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On 2/20/2022 at 1:09 AM, Duel of Fate said:

yup. 

may mga thera na nagsasabi single daw sila. tagal na daw wala bf. 

eh nakita ko socmed prior to meeting them. 

"weh? kahit nag skyranch kayo last week? tas nung bday mo purple teddy bear bigay sayo?" 😂 shookt sila e 🤣

Parang pinagtakpan lang mga ganyan tapos may anak pa 

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siguro kung single yung therapist and talagang mahal mo then go ahead..

but if may anak na and bata pa?? I strongly suggest WAG NA LANG1!

forever mo dadalhin yung pagpapalaki sa BATA...think about it long term....

kaya NO TO SINGLE MOTHERS na SPA THERAPISTS.....lalo kung wala ka pang anak na sarili....

even if the sex is really good, which I know it is...

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13 hours ago, Madvillain said:

siguro kung single yung therapist and talagang mahal mo then go ahead..

but if may anak na and bata pa?? I strongly suggest WAG NA LANG1!

forever mo dadalhin yung pagpapalaki sa BATA...think about it long term....

kaya NO TO SINGLE MOTHERS na SPA THERAPISTS.....lalo kung wala ka pang anak na sarili....

even if the sex is really good, which I know it is...

This one hit me today

noted na talaga dito

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14 hours ago, Madvillain said:

siguro kung single yung therapist and talagang mahal mo then go ahead..

but if may anak na and bata pa?? I strongly suggest WAG NA LANG1!

forever mo dadalhin yung pagpapalaki sa BATA...think about it long term....

kaya NO TO SINGLE MOTHERS na SPA THERAPISTS.....lalo kung wala ka pang anak na sarili....

even if the sex is really good, which I know it is...

Dapat wala ring sabit si GM para di naman kawawa yung Single Therapist. 

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16 hours ago, Madvillain said:

siguro kung single yung therapist and talagang mahal mo then go ahead..

but if may anak na and bata pa?? I strongly suggest WAG NA LANG1!

forever mo dadalhin yung pagpapalaki sa BATA...think about it long term....

kaya NO TO SINGLE MOTHERS na SPA THERAPISTS.....lalo kung wala ka pang anak na sarili....

even if the sex is really good, which I know it is...

don't do the crime if you cant do the time.

a good friend of mine fell HARD  for a girl. They broke up and the girl got pregnant by her bf ( who upped and left ) Bf and girl broke up. My friend gallantly went to the her ; offering to help pay for the full hospital costs in birthing the baby . She refused and girl went back to bf ( tried working it out ) but broke off again when she caught her bf texting another girl.

Girl gives birth. My friend visits her in her house . She's lost a lot of weight. Gone is the girlish charm replaced now by a look of sadness. My friend offers a bit of money to help. Girl accepts. Next visit she asks my friend to stay ( nagpose pa nga  si comrade for pix holding the baby) for dinner

Next week bday ni baby and he brings food and a cake.

I told him that this is a dangerous path to tread. Sabi ko "

Kailangan malinaw sa iyo kung ano ang gusto mong mangyari kasi with what you're showing ma fo-fall ka ulit and mafo-fall  ulit yan sa iyo. Package deal ang ex gf mo + baby. You cant have one without the other."

Decide for yourself how your endgame will look like and if you're willing to help and take responsibility.

 

 

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Mahirap ito bro.

1) Kailangan past is past talaga. Lalo na pag may mga FRs posted on your jowa  ( in graphic detail pa ung iba ).

2) Hinanahanap ang jowa mo ng mga ex clients niya  sa mga forums. Mentioned din siya as TOTGA by gents who felt they missed out . Dahil  nabasa kasi nila ung past FRs ( aside from being graphic ...highly rated pa kasi ang performance)

3) Natutonton pa si jowa kung nasaan at pinadadalhan ng indecent proposals through acquaintances who stayed in the biz .   I managed to track down one persistent admirer  ( and ex client ) who even posted her pics in a personal blog . Chatted with him in a nice way na pls layoff. and tell your friends to do the same. And to take down her pics as well. In fairness he did.

