Fling Relationship! Yes Or No, Why?

[bayag060310]

sometimes girls want some freedom and space, lalo na if kaka-break up from a relationship.

 

in this case, okay lang ka-fling yung girl. let her learn to like - and then love you.

and if she're ready then you could bring the relationship to a whole new level.

[orionquest]

ok lang. enjoy pag may fling. nothing serious. no committment.

[eve]

[dark_cloud]

Having a fling with out a relationship is a waste of time and money. specially time. yung money madali pang kitain yun pero yung time eh hindi mo na maibabalik. Id rather look for a serious relationship rather than have a fling. Besides having a fling is something that you can't be proud of.

 

just my 2 cents.

[dudecrush09]

Fling relationship is asking for trouble. I thought I could handle one but it escalated into something else. Now I am struggling to get out but taking it one day at a time.

[ElvisHasLeftTheBuiilding]

With the proper time management and the right (reasonable) excuses + the budget

 

... Its part of what makes this life colorful.

[mark625]

yes, if u got lucky it'l be a nice start

[steadyelmo]

Yes! Having an open relationship gives both you and your selected partner time to figure things out if you guys are really meant to be or not...besides if you just want to enjoy each others company then why not. The important thing is to always guard your heart.

[jamy66]

I think there's this general rule if your single then go have as many flings as you want but when you're in a relationship its a big NO NO to go out and and search for flings.

[breathe89]

I classify it as a fling if at first it doesnt work out I can't really say if it was a relationship if it didnt last long so yeah I am for flings

[gehboy]

ok lang fling basta walang buntisan ^^

[ABeautifulSky]

I even wonder why the word "fling" is juxtaposed to "relationship".

 

A fling is just a fling. A relationship is a relationship, even if it is just being friends with benefits.

[ndn]

Not for me. mahirap maging emotionally attach kahit pa wala kang balak. You'll never know what hit you.

[skykaLabaw]

Been there, done that.

 

You just have to be very careful, and learn not too depend. After all, it's supposed to be just clean fun.

[lankaface]

Getting in is easy and exciting, but getting out is hard and painful at times. Was in one recently, Still cant get over her, tried to call her several times but I had to stop myself from starting it again.

[tlpnds]

Of course I would relish having to indulge in flings. I actually find it challenging to be able to seduce or flirt with many different types of beautiful women. And if I encounter a woman who would do the same thing, I would not judge her as a good or bad person because of it. The important thing is to keep yourself and your partner safe. Any activity can be enjoyable if it is kept within safe boundaries.

[mr. john]

pumasok ako sa fling (not sure if fling ako sa kanya, pero like daw niya ako, its just that hindi pa siya ready for a relationship) pero mahal ko na siya..un lang ung way para nagkakasama kami lage. mahirap din kasi what if walang patutunguan in the end..pero masaya ako kasama, kausap siya...

[Defiant]

Flings are good for you.

 

Just not when you're attached.

[orionquest]

pwede. i think the rule here is make the most of your time when youre together. not bad if you live for the moment. but bad once u become emotionally attached.

[rx2ve]

yes. But once a tinge of attachment surfacesm break loose

[mc_darklight]

nah... serious kung serious

[Miss Zelda]

rebound relationships is healthy, they keep you company, they please you ,nextthing you'll have passionate lovemaking and you'd say " sorry but i'm not ready but i like you" and then they'd whine because they wanted commitment and then you'll leave them and then they'd brand you a slut..say aren't we talking about flings?

[metalhead109]

no

waste of time & money

[veinshard]

i had flings before, and it was all great. :-) i'll go for it if you're not serious with your partner.

[Sakristan]

Mahirap lalo na kapag mahal mo na