Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[tinylurker]

46 minutes ago, buboybadudels said:

Wow may thread palang ganito tapos ang active.. let me share something din hehe.

 

Nung kasagsagan ng pandemic, I was at my lowest. Namatayan ako ng mahal sa buhay dahil sa covid.

Hindi naman ako mahilig masyado sa spa pero gusto ko talaga ng may makakausap at the same time marelax.

Luckily, meron akong ina-eye na thera dati tapos umalis dahil nag Japan. Nakita ko siyang nakaline up sa isang spa sa makati. Super crush ko siya dati pa.

So dumalaw ako sa kasagsagan ng pandemic and sobrang naging sulit yung visit ko. Naabutan ko siya ng tanghali, kabubukas lang ng spa and medyo naging matagal bonding naman at kwentuhan.

Eventually, I was seeing myself na nageeffort na sakanya, diladalhan siya ng food etc. Tinanong ko kung may BF na siya at sabi niya wala. So medyo naging mas eager akong kilalanin siya kasi ang bait din niya (single mom siya btw)

Umabot na nagpapadala nako ng flowers and naglalabas na kami. Walang sex to ha, talagang bonding lang. Eventually na-stalk ko fb niya and may BF pala siya. Cinonfront ko siya at sinabi niyang pawala na rin naman daw relationship and naghihintay nalang kung sino yung bumitaw.

So medyo sumugal pa rin ako, lagi ako nagpapadala ng food, pag wala siyang guest ako pumupunta, nageeffort, nagtatravel kami outside ng metro para magdate. All expense paid at kasama na rin yung bayad sa oras niya sa spa kasi nga na-fall na ako.

May time na na-stalk ko ulit siya sa FB tapos nakita kong sweet ulit sila ng bf niya. Nawala ako bigla, ang sakit. Pero bigla akong nagmessage sakanya after siguro a month or 2. Saktong nalipat siya ng spa and medyo nagkahiwalay na ulit sila ng bf niya.

We started dating again. Talagang i gave my 200%. Kahit di naman ako super yaman, ginawan ko ng paraan para makasama siya at masustain yung kailangan niya. Eventually nakkwento na niya ako sa bestfriends niya and sa family. Dun ako natuwa. Ang sabi ko sakanya, eventually maalis ko siya sa work niya and magstart kami business para matulungan din family niya. Nagbudget pa ako para dun.

Nang biglang, naging cold siya. Parang kung ako 200% binibigay ko, siya 50% lang. Ni hindi ako matext ng matagal, nag ggood morning lang. Tapos medyo masikreto pa yung ginagawa niya. Nahuli ko pang nageentertain ng iba. Sabi niya client lang daw yun.

Pagkatapos ng mga events na yun, i was loyal pa rin. Inintindi ko siya. Pero merong time na alam kong hindi pala talaga siya makamove on sa BF niya (na hosto). Natauhan ako at sinabi ko sakanya na choice na niya lang kung gusto pa niya. All she need is i-message ako sa fb and I will give my all again.

Pero hindi na iyon nangyari.

Salute sayo sir, I feel you.

Ito yung sinasabi ko dati na kapag nag gf ka ng thera at malikot ka rin sa technology (socmed), be prepared for tons of heartbreak.

Hmm hosto din karibal ko hahaha kainis

[deatheater06]

Naalala ko tuloy yung thera na tinanong ko dati if may jowa sya. Sagot nya wala. I stalked her soc med and found out meron ang masama pa dun. Mga post nya is puro sa problema nila ni jowa.  Nagloloko that time jowa nya. Kaya success rate here is very slim. My 2 cents

[PedroPaterno]

1 hour ago, tinylurker said:

Salute sayo sir, I feel you.

Ito yung sinasabi ko dati na kapag nag gf ka ng thera at malikot ka rin sa technology (socmed), be prepared for tons of heartbreak.

Hmm hosto din karibal ko hahaha kainis

well practically and logically speaking, marami din talagang SWs na hosto ang nagiging nobyo, since same line of work, and andun yung pleasure factor, siyempre ang hosto todo bigay din sa kantunan (oops ulitin mo basahin haha) being SWs sanay sila na sila nagpapaligaya, so siguro at home, turn naman nila. parang ganun.
 

2 hours ago, buboybadudels said:

Wow may thread palang ganito tapos ang active.. let me share something din hehe.

 

Nung kasagsagan ng pandemic, I was at my lowest. Namatayan ako ng mahal sa buhay dahil sa covid.

