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You are precisely correct .....

 

Ambiguity is something life itself endowed to us ..... only death is certain

 

We all make choices

 

a contract with an exit clause cannot even be considered a contract as it is never meant to signify anything of value nor morally bound in good faith. why go through the charade of a contract when the exit clause provides legal ambiguity.

 

 

Trivia :

I pay my Broadband Internet bill religiously as I gladly enjoy the service (as my contract with them stated), until one day the service sucked big time and ingered, lingered ....

... Tech Sup, Management, bullcrap excuses were provides instead of rectifying the trouble .....

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In the Book of Malachi, God says, "I hate divorce". And yet, divorce is rampant even among Catholic and Christian couples. Divorce is a reality, sad to say. Divorce may not be allowed here but annulment is. Pinapahirapan lang nila mga Filipino couples by resorting to annulment since walang divorce dito. e kung sa talagang di na pwede magsama yung mag asawa, that's a reality the Catholic Church can't accept. sometimes i think they are callous and blind to the realities of life. pati birth control. but that's another topic...

 

I hope there would be a courageous lawmaker to file and pass a divorce bill to end the frustations/hardships of failed married couples.

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kung di kayang magpakasal, wag magpakasal. kung tatahaking magpakasal, then by all means follow it to the letter of its essence. do not compromise the meaning of marriage simply because hindi na makayanan. yan ang di maintindihan ng proponents of divorce. thats why marriage, or at least the concept of marriage is losing its value. basta basta lang nagpapakasal. kung ganun lang napakadami nating pwedeng baguhin sa batas. tara magpatayan na lang tayo. total if i can bend circumstances and evidence to suit my needs na self defense ba sure, game. the world we live in now is overly liberal. where have the morals gone? we say these are the realities? no its not, in a way yan ang realities ng tamad. simply, a marriage is an unbreakable bond between man and woman under God where every possible hardship and trial has already been defined like a contract with the vows of marriage. wag naman sana bastusin ang meaning nito. as liberal a person as i am, i would want to find something decent in this world to believe in if not for myself, for other people and my kids. kung basta basta na lang ang mundo nagpapalit just for convenience, what the hell are we living with morality for? ba't pa tayo nagpapakabait.

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We already have legal seperation, anullment and divison of assets so why do you ask don't we have divorce? The answer is alimony. If the politicos in this country actually passed a divorce law most of them would find themselves divorced and having to pay their long sufferring wives tons of cash in child support and alimony.

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Agree ako sa sinabi mo bro. di lahat ng marriage ay nagiging sucessful. Mas kawawa ang babae kung BATTERED WIFE for how many years pati na rin ang mga anak nito, imagine children growing up sa ganitong environment di ba its a BIG TORTURE on their part. Mas mabuti pa mag LET GO kesa naman tanggapin pa ng wife ang karumal dumal na panghahalimaw ng husband. There are cases that nag let go na si wife but the husband siempre na realise nya na ang mga kamalian nya ayun habol ng habol sa wifey kahit na years past by na sa kanila at nakapag move on na si wifey and she has another life and a family, stil this bastard husband ay KSP kulang sa pansin at lahat ng traces ni wifey inaalam. KAWAWA naman cguro si wfey na lang ang bukod tanging nagkagusto sa kanya kaya ganun na lang ang habol kay wifey. How PATHETIC!!!!!

 

Agree of course kung may divorce.

 

I can relate to this story coz I was also harrassed without end by my ex-wife even though I didn't set foot on that town after all my properties have been confiscated. I received strange phone calls, cops were literally all over and was even followed. Strange links and even stranger poems were in the net. Even police were bribed to get me.

 

But I consider these events to be a real blessing because I finally knew what these people are capable of. I am not a saint and did a lot of wrong things, but I thank God everyday for saving me and giving real Peace.

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what's the point of staying together kung hindi na rin kayo magkakasundo so much better na maghiwalay na lang...

 

whats the point of marriage then? whats the point of commitment? whats the point of loving then if its all just a temporary thing? i agree with some statements na sometimes marriages dont work. but its always up for assessment when it doesnt work, that is why we have annullments and legal separations and they work hand in hand in figuring out the best course of action. divorce is simply the easy way out. kung hindi talaga mag work out even after so much effort, file for annullment.

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whats the point of marriage then? whats the point of commitment? whats the point of loving then if its all just a temporary thing? i agree with some statements na sometimes marriages dont work. but its always up for assessment when it doesnt work, that is why we have annullments and legal separations and they work hand in hand in figuring out the best course of action. divorce is simply the easy way out. kung hindi talaga mag work out even after so much effort, file for annullment.

 

we have this notion that if there is divorce...the couple would exert less effort to work things out...and would simply opt for divorce just like that...

 

well, maybe, yes. But i would also like to think that even if an easier option, such as divorce, is on hand, if both parties have so much respect for the institution of marriage, and are somehow still in-love with one another (diminished as it may seem)...then they would still exert that much effort to work things out....regardless of whether there is divorce or none...

 

in life, there will always be an easy way out......it will now depend on you and your willpower.....and how dedicated you can be to whatever it is that you are working hard for....

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This guy knows how to solve his divorce problem.

 

Courtroom shooter caught

By Rhodina Villanueva

Saturday, November 17, 2007

Police operatives yesterday arrested the man who shot dead his wife and her lawyer in a Las Piñas City courtroom Thursday.

 

Senior Inspector Jandale Sulit, chief of the Taguig police investigation division, said that around 1 a.m., they found Roberto Tubale, 53, hiding at his uncle’s house in Signal Village, Taguig City.

 

Tubale, however, stayed mum about the incident and refused to subject himself to a paraffin test. He is detained at the city police station while authorities are preparing a double murder case against him.

 

The police also recovered the caliber .45 revolver Tubale used to k*ll his wife Lolita, 51, and lawyer Rebecca Basa, 57 at 10:40 a.m. Thursday. He shot them just as a hearing on a petition filed by Lolita to annul their marriage was about to begin in the courtroom of Regional Trial Court Branch 199 Judge Joselito Vibandor.

 

The two victims, each with a gunshot wound in the head, were rushed to the Perpetual Help Medical Center where they died late in the afternoon.

 

Senior Superintendent Amando Clifton Empiso, chief of the Las Piñas police station, said the Tubale’s relatives “said the suspect had long been at odds with his wife because of money matters and infidelity issues.”

 

Empiso said Tubale had worked as a seaman for several years and had saved quite a large amount of money as well as bought many things for the family.

 

“According to the relatives and people close to the couple, the victim had put the money to waste while she engaged in an illicit affair. The suspect on the other hand, also had an extra-marital affair until it came to a point that their differences had become irreconcilable, prompting the woman to file for an annulment of their marriage. This all the more angered Tubale,” Empiso said.

 

He added that they are investigating how Tubale managed to sneak a gun into the courtroom.

 

Police said Vibandor’s courtroom was temporarily moved from the Hall of Justice since the building is being renovated.

 

Sulit said the court bailiff was not at his post when the shooting occurred.

 

“He could have possibly gone to the comfort room,” he added.

 

Poor guy destroying his life over something that is not worth it. tsk, tsk, tsk.

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