UposNgYosi Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 before flirting.. first you must know the rules of flirting or else you'll just get hurt... Quote Link to comment
boobooboi Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 it started out as a fling but it turned serious. it did not last long though. Quote Link to comment
mordorthegreat Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 as long both parties understand what they are doing, no strings attached.. Quote Link to comment
UBmcGirl19 Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 yeah that would be fine with me, sna nga I cn have one now basta with care and time hopefully Quote Link to comment
gilghost Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 yup been in this situation before.... hirap na talaga once your attached emotionally na.... just enjoy the moment na lang and know the rules... Quote Link to comment
Duckie4120 Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Have had two flings in the past. Both cases didn't go very well. What started as a fling ended up being more in the other party's view. Sometimes even when we're clear on the situation, one party ends up falling and that turns into a very difficult situation. It's always hard knowing you've hurt someone. Flings are ok as long as you both can keep your wits about you and recognize the situation for what it is. Quote Link to comment
totoytorero Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 kung gusto niya why not...at least alam niya kung ano talaga yung kalagayan niyo..wag lang siyang mag demand ng kung anu ano i mean oras, text, calls etc. Quote Link to comment
the grudge Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 as long both parties understand what they are doing, no strings attached.. THIS IS SYNONYMOUS WITH FUBU. SAME RULES APPLY. Quote Link to comment
hot69dancer Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Hay, this is one thing I was not able to have an experienced with... having a FUBU. Do u prefer a close friend to be your FUBU or a total stranger (thats as if anyone would consider) Quote Link to comment
silver_ff Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 parang fubu na rin to..kaso mahirap maglaro ng apoy sa bandang huli ikaw rin mapapaso...kala m sa una fling lang kau and then habang tumatagal mahuhulog na feelings m sa kanya...talo ka..lalo na kapag fling lang talga turing nya sau..haayy..sad.. Quote Link to comment
angbananas Posted July 30, 2008 Share Posted July 30, 2008 parang fubu na rin to..kaso mahirap maglaro ng apoy sa bandang huli ikaw rin mapapaso...kala m sa una fling lang kau and then habang tumatagal mahuhulog na feelings m sa kanya...talo ka..lalo na kapag fling lang talga turing nya sau..haayy..sad.. very true. been in this kind of relationship. the guy should have the decency to stop it when he feels the girl is falling in love with him (if he has no intentions of being serious with her). Quote Link to comment
gilghost Posted July 31, 2008 Share Posted July 31, 2008 this happened with my 2nd GF we met online and had SEB which became fubu arrangement..... but the problem was we had nothing in common except sex... i just got shocked when she said i love you after we had sex one time... tried to make it work din kaso mukhang sex lang kme nagkakasundo.... magkaibang magkaiba hilig namin.... and sometimes we just stare the at the ceiling after sex.... because we had nothing to talk about.... oh well... Quote Link to comment
acousticevents Posted July 31, 2008 Share Posted July 31, 2008 i guess not! mahirap masaktan at makasakit. either way parehong talo. Quote Link to comment
Exstatic Posted July 31, 2008 Share Posted July 31, 2008 it depends pero dpat may agreement and walang deception Quote Link to comment
spellvexit Posted July 31, 2008 Share Posted July 31, 2008 i guess not! mahirap masaktan at makasakit. either way parehong talo. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Not necessarily, sir. It all depends on the mindset you have in entering into the relationship. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Quote Link to comment
jomar_230 Posted July 31, 2008 Share Posted July 31, 2008 ok lng..had some na...yung isa naging fubu ko...ngaun? secret...heheala pang deed...hehe seriously...if you'll get into one lalo na pag outside marital commitment...there should be rules for both not only for you but for the other party as well just to be fair...he/she has also his/her limitations and personal concerns...lalo na pag committed kayo pareho... isa pa if you would like to go into one...do an acid test first before getting to one...mahirap na baka sayo fling lang...sa kanya fling at first pero in the long run bumibigay na me "i luv u" ng kasama...yaiiiikkksss...so ingat mga pare... :goatee: Quote Link to comment
Jaxs Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 yes ofcourse all the time so that you well never feel bad always good Quote Link to comment
its_me_apple Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 hey everyone..got the same situation. we met last year, tapos last month lang kami nabuking nung gf niya.. hiwalay na sila ngayon. and nakokonsensiya talaga ako kase di naman to mangyayari kung di ko siya pinatulan diba? pero everybody or all my friends knows that ive tried all possible ways para iwasan lang siya pero ung guy talaga ang naghahanap ng way eh.. and he still communicates with me now, tapos parang nothing happened between him and ung ex gf niya? panakip butas nya lang kaya ito? tapos lagi siyang naglalasing and all, at pinapa feel pa rin nya sakin na mahalag ako sa kanya.. IM SO SO SO SO CONFUSED!!!!! cant understand him.. dont know if lahat ng sinasabi nya totoo..pero napansin ko lately na he's trying na we both have a connection parang ganun..ay ewan ko..basta..advice please???? :cry: Quote Link to comment
baby_lei Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 i've had a fubu once...they tend to get attached so i break it off...then i met my ex...that was the end of my fubu days hahaha... Quote Link to comment
b1gbeauty89 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 I never had one ...i wonder how it feels like...hmmm Quote Link to comment
kariton Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 My definition of a fling is something less serious than a fully committed relationship. It's doesn't necessarily mean you guys are fubus, because a fubu for me is someone you just do the deed with - no strings attached. Whereas for a fling, there are emotions involved (other than lust) but not enough to commit yet. I'm ok with flings as something like a pre-committed relationship thing. But after several months and there's still no commitment or it's just a one-sided thing, I think it's better to move on... Quote Link to comment
tukmulin Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 I might consider it na, kung hindi ako attached. Quote Link to comment
glidesmoothly Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 it really hard to react on this topic. my "bf" had fling(s) before... it lasted for months... nawala lang kasi umalis yung girl... so i really dont know what that meant... anyway, maybe its ok na may fling on the side... pero sana for companionship na lang di ba? masakit kasi for a girl (or am i being emotional?) na malaman na nagkafling ang "bf" nila then parang ang saya saya pa nila during "their" time. girls cant really help but compare... to have flings or not... think of your future... how your wife-to-beor husband-to-be would feel... companionship lang sana ang flings... Quote Link to comment
peterparker Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 the most memorable "fling" i had was with my intern when i was a resident M.D. at a gov`t hospital.. there was instant attraction for both of us, though i was unattached and she was taken.. and she was much younger than me.. :goatee: it was more like an affair, not just ordinary fubus.. it went on for 6 months.. we would do the deed almost daily.. :boo: yup, it happens and minsan hindi mo rin mapipigilan sarili mo.. :evil: it stopped when nabisto kami ng bf niya.. haaay those were the days.. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
Sheepshop Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 Flings do not last long. But no problem having one. If both like to have flings, no problem. Quote Link to comment
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