Hindi naman ako mahilig masyado sa spa pero gusto ko talaga ng may makakausap at the same time marelax.

Luckily, meron akong ina-eye na thera dati tapos umalis dahil nag Japan. Nakita ko siyang nakaline up sa isang spa sa makati. Super crush ko siya dati pa.

So dumalaw ako sa kasagsagan ng pandemic and sobrang naging sulit yung visit ko. Naabutan ko siya ng tanghali, kabubukas lang ng spa and medyo naging matagal bonding naman at kwentuhan.

Eventually, I was seeing myself na nageeffort na sakanya, diladalhan siya ng food etc. Tinanong ko kung may BF na siya at sabi niya wala. So medyo naging mas eager akong kilalanin siya kasi ang bait din niya (single mom siya btw)

Umabot na nagpapadala nako ng flowers and naglalabas na kami. Walang sex to ha, talagang bonding lang. Eventually na-stalk ko fb niya and may BF pala siya. Cinonfront ko siya at sinabi niyang pawala na rin naman daw relationship and naghihintay nalang kung sino yung bumitaw.

So medyo sumugal pa rin ako, lagi ako nagpapadala ng food, pag wala siyang guest ako pumupunta, nageeffort, nagtatravel kami outside ng metro para magdate. All expense paid at kasama na rin yung bayad sa oras niya sa spa kasi nga na-fall na ako.

May time na na-stalk ko ulit siya sa FB tapos nakita kong sweet ulit sila ng bf niya. Nawala ako bigla, ang sakit. Pero bigla akong nagmessage sakanya after siguro a month or 2. Saktong nalipat siya ng spa and medyo nagkahiwalay na ulit sila ng bf niya.

We started dating again. Talagang i gave my 200%. Kahit di naman ako super yaman, ginawan ko ng paraan para makasama siya at masustain yung kailangan niya. Eventually nakkwento na niya ako sa bestfriends niya and sa family. Dun ako natuwa. Ang sabi ko sakanya, eventually maalis ko siya sa work niya and magstart kami business para matulungan din family niya. Nagbudget pa ako para dun.

Nang biglang, naging cold siya. Parang kung ako 200% binibigay ko, siya 50% lang. Ni hindi ako matext ng matagal, nag ggood morning lang. Tapos medyo masikreto pa yung ginagawa niya. Nahuli ko pang nageentertain ng iba. Sabi niya client lang daw yun.

Pagkatapos ng mga events na yun, i was loyal pa rin. Inintindi ko siya. Pero merong time na alam kong hindi pala talaga siya makamove on sa BF niya (na hosto). Natauhan ako at sinabi ko sakanya na choice na niya lang kung gusto pa niya. All she need is i-message ako sa fb and I will give my all again.

Pero hindi na iyon nangyari.

Eto yung sayang pero bossing sana ok lang kayo, and sana may natutunan. At least ikaw malinis konsensya mo and no regrets kasi 100% binigay mo (200 pa nga eh.) 

 

8 hours ago, Howdy Doody said:

I had a Thera who became my GF during the pandemic. She had no where to work and I had no place to go. Since she lived very near were I stayed and there were no checkpoints going to and from her place, we were able to meet and spend many times together. She was practically exclusive to me too. Walks with other guests for her was impossible since the pandemic protocols were very strict.

This relationship lasted the whole duration of the pandemic. It stopped when it became normal recently and she had found work again in an MP. I too, had again places to go to with the opening of various places.

I guess the relationship was mutually beneficial for us because somehow, I gave her pocket money to sustain her during the pandemic, whereas I too had the opportunity to relieve my sexual needs.

Eto yung maganda naman na ISA sa mga IDEAL na dynamic ng relationship, at least nakatulong din kayo. saka maganda yung logistics lalo na nung kasagsagan ng pandemic napakahirap madiligan. insert sana all.
 

19 hours ago, SnoozySnoozy said:

Whoa whoa! Hahaha! Just to clarify lang sir ha, I fell in love with a thera years ago. This particular thera is retired na now.  Hindi sya yung thera na sinasabi ni @samlcd ha. This was back in 2016-2017. Moved on and learned my lesson from that experience with her. 

