How Would U Know If He/she Is Cheating?

[chrispt21]

Making random excuses.

[U.P. AdMU2008]

Also presenting some alibis.

[SaintPeter5858]

The signs will give us clues

[chrispt21]

She deflects simple questions.

[SaintPeter5858]

Also, she'll blurt it out.

[U.P. AdMU2008]

Pag meron lagi ka-text.

[SaintPeter5858]

We have to listen to her best friends too . They usually are very honest

[jgc813]

First of all, what does cheating really comprise of? Does flirting -- whether by text, chat, emailing -- comprise cheating? When can one say his/her partner is already cheating?

 

At the onset, no one will admit to cheating.

 

Second, many individuals can really hide their cheating. Many seafarers die onboard their ships, and 2 or 3 wives (all with marriage certificates) suddenly would lay claim to the death benefits. Sometimes, at the wake, a child with his/her mother would appear and the woman would say the child is the dead man's offspring. The deceased has had another women, or other women, for several years, and none of them ever knew about the existence of the other. Or he may have fathered a child/children with other women, and the legal family would not know all along.

 

It's very hard to know FOR SURE if one's spouse or SO is cheating. You may suspect or guess about the cheating, but guessing or suspecting is not really knowing. Many do make mistakes also.

 

Until the other one accepts to the cheating, or is caught red-handed, it's really hard to know, especially at the start. When and if you do catch the cheating, a good amount of time has already passed.

 

Usually, the one cheated is the last to know!

Edited April 24, 2012 by jgc813

[jgc813]

We have to listen to her best friends too . They usually are very honest

 

One's honest-to-goodness best friends do not squeal. Best friends usually cover up the misdeeds of their best friends.

 

 

 

[friendly0603]

One's honest-to-goodness best friends do not squeal. Best friends usually cover up the misdeeds of their best friends.

At best, they will keep silent and avoid you so that they don't have to lie.

[SaintPeter5858]

Cheats sometimes commit some slip-of-the-tongue

[SaintPeter5858]

That's right. It will come out

[SaintPeter5858]

Mahirap if she's an expert cheater

[blubalz]

I dont bother finding out, as the saying goes - the proof of the pudding is In the eating. Why bother?

[SaintPeter5858]

Yeah, why bother?

[clandestinecuddles]

He guards his cellphone like a New Bilibid Prison guard waiting for a call from the President to stop the execution.

[chrispt21]

If they're on a phone call too long and they won't tell you who they're talking to, that's an obvious sign.

[SaintPeter5858]

Also from the conversation with her friends

[cratermon]

I always use this simple trick to know, from the very start of the relationship (the good days) I take a keen note on how she acts on different occasions (laughter, how she speaks, how she moves, how she acts, etc) then from that I just compare compare if there are any changes, if I notice a change that is when I start to dig deeper (usual giveaways are: how she kisses, how she says she loves you, moods and mannerism).<br><br><br>

[chromedome]

intuition, and the best trick in the game. cellphone logs and messages.

 

meron den surprise visits sa office / school during office/school hours. lalo pag may hinala ka na.

 

poom. huli ka balbon!

 

isang sapak sa lalaki then break up sex sa soon to be ex-gf mo sa gabi. kala niya magbabalikan kayo pero babayyyyy! hahahahah

[cande]

unusual kindness or "paninipsip"

[SaintPeter5858]

If you're GF is no longer as sweet as before.

[BrightestStar]

She's happy going out with other people.

[SaintPeter5858]

Take it from the frequency of her text messages and the tone of her messages. Then if she tells stories about a new guy with so much fervor, I think that's a good sign.

[seiyen]

Masyadong sweet than usual. Based from experience.