This difficult time fades with the passing of time though and pretty soon becomes distant memory. Her past never comes up in your talks. Kung mapagusapan man its about how lucky we met and what came after  . 😘

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On 2/21/2022 at 11:43 AM, KID FIGHTER said:

 

I feel you Sir Boss @buboybadudels. Thanks for sharing your very beautiful story which, for me, needs a much romantic ending sana. 👍👍👍

Anyway, my principle usually works: magparamdam. Paramdam pa uli. Pero pag wala, wag na itutuloy. Kahit sobrang crush at gusto mo pa siya, wag na! These past month nangyari sakin yan. Crush ko sya! Ganda in person and super sexy! As in extended hours session namin. Many times! Pero napansin ko, medyo mahina. So rest ko for 4 days. Then iba na kinuha ko. At mas maganda at mas makinis kay sa kanya. Pero not as sexy. Ok kami ngayon hehehe.😊👍

Ingat din ako sa sobrang selosa. Imagine in 2018, as in 1 thera lang kinuha ko for almost a year. Sometimes 2x in one day ko sya kinuha. Naging kami after about 3 months. Kinantyawan na ko ng ibang GM's. Bakit daw ayaw ko tumikim ng iba? Di ba daw nagsasawa? Ganun. Nakita ko ibang GM's sarap ng ngiti pag meron bagong thera. So on our 11th month, I asked permission kung pwede kumuha ng iba. Sabi nya ok lang basta mag condom ako. Bawal mag live sa iba.

Ok. So after 3 days nag confirmatory message ako na ok lang ba talaga na kukuha ako ng iba? Sabi nya uli ok lang. Bawal lang live sa iba. So kinuha ko yun 2nd pinaka maganda dun. Grabe, tinadyakan nya yun door. Minura nya ko! Binato ako ng towel. Pinalapit nya ko. Paglapit ko, hinawakan nya leeg ko. Meron pa siyang 2nd towel. Minumodmod nya sa mukha ko yung 2nd towel! Sakit ng mukha ko, muntik masugatan! Tapos bigla siya umiyak at niyakap ako. Nakatingin lang samin yun isang thera pati mga boys. 

Selos lang di ba? Nagiging unreasonable. Binigyan nya ko permission. Pero bakit nagalit? Kalaban daw pala nya yun 2nd top earner dun. Hirap talaga! Dapat siguro, wag dun sa selosa. Kasi meron naman ibang GM's na may jowa. Pero pumayag yun jowa na kukuha pa rin si GM ng iba minsan. Dapat siguro sa ibang establishment na ko kumuha ng iba. Hindi dun.

Summary: 1) Wag manliligaw pag di ka rin type ni thera; 2) Piliin ang hindi selosa; 3) Wag maglandi sa the same spa kung saan nag work si thera; 4) Relax, be open to other options.

I think more often than not they all want to be number 1. It is very unlikely that once there are feelings that a girl can withstand her “BF” doing the deed with other women. It’s funny I have been in a similar situation several times and sure as sure can be, the moment they find out you have gone off the reservation, the claws, fangs, and ugliness comes out. Even when you tell them you are biologically unsuited for monogamy, and you agree to be open, the old Darwinian instincts come to play. Ha ha ha 😅

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On 2/27/2022 at 10:28 PM, BRAIN FOR HIRE said:

I think more often than not they all want to be number 1. It is very unlikely that once there are feelings that a girl can withstand her “BF” doing the deed with other women. It’s funny I have been in a similar situation several times and sure as sure can be, the moment they find out you have gone off the reservation, the claws, fangs, and ugliness comes out. Even when you tell them you are biologically unsuited for monogamy, and you agree to be open, the old Darwinian instincts come to play. Ha ha ha 😅

cant agree more lalo na kung kaibang kaiba ka tapos nasasaiyo ang mga hinahanap niya. which above all else is IMHO   is emotional and financial security. ayaw nilang ma threaten in any way . so ma thera / gf / wife it plays out all the same.