Then now, I was sharing about my current regular thera (ito yung sinasabi ni @Qin Nan na may kahawig na korean celeb). Super jive kami in transparency, humor, and everything else in between. We both know where we stand, lagi namin sinasabi "oy walang in-lab-an ah!" and that's why I enjoy our time together. I'm so happy I found her

Ayun lang, just wanted to clarify hehe. Invested na si sir @PedroPaternohaha, baka mamisinterpret yung ganapan! 😂✌️

 

 

Yea bossing nakita ko nga haha, na yung gfe thera mo and yung kay samlcd is same, pero yun nga sabi nga ni boss sam na iz all good in da hood, sensya na bossing @samlcd nadala lang ako ng pagiging chismoso. 
 

21 hours ago, Prey27 said:

Ang ganda ng story. Ang ending ngka aids /hiv ung guy.

Actually, naghiwalay sila after 2 years, pinagpalit siya sa pogi. (yun lang.) Wala narin kami communication nung tropa ko na yun, pero minsan nakikita ko siya sa ig stories ko, ok naman na buhay nya.

[samlcd]

33 minutes ago, PedroPaterno said:

Yea bossing nakita ko nga haha, na yung gfe thera mo and yung kay samlcd is same, pero yun nga sabi nga ni boss sam na iz all good in da hood, sensya na bossing @samlcd nadala lang ako ng pagiging chismoso.

Okay lang un master.

Right now, I would just like to keep everything private and kept between the two of us. Hindi naman ako showy hehe. The thing I posted was just out of impulse and I just want to share what I felt right that moment. Pero everything is cool now

[buboybadudels]

45 minutes ago, PedroPaterno said:

Eto yung sayang pero bossing sana ok lang kayo, and sana may natutunan. At least ikaw malinis konsensya mo and no regrets kasi 100% binigay mo (200 pa nga eh.)

Yes super no regrets. Minsan nalulungkot kasi diba what if. Pero siya naman na kasi bahala sa buhay niya e kung ma-stuck siya dito or what.

[Duel of Fate]

6 hours ago, deatheater06 said:

Naalala ko tuloy yung thera na tinanong ko dati if may jowa sya. Sagot nya wala. I stalked her soc med and found out meron ang masama pa dun. Mga post nya is puro sa problema nila ni jowa.  Nagloloko that time jowa nya. Kaya success rate here is very slim. My 2 cents

yup. 

may mga thera na nagsasabi single daw sila. tagal na daw wala bf. 

eh nakita ko socmed prior to meeting them. 

"weh? kahit nag skyranch kayo last week? tas nung bday mo purple teddy bear bigay sayo?" 😂 shookt sila e 🤣

[j j j j]

Mahalin niyo sila. Period. Kung yan ang nararamdaman niyo. Pero don't expect it to be reciprocated outside the confines of the 4 walls. However, kung minahal kayo, well and good, pero wag pilitin. If it ends in breaking your heart, ok lang. Move on. Mahirap, masakit, nakaka inis, pero ganyan talaga. When it's time to let go, let go.

[KID FIGHTER]

On 2/20/2022 at 2:42 AM, j j j j said:

Mahalin niyo sila. Period. Kung yan ang nararamdaman niyo. Pero don't expect it to be reciprocated outside the confines of the 4 walls. However, kung minahal kayo, well and good, pero wag pilitin. If it ends in breaking your heart, ok lang. Move on. Mahirap, masakit, nakaka inis, pero ganyan talaga. When it's time to let go, let go.

 

Actually, it's  NOT yet on the level of love. Sa thera, I never fell deeply in love, the way I fell for my ex-wifey. If you fall in love kasi, you wanna do everything for her -- all out! No limits, no boundaries! Like lahat ng nasa you (businesses, houses, etc.) ibibigay mo rin sa kanya. 

Sa thera, it's more of crush lang. Like loyal ako sa kanya almost the entire year 2018. Wala ako ibang girl na kinuha. But when she told me na dun na siya titira sa house ko or kahit dun man lang sa vacant condo, I refused. I said, "I'm not ready." Lately lang, super sexy 18-years old. Naglayas sa kanyang spa. Ayaw na niya pumasok. Pinatira ko muna sa isang hotel for 7 days. Sabi nya sama na daw kami dun sa isang condo ko. Again, I said "No, hindi pa ako ready." I just want to be single muna. Then hinatid ko siya sa kanila, dun sa parents niya.

Love should not be "sudden"! Infatuation lang yun. Kasi super ganda at sexy ni thera. Tapos magaling pa sa ES. Pero, for sure, pwedeng pwede na magiging kayo. Siguro after about a year na regular ka na niya. Pinuntahan mo parents niya. Eventually you plan a good future with her. Bibilhan mo sya ng 5 million or 10 million insurance, etc. Yan ang love! Pag wala yun, eh jowa jowa lang yun. Only for the moment.☺👍

[KID FIGHTER]

On 2/19/2022 at 6:10 PM, Duel of Fate said:

thank god in over 10years di pako nafofall. (yet). 

but i feel you boys. 

ma friendship over at mablock lang ako sa socmed, parang sampal na. ung minahal mo pa kaya. 

