Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[paulwalking]

Hahaha generation snowflake...lahat gusto instant

[mikemurphy0305]

mr ej "real talk" may i ask ilan taon ka na po?

[Lucky T. Tinio]

I still beleive that not all therapists are after for money although they work in this industry because of they don't have a choice in this is the only way to survive for a living and it's the easiest way for them to make money for a living. But they are still human with feelings and deserved to be loved. They know also how to love it's just that it's their profession is the hindrance for them to feel that. So let's not just judge them. If we gm's will come a time that we fall for our beloved theras, (you should be single and not committed) let's respect their decision and face the reality about the nature of their work although we want them to be out in this industry but it still their decision if they still want to stay or not. Let's be grateful that they are here in this industry to fulfill our fantasy but let's guard our heart. But if you really love your thera and she's mean so much to you, well respect her and don't hurt her feelings.

[ferwy shaw]

To add, I do have strong feelings for her. I do love her, yes. Lust? I'm way past/over that na. I've always let her decide and respected her decision, whether she will love me or not.

 

Not to trying sounding "KISA" or anything but to share and be honest;

 

Most of the time in our sessions, no ES really happens, I've let her decide on this (even when I'm really "tigang"), and I still pay her. I let her rest/sleep during the whole session because I know she's tired as she's always fully booked. I even bring her home cooked food every time as I know she doesn't have the time to go out and eat. Because I care for her and not just for myself.

 

The strange part about her (and the main reason why I want to save her) is she's Lost and she doesn't know what to do and where to go in her life anymore, (she's not doing this to support her family/kids or anything like that) she's here because she wants to escape, like she's throwing her life away.

 

And that's the saddest part, she has so much potential and yet she's wasting it away by being here, in this industry. I want to help guide her out and live the life she deserves and be happy.

 

I apologize for the long story and post, but I feel better talking to this to you guys. I would like to really thank you for your advices to me. It really helps my keep away my depression and constant thoughts of suicide.

You better move fast bro... time is of essence...good luck!!!

[kyrie15]

Huwag nyo titigan masyado at nakaka-inlove nga sila hahaha

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

You better move fast bro... time is of essence...good luck!!!

He already moved on.

[BlackLabel61997]

Play the game right and make sure you'll win in the end.

[so_jobert]

Y not , thay human like us !

[ceterizine]

Just came off the heels from a relationship with a therapist. I want to vent out but unfortunately walang "fallen for a therapist" thread haha kaya dito na lang.

 

Para on topic, I think its just natural to fall for a therapist. Debate all you want, pero sa linya at bisyo na ganito this is very much a common occurence. Anuman yung dahilan mo, I'm here to validate that and tell you that its perfectly normal.

 

But before you invest more time and effort kay theralabs, remember that a serious relationship always involves both heart and mind. Saktong balanse ng emotions and logic.

 

If you are in this situation right now, let me share with you the three important things I learned to give you a sort of checklist to think about. Right now most probably solid na yung emotions part, lets work on the logic part.

 

1. A relationship with a therapist must be built on TRUST.

Tiwala. Hindi chemistry. Hindi awa. Hindi physical attraction. Lalo na hindi sa libog haha. Kung tutuusin, all romantic relationships should be bulit on trust. Pero kung plano mo talaga seryosohin si theraloves, siguraduhin mo sa sarili mo na kaya mo siyang pagkatiwalaan ng buong-buo at kaya rin niyang gawin yun sayo. Lahat ng sasabihin niya hindi ka magdadalawang-isip. Kapag tahimik siya hindi mo pag-iisipan ng masama kung anuman ang ginagawa niya. Kailangan ito dahil sa important thing #2..

 

2. Accept that your girl works, lives, and breathes in an environment full of FAKES and LIES.

Si thera-loves ay isang sex worker. Her work asks her to be very intimate with other men and she creates a false version of intimacy to fulfill the requirements. Let's not fool ourselves - you and her customers get to experience that same intimacy. A client will not pay good money if he did not feel that she was his girlfriend or personal pornstar for an hour or two. She also creates false versions of herself in public, with co-therapists, and with people close to her who do not know what she does for a living. Magagawa mo lang to kung alam mo ang totoong dahilan kung bakit siya napunta sa ganitong trabaho - not the crap she tells everyone else. Knowing this will help you fully accept this fact. Try to work it out and draw that fine line and create a space wherein hindi na niya kailangan magpanggap at magsinungaling.

