How Would U Know If He/she Is Cheating?

[bulldogzer]

di nya ipapakita mobile phone nya sa yo.. (dahil privacy daw)

di nya sasagutin mga tawag pag nandyan ka sa tabi nya..

kahit alam nyang importante sayo ang usapan nyo ika-cancel pa rin nya..

kailangan nyang umalis agad kahit 1 week na kayong hindi nagkikita..

kailangan nya ng ibaba ang phone kasi may gagawin sya kahit 2 weeks na kayong hindi

nag -uusap..

mga regular activities nyo (going to church) ginagawa for the last 2 years unti unti

na syang nagsasabi na di na sya available..

yung pics nyo sa friendster, pinalitan nya ng solo pic nya at nilagay sa private album ang pics nyo..

[shrike]

How would u know if he/she is cheating?

 

pag kapa mo sa oyster down under, di mo kamay at di rin nya kamay yung nakapa mo. :thumbsupsmiley:

[sexyina]

pag kapa mo sa oyster down under, di mo kamay at di rin nya kamay yung nakapa mo. :thumbsupsmiley:

guys tell me pano ko b tlg mllman kung cheater nga ung partner ko i've caught him hiding another sim bfore and nung pnasok ko ung sim s fon vola another gurl txting him n ingat din po gudnyt! friend lng daw nia un i ask him kung bkit nia kelangan mgtago nung sim sbi nia kc bk daw pagselosan ko mga friends nia and he want me to backoff s mga personal stuff and social lyf nia we almost had our break-up ngeun ok n nman pero an dami tlgng ??? sa isip ko,, and hes the one hu lead me pra mging member ng MTC kc nga curious ako wats in here newei ok nman msaya!

[the grudge]

FROM A TEXT MESSAGE:

 

"ALWAYS REMEMBER, WHEN SHE CANCELS A DATE. . . . . . SHE HAS TO."

 

"WHEN HE CANCELS A DATE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .HE HAS TWO! " :boo: :boo: :boo:

[rubbersoul]

Changes in Habits...

1. You guys dont see each other often na

2. Sex is hard to come by...usually there are petty reason in which before she would scale Mt. Everest or out run a pack of wolves just to have sex.

3. Yeah sudden cellphone secrets, personal daw.

4. If she "missed" text you a message wherein for the all year you guys were together you guys dont use those phrases or words...Buking!

5. Look at her in the eyes and ask straight forward questions...surely she will stammer or didge a question with another question

6. Maaga matulog, madami pa work...I'll sleep in my moms room...these are ways so you will not call and for all you know...somebody is visiting her sa house.

7. During rarities that you talk, mostly the conversation will be steered towards work, movies or something...also she will will talk to with lesser duration, mabilis lang.

8. Physically she might be dressing up more than the usual.

 

Pag ganito? Malamang na totorotot ka na...Hulihin mo!

[raver15]

you will just know. you'll get a feeling that it's happening or that something's happening. you can know when you feel a girl's real love and her fake love

[MangPaul]

FROM A TEXT MESSAGE:

 

"ALWAYS REMEMBER, WHEN SHE CANCELS A DATE. . . . . . SHE HAS TO."

 

"WHEN HE CANCELS A DATE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .HE HAS TWO! " :boo: :boo: :boo:

 

Totoong totoong totoo ito.

[MangPaul]

he cancelled A LOT of dates that we were about to have due to some important BUSINESS transactions. but when i ask if the business went well, he doesn't reply until the next day or I get some irritating messages like "mamaya na lang pwede? busy ako e"

[culpritmooncake]

- woman instinct! b sensitiv enaf! tanga n msyado ang bulag at ngbubulagbulagan s panahon n 2!

- he doesnt want u to read his messages,even just touch his fon. (which u usually do)

- he cancels ur date,or appointment

- he doesnt reply immediately (though not applicable ol d tym)

- answers u things dat r not connected 2 wat ur asking

- tells u his at home but u hapen 2 know he is sumwerelse (keia beter to turn on ur traker if my duda k,hehe)

- tels u i hav to accompany tita,papa or huever. (keia beter 2 befrnd his family members and frnds,so u can kip trak on him wenever he tels u stafs lyf dis.