#gmzoned #sugardaddyzoned #sponsorzoned

 

Wow! Thanks for your honesty Sir Boss @Duel of Fate!

Ako, I just want to enjoy the present. Although, lumampas din sa boundary minsan. Like si pretty girl, this week lang. Gusto ng postpaid sa Globe. Pagod na sya load ng load. Crush ko din naman siya. She's obviously the prettiest sa establishment nila. Perfect girl physically! And she's very honest! Merong plans sa buhay. I called up Globe at meron na siyang postpaid for 2 years. Inisip ko, paano pag di na kami magkikita lagi? Sabi ko, magkano lang postpaid? 2k monthly? Or maybe 3k pag nag overcharge. It wouldn't hurt. Kung crush mo naman, sige pagbigyan mo na. 

Biniro nga ko ng ibang mga GM's dun. Level up na. Di na uso hingi ng load.☺😁🤭😂 Hingi postpaid na ngayon - 2 years hehe. But, I really don't mind. Sobrang mabait naman si girl, in fairness.👍👍

[KID FIGHTER]

On 2/20/2022 at 2:42 AM, j j j j said:

Mahalin niyo sila. Period. Kung yan ang nararamdaman niyo. Pero don't expect it to be reciprocated outside the confines of the 4 walls. However, kung minahal kayo, well and good, pero wag pilitin. If it ends in breaking your heart, ok lang. Move on. Mahirap, masakit, nakaka inis, pero ganyan talaga. When it's time to let go, let go.

 

Love this, Sir Boss @j j j j!

"Greatest love story in the world!"

💖💖💖💖💖💖👫💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[tinylurker]

"Enjoy it while it lasts."

"The only permanent thing in this world is change"

Maikli lang ang buhay so kung mafall, go lang ng go!

Though expect some painful truths kapag masyado kang magalugad sa socmed or kapag top thera sila at maraming FR Dito.

And kapag obvious na obvious na yung mga red flags, please lang, huwag maging colorblind and move on na.

Tipong kitang kita naman yung red flag na nakatusok sa jolibee spicy chicken, nakain pa yung flag at toothpick.

 

[j j j j]

2 hours ago, KID FIGHTER said:

 

Love this, Sir Boss @j j j j!

"Greatest love story in the world!"

💖💖💖💖💖💖👫💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

Love you sir! Este, love you (alam mo na kung sino ka). haha

[tinylurker]

3 hours ago, KID FIGHTER said:

 

Wow! Thanks for your honesty Sir Boss @Duel of Fate!

Ako, I just want to enjoy the present. Although, lumampas din sa boundary minsan. Like si pretty girl, this week lang. Gusto ng postpaid sa Globe. Pagod na sya load ng load. Crush ko din naman siya. She's obviously the prettiest sa establishment nila. Perfect girl physically! And she's very honest! Merong plans sa buhay. I called up Globe at meron na siyang postpaid for 2 years. Inisip ko, paano pag di na kami magkikita lagi? Sabi ko, magkano lang postpaid? 2k monthly? Or maybe 3k pag nag overcharge. It wouldn't hurt. Kung crush mo naman, sige pagbigyan mo na. 

Biniro nga ko ng ibang mga GM's dun. Level up na. Di na uso hingi ng load.☺😁🤭😂 Hingi postpaid na ngayon - 2 years hehe. But, I really don't mind. Sobrang mabait naman si girl, in fairness.👍👍

Idol ko talaga itong so sir eh.

Mala Tony Stark

[samlcd]

5 hours ago, KID FIGHTER said:

 

Wow! Thanks for your honesty Sir Boss @Duel of Fate!

Ako, I just want to enjoy the present. Although, lumampas din sa boundary minsan. Like si pretty girl, this week lang. Gusto ng postpaid sa Globe. Pagod na sya load ng load. Crush ko din naman siya. She's obviously the prettiest sa establishment nila. Perfect girl physically! And she's very honest! Merong plans sa buhay. I called up Globe at meron na siyang postpaid for 2 years. Inisip ko, paano pag di na kami magkikita lagi? Sabi ko, magkano lang postpaid? 2k monthly? Or maybe 3k pag nag overcharge. It wouldn't hurt. Kung crush mo naman, sige pagbigyan mo na. 