 

3. If anyone breaks the other's trust, LEAVE.

If by any reason ikaw or si theraloves broke a promise, nagsinungaling, or does anything na makakasira ng tiwala. Time to call it quits and end the relationship. If you or si theraloves crosses over that fine line, wala nang pagkakaiba yung relationship ninyo at yung relationship niya sa mga cliente niya. Yung tiwala will be the differentiator - what makes you special and unique. Not the night outs, not the livewire sex, not the money and the gifts. Each person will have different gauges kung kailan niya masasabi na wala na yung tiwala niya. Ang importante ay itigil na yung relasyon ninyo kung may isang nawalan na ng tiwala kasi everything will only go downhill.

 

To conclude, you can fall for a therapist but as long as she is in this line of work a functional romantic relationship will not prosper. It will only cause more pain and sadness rather than joy and happiness. Getting theraloves out of this business is actually easy as long as she whole-heartedly wants to. I think that time would be the best time to pursue the relationship. AGREE

Edited January 23, 2019 by ceterizine

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

Never knew that I will fall into this someday. Its been more than a decade when I first tried this habit of visiting ESpas and MPs at sabi ko sa sarili ko prior engaging to this, I should know the rule. Never ever fall for her and yes I didn't. For so many years I didn't. Until last month.

 

I don't know what's in her to make me fall easily in just a short period of time. I've been with so many theras and take note they are my regular theras which I am visiting for years now. But until last month when I met this girl. It changes everything.

 

I stopped visiting my regular theras. My regulars are top theras in their respective ESpas. Face and body wise they are almost perfect. Di nalalayo to this girl pero bakit? Bakit ang bilis kong nahulog sa kanya?

 

Siguro sa naging treatment nya sa akin. Kasi parang hindi client-thera relationship kami pagmagkasama. Infact, mas mahulog ako sa kanya when she let me join and meet her family. 2 generations pa ha hangang sa grandparents. She introduced me to them na parang proud sya to be with me and she's a true GM sa katauhan ng isang babae during that day. Lagi syang nakaalalay sa akin while with her family. Maybe that's why.

 

Sa ngayon pipinipilit ko pa ring pigilin ang aking nararamdaman. Until now I'm trying to contain myself but I guess I'm failing. Pero habang ginagawa ko yon mas lalo kong nararamdaman na mahal ko sya. Tama kayo, falling inlove with a thera takes a lot of sacrifices. Ang sakit at bigat sa pakiramdam thinking na she is with another man pag nakaduty sya. Selos na selos ako pagnakakabasa ng FRs ng GMs para sa kanya. Ang sakit sa pakiramdam na kasama mo sya tapos may naghahanap sa kanya at magtatanong kung kailan sya papasok. And most of all napakasakit isipin na kailanman hindi mo sya pwedeng solohin.

 

Oo masakit. Pero masaya ako kahit nasasaktan...

 

I miss you TABATCHOY... I love you...

 

Lucky you Bro! Pinakilala ka nya sa Family nya.

[ferwy shaw]

I fell.... she's really great that she'll give you mind blowing experience & all that... Most of us are victims of this awesome woman... Until I weigh all things... I found out I was not in love... I was & still mesmerized by her.... Bottom line... she made me want her... fall for her... she's a genius in her work... I was just a victim, felt good though, ugh Malupet!!! Makamandag!!!! Masarap!!!!! Mavic I crave for more....

[ferwy shaw]

sunod ka na boss

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

I fell.... she's really great that she'll give you mind blowing experience & all that... Most of us are victims of this awesome woman... Until I weigh all things... I found out I was not in love... I was & still mesmerized by her.... Bottom line... she made me want her... fall for her... she's a genius in her work... I was just a victim, felt good though, ugh Malupet!!! Makamandag!!!! Masarap!!!!! Mavic I crave for more....

One or Two?

[ferwy shaw]

One or Two?

2

[ferwy shaw]

OBSESSED... yun pala nangyari... kase gusto nya ma obsessed ako eh... iginagalang ko pa rin siya kahit balewala ako... napakasarap mavictima ng dilag na'to...

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

OBSESSED... yun pala nangyari... kase gusto nya ma obsessed ako eh... iginagalang ko pa rin siya kahit balewala ako... napakasarap mavictima ng dilag na'to...

 

Basta Enjoy the ride bro. Hehe

[ferwy shaw]

 

Basta Enjoy the ride bro. Hehe

enjoyed every minute he he he

[al_simmons]

So easy to fall in love especially when they genuinely show affection as well.

 

Halos sabihin ko nang mahal ko siya pag magkasama kami.

Edited January 27, 2019 by al_simmons

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

So easy to fall in love especially when they genuinely show affection as well.

 

Halos sabihin ko nang mahal ko siya pag magkasama kami.

