walldave Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 Nung mga dati namin na date libre talaga. Nung 1st date namin wala ako expectation of sex, kasi set talaga ako na friendly date lang kami, kakabreak ko lang sa GF ko(thera din), sya naman may gusto na GM pero nagkakalabuan na daw sila. Kumain kami di ko expect na maging sweet sya. Tapos bumulong sya na gusto nya daw magcheck in, di ko expect pero gusto nya talaga kasi bumili pa nga sya ng snacks namin.. Wow 1st time ko na makasama sya sa labas ng MP, she did not hold back, we did it like GF and BF for the first time. Most memorable night of my life.. Iba pala if you are doing it out of love.. We have dates like that weekly usually before sya umuwi for weekend. Kaso nag away kami, kasi i discovered that she is going out with other guys also, pero nagkabati din kami, i love her so much and she has a valid reason, work pa din pala yun. Pero after nun nagbabayad na ako sa dates namin, kasi i dont want her to feel na free sex habol ko.. But i feel na matabang na sya sa akin.. But i still love her so much.. Dapat kasi di mo na lang binayaran para makita mo kung hanggang saan talaga yung feelings. Kaya nga bro, di na rin ako sure,baka kasama na ako sa mga GM na binobola nya, yun iba pa naman baliw na baliw sa kanya.. Well she assures me palagi na ako lang.. Tapos pag inaaway ko sya dahil sa selos di nya ako pinapatulan, as if she does not wanna lose me.. Napapakalma nya ako, sa txt nya na "alam mo naman sa iyo lang ako" haaays. Naguilty tuloy ako sa pag away at pagkulit sa kanya.. Iniisip ko palagi pag di sya makontak na busy lang sya o kaya baka tulog na sa pagod sa dami ng guest nya, but it is eating me everyday after work to know kung nasaan sya, naiisip ko may ka date sya, doing things that we are doing while we go out.. Haaays pag ibig nga naman.. ano ba ibig sabihin ng "alam mo naman sa iyo lang ako"? Sa emosyon ba yun? Quote Link to comment
ghostwriter.senpai Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 Dapat kasi di mo na lang binayaran para makita mo kung hanggang saan talaga yung feelings. ano ba ibig sabihin ng "alam mo naman sa iyo lang ako"? Sa emosyon ba yun? Di ko kaya i test, takot ako sa matuklasan ko.. Sa akin lang daw sya, kahit madami sya na guest, ako lang daw love nya... Haaays Quote Link to comment
Inkheart Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 Kaya nga bro, di na rin ako sure,baka kasama na ako sa mga GM na binobola nya, yun iba pa naman baliw na baliw sa kanya.. Well she assures me palagi na ako lang.. Tapos pag inaaway ko sya dahil sa selos di nya ako pinapatulan, as if she does not wanna lose me.. Napapakalma nya ako, sa txt nya na "alam mo naman sa iyo lang ako" haaays. Naguilty tuloy ako sa pag away at pagkulit sa kanya.. Iniisip ko palagi pag di sya makontak na busy lang sya o kaya baka tulog na sa pagod sa dami ng guest nya, but it is eating me everyday after work to know kung nasaan sya, naiisip ko may ka date sya, doing things that we are doing while we go out.. Haaays pag ibig nga naman..Love has a way of making you believe what you want to believe, not what actually is. Your call, only you can decide what to do. But you have to choose, either ask and find out whats real or live in your current world with all the doubts. 1 Quote Link to comment
ghostwriter.senpai Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 Got to face it eventually, but for now wag muna.. Kahit away bati kami dahil sa pagseselos ko, at the end of the day, pag nagkausap kami lagi nya ako napapasaya. She always tell me that part of the work ang paglalambing nya sa mga guest and i should not be worried and always trust her.. Sana pag di na ako nagbigay ng pera, maging ganun pa din.. Quote Link to comment
private5star Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 Got to face it eventually, but for now wag muna.. Kahit away bati kami dahil sa pagseselos ko, at the end of the day, pag nagkausap kami lagi nya ako napapasaya. She always tell me that part of the work ang paglalambing nya sa mga guest and i should not be worried and always trust her.. Sana pag di na ako nagbigay ng pera, maging ganun pa din.. Mahirap talagang iwan ang isang bagay na nagpapasaya sayo. sa mundo ng ligalig, bawat tao ay naghahanap ng kaligayahan nararapat man o hindi kung yan ang nagpapaligaya sayo, ituloy mo lang hanggang sa kaya mo. Quote Link to comment
Inkheart Posted May 12, 2017 Share Posted May 12, 2017 Got to face it eventually, but for now wag muna.. Kahit away bati kami dahil sa pagseselos ko, at the end of the day, pag nagkausap kami lagi nya ako napapasaya. She always tell me that part of the work ang paglalambing nya sa mga guest and i should not be worried and always trust her.. Sana pag di na ako nagbigay ng pera, maging ganun pa din..What is your end goal? If its for her to be a life partner then you need to get her out of the industry and support her financially with whatever baggage she may have. If its to just enjoy yourself with whatever time you have together then just keep at it. Whichever it is though, your jealousy will not only make you miserable but will also drive a wedge between your relationship when she gets to her tipping point. Change your mindset, all of us has had sexual partners in the past, are you jealous of her past partners? Of course not, so treat her other activities the same way. And dont read up on her FRs, comments, etc. It will just upset you. Its a lot harder than it sounds but it will help. Quote Link to comment
