talaga ako . 

Pero kasi ang hirap kapag Kasal na ung usapan , kasi kahit anong Gawin mo kapag nagkahulihan wala kapadin laban. 

I feel bad for him sa mga kwento nya sa ginagawa sa knya ng wife nya , Kasi nakikita at May mga patunay naman sya, Sabi nya sakin Ako lang daw nagbibigay ng saya sa knya ngayon sa kabila ng stress nya sa buhay , tapos kapag sinasabi nyang mahal niya ako tinatanong ko sya lagi kung totoo ba Haha SANA NGA .

 

kasi ako Mahal kona sya pero kapag nasaktan sa huli edi tanggapin ganun Naman talaga people come and go  pero kapag nasaktan ako ulit dto eto na ung huling huling guest na mamahalin ko😅

Napakasuerte ng BF mo

[dominickcruise]

7 hours ago, Exec said:

Napakasuerte ng BF mo

napakaswerte niyo sa isa't isa idol

[EPJ]

Yung bagong episode nagyon ng Lovely Ladies Dormitory ng Vivamax ang maraming marerelate regarding sa napagusapan dito sa thread na ito po. di na po eexplain yung mga details regarding sa tema nagpausapan sa show dahil medyo na cross the line na di po pwede pagusapan sa thread na ito po.

[Nancy of TVS]

Mas malaki possibility ng thera at GM relationship kung parehong single talaga both sides, as in hindi kasal .Iyong tipong wala din parehong parental obligation.Mas less hassle. Madami kasi akong nababasa na posts ng mga GM na hindi nila matatanggap na may sabit ung thera, gaya ng anak nito sa ibang lalaki. Madami na din namang thera/ GM's ang may successful love story. Kung ready ilaban ung love nila sa isa't isa  at kayang maging faithful. Possible yan,kung totoong pagmamahal nararamdaman nila. Hindi din dapat "thera lang" ang term sa mga therapists, dahil madami din naman ang degree holder. Okay din kasi na dagdag income ang pagsspa at hindi naman automatic na max mileage ang service.

[knightdavion]

3 hours ago, Nancy of TVS said:

Mas malaki possibility ng thera at GM relationship kung parehong single talaga both sides, as in hindi kasal .Iyong tipong wala din parehong parental obligation.Mas less hassle. Madami kasi akong nababasa na posts ng mga GM na hindi nila matatanggap na may sabit ung thera, gaya ng anak nito sa ibang lalaki. Madami na din namang thera/ GM's ang may successful love story. Kung ready ilaban ung love nila sa isa't isa  at kayang maging faithful. Possible yan,kung totoong pagmamahal nararamdaman nila. Hindi din dapat "thera lang" ang term sa mga therapists, dahil madami din naman ang degree holder. Okay din kasi na dagdag income ang pagsspa at hindi naman automatic na max mileage ang service.

Sorry ms nancy but as my opinion. If thera and GM have relationship its the best is thera quit from this job so the GM can support her that better.

[darwin2k4]

6 hours ago, Nancy of TVS said:

Mas malaki possibility ng thera at GM relationship kung parehong single talaga both sides, as in hindi kasal .Iyong tipong wala din parehong parental obligation.Mas less hassle. Madami kasi akong nababasa na posts ng mga GM na hindi nila matatanggap na may sabit ung thera, gaya ng anak nito sa ibang lalaki. Madami na din namang thera/ GM's ang may successful love story. Kung ready ilaban ung love nila sa isa't isa  at kayang maging faithful. Possible yan,kung totoong pagmamahal nararamdaman nila. Hindi din dapat "thera lang" ang term sa mga therapists, dahil madami din naman ang degree holder. Okay din kasi na dagdag income ang pagsspa at hindi naman automatic na max mileage ang service.