 

Very tricky talaga nga yan sir lalo na sa mga marurupok. Hehe

[BoyBumbilya27]

It's really hard to fall for someone in this line of work! It's not easy to tell her to leave this kind of job! You need tons of patience and understanding! Especially in terms of money matters, We all know how hard to earn for a living and to be practical love could not feed your family! For me my gauge if she really loves you everything is possible! 1.Money cannot buy happiness. 2.You can live a simple life with your love ones 3.Think out of the box (your potential) 4.Not all has the same path as time goes by. 5.Be Fearless-life must go on whatever challenges comes along your way. 6. Think positive. Just my thought!

[cutiechavez]

question lang mga sir, not inlove siguro, pero meron ba dito yung nahuhumaling sa mga thera sa banawe, ang gaganda eh

[MISS.CATH]

Holdaper: kung hindi mo ibibigay sa akin lahat yan masasaktan ka...

Biktima: sinungaling, ganon din ginawa sa akin ng ex ko, pagkatapos kung ibigay ang lahat sinaktan pa rin nya ako...

 

Just came off the heels from a relationship with a therapist. I want to vent out but unfortunately walang "fallen for a therapist" thread haha kaya dito na lang.

Para on topic, I think its just natural to fall for a therapist. Debate all you want, pero sa linya at bisyo na ganito this is very much a common occurence. Anuman yung dahilan mo, I'm here to validate that and tell you that its perfectly normal.

But before you invest more time and effort kay theralabs, remember that a serious relationship always involves both heart and mind. Saktong balanse ng emotions and logic.

If you are in this situation right now, let me share with you the three important things I learned to give you a sort of checklist to think about. Right now most probably solid na yung emotions part, lets work on the logic part.

1. A relationship with a therapist must be built on TRUST.

Tiwala. Hindi chemistry. Hindi awa. Hindi physical attraction. Lalo na hindi sa libog haha. Kung tutuusin, all romantic relationships should be bulit on trust. Pero kung plano mo talaga seryosohin si theraloves, siguraduhin mo sa sarili mo na kaya mo siyang pagkatiwalaan ng buong-buo at kaya rin niyang gawin yun sayo. Lahat ng sasabihin niya hindi ka magdadalawang-isip. Kapag tahimik siya hindi mo pag-iisipan ng masama kung anuman ang ginagawa niya. Kailangan ito dahil sa important thing #2..

2. Accept that your girl works, lives, and breathes in an environment full of FAKES and LIES.

Si thera-loves ay isang sex worker. Her work asks her to be very intimate with other men and she creates a false version of intimacy to fulfill the requirements. Let's not fool ourselves - you and her customers get to experience that same intimacy. A client will not pay good money if he did not feel that she was his girlfriend or personal pornstar for an hour or two. She also creates false versions of herself in public, with co-therapists, and with people close to her who do not know what she does for a living. Magagawa mo lang to kung alam mo ang totoong dahilan kung bakit siya napunta sa ganitong trabaho - not the crap she tells everyone else. Knowing this will help you fully accept this fact. Try to work it out and draw that fine line and create a space wherein hindi na niya kailangan magpanggap at magsinungaling.

3. If anyone breaks the other's trust, LEAVE.

If by any reason ikaw or si theraloves broke a promise, nagsinungaling, or does anything na makakasira ng tiwala. Time to call it quits and end the relationship. If you or si theraloves crosses over that fine line, wala nang pagkakaiba yung relationship ninyo at yung relationship niya sa mga cliente niya. Yung tiwala will be the differentiator - what makes you special and unique. Not the night outs, not the livewire sex, not the money and the gifts. Each person will have different gauges kung kailan niya masasabi na wala na yung tiwala niya. Ang importante ay itigil na yung relasyon ninyo kung may isang nawalan na ng tiwala kasi everything will only go downhill.

To conclude, you can fall for a therapist but as long as she is in this line of work a functional romantic relationship will not prosper. It will only cause more pain and sadness rather than joy and happiness. Getting theraloves out of this business is actually easy as long as she whole-heartedly wants to. I think that time would be the best time to pursue the relationship. AGREE

 

[MISS.CATH]

What trust r u talking about?If the thera and the gm continue to stay in the industry after they commit to a relationship, then what trust are u talking about?Has it not crossed ur mind that ur gf thera is breaking ur trust every time she'll have sex with her clients? Or in the case of the gm, can the thera truly say that she trusts him while he continues to avail the services of different saunas and spas? what trust r u talking about? Kaya mo b sabihin ok i trust her,then she goes to work doing shower together b2b and what have u with her clients?kung mtatanggap mo sa araw araw n she's doing sexual favours for other men and say ok I accept it because that's her work e u must have other agendas that ur not telling us.Kung totoong ngmamahal k, Hindi mo mtatanggap kahit s isang saglit lng n may ka sex syang iba.that is a universal truth that no one can deny.it is an innate human emotion that we feel everytime we truly fall in love.

