lomex32 Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 http://redseaforum.blogspot.com/2004/06/ci...hilippines.html I am no lawyer nor a lawmaker .... hehe try lang----------------------------------------- Much to the Divorce bill ika nga (Just like the Death Penalty) is that most of its mistakes happens at way before .... 1. May time frame ang marriage contract - e.g. 3 years. 5 years 2. May renewal terms and ang default terms ay voidable na - kapag di kayo nagrenew - single na uli 3. Do an extensive and mandatory pre nuptial seminar 3.1 Outline of duties and responsibilities of husband and wife - which will be agreed before being solemnized. 4. Advocate a pre-nuptial agreement that will embody disollution clauses.4.1 Other agreed clauses------------------------------------------- Sa mga ayaw sa proseso na ito, mag LIVE-IN na lang o kaya sa SIMBAHAN na lang magpakasal NOW to those who got married without the above who wants dissolution. My dear just because a system works well it becomes an express counter. We perhaps want the wheel to be more systematic. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------1. Ground rules similar to annulment e.g. homosexuality, acquired diseases, adultery 2. PLUS the following 2.1 Deadlock disagreements minimum of 1 year dami pa ....................... Ah so, bale ur main beef with our present laws on the dissolution of marriages is the time frame. Ur right, it takes a very long time to go though the entire process, ang mahal pa. What u want is an Express Counter where u can expedite the whole process and get a new lease on committing the same mistake again. Well and good. I see ur point and I expect u see mine, too. Just for the sake of discussion: could u draft ur idea of a divorce bill? What will be its provisions? How will it be different from our subsisting laws that address the same issues? Should be interesting reading.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 So basically, why not just do Contract Marriages??? People can get married for X number of years, renewable upon option of both parties. Add in clauses for care of children, pets, etc. etc. Add in penalty clauses for agreed upon issues (no infidelity, etc. etc.) Is that more or less what you had in mind??? I like it. I am no lawyer nor a lawmaker .... hehe try lang----------------------------------------- Much to the Divorce bill ika nga (Just like the Death Penalty) is that most of its mistakes happens at way before .... 1. May time frame ang marriage contract - e.g. 3 years. 5 years 2. May renewal terms and ang default terms ay voidable na - kapag di kayo nagrenew - single na uli 3. Do an extensive and mandatory pre nuptial seminar 3.1 Outline of duties and responsibilities of husband and wife - which will be agreed before being solemnized. 4. Advocate a pre-nuptial agreement that will embody disollution clauses.4.1 Other agreed clauses------------------------------------------- Sa mga ayaw sa proseso na ito, mag LIVE-IN na lang o kaya sa SIMBAHAN na lang magpakasalNOW to those who got married without the above who wants dissolution. My dear just because a system works well it becomes an express counter. We perhaps want the wheel to be more systematic. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------1. Ground rules similar to annulment e.g. homosexuality, acquired diseases, adultery 2. PLUS the following 2.1 Deadlock disagreements minimum of 1 year dami pa Quote Link to comment
Lingerie_girL Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 uuhhmmnn...i totally agree....bakit pa magsasama kung both of you ayaw na.....pano kung may mahalin kang iba and gusto kang pakasalan....sana talaga mapatupad na yung law sa divorce.....that would be better.... :cool: Quote Link to comment
free2nyt Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 Ngek, masyadong magulo ito... Mag live in na lang kayo...if you dont like each other anymore, just separate, no need for annulment, divorce, legal separation, etc...kasi hindi naman kayo kasal... :grr: Quote Link to comment
Guest hotbabe0629 Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 Yeah, sana maapproved n ung divorce d2 s Pilipinas kesa nman parehong nagsasuffer ung both parties d b? Quote Link to comment
ric2000 Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 There is currently a proposed divorce law drafted. It is on the web and I posted part of it some time back a couple of months ago. The Catholic Church is fighting hard to make sure it does not see the light of day. Quote Link to comment
mazinger Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 divorce should be allowed here......its been allowed in other countries .......politics n church keeps on interferring ..... :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
Aramis742 Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 hmm... I guess it's nice to see that the "nays" for divorce outnumber the "yeas". My two cents... if divorce were legalized, there's the question of paying ALIMONY, or child support for all the ex-wives and whatever kids you leave behind... that really complicates things and it's my guess that most people here (particularly the MEN) won't be too hot about paying child support. Plus, consider that a SHERIFF will be COLLECTING the ALIMONY payments... unless they plan to make it billable to the guy's salary directly, via electronic transfer, lump sum or whatever... So, maybe another angle for divorce... ladies, gents, would you LIKE to have divorce, knowing that there's a HUGE RISK involved in collecting alimony? If I do find myself unfortunate enough to have to go through a divorce with OUR JUSTICE SYSTEM, I sure as hell ain't giving my money to no sheriff HERE! This is just a far-off detail, but think of the MONEY involved. Expect a rise in MURDER cases should divorce be made available in the Philippines. Of course, this is all mere speculation. oh, and besides, there's a neat little trick you can do... I've heard that you can get an annulment from your estranged spouse for a mere P70,000... and the beauty of it is, they won't even know about it unless they CHECK the court where you file it in, and by then it could be too late... but you won't be STUPID enough to tell them WHERE you filed it, now, would you? hehehe Quote Link to comment
purepinoy Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 ok i know it's a stupid question but i don't really know much about marriages in the philippines...so can someone explain to me what exactly is the difference between annulment and divorce??? Quote Link to comment
penshoppe_kira Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 ]dapat kilalanin nyo muna yong isa't isa bagong kayo magdesisyon ng mabuti... isipin nyo kung karapat-dapat ba kayo sa isa't isa or kung talagang nag-mamahalan kayo Quote Link to comment
ric2000 Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 I think to save any value to marriage and the family unit you either need to make getting married a harder proccess or make divorce legal so a little more thought will go into the proccess of babymaking and setting up house. Quote Link to comment
netvista69 Posted June 11, 2006 Share Posted June 11, 2006 PARA SAKEN...DAPAT ANG KASAL NAKA CONTRATA NA LANG DIN MGA 2-5 YEARS TAPOS PAG OK ...RENEW NA LANG PARA DINA UMABOT PA NG DIVORCE. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted June 12, 2006 Share Posted June 12, 2006 Well LOVE does not have to be equated to Marriage dapat kilalanin nyo muna yong isa't isa bagong kayo magdesisyon ng mabuti... isipin nyo kung karapat-dapat ba kayo sa isa't isa or kung talagang nag-mamahalan kayo<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
tricks Posted June 12, 2006 Share Posted June 12, 2006 PARA SAKEN...DAPAT ANG KASAL NAKA CONTRATA NA LANG DIN MGA 2-5 YEARS TAPOS PAG OK ...RENEW NA LANG PARA DINA UMABOT PA NG DIVORCE.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> wow! new line of testament da vinci vorce :cool: Quote Link to comment
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