But Ms. @Nancy of TVS, boys only want love if it's torture 😅 yung madaming stumbling blocks mas masaya 🤓

Edited January 15, 2023 by darwin2k4

[courtesanhunter]

13 hours ago, Nancy of TVS said:

Mas malaki possibility ng thera at GM relationship kung parehong single talaga both sides, as in hindi kasal .Iyong tipong wala din parehong parental obligation.Mas less hassle. Madami kasi akong nababasa na posts ng mga GM na hindi nila matatanggap na may sabit ung thera, gaya ng anak nito sa ibang lalaki. Madami na din namang thera/ GM's ang may successful love story. Kung ready ilaban ung love nila sa isa't isa  at kayang maging faithful. Possible yan,kung totoong pagmamahal nararamdaman nila. Hindi din dapat "thera lang" ang term sa mga therapists, dahil madami din naman ang degree holder. Okay din kasi na dagdag income ang pagsspa at hindi naman automatic na max mileage ang service.

i agree dun sa part na may mga service provider na degree holder. hindi lang sa massage division kundi sa industry as a whole. madami dami na din akong nakatrabaho sa past na ginamit talaga yung mga naipon nila para magtapos ng education, magstart ng business o bumili ng property. nakaka proud makakilala ng mga ganung klase ng babae na binigyan ng direksyon lahat ng mga naging sacrifices nila sa loob ng industry at masaya ako na nakalabas sila. kahit sa massage industry may mga nakilala na ako na ok ang course at may mga naka graduate na din. medyo nakagulo nga lang ang pandemic sa lagay ng ekonomiya at employment pero hopefully magamit din nila yung mga pinag aralan nila para makalabas na sila mula sa ganitong trade.

Edited January 16, 2023 by courtesanhunter
provided corrections.

[simonnag]

On the “Thera lang” topic.

The continuous rationalization doesn’t make sense. There is “lang” because the job itself, in the context of the flesh trade, is degrading. That’s what where the “lang” is coming from. I wont personally address anybody that way as it is not my style. But there’s no getting out of that status even if the protest is the loudest, with screaming fans (parokyano) applauding with sonic levels above that. So, yes, even it offends sensibilities, the perception is valid. 

To prove that point, lets have a test. 

Put your real photo and real name. 
 

Can’t? That’s okay. Anonymity provides the cover that is needed to separate your identity from the degrading/lang work. If that wasn’t the objective, what is? Split personality? Role playing? 
 

So, let’s get real. Do whatever is necessary to meet your economic needs. But don’t protest too much. 
 

P.S. 1 - You can have a degree(s) and be a prostitute. The PSPs in the original Overdose.PH had degrees and some even went to Miriam, were Kulasas, and CSA, yet, they didn’t protest how they were seen “lang”. That was part of the excitement before. We didn’t have the talipapa environment of today. Those who were not in that classification were relegated to the HBM section. 
 

P.S. 2 - There’s no legal consequence in posting your photo and real name to satisfy the “dignity” test. It’s MTC. Everything here is hearsay, including self-declared sexual prowess. 

 

Edited January 16, 2023 by simonnag

[knightdavion]

So what it be on session when done session just forget it that the best for both gm and thera.

[cixMACHINE]

share ko lang,may suki ako na PSP,nag quit dahil sa BF nya. Nabilib ako sa kanya....

PSP is very very good, willing to please, so needless to say marami syang parokyano. 

Now, yung BF nya ang work is parang pahinante, so yung income ni BF is obviously not as much as kay PSP. 

Noong niyaya ni BF na mag "live in" na sila ni PSP pumayag si PSP then she quit her job. 

Yung last session namin before sya mag quit, tinanong ko sya kung sa tingin nya na magiging ok buhay nya kasi malaki kita nya then kung nag quit sya she might need a bigger cash flow to sustain their lifestyle. Di naman magastos si PSP pero siempre di naman malaki kita ni BF as a pahinante. 

Sabi ni PSP, "eh wala eh, mahal ko and sineryoso ako...." 

Proof na LOVE CONQUERS ALL!!! except jakol

By the way si BF Hindi alam na PSP ang work ng GF nya....

nakakatawa kasi pag may private session kami ni PSP talagang all out kami sa kama...I.e. BJ kung BJ Doggie kung Doggie pero nag sabi sakin na pano daw nya itatago yung skill sets nya sa BF nya kung silang dalawa na hahahaha....

 

Anyways, my 2 cents...

