Fling Relationship! Yes Or No, Why?

[Stairs]

I had a fling once. The guy (who's a friend) and I sort of just fell into it cause we were the only ones available to hang out with each other (we were both bums that time) haha. Medyo isip bata siya (he's two years younger than me) so I couldn't really look at or fantasize about him being a serious romantic partner. Not that he actually tried courting me haha. He just wanted a pseudo gf that he could hold hands with and do you-know-what once in a while. Fun times.

Edited June 20, 2012 by Stairs

[simplyeric]

yes if there is a definite time limit and the rules are absolutes

and of course sex.

[SaintPeter5858]

Only persons like dolphy are looking for flings

[SaintPeter5858]

What can you get out of it?

[BrightestStar]

That's only good if you're very young coz it's part of growing up towards a more mature person.

[friendly0603]

What can you get out of it?

Certainly a God of Lust should know what to get out of it.

[SaintPeter5858]

It might just lead you to some regrets later

[juicylici0us_is_back]

ako i dont know kung fling relationship nga ito eh, kasi wala naman talaga kami relationship, in fact he is way too old for me im 29 and he is 44, hindi ko lam pero parang pag feel ko magrevenge sa bf ko pumapayag ako s indecent proposals nya. i thought i love him pero hindi ko rin alam. mahal ko pa rin naman bf ko. wala kami kasunduan basta pag drunk sya minsan nag-aaya n yun. hindi naman palagi may mga instances lang. naguguluhan nga din ako ksi unang ginawa nya sakin yun gulat ako e dinala ako sa motel e tpos ask ako if pwede raw ba kmi daw, tpos i love u ng i love u. pero syempre sa isip ko dala lang ng pagkalasing yun siguro. tpos yung mga event after nun sama lng ako ng sama. then yun na pero di naman ako nag-agree kung kami ba. ksi nga sbi ko p nga may anak nko at bf sbi nya "e ano naman, sya rin naman daw may anak" well ang gulo.

[SaintPeter5858]

MIght not be healthy at all

[SaintPeter5858]

Maybe for additional thrill

[SaintPeter5858]

It can destroy your reputation

[iRapedSatan]

Mahirap talaga yun. Baka sobrang laking sisi mo sa huli!

[the who]

depends on how you handle it..

[bitoy58]

Flings can be fun. Although I guess the older I get the frequency and the interest is not the same as before when I was younger. Hindi na bara-bara ngayon, "come what may", bahala na si batman. Now after going through some, flirting included, you tend to put things into perspective. In my experience someone will fall eventually so you have to manage it well. It can be you or your partner or both. Most of the time the problem lies in both your disposition, status etc. Managing expectations prevents that but later on, should the relationship progress into something the big question is "What's NEXT"?

[SaintPeter5858]

you can only do that if you have no GF/BF

[SaintPeter5858]

It's only exciting at first

[friendly0603]

you can only do that if you have no GF/BF

I'm sure those with BF/GF's have done flings too.

 

It's only exciting at first

Everything's exciting at first.

[ReDBaByBuRn]

oks lang as long as marunong kang magdala... and you know your limitations...

[SaintPeter5858]

Mahirap ata

[BIZMANfan]

Kung single ka naman, di problema yun.

[SaintPeter5858]

Maganda lang yan sa simula

[BrightestStar]

Never do it unless you are ready to face some controversies in the future among your friends.

[clandestinecuddles]

A no strings attached arrangement is better for me than a fling.

[bitoy58]

I concur

[yaslyn]

A no strings attached arrangement is better for me than a fling.

 

Amen