Biniro nga ko ng ibang mga GM's dun. Level up na. Di na uso hingi ng load.☺😁🤭😂 Hingi postpaid na ngayon - 2 years hehe. But, I really don't mind. Sobrang mabait naman si girl, in fairness.👍👍

As the famous saying goes. "Pag gusto mo ang isang bagay/tao. Gagastusan mo."

[KID FIGHTER]

On 2/19/2022 at 5:39 PM, buboybadudels said:

Wow may thread palang ganito tapos ang active.. let me share something din hehe.

 

Nung kasagsagan ng pandemic, I was at my lowest. Namatayan ako ng mahal sa buhay dahil sa covid.

Hindi naman ako mahilig masyado sa spa pero gusto ko talaga ng may makakausap at the same time marelax.

Luckily, meron akong ina-eye na thera dati tapos umalis dahil nag Japan. Nakita ko siyang nakaline up sa isang spa sa makati. Super crush ko siya dati pa.

So dumalaw ako sa kasagsagan ng pandemic and sobrang naging sulit yung visit ko. Naabutan ko siya ng tanghali, kabubukas lang ng spa and medyo naging matagal bonding naman at kwentuhan.

Eventually, I was seeing myself na nageeffort na sakanya, diladalhan siya ng food etc. Tinanong ko kung may BF na siya at sabi niya wala. So medyo naging mas eager akong kilalanin siya kasi ang bait din niya (single mom siya btw)

Umabot na nagpapadala nako ng flowers and naglalabas na kami. Walang sex to ha, talagang bonding lang. Eventually na-stalk ko fb niya and may BF pala siya. Cinonfront ko siya at sinabi niyang pawala na rin naman daw relationship and naghihintay nalang kung sino yung bumitaw.

So medyo sumugal pa rin ako, lagi ako nagpapadala ng food, pag wala siyang guest ako pumupunta, nageeffort, nagtatravel kami outside ng metro para magdate. All expense paid at kasama na rin yung bayad sa oras niya sa spa kasi nga na-fall na ako.

May time na na-stalk ko ulit siya sa FB tapos nakita kong sweet ulit sila ng bf niya. Nawala ako bigla, ang sakit. Pero bigla akong nagmessage sakanya after siguro a month or 2. Saktong nalipat siya ng spa and medyo nagkahiwalay na ulit sila ng bf niya.

We started dating again. Talagang i gave my 200%. Kahit di naman ako super yaman, ginawan ko ng paraan para makasama siya at masustain yung kailangan niya. Eventually nakkwento na niya ako sa bestfriends niya and sa family. Dun ako natuwa. Ang sabi ko sakanya, eventually maalis ko siya sa work niya and magstart kami business para matulungan din family niya. Nagbudget pa ako para dun.

Nang biglang, naging cold siya. Parang kung ako 200% binibigay ko, siya 50% lang. Ni hindi ako matext ng matagal, nag ggood morning lang. Tapos medyo masikreto pa yung ginagawa niya. Nahuli ko pang nageentertain ng iba. Sabi niya client lang daw yun.

Pagkatapos ng mga events na yun, i was loyal pa rin. Inintindi ko siya. Pero merong time na alam kong hindi pala talaga siya makamove on sa BF niya (na hosto). Natauhan ako at sinabi ko sakanya na choice na niya lang kung gusto pa niya. All she need is i-message ako sa fb and I will give my all again.

Pero hindi na iyon nangyari.

 

I feel you Sir Boss @buboybadudels. Thanks for sharing your very beautiful story which, for me, needs a much romantic ending sana. 👍👍👍

Anyway, my principle usually works: magparamdam. Paramdam pa uli. Pero pag wala, wag na itutuloy. Kahit sobrang crush at gusto mo pa siya, wag na! These past month nangyari sakin yan. Crush ko sya! Ganda in person and super sexy! As in extended hours session namin. Many times! Pero napansin ko, medyo mahina. So rest ko for 4 days. Then iba na kinuha ko. At mas maganda at mas makinis kay sa kanya. Pero not as sexy. Ok kami ngayon hehehe.😊👍

Ingat din ako sa sobrang selosa. Imagine in 2018, as in 1 thera lang kinuha ko for almost a year. Sometimes 2x in one day ko sya kinuha. Naging kami after about 3 months. Kinantyawan na ko ng ibang GM's. Bakit daw ayaw ko tumikim ng iba? Di ba daw nagsasawa? Ganun. Nakita ko ibang GM's sarap ng ngiti pag meron bagong thera. So on our 11th month, I asked permission kung pwede kumuha ng iba. Sabi nya ok lang basta mag condom ako. Bawal mag live sa iba.