Bowman36 Posted May 12, 2017 Share Posted May 12, 2017 Mahirap to ahhh... For me kung talagang mahal namin ang isat isa, i will ask her to run away with me... start kami ng buhay na as if the girl never had a past na ganyan... walang may kilala sa amin so walang bubungkalin na past... Quote Link to comment
Mr.Tondo Posted May 12, 2017 Share Posted May 12, 2017 Pag may anak at bf or asawa. D un sasama sayo. Kailangan nla kumita at mag ipon ng marming pera para sa mga kapatid magulang asawa at pang aral sa anak nila. Un ang mahalaga sa kanila. Hindi pagmamahal ng guest. Tanggap na nila cla breadwinner kahit alang trbho asawa nla. Quote Link to comment
Mr.Tondo Posted May 12, 2017 Share Posted May 12, 2017 Nageexist lng cla pag may pera ka ibabayad sa knla. Gagatasan ka lng hanggang maubos pera mo balang araw. No money no honey Quote Link to comment
kanor00000 Posted May 12, 2017 Share Posted May 12, 2017 mahirap yan, kailangan talaga mayaman ka para husband material ka talaga,hay buhay. Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted May 13, 2017 Share Posted May 13, 2017 Nageexist lng cla pag may pera ka ibabayad sa knla. Gagatasan ka lng hanggang maubos pera mo balang araw. No money no honey Hahahahah.....ayus yung "No money, No honey". You may also want to add: "Money down for panty down"........ Quote Link to comment
Sir Galahad® Posted May 13, 2017 Share Posted May 13, 2017 Well the guys have evolved... I remember those who wanted to have a PSP Girlfriend (Years back, MTC hosted a lot of PSP threads, hell the term PSP should be credit to our own Bizman) were in it for the free sex. Most of the time since the girls were earning a lot, it was ok for them as they had lots of money but no love. Now even a lot of the guys, even the younger ones who get into this relationship now become "Sugar Daddies". And I think you are too young to be a Sugar Daddy if you are 26 or younger, but I have seen a lot of them. But they are right, take away the money, take away the benefits and then tell if it is a real relationship or a business transaction? Quote Link to comment
koljack69 Posted May 13, 2017 Share Posted May 13, 2017 cool mga topics pala dito Quote Link to comment
Mr.Tondo Posted May 13, 2017 Share Posted May 13, 2017 (edited) D masama magmahal ikakatuwa pa siguro un ng diyos pero mapunta na sana sa impyerno ung mga babaeng mahilig magsamantala papaibigin ka lolokohin para cla ay magkapera. Ung perang binibigay sa kanila ung iba dun nappnta lng sa asawa at bf nla. Minsan ok lng cla tikman tpos move to other girls nlng kaysa maging loyal ka d naman magiging kayo. Magugutom ka lng sa huli at tatandang alang pera at babaeng tunay na magmamahal sa inyo. Ung oras na sinayang mo sa kanila na kala ntin maiililigtas cla blah blah blah. Ibgay mo nlng para sa sarili mo magpayaman ka magaral maginvest ng time for yourself for your growth at mag invest ng time maghanap ng matinong babae kahit mabusted hanap ulit. Ung mga babaeng nagwowork sa gnto sawa na sa sex at d na sila gnun ka excited d tulad ng mga normal na babae. Edited May 13, 2017 by Bojack 1 Quote Link to comment
mastercharlie Posted May 13, 2017 Share Posted May 13, 2017 I don't think this is possible, if you had met her at her 'workplace'. You would remember her past and so would she, do you guys think it will be normal? Quote Link to comment
JegaJega Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 Will try to test her.. I will not visit any MPA, will just ask her out on dates. If she still contact me and go out with me, then she is the real deal.. I will make exit plans for her, and plan our future if everything goes right.. Hope i am not making a mistake of doing this. I feel this is the right thing to do for the both of us.. Wish me luck I brought her out of the industry....pero iniputan pa rin ako, and na-ubus lang yung puhunan na binigay ko...... Yung ibon kasi, kahit ginto yung kulungan, hindi iyon magiging masaya bastat naka-kulung...tatakas yan at tatakas...... Quote Link to comment
