Simikiel Posted May 30, 2007 Share Posted May 30, 2007 flings are a waste of time and money. lalo na if you both know nawala pupuntahan relationship. ako i'd rather have a few serious relationships that mean something thana lot of flings and feel nothing at all. there are times that you will need a break from having a serious relationship, especially for a guy. it will never be a waste of time and money if both parties are aware that the relationship is not that serious. after the fling is over, sometimes it develops into a wonderful friendship pa nga eh. if there is one thing that you can depend in this kind of relationship, its FUN. mababaw nga ang relasyon, pero since you live day to day, masaya rin yun. of course some flings turn out to be a serious relationship, pero hindi na fling ang tawag dun, at syempre mas masarap ang serious relationship, ang sa akin nga lang, paminsan minsan, masarap din ang ganitong klaseng relasyon. Quote Link to comment
phaulgas Posted May 30, 2007 Share Posted May 30, 2007 flings are a waste of time and money. lalo na if you both know nawala pupuntahan relationship. ako i'd rather have a few serious relationships that mean something thana lot of flings and feel nothing at all. I agree with you... for start, masaya, masarap kasi may kasama ka FOR THE MEAN TIME.. pero habang tumatagal wala rin saysay. I would still go for a real relationship Quote Link to comment
sunking Posted May 30, 2007 Share Posted May 30, 2007 A fling is like a fubu without the fu... It's supposed to be fun, short-lived, and for mature people only. If you can't take the heat, or don't want to cook, stay out of the kitchen. Quote Link to comment
skibeth Posted May 30, 2007 Share Posted May 30, 2007 it might be fun at first but later on both parties would regret doing it... one would definitely get hurt... Quote Link to comment
simpleme Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 it in not just easy, fling... having sex with someone you don't love. never try it yet. but i think mas bigay todo if you share it with the person you love. Kasi you will make her/him happy and giving you all your best shot just to satisfy both of you, db. Quote Link to comment
Eddy Syet Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 It's supposed to be fun, short-lived, and for mature people only. If you can't take the heat, or don't want to cook, stay out of the kitchen. Very well said! I agree with you 100% :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
rys Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 why not? if an emotional condom is out in the market... one will want more... Quote Link to comment
diet8 Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 FLING especilly if you are married already, before you will get in love you can escape from the relationship fast and easy....... Quote Link to comment
grayle Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 Flings are a waste of time, if what you mean by a fling is having another person for a few weeks that you can f#&k on a regular basis. Either oyur in a serious relationship or your not. If you wanna have fun with each other, why do oyu have to drag in all these titles and labels when all your doing is having sex with someone your not in love with (at all in the worse case, yet in the best case). Quote Link to comment
bogliboi_blue Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 I guess the response here is "your results may vary" I'm open to the idea. In the end it's just another way of meeting people. What ultimately happens to it depends on what you do with it. Who knows, your fling-mate (?!) might end up as one of your good friends. Being too serious can spoil a relationship sometimes so I can see the appeal. Quote Link to comment
b0tlogz Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 anhirap sobra pag fling...lalo na pag naging mahal mo na ung gurl..tpos bgla sasabihin nya itigil na ung ginagawa..pano if nagiging seryoso ka na at gs2 mo na pumunta sa nxt step ng fling..dba ansakit nun..mahal mo ung babae tapos parang wala lng ang idadahilan nya di pa siya handa mag ka bf ulit..xperience ko un ngaun eh. Quote Link to comment
pink_kuko69 Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 yes, fun time lang pag di ka paready magkipag rel Quote Link to comment
simpleme Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 if you really into fun lang, siguro ok lang... how about if you fall inlove na? Quote Link to comment
cinnamon Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 for fun, well yes pero para sa mga siryoso magmahal, wag nalang kasi maraming masasakit na masasabi sau ang ka relation m, so better not nalang Quote Link to comment
_Honey_ Posted June 2, 2007 Share Posted June 2, 2007 (edited) hindi ko naman sinasadya talaga makipagfling. i mean, i remember our monthly anniversaries, the food we first ate, first dates, things which made me interested yadah, yadah.. my intentions were serious and there was a potential, but all of a sudden things didn't fall on the right place, kaya ayun, sa isang iglap, nawala rin. the thing is, may chance siguro magblik kasi nagkakron naman ng suyuan at balikan blues, it's either mapride ako, o sablay sila. eh.. well, i'm guilty, ma-pride ako.. so i didnt run after. i never gave in.. i never saw the reason in the first place.. no regrets anyway. dissapointment lang. should i say i'm good at it.. i'm stoned. not always. i just become stoned when the situation demands for it. i love when they love, i can be patient even if they play. but just a bit of patience. coz when i'm good, i'm best. but when i'm bad, you'll never know. all in all i'm good. im nice. (sabay bawi.. hehe!!) Edited June 2, 2007 by _Honey_ Quote Link to comment
shane_gema Posted June 2, 2007 Share Posted June 2, 2007 Amen to this... The cost of time and money taking a fling is just as costly taking a potential partner of a serious relationship.... yes it's just as costly but at least in a serious relationship, you can be sure it's worth your time and money. unlike flings, it leads nowhere especially if you both know from the start na hanggang dun lang kayo. Quote Link to comment
jaguar_18 Posted June 2, 2007 Share Posted June 2, 2007 Been there..I already had a tinge of interest with the guy, not love. Kaso na-develop. It's was difficult for me to accept that I had to let go...because it was nothing plain fun for him We're still friends but right now i kinda let him get fall in my 'trap' of playing the game, just to let him experience the other way around. Oh well, just for fun also :evil: Quote Link to comment
astig_supah_ganda Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 http://dl8.glitter-graphics.net/pub/359/359728l8glmia2en.jpg Quote Link to comment
curiosity101 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Can't control the heart, it will choose to do as wills Quote Link to comment
TheDRAGON Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 If both parties are not ready for a serious relationship, and both are willing and both consent to entering this setup, then i don't see why not. they should just be aware of the consequences, para walang sisihan in the end. some people just want to fill the loneliness, so let's let them. Quote Link to comment
manyaque Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Flings are nice, relationships are better. Sex is more intense with intimacy. Call more romantic (please don't) but the act of making love (foreplay, intercourse, etc) is so much more enjoyable with someone you know. Quote Link to comment
the_Master Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 A YES to me.... there's nothing wrong as long as you know where you are, and you know your ground. Quote Link to comment
loafer Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Prepare to suffer when playing with fire. Quote Link to comment
jaguar_18 Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Flings are nice, relationships are better. Sex is more intense with intimacy. Call more romantic (please don't) but the act of making love (foreplay, intercourse, etc) is so much more enjoyable with someone you know.I agree bro :upside: Quote Link to comment
Mobius Stripper Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Easy to say but ... Ano kung mabuntis ang babae? The child -- even unborn -- is not a plaything. Quote Link to comment
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