Ok. So after 3 days nag confirmatory message ako na ok lang ba talaga na kukuha ako ng iba? Sabi nya uli ok lang. Bawal lang live sa iba. So kinuha ko yun 2nd pinaka maganda dun. Grabe, tinadyakan nya yun door. Minura nya ko! Binato ako ng towel. Pinalapit nya ko. Paglapit ko, hinawakan nya leeg ko. Meron pa siyang 2nd towel. Minumodmod nya sa mukha ko yung 2nd towel! Sakit ng mukha ko, muntik masugatan! Tapos bigla siya umiyak at niyakap ako. Nakatingin lang samin yun isang thera pati mga boys. 

Selos lang di ba? Nagiging unreasonable. Binigyan nya ko permission. Pero bakit nagalit? Kalaban daw pala nya yun 2nd top earner dun. Hirap talaga! Dapat siguro, wag dun sa selosa. Kasi meron naman ibang GM's na may jowa. Pero pumayag yun jowa na kukuha pa rin si GM ng iba minsan. Dapat siguro sa ibang establishment na ko kumuha ng iba. Hindi dun.

Summary: 1) Wag manliligaw pag di ka rin type ni thera; 2) Piliin ang hindi selosa; 3) Wag maglandi sa the same spa kung saan nag work si thera; 4) Relax, be open to other options.

[KID FIGHTER]

On 2/15/2022 at 2:13 PM, PedroPaterno said:

maraming salamats bossing.

 

pag usapang pag ibig kasi, eto lang ah para dagdag ko lang uli. (pangit kasi yung magththank you lang ako sayo bossing tapos yun lang baka masayang yung limited post haha)

 

pantay pantay dapat ang lahat, yung pagiging judgemental kasi natin ang nagiging problema, aminado ako ganyan din ako minsan. pero kailangan natin tingnan ang mga bagay bagay in a third person's perspective (or better yet objectively, which is hard i know)

like for example, "wag ka mang girl friend ng thera kasi mauubos pera mo." which in fact, 50-50 lang yan pwedeng mangyari, bakit?

ang pagiging mukhang pera to the point na manghuhuthot ka na, di yan nakabase sa trabaho nung tao, kundi sa pagpapalaki ng magulang, karakter at prinsipyo. bakit? marami din namang babae na wala sa ganitong larangan ng trabaho na puta nanununog ng kaban ng isang lalake, i'm sure naman alam mo rin naman to. so mas mainam na tingnan mo yung katangian ng isang tao imbis na yung prejudice. kilalanin mo, kilatisin mo, be DISCERNING, hindi yung "ay ang bait nya sakin, baka matino to" NO, di ganun yun, malaki ka na, alam mo na meaning ng discerning.

Yun ay kung trip mo talaga ah, applicable lang to dun sa mga nagkagusto o magkakagusto talaga sa isang therapist.

Pag di mo trip dahil feel mo masusunugan ka, ok lang yun, sarili mo yan, maniwala ka sa kutob mo.

 

(madami pwede sabihin tungkol sa paksang ito pero tinatamad pa ako haha. next time uli :D)

 

Sir Boss @PedroPaterno, thanks for sharing your nuggets of practical wisdom! Yeah, I mean, seriously dude, I love it!

Nag check ako ng mga essays ng grad school students,  pero di ko mapigilang mag comment hahaha!

Reality: 

We have so many pretty and sexy doctors here at St. Luke's, Medical City and Chinese Gen Hosp. Most of those I know are either pure Chinese (just like my ex-wifey) or half or 3/4 Chinese or Filipino-Hispanic. More than half of them never had any BF since birth. Lalo na sa batchmate ni wifey sa UST Med. Early 30's. Some of them took also their specialty in the US 🇺🇸 . Maykaya, some are rich (yung dad ni wifey mayaman talaga yun). Kaya lang most them naghahanap din ng kapwa doctor. Mas konti ang male doctors. Mga bading pa yun iba. So the demographic itself is problematic.