chessboxin Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 (edited) As for dating, it's not really time/money wasted for as long as you're just after companionship/to beat loneliness. Just ALWAYS remember that it's a temporary measure while waiting for Mrs. Right, not a quest to look for Mrs. Right. Ako I don't put it in a bad light kasi let's face it may "lonely" days tayo na pakiramdam mo pag tumuloy mababaliw ka na. Ako naranasan ko na iyan. Yung tipong sa office wala kang close friend, tapos pag uwi mo wala ka ring pagkkwentuhan ng araw mo. Pag may gusto kang puntahang restaurant wala ka rin mainvite. Tapos lahat ng kaibigan mo parang napaka busy with their relationships and lives. This was a time na I wasn't earning much pa and I wasn't meeting new people. Ang tagal na panahon na iyon pero naaalala ko pa rin how difficult it is. Probably one of the most difficult phases sa buhay ko. Kaya thankful ako sobra now sa buhay ko at hindi ko naman niregret mga thera na nakasama ko dati. Actually I'm even thankful for them because they helped "soften the blow" and made it "tolerable" until I was able to stand on my own. Edited May 14, 2017 by kannon 1 Quote Link to comment
TM88 Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 Very easy to fall for them. They make you feel young, handsome, they laugh at your jokes, they are so pretty, sexy, smell so nice. Quote Link to comment
paulwalking Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 Anong name ba at anong spa? Ipaghihiganti kita brader Quote Link to comment
soundwave07 Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 Braders wish me luck paalis nko sa thursday. Still not over her. Still feeling bad of what had happened to me, still envious of her jejemon tat artist, still feeling down and depressed, still drinking every night, still crying whenever i remember her, still checking her FB. Still love her to this day and hour........ but one day I will rise and survive with the help of GOD....... thanks for all ur advices braders it really helped me........ thanks and i hope the jejemon tat artist loves her and wag na sya saktan Thanks bradersBest of luck on your new life sir. Just focus on work and keep moving forward. Quote Link to comment
Sir Galahad® Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 Wag si thera bro ha. Si jejemon tat artist na lang, seriously bro? You are still blinded for your affections for this girl that you think she is not at fault, when in fact, she is. Now that you are leaving it would be best to leave everything behind, even just thinking of her. Good Luck and hope when you go back home you will put everything behind you. Quote Link to comment
paulwalking Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Kukunin ko at kakaibiganin ko thera mo pre, tapos lets see..share mo na Quote Link to comment
🌟HUDAS🌟 Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 (edited) Fall na ako sa kanya. At fall narin sya sa akin. Dalaga at hiwalay na sa bf nya (bff nya karelasyon ng ex nya). Nagtatawagan at magkatxt kami araw gabi. I can tell na shes not lying to me. Kita ko na may pinost pa sya sa fb nya pic namin. At ung mga kinekwento nya ay totoo. Hindi sya nag aaral ngayon. Kaya lang sya pumasok sa ganito hindi dahil may anak na sya. Kundi para sa mga kapatid nya makapagaral at makatulong sa gastusin sa bahay. Mag 1yr na sya sa ganitong trabaho. At niminsan hindi sya nagpabastos sa guest. Umaalis nalang sya sa table pag bastos ang guest. Ang mahirap patago ang relasyon namin. Pag nalaman samin ay siguradong lagot ako sa magulang ko. Balak nya mag aral ngayong pasukan para makatapos ng 4thyr highschool. Isang beses tumawag ang tatay nya sa kanya kailangan ng pera at sinabi sa akin. Ang sabi ko tutulong ako. Pero hindi nya ko pinayagan syang bigyan ng pera. At kayang kaya naman daw nya.Nagkikita kami once or twice a week. Pagpapatuloy ko pa ba o hihinto ko na? Mahal ko na sya at mahal na rin nya ako. Hindi sya therapist. Walang anak. Walang bf o asawa Edited May 17, 2017 by 🌟HUDAS🌟 Quote Link to comment
🌟HUDAS🌟 Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Fall na ako sa kanya. At fall narin sya sa akin. Dalaga at hiwalay na sa bf nya (bff nya karelasyon ng ex nya). Nagtatawagan at magkatxt kami araw gabi. I can tell na shes not lying to me. Kita ko na may pinost pa sya sa fb nya pic namin. At ung mga kinekwento nya ay totoo. Hindi sya nag aaral ngayon. Kaya lang sya pumasok sa ganito hindi dahil may anak na sya. Kundi para sa mga kapatid nya makapagaral at makatulong sa gastusin sa bahay. Mag 1yr na sya sa ganitong trabaho. At niminsan hindi sya nagpabastos sa guest. Umaalis nalang sya sa table pag bastos ang guest. Ang mahirap patago ang relasyon namin. Pag nalaman samin ay siguradong lagot ako sa magulang ko. Balak nya mag aral ngayong pasukan para makatapos ng 4thyr highschool. Isang beses tumawag ang tatay nya sa kanya kailangan ng pera at sinabi sa akin. Ang sabi ko tutulong ako. Pero hindi nya ko pinayagan syang bigyan ng pera. At kayang kaya naman daw nya.Nagkikita kami once or twice a week. Pagpapatuloy ko pa ba o hihinto ko na? Mahal ko na sya at mahal na rin nya ako.Ako at ung mahal ko ang nasa profile pic ko Quote Link to comment
soundwave07 Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Ako at ung mahal ko ang nasa profile pic koEnjoy it sir Quote Link to comment
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