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I won't recommend ladies with children.....lalong lalo na din yung mga dalaga, they are looking for the richest man they could possibly get, so if you're not really really rich, it's best to stay away...

it's best to just get them once and find another one and another one and another one..

life is meant to be enjoyed not get stressed....

 

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3 minutes ago, handsomebob said:

I won't recommend ladies with children.....lalong lalo na din yung mga dalaga, they are looking for the richest man they could possibly get, so if you're not really really rich, it's best to stay away...

it's best to just get them once and find another one and another one and another one..

life is meant to be enjoyed not get stressed....

 

that is the safest play. although minsan din hindi mo maiiwasang mgkaroon ng some kind of  attachment lalo na if you've gained the trust and confidence of the girl. anyway keep things in pekpektive este perspective  always. mind over heart lagi ...

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On 2/13/2022 at 1:17 PM, PedroPaterno said:

"When you meet someone, it's either they're a blessing or a lesson."
(pero para saakin, para saakin lang ah, every lesson is a blessing. ;))

well said comrade. isasama ko na yan sa favorite quotes ko.

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6 minutes ago, mosy_24 said:

Ay ano yan may clue agad 😂

kasi sila mga in need at madaling maka i spot ng prospect. Na experience ko na yan sa SM ( when i bought 4 sets of suits in one go ) and sa True Value ( when i shopped for a ton of materials for home improvement and renovation ). Sila pa mismo nagbibigay ng cell nila ( Sir kung may problema kayo or concern text / tawag niyo lang ako with matching flirty smile)  Bilis ng pang-amoy comrade. 

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34 minutes ago, handsomebob said:

I won't recommend ladies with children.....lalong lalo na din yung mga dalaga, they are looking for the richest man they could possibly get, so if you're not really really rich, it's best to stay away...

it's best to just get them once and find another one and another one and another one..

life is meant to be enjoyed not get stressed....

 

i agree with this, i made a grave error last year and fell for this trap. 

Buti naka alis ako sa situation na yun... gamitan lang talaga yan ang totoo

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1 minute ago, CardingTigas said:

i agree with this, i made a grave error last year and fell for this trap. 

Buti naka alis ako sa situation na yun... gamitan lang talaga yan ang totoo

desperation din yan on the part of the thera. fact is by almost all girls in the play for pay industry. mkahanap ng lalaking magaalis sa kanila sa ganitong buhay. Single moms are the most prone to this as they have their kid to think about.

Kahit naman single comrade meron din. Lalo na pag mabata bata at maganda. May  thera akong suki dati sa Wilder na napakagaling sa ES at sobrang enjoy ako. In a quiet moment after sex she asked me " Gusto mo ba sayo lang ako ? "

I asked her " what do you mean? "

Sabi niya " Titigil nako dito. Kailangan ko lang ng apartment and 40 k monthly ".

D ko na binalikan .

 

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4 minutes ago, FF said:

desperation din yan on the part of the thera. fact is by almost all girls in the play for pay industry. mkahanap ng lalaking magaalis sa kanila sa ganitong buhay. Single moms are the most prone to this as they have their kid to think about.

Kahit naman single comrade meron din. Lalo na pag mabata bata at maganda. May  thera akong suki dati sa Wilder na napakagaling sa ES at sobrang enjoy ako. In a quiet moment after sex she asked me " Gusto mo ba sayo lang ako ? "

I asked her " what do you mean? "

Sabi niya " Titigil nako dito. Kailangan ko lang ng apartment and 40 k monthly ".

D ko na binalikan .

 

uu meron ako na encounter dalaga walang anak, 50K per month ang gusto, maganda at bata talaga kaso maluho, walang ka kuntentuhan, nagawa nya nga sa boyfriend nya dati magagawa din nya sakin, kaya wag nalang, kukuha lang ako ng bato na ipupukpok ko sa ulo ko pag ganun

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