Seeing Your Ex With Someone New

[westell]

I haven't had an "ex". My wife's my first and only.

 

But, theoretically, I'll probably be happy for her. Besides, love is not a selfish act. I might not be the recipient of that reciprocation, but then there is the relative feeling of contentment that we tried.

 

Letting go is difficult, but seeing her happy can be a wonderful feeling.

 

(this is not based on experience, whatsoever---I am merely speculating, based on what I've read and seen).

[hilong_talilong]

mixed emotions i guess one medyo suprised and magtataka "what ang bilis naman ako palitan nito" or "i'l be happy for her" or "kay pangit na lalaki ere" or something like "ayyy bumaba na pala yung standards nya"

[Guest freyja]

it depends. if the breakup was bad and he introduced me to his current as "hey, this is my ex..."

 

i'll reply , "ay, ambitious ka!".

 

that's right. i'm a bitch. lol.

[coffee_junkie]

nangyari lang last night. pota!

[jonathansantos]

When she's out of my life already, then forget her. Overcome her. Kung magkita man kayo, eh di parang balewala. It'd be good if you become friends.

[kyubi9tails]

id be happy for her.. un naman talaga ung gus2 ko para sa babae..

[ms_makuleet]

depende sa EX. kung ung ex na love ko pa din, nakuuu baka bigla akong mahimatay!

[the_Mighty_Coyote]

It has happened to me several times. At first, it wasn't easy. It sucks to feel that you're replaceable.

 

But after a while I realized, it isn't my heart that hurts. It's just my ego. So, for my ex, I wish her all the best!

[hotchic_primrose]

depende kung sinong EX for me... kung ung wala lang na ex ko... pucha... ayos lang. hehe time to move on for him..pero kung sino un... ampotah! baka sabunutan ko ung babae... hehe ... =) wala me paki kung magalit pa ung ex ko sa gagawin ko...pero naku tlga... subukan lang nya.

[itikbitik]

been there kasama nya bf nya, kasama ko officemate ko na di nya kilala. akala nya gf ko hehehe

 

na insecure siguro kase nga naman mas maganda, sexy, at matangkad kay sa kanya

 

aba inaway officemate ko

 

ako kase when i leave a relationship it's really over. sagad sagaran na kasi yung effort ko to save the relationship. to think sya pa yung nakipag break.

 

wala lang, kase wala na ako na feel for her.

 

but right there i knew may na fefeel pa sya for me. hehehe payback time

 

alam ng friend ko yung pinaggagawa nya sakin. kaya inasar nya lalo

 

sabi pa iniwanan mo eh your lose my gain hehehe

[mr.genteel]

i'll be happy for her... atleast now she's happy... and that someone in these world can her smile... too bad one of EX medyo nadala na yata sa lalaki after me... she fell for a lesbiana... hehehe or maybe feeling nya bading talaga ako when are relation started...hehehe... i think she really fell in love in my feminine side not my macho personality... hehe pero everything is based on happiness so if they are happy with their life with someone else i'll be happy for them...

[pixfirewall]

if you see your EX-gf with someone new..well move on with your life...much better if your ex-gf have seen you with your new GF who's more sexy and attractive then her...i bet she'll be hurt in a way na mas pa ang pinalit mo sa kanya...merong selos on her part...hehehe...overall move on with life and learn...cheers!!!!!!!!!

[beefeatter]

at first of course it kind the hurt a bit ....

but have to move on right......

 

 

:goatee:

[ghetto_gospel]

last sunday, i saw my ex with her new bf......they heard mass together. it shattered my heart and made me lose my will to live.........

[paradox1113]

it hurts a lot of course but di ko ipagpilitan ang sarili ko sa taong wala ng gusto sa akin no matter how much she meant to me.

[destron]

That'd be a great closure.

[tagpi]

might be a good time to get your own arm candy too :goatee:

[SevenZeroFive]

hehe, naalala ko tuloy nung nagbabasa ako sa archives ng YM ko.. i remember the arguments me & my ex & her friends had after we broke up, and somehow nanghinayang ako.. i can still remember one of our closest friends say to me na she did like me a lot & it's a shame that we broke it off, & to some degree i agree.. we still talk, pero we never talk about what happened between us (duh), & we're still kinda good friends.. so if i see her with her new flame i'd be happy for her..

[sweetie]

oks lang..

[eternal070]

..........i dont know. it depends on how the break up went i guess. if you guys are still friends then its cool. if it was a lousy awful experience.....just turn the other way =)

[mark_pogi]

i dont mind seeing her with new new beau. the question would be, is it ok for her to see me with someone new? :evil:

[SexyMedChic]

i saw his pics with her gf now..everytime na nakikita ko.. it hurts.. parang ambigat sa loob.. lagi ko na lang nasasabi.. i was in that position before.. ako ang kasama nia dati sa mga pics..but oh well.. ganun talaga.wag ko lang makakasalubong..baka maging white as paper ako..ung isang ex ko naman... hindi maiwasan na hindi kame magkita.. maliit lang ang hospital.. pero dahil wala pa naman shang bago (ewan lang) wala lang.. hi hello..ano balita.. mga ganun lang..

[iwalkalone]

ano ba...edi wala..ano pa ba? kaya nga ex na eh

[mwah]

felt nothing. absolutely nothing.

[bleuxrose]

well, what happened between us (me & my ex) was really that complicated... kami pa lang may iba na siya. and when i found that out, first time ko ma-experience na mapunta sa hell.. (OA!) kidding aside, it gave me the major stress and depression that i've never had before. just imagine, kami pa, may someone new na siya plus the fact that he wants to keep us both... anu ba yun?

btw, no bitterness dun sa someone new nya while kame pa. coz i know na she doesn't know na may gf pala itong si ex...

someday siguro, pag naka-move on na ako and i'd see him with someone else, i'd be happy for him (but i dunno if i'd be happy for the girl ). good thing malayo ako sa kanya, kung may chance man na magkita kami accidentally, that'd be in a possibility of 2 out of 10..