sistah Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 okay lang. minsan you just need a "distraction" sa mga gulo gulo mo. i think, on hindsight (hindsight na nga ba?), what i had with this guy recently was that. it was good while it lasted. he definitely delivered. problema lang eh parang masyado maraming drama sa akin. too much talk, too little action (ang sama ko) Quote Link to comment
shane_gema Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 nope i would never go for flings. para kasing disposable ang dating mo nun. it's a waste of time for both parties. Quote Link to comment
tagpi Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 everything has its purpose. treat it like an opportunity to open up and discover, learn. not all relationships offer the magic parachute, fling or not. it may not come again, but it can help you become a better person. why not? :goatee: Quote Link to comment
defacto Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 Although it has its drawbacks, yes I would still. Guess, there's just some excitement in flings that isn't found in normal relationships. Quote Link to comment
lonelychick Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 ako siguro yung hindi fling isa lang den lahat fling na.... dont know i want to be serious un nga lang tadhana lang cguro kalaban ko... kramihan kasi commited na o kaya mahal pa yung ex... o kaya naman takot makipag serious relationship..... un iba ako naman yung naglalaro... para bang laging may reason kung bakit di pewde aun kaya i always on flings lang... mas mabuti pa nga yun... un nga lang... i cant stop falling inlove sa kanila.... maybe ganyan lang talga ang lyf Quote Link to comment
tranzfixer Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 guys in here must agree to me that in a fling relationship palaging tayo yung yung di talo..pabor palagi sa atin to kasi meron tayong nahahawakan and yet we dont have the responsibility of holding it..sa kadahilanang ang babae are more emotional than man....pwedeng sa palagay niya fling lang lahat pero pag me kasama na sex di maiiwasan na mahulog ang loob ng babae sa lalake..masakit mang isipin due to social norms in philippine settings girls is always at the loosing end.... nevertheless, i still say yes if someones want to play with me... :headsetsmiley: :headsetsmiley: Quote Link to comment
ladyboy Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 minsan nagiging seryoso khit fling lng Quote Link to comment
jojo Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 well, been there, done that... minsan nakakasawa, minsan nakakakonsiyensiya specially if the girl is already falling for me and i can't give her what wants emotionally... Quote Link to comment
Pantasya Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 i dont know if I'd call what I had as flings... mahirap iqualify. parang after the releationship (if you'd call it that) saka mo lang matatawag na fling... but then there's also the FUBU, the sex buddy and the one night stands... but with flings, parang di kasi clear ang definition nito e... Quote Link to comment
Yavanna Posted May 20, 2008 Share Posted May 20, 2008 if it's mutual i guess it would work... i have friends who dont mind such setups and they live OK lives... as for me... i'd rather not because i am the type to invest emotionally in relationships... to each his own still... Quote Link to comment
Janela Posted May 21, 2008 Share Posted May 21, 2008 fling lang naman e... okay lang yun... hihihihi!!!basta the feeling is mutual ha... understand that it's only a fling and nothing more than that!!! Quote Link to comment
milkylove Posted May 22, 2008 Share Posted May 22, 2008 it's okay. As long as you think about the consequences through. Someone is bound to get hurt. Quote Link to comment
cheper Posted May 24, 2008 Share Posted May 24, 2008 as long as lam nyo pareho kung ano ang pinasukan nyo at walang pilitan na nangyayari... Quote Link to comment
Saeki® Posted May 24, 2008 Share Posted May 24, 2008 this is one is staring to look ok now... for me...... Quote Link to comment
viewsonic Posted May 24, 2008 Share Posted May 24, 2008 BIG NO!!! I'M NOT AN EXPERT TO HANDLE THE CONSEQUENCES, Quote Link to comment
Tank Girl Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 a lot of people wouldn't admit it but in our neurotic brain tells us to live and prosper. We have a one life to live and why not have itsy bitsy affair? Quote Link to comment
saracrew Posted May 29, 2008 Share Posted May 29, 2008 i can handle flings. had a few. pero there shouldn't be sex involved, kasi that's deeper and will get things complicated. tsaka for me di na yun fling pag may sex na involve. Quote Link to comment
scopistgalJR Posted May 30, 2008 Share Posted May 30, 2008 that's fine with me basta no AtTAchement tlga, you just enjoy each other' s company... tropa, buddy, human SM etc... hahahaha ;') Quote Link to comment
hottlipss Posted May 31, 2008 Share Posted May 31, 2008 i can handle flings. had a few. pero there shouldn't be sex involved, kasi that's deeper and will get things complicated. tsaka for me di na yun fling pag may sex na involve. kay nga fling kasi me sex eh otherwise it's called friendship *where i'm from anyways * Quote Link to comment
lavender Posted May 31, 2008 Share Posted May 31, 2008 okay land sa kin bsta u understand each other and my spark Quote Link to comment
orionblaze000 Posted May 31, 2008 Share Posted May 31, 2008 i can handle flings. had a few. pero there shouldn't be sex involved, kasi that's deeper and will get things complicated. tsaka for me di na yun fling pag may sex na involve. Aww man!!! that's like having a birthday party without a cake. Kaya nga fling, youre kinda testing the waters if this guy is compatible with you or not..eyyy, ako.. basta kaya ko.. kahit 10 ok lang.. hehehehe kaya lang.. kinda getting old.. sooo maybe 1 fling will be enough for me hehehe Quote Link to comment
lancelink Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 Yes but be clear about the rules before you begin - never put your heart or another's in danger by assuming. Quote Link to comment
lankaface Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 this is one is staring to look ok now... for me......Atta girl, you really know what you want! Quote Link to comment
lankaface Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 kay nga fling kasi me sex eh otherwise it's called friendship *where i'm from anyways *You are so right, what kind of fling yung walang sex. Love ba tawag dun? Quote Link to comment
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