jaguar_18 Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 I do agree. They say na walang bagay na hindi napag-uusapan. Pero to stay in the relationship for the kids, I don't believe in such. I tell you, mararamdaman ng mga bata na hindi na nila mahal ang isa't isa kahit anong tago nila. Then what's the use of staying diba? Quote Link to comment
lordraven12 Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 sabi sa simbahan, walang makakapag pahiway sa pinag buklod ng diyos, tayong mga tao lang ang naglakas ng loob na sumuway d2... padalosdalos kasi tayo eh, puro tayo" siya na ang makakasama ko habangbuhay" pag nakita mo na ang mga kulang sa kanya, maghahanap na tayo ng iba... well, tao lang eh... masakit tanggapin pero kailangan Quote Link to comment
BEaST-RiPPed Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 kapag hindi na madaan sa mabuting usapankapag hindi na maawat ang panlolokokapag abuso na ang mga gawikapag nagagawa ka pa ng pagbuhatan ng kamay khit na siya ang malikapag balahura syang kasama at binababoy na nya ang relasyon ang sagot....DIBORSYO! be freefight for your ryt to be happy Quote Link to comment
PINOY_YAKUZA Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 agree why stick to a relationship that doesnt work... you both need to be happy and free Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted August 27, 2006 Share Posted August 27, 2006 While I'm probably talking out of my depth here, I'd have to say that Divorce should be a part of our law. On the other hand ... why enter marriage at all? Quote Link to comment
ms_makuleet Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 i dont want divorce to be legalized here...well, kahit naman ganito ako, i still believe in the sanctity of marriage. mahirap na, ang mga tao e abusado..baka mamaya para na taung mga taga-amerika na kugn magpalit ng asawa e parang nagpapalit lang ng kotse or damit. tipong may makita lang na konting pangit sa asawa or may makitang bago e divorce na. but also, i dont agree din naman na the couple would stay with each other kahit nagpapatayan na sila. sa annulment na alng ako kung ganun. pero sana talga mag-isip isip muna bago magpakasal..kasi nde naman pedeng bwiin yan kapag sa tingin mo namali ka ng desisyon. i know mahirap pero un naman ang tama di ba. not because divorce ang uso e need mo na makiuso or un ang tama. nde naman nababago ang tinuro NIYA as time goes by di ba. un lang po. Quote Link to comment
kitzsen18 Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 ok lang n meron divorce d2 s philippines, kung nde n tlg nagkakasundo e bket kailangan pagpasamahin.............PEACE Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted October 8, 2006 Share Posted October 8, 2006 ms. makuleet, the option should be there for people to choose. You are removing the option by not legalizing it. and annulment is a farce. Why do you think annulment is better than divorce? Quote Link to comment
FALLEN_KINDRED_SOUL Posted October 8, 2006 Share Posted October 8, 2006 I do not want Divorce to be legalized in our country but I also do not want to see children suffer because of their parents. I beleive that I could be the worst husband but I could never be a bad father. Quote Link to comment
willow_boy Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 i dont want divorce to be legalized here...well, kahit naman ganito ako, i still believe in the sanctity of marriage. mahirap na, ang mga tao e abusado..baka mamaya para na taung mga taga-amerika na kugn magpalit ng asawa e parang nagpapalit lang ng kotse or damit. tipong may makita lang na konting pangit sa asawa or may makitang bago e divorce na. but also, i dont agree din naman na the couple would stay with each other kahit nagpapatayan na sila. sa annulment na alng ako kung ganun. pero sana talga mag-isip isip muna bago magpakasal..kasi nde naman pedeng bwiin yan kapag sa tingin mo namali ka ng desisyon. i know mahirap pero un naman ang tama di ba. not because divorce ang uso e need mo na makiuso or un ang tama. nde naman nababago ang tinuro NIYA as time goes by di ba. un lang po. It doesn't mean that just because one disagrees with the concept of divorce that it's enough of a reason not to legalize it. What is the option then for a battered spouse who does not have any means of livelihood to support herself and her kids? Divorce, IMHO, is the more humane option because it offers her a LEGAL lifeline by providing her a second chance with life, finding a new and better spouse. With annulment, they are denied such option and chance and basically condemns them to a life of difficulty. Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 ang pari nga puwede kumalas sa simbahan at mag-asawa eh parang kasal na sya sa dyos. Ang simpleng tao pa kaya.... Quote Link to comment
