DorkVader Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 "I am so in love with you that I accept the fact that in your line of work men touch you. You touch them too. You do intimate things normal couples do for the sake of providing GFE. Sometimes if the price is right i will ignore the exchange of fluids, for as you say it was professionally done. I will even forgive you for not respecting me for I was not man enough to say no to this." How's this for a perspective? I don't know. No matter how I try to be mature about this, I don't think it's normal. I am very sorry. The only time this becomes forgivable is when the guy is absolutely clueless. Sure way of testing if it is ok or not is to ask yourself if you will feel embarrassed if other people will find out. Again my apologies if I stepped on people's sensitivities. Quote Link to comment
c@rl0 Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Don't do it in the first place. But you can't blame what you feel, sometimes you thought there's nothing in there until you discover malala na pala. Â Indeed a sure way to k*ll a relationship, any kind of relationship for that matter, is to stop all kinds of communication. Quote Link to comment
green viper Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 Possible ba talagang may guest na ma fall sa thera? yes, posible naman. Quote Link to comment
Louissa Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 Waaaa ! Hays that's my problem. I think im falling to my guest Quote Link to comment
edotensei Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 Waaaa ! Hays that's my problem. I think im falling to my guestWeh 1 Quote Link to comment
thelittlebigboy Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 "I am so in love with you that I accept the fact that in your line of work men touch you. You touch them too. You do intimate things normal couples do for the sake of providing GFE. Sometimes if the price is right i will ignore the exchange of fluids, for as you say it was professionally done. I will even forgive you for not respecting me for I was not man enough to say no to this." How's this for a perspective? I don't know. No matter how I try to be mature about this, I don't think it's normal. I am very sorry. The only time this becomes forgivable is when the guy is absolutely clueless. Sure way of testing if it is ok or not is to ask yourself if you will feel embarrassed if other people will find out. Again my apologies if I stepped on people's sensitivities. Totoo ito sa opinion ko. Once na ang GM at ang thera ay pumasok sa isang relationship at sinasabi nila sa isa't-isa na seryoso "daw" ang relationship nila, walang self-respecting na lalaki (at ang GM ay lalaki) ang makakatanggap sa sarili nya na ang thera-GF nya ay magpapatuloy pa sa pagiging thera, kung saan iba't-ibang lalaki ang makakasiping nya araw at gabi. Either hanapan nya ang thera-GF ng socially acceptable gainful employment, i-set up nya sa isang negosyo, o kaya ay suportahan financially kung saan ang kikitain o ang suportang ibibigay nya ay papantay sa nakasanayang income ng thera-GF bilang isang thera. Sa ating mga GMs, kung resistant ang thera-GF sa effort nyo na i-angat sila sa mas respectable na paraan na pagkita, malamang hindi seryoso sa inyo ang thera-GF nyo. Tandaan, wala sigurong thera ang pumasok sa spa dahil naramdaman nila na ito ang kanilang lifetime passion at vocation. It's all about the money, and madalas, it's all about being a breadwinner. Basahin ang mga signs para maiwasan ang heartbreak. Ngayon, sa panig ng mga thera - pag sinabi ng GM-BF nyo na seryoso sila sa inyo, at di man lang kayo hinikayat na umalis sa pagiging thera at di kayo binigyan ng suggestions o ideas para kumita at maging financially independent sa isang mas socially acceptable o respectable na paraan - malamang good times at good vibes lang ang intention ni GM (guilty ako dito, I must admit). Pagkatapos ng ilang buwan, may makikitang fresh meat si GM-BF sa ibang spa o MP. Ituring mo na lang syang regular na customer at hindi boyfriend at wag kang umasa na may patutunguhan ang relationship nyo. Quote Link to comment