Accept her that she works in the sex industry? Well, initially yes.Jan kayo nagkakilala e.yan ang mundong ginagalawan nyo.what is unacceptable e pagkatapos nyo magcommit to a relationship e u continue to be in the industry.pag umalis n kayo pareho Jan, then thats the only time u can begin to talk about trust.

Hypocrisy is far and wide in this industry.the wise will always be on guard,and those who learned their lesson the hard way will always have a new beginning to look forward to.only the too naive and the unchanging will be left to the mercy of the hypocrites among us

I still beleive that not all therapists are after for money although they work in this industry because of they don't have a choice in this is the only way to survive for a living and it's the easiest way for them to make money for a living. But they are still human with feelings and deserved to be loved. They know also how to love it's just that it's their profession is the hindrance for them to feel that. So let's not just judge them. If we gm's will come a time that we fall for our beloved theras, (you should be single and not committed) let's respect their decision and face the reality about the nature of their work although we want them to be out in this industry but it still their decision if they still want to stay or not. Let's be grateful that they are here in this industry to fulfill our fantasy but let's guard our heart. But if you really love your thera and she's mean so much to you, well respect her and don't hurt her feelings.

Just came off the heels from a relationship with a therapist. I want to vent out but unfortunately walang "fallen for a therapist" thread haha kaya dito na lang.

Para on topic, I think its just natural to fall for a therapist. Debate all you want, pero sa linya at bisyo na ganito this is very much a common occurence. Anuman yung dahilan mo, I'm here to validate that and tell you that its perfectly normal.

But before you invest more time and effort kay theralabs, remember that a serious relationship always involves both heart and mind. Saktong balanse ng emotions and logic.

If you are in this situation right now, let me share with you the three important things I learned to give you a sort of checklist to think about. Right now most probably solid na yung emotions part, lets work on the logic part.

1. A relationship with a therapist must be built on TRUST.

Tiwala. Hindi chemistry. Hindi awa. Hindi physical attraction. Lalo na hindi sa libog haha. Kung tutuusin, all romantic relationships should be bulit on trust. Pero kung plano mo talaga seryosohin si theraloves, siguraduhin mo sa sarili mo na kaya mo siyang pagkatiwalaan ng buong-buo at kaya rin niyang gawin yun sayo. Lahat ng sasabihin niya hindi ka magdadalawang-isip. Kapag tahimik siya hindi mo pag-iisipan ng masama kung anuman ang ginagawa niya. Kailangan ito dahil sa important thing #2..

2. Accept that your girl works, lives, and breathes in an environment full of FAKES and LIES.

Si thera-loves ay isang sex worker. Her work asks her to be very intimate with other men and she creates a false version of intimacy to fulfill the requirements. Let's not fool ourselves - you and her customers get to experience that same intimacy. A client will not pay good money if he did not feel that she was his girlfriend or personal pornstar for an hour or two. She also creates false versions of herself in public, with co-therapists, and with people close to her who do not know what she does for a living. Magagawa mo lang to kung alam mo ang totoong dahilan kung bakit siya napunta sa ganitong trabaho - not the crap she tells everyone else. Knowing this will help you fully accept this fact. Try to work it out and draw that fine line and create a space wherein hindi na niya kailangan magpanggap at magsinungaling.

3. If anyone breaks the other's trust, LEAVE.

If by any reason ikaw or si theraloves broke a promise, nagsinungaling, or does anything na makakasira ng tiwala. Time to call it quits and end the relationship. If you or si theraloves crosses over that fine line, wala nang pagkakaiba yung relationship ninyo at yung relationship niya sa mga cliente niya. Yung tiwala will be the differentiator - what makes you special and unique. Not the night outs, not the livewire sex, not the money and the gifts. Each person will have different gauges kung kailan niya masasabi na wala na yung tiwala niya. Ang importante ay itigil na yung relasyon ninyo kung may isang nawalan na ng tiwala kasi everything will only go downhill.

To conclude, you can fall for a therapist but as long as she is in this line of work a functional romantic relationship will not prosper. It will only cause more pain and sadness rather than joy and happiness. Getting theraloves out of this business is actually easy as long as she whole-heartedly wants to. I think that time would be the best time to pursue the relationship.

[ceterizine]

question lang mga sir, not inlove siguro, pero meron ba dito yung nahuhumaling sa mga thera sa banawe, ang gaganda eh

san sa banawe tinutukoy mo bro

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

question lang mga sir, not inlove siguro, pero meron ba dito yung nahuhumaling sa mga thera sa banawe, ang gaganda eh

 

Too many to count na boss. Yung iba hindi lang umaamin. Hehehehe