 

 

 

 

[knightdavion]

10 hours ago, cixMACHINE said:

share ko lang,may suki ako na PSP,nag quit dahil sa BF nya. Nabilib ako sa kanya....

PSP is very very good, willing to please, so needless to say marami syang parokyano. 

Now, yung BF nya ang work is parang pahinante, so yung income ni BF is obviously not as much as kay PSP. 

Noong niyaya ni BF na mag "live in" na sila ni PSP pumayag si PSP then she quit her job. 

Yung last session namin before sya mag quit, tinanong ko sya kung sa tingin nya na magiging ok buhay nya kasi malaki kita nya then kung nag quit sya she might need a bigger cash flow to sustain their lifestyle. Di naman magastos si PSP pero siempre di naman malaki kita ni BF as a pahinante. 

Sabi ni PSP, "eh wala eh, mahal ko and sineryoso ako...." 

Proof na LOVE CONQUERS ALL!!! except jakol

By the way si BF Hindi alam na PSP ang work ng GF nya....

nakakatawa kasi pag may private session kami ni PSP talagang all out kami sa kama...I.e. BJ kung BJ Doggie kung Doggie pero nag sabi sakin na pano daw nya itatago yung skill sets nya sa BF nya kung silang dalawa na hahahaha....

 

Anyways, my 2 cents...

 

 

 

 

Im curious also for theras/psp who wild when been with his bf/husband who dont know their line of work will be psp or wild too? 

[knightdavion]

1 hour ago, rtz said:

 

Been reading this FFAT thread for almost 2 weeks now. Naging pampatulog ko na to dahil puro kalokohan lang naman ung dati kong binabasa before bedtime na "Homepaslupa Buddies 3.0"  😆

 

I'm a GM and I know how almost if not all the GM think when it comes to dating or starting a relationship with a thera. How far are we willing to go? Are we really going to commit? Because there's always gonna be that “NUT” in our head na "madami nang dumaan sa kanya". But I'll say this though, humahanga ako sa mga thera specially the ones na nandito para sa pamilya. A wise man once said, "A good man does everything in his power to better his family's position". And to think na lahat kayo babae. Mas humahanga pa ko sa inyo kesa sa mga politician dito. Mga yawa! 😡

To theras,

Madalas sa sampung sinabi naming mga GMs, labing-isa mali. Hehe just kidding. Masyadong seryoso tong thread na to eh. Okay ulitin ko. To theras, I’ll be speaking as myself na lang and not on behalf of the GM community. I’ll try to paint you a picture to give you an idea of how one might think. If you feel that you’re on the verge of falling for someone and you think that “this could be something”, and you’re willing to commit, you need to be sure that you’re also willing leave this all behind. Because if you ask me, I ain’t staying if you’re staying here. If he introduces you to his friends and family that’s the signal that he’s serious. But there’s always a “BUT”. Even though you choose to leave your work here in order to be with him, and he also let you meet his friends and family, it doesn’t mean happily ever after na agad. It’s long long way down the road pa. We still need the “Dating” phase, in order to see how our chemistry works, how we handle fights and arguments, how we react to problems, are we the type that solve things together or apart? How will we handle things if someone close to us finds out. How are we gonna react if a GM saw you in a Mall and greeted you when we’re together. We also need to know each other's flaws and imperfections. It’s will take us years to build this and to see if we’re really meant for each other. So, think again if you’re going to commit. It’s always gonna be a tight, weary, and exhausting uphill battle. Piece of advice ladies: If you do this, never ever look back. If your guy see that you’re really committed to him, it would be much easier for you to progress. Plus, it’s a good thing you’re with a GM dahil di mo na kailangan itago ang past life mo.

To GMs,

“Pag humahapdi na ang bawat bagong FR sa kanya, kabahan ka na!” Hahahaha!

Ok. I’ll go straight to the point. I’ll give you a different perspective that I haven’t seen here

You marry a normal decent girl, you get normal decent sex life forever. Kaya maraming “NINJA”.