GingGangNamStyle Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 posible! kaya sa mga kapwa kong marurupok na GMs, alalay lang po. 😊 Quote Link to comment
-DELETED- Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 Masakit. Sobra. Lalo na alam mo, yung taong mahal mo, eh nasa ganyang sitwasyon. Mas mahirap kung wala ka pang means para alisin sya kung nasan man sya ngayon. Araw araw madudurog yung ego mo bilang lalaki pero kailangan mong intindihin lalo na kung wala ka pa naman solusyon sa problema na meron kayong dalawa. At ang pinakamasakit sa lahat, yung hindi mo maprotektahan yung taong mahal mo, dahil alam mo namang hindi nya gusto ang ginagawa nya, un lang talaga ang sumasagot sa problema nya sa ngayon. Kaya kung yang nararamdaman mo e libog lang, o kaya naman e panandalian lang, o nagdadalawang isip ka. Better keep off the grass. Wag mo na itry. Its not easy as it seems. Mahirap. Hindi sapat ang pagmamahal lang. Kailangan mo rin ng matinding pag uunawa. Sakripisyo. At pag titiis. At higit sa lahat dapat may plano ka. 1 Quote Link to comment
Beemer of Hiway Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 Masakit. Sobra. Lalo na alam mo, yung taong mahal mo, eh nasa ganyang sitwasyon. Mas mahirap kung wala ka pang means para alisin sya kung nasan man sya ngayon. Araw araw madudurog yung ego mo bilang lalaki pero kailangan mong intindihin lalo na kung wala ka pa naman solusyon sa problema na meron kayong dalawa. At ang pinakamasakit sa lahat, yung hindi mo maprotektahan yung taong mahal mo, dahil alam mo namang hindi nya gusto ang ginagawa nya, un lang talaga ang sumasagot sa problema nya sa ngayon. Kaya kung yang nararamdaman mo e libog lang, o kaya naman e panandalian lang, o nagdadalawang isip ka. Better keep off the grass. Wag mo na itry. Its not easy as it seems. Mahirap. Hindi sapat ang pagmamahal lang. Kailangan mo rin ng matinding pag uunawa. Sakripisyo. At pag titiis. At higit sa lahat dapat may plano ka. Very well said! 1 Quote Link to comment
-DELETED- Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 Daming na in love sa thera nila. Kahit naman siguro sino ma inlove kapag ginawa na sa atin ang gfe and pse sa loob ng spa. But we should know our limitations. We do not have have to burden ourselves with our thera's problems. They are there to work for a living. We should not give them any complications in their lives including ours. We are there to enjoy their company and give the proper tip for their service. Not really, at least to me. Mas nilalayo ko sarili ko sa PSE before nung active pa ko. Pag gusto ko ligawan yung thera, I will meet her outside the cubicle. Kung sa loob mo sya liligawan. Wala mangyayari sainyo. Mahirap umalis sa Guest-Thera relationship. Although I agree that we dont have to burden ourselves with their problems, and that Gs are just to enjoy the services. But that is not always the cases. There are some who fell, and the problem starts there. I tagged it as a "problem" since only few survives in this kind of relationship. Quote Link to comment
thelittlebigboy Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017   Why is there an ever-present need to be socially accepted? You do realize naman that not everyone here is literally made of cash, right? Also, nasa Pilipinas din tayo, nothing will ever be socially acceptable unless you are willing to live a lie for the rest of your life.About your point na "Tandaan, wala sigurong thera ang pumasok sa spa dahil naramdaman nila na ito ang kanilang lifetime passion at vocation. It's all about the money, and madalas, it's all about being a breadwinner," it's not always the case. May mga na-encounter na ako na nag-embody ng line ni Heath Ledger as the Joker na, "If you're good at something, never do it for free."One last thing about the so-called pag hikayat na magbagong buhay, don't you think it's the therapist's