Pahirapan manliligaw sa isang pretty sexy doctor. They will surely trace your family background. Finances included. Eh nakita mo si thera, she's equally pretty and sexy compared to the doctor. Di pa maarte. Masarap pa, as in super sarappp! Dun ka na lang kay thera. Besides, magastos ang doctor na GF. She wants to have a one-month vacation in Munich, Milan, Paris, London and then in the French Riviera. Sometimes mag continental trip pa yan for 2 months sa Vancouver, Edmonton, Toronto, New York, Washington DC, Orlando, South Beach area , Houston, Las Vegas, The Bay Area, Hollywood and LA. Papasok pa yan sa campus ng school namin sa UCLA bago punta sa Stanford.😁🤭😂😂😂 Samantalang si pretty sexy thera mo, masaya na yan sa Boracay, Palawan, Hongkong, Bali, Madagascar, Perth, Brisbane, Canberra at Tokyo Disneyland. Totoo ba yan mga pretty sexy theras? Less than 1/4 the expenses.

Final suggestion: Please please please... if you really love your thera, please wag mo muna buntisin. Support her dreams! Make sure that she is able to finish her college (I'm not saying this because I have a doctorate from an American university). Support her being a strong woman. If you can, please send to school maybe 2 or 3 of her siblings too. Sarap pakiramdam pag may natulungan ka. I have also 2 scholars in UE actually.

What about me? Can I fall for a thera? Definitely 100% I can fall for a thera. Pero pinaplano ko. One step at a time. Wag po muna ngayon.

[elpie dio]

Think about the consequences. Im not rich and Im a pwd. Not practical to have a thera as a gf and expect her to quit. Many are breadwinners. One particular thera told me she earns P 80 to 100 k per month. So she cant quit.

 

[xtremus24]

Some other MP's got their savings already, but others are not.

[PedroPaterno]

8 hours ago, KID FIGHTER said:

 

Sir Boss @PedroPaterno, thanks for sharing your nuggets of practical wisdom! Yeah, I mean, seriously dude, I love it!

Nag check ako ng mga essays ng grad school students,  pero di ko mapigilang mag comment hahaha!

Reality: 

We have so many pretty and sexy doctors here at St. Luke's, Medical City and Chinese Gen Hosp. Most of those I know are either pure Chinese (just like my ex-wifey) or half or 3/4 Chinese or Filipino-Hispanic. More than half of them never had any BF since birth. Lalo na sa batchmate ni wifey sa UST Med. Early 30's. Some of them took also their specialty in the US 🇺🇸 . Maykaya, some are rich (yung dad ni wifey mayaman talaga yun). Kaya lang most them naghahanap din ng kapwa doctor. Mas konti ang male doctors. Mga bading pa yun iba. So the demographic itself is problematic.

Pahirapan manliligaw sa isang pretty sexy doctor. They will surely trace your family background. Finances included. Eh nakita mo si thera, she's equally pretty and sexy compared to the doctor. Di pa maarte. Masarap pa, as in super sarappp! Dun ka na lang kay thera. Besides, magastos ang doctor na GF. She wants to have a one-month vacation in Munich, Milan, Paris, London and then in the French Riviera. Sometimes mag continental trip pa yan for 2 months sa Vancouver, Edmonton, Toronto, New York, Washington DC, Orlando, South Beach area , Houston, Las Vegas, The Bay Area, Hollywood and LA. Papasok pa yan sa campus ng school namin sa UCLA bago punta sa Stanford.😁🤭😂😂😂 Samantalang si pretty sexy thera mo, masaya na yan sa Boracay, Palawan, Hongkong, Bali, Madagascar, Perth, Brisbane, Canberra at Tokyo Disneyland. Totoo ba yan mga pretty sexy theras? Less than 1/4 the expenses.

Final suggestion: Please please please... if you really love your thera, please wag mo muna buntisin. Support her dreams! Make sure that she is able to finish her college (I'm not saying this because I have a doctorate from an American university). Support her being a strong woman. If you can, please send to school maybe 2 or 3 of her siblings too. Sarap pakiramdam pag may natulungan ka. I have also 2 scholars in UE actually.

What about me? Can I fall for a thera? Definitely 100% I can fall for a thera. Pero pinaplano ko. One step at a time. Wag po muna ngayon.

Thanks for appreciating my posts here in this thread, yeah I get where you're coming from. 

at the end of the day, regardless of a woman's profession, men will have to spend money in wooing them.

You gotta pay to play, that simple, because there's no such thing as free lunch. 

[Richelle]

11 hours ago, PedroPaterno said:

Thanks for appreciating my posts here in this thread, yeah I get where you're coming from. 

at the end of the day, regardless of a woman's profession, men will have to spend money in wooing them.