- minsan he wil tel u,antok p ko,maya kn twag.pro ang-ingay ng environment. buking! hehe

- u fil dat ders sumthng unusual hapening in ur relationship! things r getting cold!

- and ul know thngs wen u havent had sex for quite sumtym,and yet he is not dat excited getting u laid...and only "few" comes out from him..haha

lastly,pg chinek mo fon nya,iba n pangalan mo s fonbuk nya. nging c dante,lito o ramil n bgla.hehe. at minsan burado sent items tska piling pili n lng mga msg n asa inbox (from family members o tropa nyang d mo pghihinalaan.

Edited August 31, 2008 by culpritmooncake

[jetlag143]

naka silent mode cya.......then after a few days or weeks, she will offer 'cool off' muna, what the heck.....

[donromantico]

if she/he have to much alibi

[darling]

he cancelled A LOT of dates that we were about to have due to some important BUSINESS transactions. but when i ask if the business went well, he doesn't reply until the next day or I get some irritating messages like "mamaya na lang pwede? busy ako e"

 

Yeah, when he cancels dates with neither remorse nor guilt. Remember, even incorrigible liars would rather change a topic than talk extensively about their lies.

[Guest dyosalet]

For girls ... first talaga is instinct e.

 

Then next would be the cellphone. Most guys are not text addicts. If they use to let you mess with their phone and suddenly they latch onto it like an octopus would to its prey, mag isip ka na.

 

Unexplained time away from you, sudden propping up of an old friend who does not get introduced to you. Cold effect.

 

What else? Cologne on their body. Never fails.

[shampooh]

marami cya cellphone tapos clear lagi ang mga inbox at send items pag hiniram mo...

 

puro guy names nasa phonebook.... codename malamang.... hmmp

[darling]

For girls ... first talaga is instinct e.

 

Then next would be the cellphone. Most guys are not text addicts. If they use to let you mess with their phone and suddenly they latch onto it like an octopus would to its prey, mag isip ka na.

 

Unexplained time away from you, sudden propping up of an old friend who does not get introduced to you. Cold effect.

 

What else? Cologne on their body. Never fails.

 

Yes, cologne.

 

I have an anecdote that's not related to cheating, but shows the power of a woman's observation and instincts.

 

Had an afternoon tryst onetime then met some friends afterwards. all of them were male except for one. Noone else noticed what my lady friend did: the woman's cologne, and the tiny speck of lipstick on my shirt.

[Skorpius]

when she is cold to u

[gomeili]

he sometimes tends to be sporadic....

[bigworm]

women's instinct..women created with long hair...that's our antenna!

[ink]

cold... always busy with rackets but is always having money problems..

[jetlag143]

cold, suddenly mum about her schedules......she's thinking about something and when you ask her, she says ' it's nothing '

[prettylauren78]

woman's instinct. if you feel something is wrong, then something IS wrong

he is always sleepy and tired during the day

he doesn't allow you to touch his cellphone, laptop, etc

puts his phone in silent mode

always claims he's tired and takes you home early

watches A LOT of porn

doesn't seem excited to have sex with you

doesn't answer his phone at night and gives you lame excuses in the morning

suddenly googles about STDs

becomes very defensive when you ask questins

complains about you being overly suspiscious

[marblebay]

It's easy. Doing things very unusual? Or doing or making stupid and idiotic things and/or alibis that he/she didn't notice that his/her partner had already suspected that something fishy is already going on.

[marblebay]

Most common mistakes ng mga cheaters, when your partner didn't answer your call immediately nor make any immediate replies to your text messages.

[Fumigator]

ndi ko to makakalimutan syay perfectong babae para sakin ...

 

kaso ganito one day nag tetex nalng cla ng best frend kuno na lalake..

 

then poof break na kami ..

 

ang sakit pero kelangan mabuhay ka sa realidad

Edited November 15, 2008 by photostatik

[Peitho]

some red flags (based on my own experiences)

 

1. he's superprotective of his gadgets. before i'm used to have my ex's cellphone lying around the house when he comes for a visit. later on, he can't seem to let it go, what's worst is that he placed a password!

 

2. he steps up in the grooming department without your request.

 

3. if he was short-tempered before and then all of a sudden he started going around all happy and whistling.