call to make that decision? Kasi kapag nanggaling sa iba ang realization na yan, magiging puno't dulo ng sisihan yan down the road. Lahat tayo may freedom to choose. There's no such thing as no choice. There is, however, consequence. The best question to ask yourself before getting into this is: are you able to handle the consequences of the choice you're about to make? If you are, then you don't need any more encouragement. Points well taken Sir. Pwede natin i-argue civilly at philosophically ang pitfalls ng paghangad ng social acceptance, pero pag tumuntong na sa totoong buhay, sa tingin ko consciously or subconsciously, karamihan ay hinahabol ito. Syempre, meron mga outliers. Ang simpleng obserbasyon, na karamihan sa ating mga GMs ay tinatago ang pag bisita sa spas sa ating pamilya at karamihan ng mga theras ay itinatago ang pag ta-trabaho sa spa sa kanilang pamilya at partners, ay tacit understanding natin at nila na hindi ito malawakang tinatanggap. Naintindihan ko rin na hindi lahat ay "made of cash". Kung kaya't para dun sa karamihan, ang pinakamagagawa na lang nila ay i-encourage na i-consider ang ibang linya ng trabaho kung gusto talaga nilang mag work out ang relationship nila. Yung mga na encounter mo po siguro who embodies the line na ni-quote mo ay probably the exception to the norm. About sa "paghikayat na mag-bagong buhay", agree ako 100% na choice yun ng therapist. Kung kaya't ang magagawa lang ng GM ay mang-hikayat. In the end, babalik ako sa topic at hand. Pag pumasok sa GM-thera relationship - the odds are stacked against it. Para sa newbies na nahumaling agad sa thera nila - relax and release lang. Sa pagbasa pa lang ng buong thread na ito, obvious na dehado talaga. Hindi sa spa ang best place para hanapin ang inyong one and only. Of course, walang pumipigil sa inyo, kung gusto nyo pa rin i-try - we wish you the best. Share nyo na lang dito ang experience nyo.  Quote Link to comment
rontan2014 Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 (edited) Masakit. Sobra. Lalo na alam mo, yung taong mahal mo, eh nasa ganyang sitwasyon. Mas mahirap kung wala ka pang means para alisin sya kung nasan man sya ngayon. Araw araw madudurog yung ego mo bilang lalaki pero kailangan mong intindihin lalo na kung wala ka pa naman solusyon sa problema na meron kayong dalawa. At ang pinakamasakit sa lahat, yung hindi mo maprotektahan yung taong mahal mo, dahil alam mo namang hindi nya gusto ang ginagawa nya, un lang talaga ang sumasagot sa problema nya sa ngayon. Kaya kung yang nararamdaman mo e libog lang, o kaya naman e panandalian lang, o nagdadalawang isip ka. Better keep off the grass. Wag mo na itry. Its not easy as it seems. Mahirap. Hindi sapat ang pagmamahal lang. Kailangan mo rin ng matinding pag uunawa. Sakripisyo. At pag titiis. At higit sa lahat dapat may plano ka. Problema 1: Pera ang dahilan bakit si thera nasa sitwasyon na ganito, si GM naman tinamaan ng libog kaya nasa sitwasyon ng ganito. So, sa simulang-simula, transaction-based ang relasyon na yan. Kung nasasaktan si GM dahil sa sitwasyon ni thera, isang rason lang yan: selos... In other words, KISA syndrome. Problema 2: Kung si thera naman ang tinamaan kay GM, mas matindi to kasi lahat ng baraha nasa kay GM. Lalo na kapag si thera madalas ng nakikipag-kita sa labas kay GM. At si GM mabilis lang kumuha ng iba lalo na kung nagsasawa na kay thera, kasi may pera naman sya.  Solusyon: GM at Thera wag nyo na lokohin sarili nyo sa "lintik-na-pagibig" na yan. Mag enjoy na lang kayo sa isa't-isa kasi may hangganan din yan. Edited September 25, 2017 by rontan2014 Quote Link to comment
royflirty Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 the best talaga para magwork out is alisin si thera sa complicated work na to Quote Link to comment
