How Would U Know If He/she Is Cheating?

[prettylauren78]

woman's instinct. if you feel something is wrong, then something IS wrong

he is always sleepy and tired during the day

he doesn't allow you to touch his cellphone, laptop, etc

puts his phone in silent mode

always claims he's tired and takes you home early

watches A LOT of porn

doesn't seem excited to have sex with you

doesn't answer his phone at night and gives you lame excuses in the morning

suddenly googles about STDs

becomes very defensive when you ask questins

complains about you being overly suspiscious

[marblebay]

It's easy. Doing things very unusual? Or doing or making stupid and idiotic things and/or alibis that he/she didn't notice that his/her partner had already suspected that something fishy is already going on.

[marblebay]

Most common mistakes ng mga cheaters, when your partner didn't answer your call immediately nor make any immediate replies to your text messages.

[Fumigator]

ndi ko to makakalimutan syay perfectong babae para sakin ...

 

kaso ganito one day nag tetex nalng cla ng best frend kuno na lalake..

 

then poof break na kami ..

 

ang sakit pero kelangan mabuhay ka sa realidad

Edited November 15, 2008 by photostatik

[Peitho]

some red flags (based on my own experiences)

 

1. he's superprotective of his gadgets. before i'm used to have my ex's cellphone lying around the house when he comes for a visit. later on, he can't seem to let it go, what's worst is that he placed a password!

 

2. he steps up in the grooming department without your request.

 

3. if he was short-tempered before and then all of a sudden he started going around all happy and whistling.

[mwah]

IMHO, if you keep your partner happy and content, he/she would never suspect that you're cheating.

 

When you love someone and put so much trust in your relationship, it gives you a sense of security and comfort and it gives your partner room for deceit and lies.

 

Unfortunately, lying is difficult to conceal and it takes more effort than telling the truth. It causes more anxiety and stress. You get shorter answers, less details and more inconsistencies.

[toknene]

IMHO, if you keep your partner happy and content, he/she would never suspect that you're cheating.

 

When you love someone and put so much trust in your relationship, it gives you a sense of security and comfort and it gives your partner room for deceit and lies.

Unfortunately, lying is difficult to conceal and it takes more effort than telling the truth. It causes more anxiety and stress. You get shorter answers, less details and more inconsistencies.

 

Good point. Must change plan or I'll end up like this hahaha (joke). Geesh I'm at the other end.

 

How Would She Know If I am Cheating?

 

Siguro lagi ako nag yeYES hahaha :hypocritesmiley:

[nashty]

IMHO, if you keep your partner happy and content, he/she would never suspect that you're cheating.

 

When you love someone and put so much trust in your relationship, it gives you a sense of security and comfort and it gives your partner room for deceit and lies.

 

Unfortunately, lying is difficult to conceal and it takes more effort than telling the truth. It causes more anxiety and stress. You get shorter answers, less details and more inconsistencies.

 

Correct.. and what more if the guy is good at lying and covering all the loose ends.

[BigJuicyLady]

disclaimer: this is just one of MANY signs you should watch out for.

 

in bed, he will deviate from your favorite positions and try new moves.

(which he tried somewhere else and liked)

 

:upside:

[mobidick]

sa akin naman nangyari when she cancell an important date with me which is kailangan nga namin mag usap she prefer to go to baguio with her friends nagpakasaya habang ako eh naghihimutok ang kalooban...one thing more i tested her not to turn on her cellfone sabi ko gabi naman at wala namang tatawag na and besides matutulog na but when i try to call, her cp is turn on what i did sa landline ko sya tinawagan then para syang nagmamadali gusto na nya matapos usapan namin sabi ko kasi dipa ako inaantok then later on ayun nag ring ang cp nya ni hang nya ako for a while then i asked her who called up its a friend daw na taga baguio then i realized yun yung pinuntahan nila sa baguio then i found out its her long long crush na guy. after that di na ako nag further invistigate i suddenly break her up

[sleep_heavy]

How would u know if he/she is cheating?

 

This is the stuff of Fashion Magazines by the Ton... is he? Are you??? The real answer I get from experience is you do not but sometimes, by some act of Divine grace, you get to know of it and the infidelity may be revealed to you.

 

I guess what is more important is how you react once you learn of the Infidelity. It would be hard to guess how you would react... would you be generous or would you be simply a passionate blind criminal avenging the love you had built up over years of struggle and pain.

 

 

[FlavoredBeer]

My gf cheated on me once.. kaya pala pag nagki2ta kame lageng walang natitirang mesage sa sent items.. bute na lang sinabi sa akin ng pinsan nya mga modus ng gf ko.. aun.. nung nagka alaman umamin din.. haha.. but still i 4give her.. antayin nya na lang bawi ko.. hahaha

[marblebay]

My gf cheated on me once.. kaya pala pag nagki2ta kame lageng walang natitirang mesage sa sent items.. bute na lang sinabi sa akin ng pinsan nya mga modus ng gf ko.. aun.. nung nagka alaman umamin din.. haha.. but still i 4give her.. antayin nya na lang bawi ko.. hahaha

 

Yup, give her a lesson that she won't ever forget.

[Miss Zelda]

probably get laid with a whore and give the disease to her too,did i just said two of you get the disease?

[wreckless_lover]

instinct