You gotta pay to play, that simple, because there's no such thing as free lunch. 

Tama idol.  Not just money though. You have to be able to spend a lot of time together to really get to know one another kung serious ka naman sa thera mo.   Saka dapat type o bet ka rin ng thera in terms of looks para mas malaki ang chance na maging mas ok kayo.  Cheers!!! 

[KID FIGHTER]

20 hours ago, elpie dio said:

Think about the consequences. Im not rich and Im a pwd. Not practical to have a thera as a gf and expect her to quit. Many are breadwinners. One particular thera told me she earns P 80 to 100 k per month. So she cant quit.

 

 

Sir Boss @elpie dio, thanks for sharing your realistic opinion.

Please correct me if I am wrong. Your opinion seems to suggest that: IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO LOVE A THERA AND PROPOSE A LOVELY CHURCH WEDDING ESPECIALLY IF YOU DO NOT HAVE THE MEANS TO SUSTAIN THE RELATIONSHIP INCLUDING A FUTURE HAPPY FAMILY.

 

Is my interpretation acceptable enough?

[KID FIGHTER]

13 hours ago, PedroPaterno said:

Thanks for appreciating my posts here in this thread, yeah I get where you're coming from. 

at the end of the day, regardless of a woman's profession, men will have to spend money in wooing them.

You gotta pay to play, that simple, because there's no such thing as free lunch. 

 

Thanks Sir Boss @PedroPaterno (we both got 1st Prize and 2nd Prize respectively in the Best FR contest. Congrats Sir!🎊🎉🌟)

One of our professors in UCLA, Dr. Kay Kuzma, wrote a book about Love. In summary she says that Love = CRAFT.

C =Caring

R = Respect

A = Acceptance

F = Forgiveness

T = Trust

What you mentioned above falls under the category of caring. "C". What is caring for her? Caring means, just like in a traditional Jewish set-up, the lover (man/bf/husband) must provide for the material and psychoemotional needs of the beloved. So a person who doesn't have the means to raise a family is not capable of loving. Medyo anti-poor right? Pero you can plan. Work Well. Put a business. Then look for a future wife. Is she a thera? It's your call. Basta "be ready to provide for her material and psychoemotional needs" according to Kuzma. 

[PedroPaterno]

11 hours ago, KID FIGHTER said:

 

Thanks Sir Boss @PedroPaterno (we both got 1st Prize and 2nd Prize respectively in the Best FR contest. Congrats Sir!🎊🎉🌟)

One of our professors in UCLA, Dr. Kay Kuzma, wrote a book about Love. In summary she says that Love = CRAFT.

C =Caring

R = Respect

A = Acceptance

F = Forgiveness

T = Trust

What you mentioned above falls under the category of caring. "C". What is caring for her? Caring means, just like in a traditional Jewish set-up, the lover (man/bf/husband) must provide for the material and psychoemotional needs of the beloved. So a person who doesn't have the means to raise a family is not capable of loving. Medyo anti-poor right? Pero you can plan. Work Well. Put a business. Then look for a future wife. Is she a thera? It's your call. Basta "be ready to provide for her material and psychoemotional needs" according to Kuzma. 

Yeah I saw, grats again chief! Didn't actually expected to score 2nd place.

Anyways, to get back on topic. I actually agree with the book's summary, I in turn have a different interpretation.

It is indeed a man's job to be a provider for his spouse/partner but in trying times like these, some men don't have the freedom nor the privilege to provide material needs of his partner, some men, myself for instance, don't spoil women even if the time comes that I may be able to do so, it's just a matter of principle. This may hurt my chances with my dating life but so be it, there are three things I'll never compromise in a relationship, my dreams, my principles, and my standards. The rest are negotiable. So what can men like me do? That is first and foremost put emphasis on providing the psychoemotional need of my partner (as stated in your summary) and impart my knowledge and wisdom in life to her as well, this in turn shows her that I do care, I just expressed it in a different manner.

While what we're talking about is a bit general and may veer a bit off-topic, this can still be applied to a person who falls for a therapist imho, why? see point 1 of my post. If a person looks past the job and treats the therapist objectively then what we're talking about can be applied to said person's situation.

But that's just me, what do I know hehe.

[ErenYeager]

Parang ang sarap mag-binge read dito sa thread na to ahh.. Nahuhulog na rin kasi ako, not a therapist tho but a "bar girl" ba tawag dun? Hahaha 

[thedeathsurgeon]

ano ba ang dapat na expectation ng girls pagka ginirlfriend sila ng naging client nila?