MP5K Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 i agree Masakit. Sobra. Lalo na alam mo, yung taong mahal mo, eh nasa ganyang sitwasyon. Mas mahirap kung wala ka pang means para alisin sya kung nasan man sya ngayon. Araw araw madudurog yung ego mo bilang lalaki pero kailangan mong intindihin lalo na kung wala ka pa naman solusyon sa problema na meron kayong dalawa. At ang pinakamasakit sa lahat, yung hindi mo maprotektahan yung taong mahal mo, dahil alam mo namang hindi nya gusto ang ginagawa nya, un lang talaga ang sumasagot sa problema nya sa ngayon. Kaya kung yang nararamdaman mo e libog lang, o kaya naman e panandalian lang, o nagdadalawang isip ka. Better keep off the grass. Wag mo na itry. Its not easy as it seems. Mahirap. Hindi sapat ang pagmamahal lang. Kailangan mo rin ng matinding pag uunawa. Sakripisyo. At pag titiis. At higit sa lahat dapat may plano ka. Quote Link to comment
Modta022 Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 Mahal mag mahal ng thera hehe kaya wag nalang Quote Link to comment
Mr.Fats Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 Ang tanong, may thera na bang nainlove sa client? Quote Link to comment
rontan2014 Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 Ang tanong, may thera na bang nainlove sa client? Palagay ko sa spakol meron, pero malabo sa massage parlor. Quote Link to comment
Rex- Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 There's no past and future in this matter. It's just the present.Wag mag-isip ng future-based matter like balang araw magkakatuluyan kayo. Just enjoy the moment while it last. 1 Quote Link to comment
c@rl0 Posted September 27, 2017 Share Posted September 27, 2017 On the positive side it's possible but very low chance. Also it depends in the situation of both. Suntok sa buwan ika nga. But to not complicate things enjoy Lang...  Kung Wala ka pera wag na umasa. Ito na un. Di mo makakain Ang love. Hahaha There's no past and future in this matter. It's just the present.Wag mag-isip ng future-based matter like balang araw magkakatuluyan kayo. Just enjoy the moment while it last. Quote Link to comment
Rex- Posted September 27, 2017 Share Posted September 27, 2017 We GMs, we deserve someone na hindi involved sa spa industry.Same thing applies for the theras, they also deserve someone na walang alam sa spa industry. Pag spa kayo nagkakilala, there's a very low chance magwork ang relation.Why? kasi hinding hindi sayo maniniwala si thera na you're for real.Nasa spa sila para magtrabaho hindi para maghanap ng lovelife.So stick din tayo sa purpose naten na pupunta lang dun para magrelax at magrelease. Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted September 27, 2017 Share Posted September 27, 2017 Hindi mo pwedeng maturuan ang puso.The heart wants what it wants. Plus sa dami ng super gandang thera ngyon who knows you may be dating one. Quote Link to comment
Homeboy28 Posted September 27, 2017 Share Posted September 27, 2017 Possible ba talagang may guest na ma fall sa thera?yeah it is possible po.. coz we are all human.. so it is unnavoidable that something like that could happen. Quote Link to comment
karliebabe Posted September 27, 2017 Share Posted September 27, 2017 Ang tanong, may thera na bang nainlove sa client?Yes , im the one honestly kaso mali eh ang hirap din magtiwala sa client although gusto mo paniwalaan na gusto ka din nila for real , pero hindi mo maiiwasan na may client na pinaparamdam nila sayo na special ka ,para maka less or makalibre etc. Kaya mahirap din ma fall sa mga client  Sabi nga nila pag na inlove ka talo ka kaya , kung kaya mong pigilan sarili mo pigilan mo  KAYA PINIGILAN KO NALANG LANG KASI MALI Quote Link to comment
Kingkongphils Posted September 28, 2017 Share Posted September 28, 2017 Matic na yun kung pumili ka ng thera e wag mong isipin na may bayad pero talagang mag bibigay ka talaga, or extra effort na mag bigay ka. Love is a game, kung kayo nang thera e nag bobolahan, generally pati ung sa ibang "normal" n babae e may bolahan dn. Asawa nga naaagaw e. Kung c guest iniisip maka libre c thera iniisip maka pera. Its a you jump i jump situation just like any other. 2 Quote Link to comment
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