However,

You marry someone who knows every play in the book, upwards, downwards, forwards, backwards, and sideways. Imagine what kind of sex life you’d have for the rest of your life? Who knows baka pumayag pa sya ng threesome with a thera every birthday mo. “Sige babe, pili ka na sa MTC para sa birthday mo.” Eh kay normal girl, maswerte ka na siguro kung maka-CIM ka every once in a while. Baka nga BJ na nga lang galit pa. Lol!

As for the “nut”. Yep it’s gonna be painful. It is what it is. The question you have to ask yourself are:

·        How long can you hold on to the pain?

·        How long will you hold on to the pain?

·        Are you ever gonna be able to withstand the pain?

·        And lastly, is she worth fighting for?

 

Going back to my scenario earlier. If a GM saw my GF/wife who is a former thera with me in a mall and he greeted her. I might break his jaw right there and then. Because for me, If I saw a thera with someone, even if she’s with a girl, or with her mom, or barkada. You just have to respect their personal life. If you want to say Hi, do it in MTC or Viber or TG then tell them you recently saw her. If she ain’t here anymore then that’s too bad.

It’s hard for both parties but I think GMs will always going to bear the pain for much longer. The body counts, the es of those body counts is always gonna bug you. But you have to accept the fact that she did it for good reasons. Just like you and me, she’s just trying to provide and put food on the table and she didn’t have any other options. You have to see the silver lining. There’s a huge difference between “she did it because she has to” and “she did it because she likes to do it to all those guys”. Yes, we’re living in a conservative country but f*ck conservative! Go to tiktok, fb reels and whatnot and you’ll see endless cleavage of 15 yrs olds bouncing around. If you live in New York or LA, nobody cares about body count.

The “nut” is always gonna be there but who among us doesn’t have a past? After all, you, me, her, and everyone reading this, we’re all the same. We sell different parts of ourselves.

So Goodluck!

As for the unsuccessful stories I have read here. I’m really sorry to hear that. Marami talagang pinagtagpo pero hindi tinadhana.

 

BTW, I’m not in any relationship. I had my share of FFAT but I’d rather not say. Lol. I really just got hooked with this thread and I just like giving advice.

Also, speaking of advice. Off topic na. To theras who’s planning to start a business, I suggest you read these books:

Rich Dad, Poor Dad

Think and Grow Rich

Richest Man in Babylon

 

Thank me later! Or kiss me later! Totally up to you.

Succesfull GM - thera mostly the GM
is have BIG BUCKS. That the reality.

[rtz]

6 hours ago, gboy59 said:

Thank or Kiss? How about a kick in the face? Ulooooolllll!!!!! palit ka pa handlename chefcurry. 💩🤡

Joined January 8 yung account mo idol. Ikaw siguro yung laging galit na galit sa mundo. 🤣

[dominickcruise]

I sometimes feel bad for the GM who loves a thera pero mas mataas pa mileage na nakukuha ko kaysa sa mga manliligaw niya but it is what it is

[Duel of Fate]

16 minutes ago, dominickcruise said:

I sometimes feel bad for the GM who loves a thera pero mas mataas pa mileage na nakukuha ko kaysa sa mga manliligaw niya but it is what it is

naalala ko tuloy dati nag offer ako ng mejo buraot rate sa thera. nagulat ako pumayag. even better, napa escalate kami sa... what do they call it? 12/10? lol. 

anyway nalaman ko she had a manliligaw, and she told him to visit her sa spa as a form of admittance on what her work is and part of her plan para sagutin sha, eh kaso nanlamig na daw and less na pagpaparamdam. so siguro saken binaling yung kilig and L. hehe. 

[dominickcruise]

6 minutes ago, Duel of Fate said:

naalala ko tuloy dati nag offer ako ng mejo buraot rate sa thera. nagulat ako pumayag. even better, napa escalate kami sa... what do they call it? 12/10? lol. 

anyway nalaman ko she had a manliligaw, and she told him to visit her sa spa as a form of admittance on what her work is and part of her plan para sagutin sha, eh kaso nanlamig na daw and less na pagpaparamdam. so siguro saken binaling yung kilig and L. hehe. 

I just remembered kasi MASTER na one time there's this attendant na yung masugid niyang regular never reached the mileage I got but something happened and we never had that spark again until nakuha siya ng tropa ko ayun ayoko na sa kanya