TNT Hsia Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 We need a more secular & less purist Catholic approach here. I'm a Catholic too & I didn't marry because pre-nups contained divorce clauses. That's me. However, I won't shove my beliefs on Jews, Muslims & other secular states that practice & recognize divorce. That's why I didn't marry instead. Quote Link to comment
berlasone Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 SINCE MARRIAGE IS PROTECTED BY A CONTRACT, WE DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT GETTING DIVORCED IF OUR LEGISLATORS WILL PASS A LAW ALLOWING MARRIAGE TO BE GOOD FOR ONLY THREE YEARS. IF THE RELATIONSHIP TURNS SOUR, THE CONCERNED PARTIES WILL SIMPLY NOT RENEW THEIR MARRIAGE CONTRACT ON THE THIRD YEAR Quote Link to comment
motelle Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 siguro another point to be taken is how will pinoys handle divorce? baka kaliwatkanan sa first months at baka masyadong luge naman ang lalake- alimony division of property etc...alam nyo naman ang pinoy minsan hindi magaling sa implementasn ng batas. agree ako kung ayaw na eh di maghiwalay pero as long as walang legal divorce eh galangin ang kasal or mag file ng legal separation or annulment. Quote Link to comment
petejam Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 I do agree. Couples who feel that they are no longer happy should be given the option to go their separate ways and allowed to start anew. Quote Link to comment
happy rider Posted February 22, 2007 Share Posted February 22, 2007 agree to this, why would you let urself suffer when ur no longer compatible dba? kung ayaw wag muna pilitin!! Quote Link to comment
Mr.Whiteguy Posted February 22, 2007 Share Posted February 22, 2007 It doesn't mean that just because one disagrees with the concept of divorce that it's enough of a reason not to legalize it. What is the option then for a battered spouse who does not have any means of livelihood to support herself and her kids? Divorce, IMHO, is the more humane option because it offers her a LEGAL lifeline by providing her a second chance with life, finding a new and better spouse. With annulment, they are denied such option and chance and basically condemns them to a life of difficulty. korek Quote Link to comment
smuckerz Posted February 22, 2007 Share Posted February 22, 2007 Agree!!!! im married, wer seperated for d moment bcoz iv folen out of luv on him... d feeling of emptiness... yet i cnt be wid sm1 legally coz ders no divorced in d philippines...i just hope sooner or later sana d p huli,sana im nt dt old enough to enjoy cngle status agen,sana..i rili ho so n mgkaroon ng divorce hir in d philippines.. Quote Link to comment
utog Posted February 22, 2007 Share Posted February 22, 2007 Sana isulong nting MTC members sa senate or congress ang divorce. Quote Link to comment
papercut Posted February 22, 2007 Share Posted February 22, 2007 (edited) wtf political matters yung topic ng thread na to ah tsk tsk tsk sakit sa ulo to kung paguusapan Edited February 22, 2007 by papercut Quote Link to comment
RLD Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 Dapat may divorce sa pinas, ano naman gagawin ng magasawa kung hindi sila talaga magkasundo despite kahit mag marriage counseling sila. I would suggest that divorce would be the last resort of things. Quote Link to comment
Pussyboy Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 there are some valid reasons for divorce (if we do have it here), but as with other laws, it will be abused most likely. knowing the pilipinos. hehehe only a small number would truly benefit from having it. the others will just make it an excuse to find new loves or what nots. Quote Link to comment
gigle Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 If possible i would like to have it here in Pinas. Kasi we didnt know kung maging maayos ang pagsasama ng couples.But of course there wud be guidelines for that. So the couples having a problems cud apply on that, (yun nga lang affected ang mga kiddos). Pero wala tayong magagawa kung wala na silang love sa isa't-isa. Pero sanawag kalimutan o pabayaan ang mga kiddos kasi wala nman silang kinalaman sa mga pangyayari. There are married couples wanted to separate, BUt there are lived-in not possible to have a vow (others, doesnt like to have it). Ang gulo Quote Link to comment
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